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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-26-09 12:19 AM
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People who hate me, go ahead take your best shot.
I am kind of defenseless right now.
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LeftyFingerPop Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-26-09 12:20 AM
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1. I doubt that anyone in here hates you.
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-26-09 12:21 AM
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3. You would be surprised.
:shrug:

I have a strong personality and I know I have pissed a few people off.

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LeftyFingerPop Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-26-09 12:29 AM
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15. Well, so do I...
About 10 people have me on ignore.

Fuck 'em.

Be yourself.
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-26-09 12:21 AM
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2. FYI: anybody dumb enough to take her up on this is going to be in a world of shit.
Kitchy. :hug:
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-26-09 12:22 AM
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7. Thanks LM
This has been a world class shitty day.

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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-26-09 07:04 AM
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22. +1
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-26-09 12:21 AM
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4. Who are you kidding? Everybody loves, KW!
:pals:
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-26-09 12:21 AM
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5. My dear KitchenWitch...
Sweetie...

I really don't think anyone here hates you...

Especially after the news you got today...

:hug:
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-26-09 12:22 AM
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6. You are awesome
I got nothing.

:hug:
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-26-09 12:22 AM
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8. Wha? Huh? What happened?
:shrug:
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-26-09 12:23 AM
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9. I found out today a long time friend of mine passed away on Wednesday.
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-26-09 12:28 AM
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14. Oh no!
Edited on Sun Apr-26-09 12:28 AM by Odin2005
:cry: :hug:
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Danger Mouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-26-09 12:23 AM
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10. How about the people who love you come and give you hugs?
:hug:
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-26-09 12:24 AM
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11. I love you
:hug:
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UndertheOcean Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-26-09 12:24 AM
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12. I actually LOVE you, you are a good person
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-26-09 12:24 AM
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13. ...
:hug:
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Lil Missy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-26-09 12:34 AM
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16. They'd have to get past me first. And honey, please don't do this to yourself.
Tell us about her. Talk to us. Only what you are comfortable with sharing. Private PM's are available to you as well, myself included.

You are a sweetheart, and don't ever forget that. I insist.

:pals:
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-26-09 12:43 AM
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17. And if anybody does try it, they'll have a wall of people to go through
if they can get through me, which they won't.

I love you, KW. :hug:
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FloridaJudy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-26-09 12:49 AM
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18. You've got an army of us
Backing you up. You do not mess with The Lounge Estrogen Brigade!
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EvilAL Donating Member (357 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-26-09 12:49 AM
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19. Quiet you!
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Starry Messenger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-26-09 12:55 AM
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20. (((hugs)))
:hug:
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-26-09 06:56 AM
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21. You gotta forgive yourself, kiddo.
As I've followed this, anyway, you're beating yourself up worse because of the falling out, and now you sound like you're hating yourself over not making up in time. But you would have, one day, and it's just bad timing that it happened this way, before you could. There's nothing wrong with you, you don't drive people away, and the part of you that comes on strong is also the part of you that people love. Let yourself realize that. Even if you had a falling out, you were still friends, and your friend knew that. In time you'd have made up. It's not your fault that time threw you a curveball.

There's nothing for the grief but to go through it, and there's no cure for the game your brain plays on you, chasing thoughts around in circles, trying to grasp and understand the cause and meaning of everything, of life and loss and love and inevitability and lack of control of the world. All that is just part of the shock. But when you can, let go of the guilt. You can't be any different than who you are, and who you are makes us all love you a ton. You don't have to tear yourself up to honor your friend. You are trying to apologize to her now through your guilt, but it won't help her or you. Better to apologize by forgiving yourself and moving on, and feeling good about what you had and not feeling miserable about what you didn't.

Wish I could say it better than that. I hope you understand how much we all care about you. :hug:
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