It was a brain aneurysm

[KitchenWitch]

she was brain dead before she hit the floor, then she went into cardiac arrest.

Oh god this sucks.

:cry:

[Midlodemocrat]

1. Honey, I'm sorry. But she likely didn't feel anything.

[KitchenWitch]

2. I know

I am just trying to make sense of it all. And I can't.

[auntAgonist]

4. There is no sense to be made ...

I'm sorry for your loss. :hug:

I wish I could help make you feel better.

aA
kesha

[jobycom]

6. That's the shock and grief. We always try to make sense of it.

There is no sense. You'll chase the details around in your brain hoping they align into an answer that makes you feel better or else lets you feel bad all at once so you can get over it. But it won't happen like that. There is no why, there's just the details you have to accept. Not that you can really tell yourself that and have it help you. Grief is a condition that takes time to heal. That whole "trying to make sense of it all" is the hardest part.

:hug:

[mainegreen]

3. Whatever it is, it sounds terrible, and I'm sorry.

:(

[Gormy Cuss]

5. I lost a dear friend that way.

It's always much harder when death provides us with no opportunity to say goodbye. :hug:

[undeterred]

7. Who had a brain aneurysm?

:hug:

[siligut]

11. A good old friend of KW’s with whom she hadn’t spoken for a year.

She says they stopped speaking and didn’t make up due to her pride.

[cwydro]

8. A horrible thing for everyone who knew her,

and I feel for you. I lost someone that way too.

But honestly, I think it might be one of the better ways to go. It's quick.

[Shell Beau]

9. Silent killer. Sucks. I am sorry.

:hug:

[Pool Hall Ace]

10. I am so sorry.

We are here for you. :cry: :hug:

[foxfeet]

12. I'm so sorry . I wish you peace and healing .

[backtoblue]

13. I'm very sorry for your loss KitchenWitch

Good friends are hard to come by and even though you hadn't spoken in a while doesn't make that friendship any less important. I hope you find some comfort for your agony because I know it's hard to lose someone your love. :grouphug:

[JitterbugPerfume]

14. I am so sorry

:grouphug:

[graywarrior]

15. Sorry, KitchenWitch

:hug:

[unpossibles]

16. I'm sorry to hear it. That's how my mom died

And as others have said, at least it was quick, although that's good for her more than for your own pain.

<hugs>

[SeattleGirl]

17. My condolences, KW

I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend.

:hug:

[lost-in-nj]

18. I'm sorry KW

:hug:


my brother died that way......

I hope you can find some peace....
keep venting here.....

lost

[livetohike]

19. I'm so sorry KW

:hug: I hope you will remember the good times you shared and that will bring you some comfort and peace.

[CaliforniaPeggy]

20. I'm so sorry, my dear KW...

The quick deaths are easiest on the person dying, and so damn hard on everyone else...

Be gentle with yourself, be good to yourself...

We are here for you...

:hug:

[texanwitch]

21. I am so sorry about your friend, I know how you feel.

My dear friend also had a brain aneurysm, she is still alive but has brain damage.

My friend is gone, she doesn't know anybody.

I miss her very much.

We had a few words, very minor a few days before her aneurysm.

The Doctors don't know if she will get better or not, time will tell.

My friend was very active, now she just sits in a wheel chair.

All I can say is enjoy the good times you had, and forget about the rest.

[no name no slogan]

22. .

:hug:

[lizziegrace]

23. ...

:hug:

I'm so sorry.

[Blue Diadem]

24. I'm sorry KW.

:hug:

Sometimes if there are words and feelings left unsaid, it helps to write it down in a letter to that person. Even though their physical presence is no longer here, they'll hear your words.

[In_The_Wind]

25. ~

:hug:

[applegrove]

26. Sorry.

[Pierre.Suave]

27. ...

:hug:s for the number 1 Twins fan

[mvd]

28. Very sorry

about your loss. Here's a hug. :hug:

[BarenakedLady]

29. I'm sorry KW

:hug:

[Dangerously Amused]

30. I'm so sorry.

:hug:

[bluesbassman]

31. My condolences KW.

Peace to you as you grieve.:hug:

[femmocrat]

32. I'm so sorry, KitchenWitch.

:hug:

[lightningandsnow]

33. I'm so sorry, hun.

:hug:

[supernova]

34. Deepest condolences, KitchenWitch

On the loss of your dear friend.


:hug:

[Odin2005]

35. OMG!!! *Hugs KW*

:cry:

[GreenPartyVoter]

36. I am so very, very sorry, sweetie! *hugs*

[seaker]

37. Yes, it sucks hard

Please accept my sincere condolences for deep loss.:hug:

[Critters2]

38. So sorry, KW!

:hug:

[BlueIris]

39. Poor KitchenWitch.

This is terrible. All my best to you and your's.

[yoyossarian]

40. My sincere condolences...

:hug:

[SalmonChantedEvening]

41. I am so sorry KW

:hug: :cry:

My condolences.

[Eurobabe]

42. I lost a very good friend in 1997 to same thing, same way, she was only 53

actually my counselor. I was devastated. Not a day goes by when I don't think of her.

So sorry about your friend. :hug:

[old mark]

43. KW: Very sorry for your loss.

There was nothing to be done - it's just life.
(Hug)
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