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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 03:59 PM Original message |
*Flame bait clarified within* - Women trade sex for love; men trade love for sex" |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 04:01 PM Response to Original message |
1. I didn't think it was "flame bait", but an earnest discussion |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 05:21 PM Response to Reply #1 |
13. I agree |
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PVnRT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 04:02 PM Response to Original message |
2. People trade genetic material during sex |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 05:22 PM Response to Reply #2 |
14. It is depending on your definition of sex, I suppose. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 04:03 PM Response to Original message |
3. It's BS, IMO. |
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HERVEPA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 04:10 PM Response to Reply #3 |
6. Well Put. |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 05:19 PM Response to Reply #3 |
11. Sorry I hit and ran....had a meeting |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 05:24 PM Response to Reply #11 |
15. Get to know more people. |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 05:50 PM Response to Reply #15 |
24. Not helpful, but makes a good bumper sticker. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 06:11 PM Response to Reply #24 |
30. I'm only saying that you haven't met everyone... |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 06:33 PM Response to Reply #30 |
33. It isn't my theory and, as I explained in the OP, isn't about bio-gender... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 06:34 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. Okay but see you're making it a "bio-gender" issue |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 06:44 PM Response to Reply #34 |
42. Yes I do agree that the OP subject line is about bio-gender |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 06:46 PM Response to Reply #42 |
43. I agree with that yes. |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 07:01 PM Response to Reply #43 |
49. Ahhhh, yes. Ok |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 07:07 PM Response to Reply #49 |
51. But the problem is that it's dangerous to assume... |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 07:26 PM Response to Reply #51 |
52. as I disregard my family briefly |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 07:29 PM Response to Reply #52 |
53. OK but if so |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 07:46 PM Response to Reply #53 |
55. Don't know. Had a good conversation though! |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-04-08 01:36 AM Response to Reply #49 |
68. Well, there ya go. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 06:02 PM Response to Reply #11 |
27. How much of that is biology and how much of it is societal expectation? |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 06:05 PM Response to Reply #27 |
28. and, again, I have to point out |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 06:09 PM Response to Reply #28 |
29. Okay, I guess I'm a little confused by what you're looking for |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 06:28 PM Response to Reply #29 |
31. I just asked if people related to the concept of yin and yang... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 06:29 PM Response to Reply #31 |
32. You say it's not about "bio-gender" then you assign physically sexual roles to them. |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 06:37 PM Response to Reply #32 |
36. Is it because I use "male" and "female"?? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 06:40 PM Response to Reply #36 |
39. Uh... yeah. And not only that, you talk about their primary desires, sex-wise. |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 06:51 PM Response to Reply #39 |
46. No, I do not. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 06:55 PM Response to Reply #46 |
47. If you hadn't chosen to use that particular "axiom" |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 06:36 PM Response to Reply #31 |
35. Yeah, I guess I don't agree that there are "male and female energy archetypes" |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 07:05 PM Response to Reply #35 |
50. "gender" is often non biological and more a psychological reference |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 05:19 PM Response to Reply #3 |
12. Sorry I hit and ran....had a meeting |
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Capn Sunshine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-04-08 01:52 AM Response to Reply #3 |
69. There's a reason all the dudes dig you |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-04-08 08:49 AM Response to Reply #3 |
73. seconded, besides what about homosexual relationships? |
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lost-in-nj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 04:06 PM Response to Original message |
4. .... |
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Inchworm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 04:08 PM Response to Reply #4 |
5. lol |
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lost-in-nj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 04:17 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. Hi Inchy!!!! |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 05:39 PM Response to Reply #5 |
18. Boo! |
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Inchworm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 05:44 PM Response to Reply #18 |
19. Thats gonna be an ugly bebbe! |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 05:55 PM Response to Reply #19 |
25. THAT is my daughter's precious |
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Maraya1969 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 04:42 PM Response to Reply #4 |
