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JTG of the PRB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-14-09 11:20 PM
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My sister apparently de-friended me on Facebook.
I hate living with her. I can't wait until it's May so I can finally move and cut her out of my life forever. I'm so fucking sick of this living arrangement. Shame on me for thinking that she might have matured enough to where we could get along as siblings. I vastly over-estimated how mature she is. I never should have agreed to this.

Biggest mistake of my life to help further prove that I'm some sort of idiot. x(
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Muttocracy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-14-09 11:23 PM
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1. as someone who let a parent move in with me
and who is going insane right now and can't wait for the lease to be up...

:hug:
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JTG of the PRB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-14-09 11:26 PM
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2. Thanks, I appreciate it.
:hug:

Tuns out I like her boyfriend a lot better. He's a decent guy. He doesn't stand up to her of course when it comes to me, because he knows the rules of the relationship. I can't imagine ever having a normal relationship with my sister. We've never gotten along, and I'm really not going to miss her.
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Muttocracy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-14-09 11:29 PM
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3. my sister and I get along better than that but
I spend a few months living with her and her family when I was just out of school and it sucked - I felt like I was 12 years old again. Overall I get along much better with her husband, so at least I give her credit for picking him. ;) I went on a car trip with her and some other family members last year and realized I do best with her when we have some distance - geographic or at least some time apart during the day.
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JTG of the PRB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-14-09 11:33 PM
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4. I can understand that. I think I'll do better with distance as well.
I still don't know what I was thinking. The three of us have been in our apartment since June, and she never stops complaining about stuff. Noisy neighbors, her job, stuff that I do she decides to blow out of proportion to make it an issue... It never ends. There's always something.

It's to the point where I'm holed up in my bedroom all day. I avoid her as much as I can. It's to the point where I barely even consider her a member of my family. It's frustrating when I'm working hard and paying a ridiculous amount for rent when I don't even feel welcome in my own apartment. I'd yell at her the way she's yelled at me, but what's the point? Adults can at least talk to one another about their issues.
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Muttocracy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-14-09 11:36 PM
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5. oh dear, she'll grow up to be just like my mom...
... a bitter cranky unhealthy lonely old lady. You can take devilish delight in that if you like! :evilgrin:
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JTG of the PRB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-14-09 11:39 PM
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6. One can only hope, right?
:evilgrin:
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