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Rainbowreflect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 08:52 AM
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I have sad news to share with all my DU friends.
My sister-in-law lost her six month battle with cancer Monday night. She had been on life support for weeks, unable to breath without the ventilator. Monday night the family and doctors agreed to remove the life support, per her wishes.
My husband and I were with her to the end. The staff of nurses and the chaplain were all wonderful, supportive and compassionate.
We will miss her, but are grateful her suffering is over and I believe she is in a much better place.
Thank you to everyone for their support over the last six months.
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flamingyouth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 08:53 AM
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1. I am very sorry for your loss
And for how she suffered. My heart goes out to your whole family - what a sad and horrible time for you.
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NYYFan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 08:53 AM
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2. My condolences and prayers to you and your family.
O8)
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Robb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 08:54 AM
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3. Sympathies
Most heartfelt condolences, RR. Sounds like she was surrounded by those who loved her -- and having people like that signifies a life well lived.
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cmd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 08:54 AM
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4. My sympathy to you and your family
Hugs to you and your family.
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Lars39 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 08:55 AM
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5. My condolances to you and your family.
{{{{Rainbowreflect}}}} :(
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rock Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 08:56 AM
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6. My condolences
Allow me to share in your grief.
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demnan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 08:56 AM
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7. I express my condolences
and I couldn't agree more with Robb's observation. Your loved one went peacefully knowing that they left a legacy of love behind.
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MaineDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 08:59 AM
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8. My condolences
I'm sorry for your loss.
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KCDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 09:00 AM
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9. I am sorry to hear about this.
Condolences to you and your family in this difficult time.

Best,
Rebecca
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silverchair Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 09:00 AM
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10. i send you my
condolences. may your sister-in-law rest in peace.
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 09:07 AM
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11. I'm sorry about your family's loss.
Y'all are in my thoughts.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 09:08 AM
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12. I am sorry for your loss...How great that you were with her at the last.
My heart goes out to you and your husband.
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cherryperry Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 09:18 AM
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13. I am so sorry for your loss!
The fact that you and your husband were with her during her time of suffering, I'm sure, meant a great deal to her. Take comfort in that. Bless you, Rainbowreflect!
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JitterbugPerfume Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 09:32 AM
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14. here is a (((( HUG ))) for
Rainbowreflect
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commander bunnypants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 09:36 AM
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15. Mhy condolences to you and your family
DEMMAN
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bearfan454 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 09:39 AM
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16. God bless you and your family
.
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DeposeTheBoyKing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 09:40 AM
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17. So sorry
My condolences go out to you and your family.
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MrBenchley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 09:42 AM
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18. All good wishes
in your time of loss...
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Bunny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 09:55 AM
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19. My deepest sympathy for your loss.
I am glad that she's not suffering, and I'm sure she's in a better place. bunnyj
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Rowdyboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 09:57 AM
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20. A very difficult decision....
Thankfully, you as a family had the kindness to look out for her best interests. Will be thinking of you.
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diplomats Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 10:06 AM
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21. I'm so sorry about your loss
My prayers are with you.
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buddhamama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 10:31 AM
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22. My condolances to you and the family
i am truly sorry for your loss.
peace to your sister-in-law
my thoughts are with you.
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Rainbowreflect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 10:55 AM
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24. Thank you all for you kind thoughts & words.
DU has been a blessing to me for almost 2 years, but even more so for the last 6 months. I appriciate each & every one of you.
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UrbScotty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 10:55 AM
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23. My condolences.
Having recently lost a dog, I can probably understand what you're going through, to a certain extent. But it sounds like you loved your sister-in-law a lot.
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caledesi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 10:56 AM
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25. So sorry RR.
I lost my father and two brothers to cancer, so I know how you are feeling. I will be thinking of you today. Good karma coming your way.

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nothingshocksmeanymore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 10:59 AM
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26. May she rest in peace
and may you live on with warm memories of her and the calm that comes with knowing you were there for your family when they needed you.

Regards,
Teena
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newyawker99 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 01:08 PM
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27. My condolences to you and your family RainbowReflect.
Edited on Wed Aug-06-03 01:08 PM by newyawker99
May she rest in peace.


Edit: spelling
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Festivito Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 01:13 PM
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28. I hope you're family has many hugs. nt.
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 06:24 PM
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29. I'm sorry for your loss...
~warm caring hugs~
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 06:30 PM
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30. I'm very sorry Rainbow
very sorry
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Sheet22 Donating Member (61 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 06:33 PM
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31. So sorry to hear.
Your sister-in-law and way too many others are the reason we still need to have fund raisers like the Relay for Life I just participated in over the weekend. I walked five miles for those who couldn't and did it proudly yet sadly.

One of my best girlfriends just lost her mom after a long battle, and my brother-in-law lost his beloved father this past spring. Cancer is the shit that's eating away some of our best and brightest and is something I still hope to see us beat in my lifetime.

My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 06:36 PM
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32. So sorry for your loss. I've been following your posts; it sounds like
she was a really wonderful woman. Prayers (hope that's okay with you) and warm hugs going your way.

It's tough to see them go through that, my dad dies of colon cancer in May.

((((RainbowReflect))))

Much love to you,
Laurel
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nini Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 06:42 PM
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33. So sorry for you and the family
Cancer is soooo brutal on all. sending good vibes and strength for all of you.

:-(
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PeakOil2008 Donating Member (200 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 06:51 PM
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34. Rainbowreflect, I am very sorry for your loss.
I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
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ulysses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 07:10 PM
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35. I'm sorry to hear it
All best to you and yours...
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Armstead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 08:36 PM
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36. Many condolescences
But she was fortunate to have the support of you all her last days.
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Darth_Kitten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-06-03 08:39 PM
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37. Very sorry for your loss.
My condolences to you and your family.
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Rainbowreflect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-03 07:41 AM
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38. Wow, you guys/gals are the greatest.
We are a family here at DU. We may fight, debate & insult each other, but we always give support when needed.
I cannot tell you how much your kindness means to me. :loveya:
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CO Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-03 08:25 AM
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39. I'm Sending Good Thoughts to You And Your Family
Cancer is a terrible killer. It took my mother, and leukemia took my father, so I've been there.

Remember the good times, and appreciate the time you had with your sister-in-law.

Wayne
(CO Liberal)
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catpower2000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-03 10:43 AM
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40. I am so sorry for you loss...
We will grieve together. Please accept my (teary and snotty) hugs. All my deepest condolences to you and your family. (((hugs))) THank you for your support on my thread.

Cat
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ProfessorGAC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-03 10:45 AM
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41. Condolences To You And Your Family
Edited on Thu Aug-07-03 10:46 AM by ProfessorGAC
The Professor
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LeftPeopleFinishFirst Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-03 10:46 AM
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42. I am very sorry to hear that.
My thoughts are with you very much in your time of need. Peace.

maggie
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ploppy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-03 11:04 AM
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43. Cancer
is a long and hard road. My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Your loving support is a lesson to all.
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soleft Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-03 05:32 PM
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44. much sympathy to you and your family
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