10. Thank you for saying that. For a minute I thought it was my eyes. |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 05:35 PM Response to Reply #4 |
16. meh...little this a little that |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 05:46 PM Response to Reply #4 |
21. Puts a new twist on the label "Four eyes" |
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Bake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 04:26 PM Response to Original message |
8. Whazzup with that girl's EYES??? |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 05:47 PM Response to Reply #8 |
22. Aren't we beautiful? our honeymoon in Vancouver BC. n/t |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 04:26 PM Response to Original message |
9. I don't know if its flame bait but I also don't really buy into it |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 05:45 PM Response to Reply #9 |
20. That's why I clarified in my OP |
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qb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 05:38 PM Response to Original message |
17. I trade love and sex |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 05:47 PM Response to Reply #17 |
23. Best answer yet. |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 06:00 PM Response to Reply #17 |
26. Then you are well balanced in yin and yang, I believe. |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 06:40 PM Response to Reply #17 |
38. I give and share love and sex. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 06:41 PM Response to Reply #38 |
41. Spot on! |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 07:38 PM Response to Reply #38 |
54. Hm. I JUST had this conversation at work! |
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RainDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 09:15 PM Response to Reply #54 |
64. If your definition of manipulation |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 06:37 PM Response to Original message |
37. I think that's a sexist statement. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 06:40 PM Response to Reply #37 |
40. You beauty. |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 06:47 PM Response to Reply #40 |
44. I've been busy |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 06:49 PM Response to Reply #44 |
45. Hahahahahah! |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 07:50 PM Response to Reply #37 |
56. Gender is irrelevant to this conversation. Also - |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 08:08 PM Response to Reply #56 |
59. So it's ok under the guise of "yin" and "yang"? |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 08:28 PM Response to Reply #59 |
61. Wow. "gotcha"? meh. |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 08:50 PM Response to Reply #61 |
62. The whole point is we are ALL yin and yang. |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 10:26 PM Response to Reply #62 |
65. I do not like to "thumb my nose" at people regardless of their comprehension of a topic. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 06:59 PM Response to Original message |
48. As a general rule, I think people have sex because it's fun and couple-bond because it's pleasant. |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 07:55 PM Response to Reply #48 |
58. I disagree with your subject line as an oversimplification...Also |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 07:50 PM Response to Original message |
57. I don't know, but from the look of that pic -- |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 08:12 PM Response to Original message |
60. Only if it's REALLY good sex. |
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RainDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 09:00 PM Response to Original message |
63. okay, I tried not to post on this thread, but |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 10:36 PM Response to Reply #63 |
67. That's just silly... women aren't supposed to ENJOY sex. |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-04-08 08:37 AM Response to Reply #63 |
70. Well, I read your entire post |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-04-08 08:41 AM Response to Reply #70 |
72. Hole in a wall? Isn't that known as a glory hole? |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-04-08 10:23 AM Response to Reply #72 |
76. an image search on google for glory hole... |
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RainDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-04-08 12:07 PM Response to Reply #70 |
82. the problem |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-04-08 10:18 AM Response to Reply #63 |
75. Yes, yes, yes, to that. |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jan-03-08 10:36 PM Response to Original message |
66. Gross and oversimplified. |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-04-08 08:40 AM Response to Reply #66 |
71. As I have mentioned. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-04-08 08:53 AM Response to Original message |
74. i think the concept is sexist bullshit. some men/women like sex independent of romantic feelings |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-04-08 10:28 AM Response to Reply #74 |
77. And then some just enjoy sex more when there's romantic attachment. :) |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-04-08 10:31 AM Response to Reply #77 |
78. that too. |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-04-08 10:47 AM Response to Reply #74 |
79. It is sexist BS when applied to men and women. n/t |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-04-08 10:49 AM Response to Reply #79 |
80. well in terms of energy too i think its bullshit. i dont think nurturing is at all related to sex |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jan-04-08 11:26 AM Response to Reply #80 |
81. I agree. I would also imagine that you are likely very balanced in |
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