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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 12:38 PM
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Please pray, vibes, whatever for my family
I just saw my Mom and met with the nursing home staff. It's really really bad. She's basically giving up.

She's being transported to the ER right now...she had to have her lungs suctioned 30 times today already. I'm heading over there now, my brother's headed to my Dad's hospital in Boston to talk to him.

I'm really scared right now. I don't know when I'll be back.

Hold us in your thoughts if you can.
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 12:39 PM
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1. Absolutely! Take care!
:hug:
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Parche Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 12:40 PM
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2. I will
It is tough, and very emotional

:hi: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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fizzgig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 12:41 PM
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3. of course, sweetie
my heart goes out to all of you :hug:
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 12:42 PM
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4. Done. Wishing you and your family the best.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 12:42 PM
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5. My dear bi_baby...
Big time vibes to you and your whole family, esp. your mom...

This is hard for me to say, but remember...there is a time to let go. When the price to stay alive is too high...

You are all in my thoughts, sweetie...

We'll be here whenever you get back...

I am so very sorry...

:hug:

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Blue Diadem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 12:44 PM
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6. Prayers and hugs
:hug:

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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 12:44 PM
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7. Hugs for you all
and prayers too.

:hugs:
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Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 12:45 PM
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8. You got it.
:hug: :hug: :hug:
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Flaxbee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 12:48 PM
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9. take care of yourself, and all vibes going to your family
:hug: I'm sorry, bi_baby. This is going to be tough. :hug:
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CreekDog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 12:50 PM
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10. thinking of you
i hope this situation gets better and i can't imagine how scared you must be.

:hug: :cry:
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Marrah_G Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 12:50 PM
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11. So sorry BiBaby- I know how hard it is
Just hold your loved ones close and help each other through.
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foxfeet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 12:55 PM
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12.  I wish peace and strength for you and yours.
:hug:
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dolo amber Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 01:01 PM
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13. ...
In my thoughts. :hug:
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Dappleganger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 01:03 PM
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Sorry to hear that, I know what it's like.
Hang in there.

:hug:
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hedgehog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 01:03 PM
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14. Prayers for you today!
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JitterbugPerfume Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 01:05 PM
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15. draw strength from your family
and we Duers will hold you close in our thoughts
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 01:16 PM
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16. I'm so sorry, baby
It's a difficult time, I know, for all of you.

It's not much, but I'm sending you and yours love, hugs, vibes, and prayers during this time. :grouphug:

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no name no slogan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 01:19 PM
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17. Done.
:hug: :hug: :hug:
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Tektonik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 01:21 PM
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18. Absolutely
:hug:
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Call Me Wesley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 01:22 PM
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19. Good vibes for you and your family.
:hug:
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 01:26 PM
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20. You're in my thoughts, then. Hang in there. nt
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AwakeAtLast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 01:28 PM
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21. Thoughts of healing and comfort are on their way!
I could not imagine what you are going through right now.

:hug:
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 01:29 PM
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22. I'm so sorry sweetie...
:hug:
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 01:40 PM
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23. Vibes for the whole family. May you find strength and direction.
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 01:45 PM
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24. You got it.
Vibes of strength for you and your family :hug:
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 01:47 PM
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25. ...
:hug:

I wish I could do more.
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Missy Vixen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 01:48 PM
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26. I am thinking of you
and sending all comfort.

You are never alone.
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skygazer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 01:49 PM
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27. Of course I will
I'm so sorry you're going through this. :hug:
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FloridaJudy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 02:05 PM
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28. You've got 'em.
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LisaM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 02:07 PM
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29. Thinking of you
and sending good thoughts from Seattle.
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 02:11 PM
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30. thinking all things good for you and your mom bb
yes
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 02:17 PM
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31. Sending out my best vibes.
I hope everything will be ok. :hug:
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DeepBlueC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 02:20 PM
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32. prayers for you and yours
I can feel your helplessness and I'm praying for all of you to find strength and direction and peace together.

:hug:
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 02:35 PM
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33. I'm so sorry, sweetie. Prayers headed to all of you.
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MrScorpio Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 02:39 PM
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34. You have all my vibes, Bi-Baby
:hug:
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MissMillie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 02:40 PM
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35. Please let me know if you need anything.
:hug:
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 02:43 PM
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36. Of course, bi-baby!
:hug:
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Sky Masterson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 02:43 PM
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37. Sure.
Positive vibes for your Ma.
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sniffa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 02:53 PM
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38. Update
Bi-Baby just had to make the call whether to put her on the ventilator or let her go. She chose to keep her alive so hopefully the family can get together tomorrow and make a decision. Her brother is trying to get the VA to take their dad (he's in the JP VA) to Worcester so he can see his wife one last time and be part of the decision.
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DeepBlueC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 05:08 PM
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42. oh dear
I'm so sorry ... a decision like this tears you up inside. Be good to her, sniffa. :hug:
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av8rdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 02:56 PM
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39. Done. Thoughts are with you and your family.
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 02:57 PM
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40. of course
:hug:

and vibes to you and your family



lost
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Dinger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-02-09 02:57 PM
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41. Good Vibes, Healing Thoughts, And Prayers Being Sent
:grouphug:
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