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Lyric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-28-08 12:40 AM
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I think we have a "special needs" kitten.
Out of the litter of seven that our former stray had, there is one that isn't quite the same as the others. He was the firstborn and the biggest; I was playing midwife to the birth, and he was stuck halfway down the birth canal (as in, his tail was sticking out but nothing else) for nearly thirty minutes before she finally got him pushed out (with a bit of help from me.) All of the others were born easily. I looked it up, and apparently being compressed in the birth canal for that long can cause some brain damage.

He's the most precious little thing. He's quiet and calm. He doesn't really "play" much, other than an occasional halfhearted and wobbly swat at a sibling. From the day he was born, he never cried when you picked him up--all of the others squalled in terror at being taken away from Mom, even for a moment. He was the biggest at birth, but is now somewhere in the middle in size, because he was never very good at fighting to hold onto his nipple. We sometimes had to manually re-arrange them so that everybody had access to milk, so thankfully nobody was underfed.

He doesn't seem to be learning and exploring as much as his siblings. They're all in "wander around and check things out" mode, and he's perfectly content to stay put somewhere warm and sleep most of the day away. He has a good appetite, but I have to coax him into eating by putting a bit of wet food in his mouth and letting instinct take over. All of the other kittens are well past that stage, but he isn't.

He's four weeks old now, and has suddenly latched onto humans in an intense way. His brothers and sisters still want very little to do with being held, although they tolerate petting for short amounts of time--and sometimes even purr a little. He, on the other hand, cries his heart out if we put him down. We have to hold him nearly every moment that he's awake, or he cries like he's been abandoned. He otherwise seems perfectly healthy. He eats well, his eyes are clear and bright, and there are no signs of illness or injury. He's just...slow. And very, very attached to humans, to the point that I have him in my lap because he keeps crying every time I put him down. He has little interest in interacting with his siblings or his Mom, other than to occasionally nurse.

We even have to take him to the bedroom with us at night, because if we don't, he's frantic with fear from being away from us by morning, and it takes an hour of holding him with him clutching us for dear life in order to calm him down. I've never seen a four-week-old kitten who wanted humans more than he wanted Mom and his siblings, but this one does.

He needs a vet's diagnosis to know for sure, which we can't afford at the moment, but yeah. I suspect some limited brain damage from the birth trauma. Oh well. We'll just have to make extra-sure that the home we find for him will be as special as he is.

:grouphug:
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csziggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-28-08 12:47 AM
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1. He sounds like he'd be a good pet for someone who couldn't deal with
a more active kitten.
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-28-08 12:50 AM
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2. I hope you can find a home for him
with people who are home all day. He sounds like a wonderful cat, but it sounds like he wouldn't be able to handle people who get away to work all day. :(

:hug:
I'm glad you're taking special care of him.
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Lyric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-28-08 12:59 AM
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4. He's so darling.
How can anyone resist a tiny kitten who *wants* to be in your arms all the time? And who will hopefully turn into a big cat who feels the same attraction to humans?

My only fear is that nobody will want him because he isn't "normal" or "perfect" by their standards. *sigh*
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-28-08 12:58 AM
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3. Is there any way you can keep him?
He sounds very sweet.
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Lyric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-28-08 01:02 AM
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6. I sincerely wish that we could, but
we're moving soon (if we can find a place that will let us pay the full lease in advance without holding my bad credit against us) and none of the places we can afford allow pets. We're struggling to find homes for the others, and for our beautiful AKC registered Golden Retriever. I just can't let them go to just *anyone*. I guess I'm too picky about new homes, because we're coming down to the wire, and I haven't found a single suitable home yet.

We might end up having to stay in this falling-apart trailer for another year if I can't find anyone who I can trust to care for them.
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-28-08 01:08 AM
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8. Best wishes to you. :hug:
If I were nearby, I'd take your little kitty. Well, I'd talk to MMjr about it to see what he thinks.

Somewhere out there, there is the perfect family.

Good luck with your golden, too. :hug:
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-28-08 01:01 AM
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5. My neighbors had some special-needs kittens
They got two cats who were brother and sister.

They had kittens.

Then one of the kittens mated with mom.

Now it was that SECOND litter that had some issues. :crazy:

So one cat is mommy and grandma and great-aunt all at the same time. One cat is daddy and brother. And the third cat is great uncle and grandpa. :o

No, but really, I hope you can find a good home for your kitty.
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CreekDog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-28-08 01:06 AM
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7. my cat was one of those velcro cats, he lived with my grandmother his first 2 years
Edited on Mon Jul-28-08 01:07 AM by CreekDog
so he was never alone and they were always together. she died at her house and when the relatives went to check on her he was sitting next to her crying, even with the paramedics and relatives over which would normally send him hiding. :cry:

i inherited him and he did not like the part about me going to work. he would wait just inside the the door for me to come home. :cry:

but he adapted very well to me and not being home as much. i know your cat seems to have something else going on, but i'm amazed at how they adapt.

good luck. he sounds like a sweet little guy and someone will love him to death.
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yellowdogintexas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-28-08 10:23 AM
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9. if he can just master the litter box, when the time comes you have a just about
ideal pet for a somewhat mobile but mostly homebound person. He wouldn't be flicking about underfoot all the time as a trip hazard, he would be incredibly cuddly, and love them unconditionally.

Unless of course he freaks because it isn't YOU.

Since they are a bit youngish to be fully litter trained, hard to say now. keep us posted on his progress though. and


YOU KNOW THIS THREAD IS USELESS WITHOUT PICTURES


of the whole litter.
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