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Here's the scenario: My in-laws and parents live about 3 hours drive away. In recent years, we've generally stayed with my parents because we had all the kids with us and my folks had several spare bedrooms. Now, I have to admit, I prefer not to stay with the in-laws. My two brothers-in-law get upset over having their lives disrupted by guests, and play out a passive-aggressive drama the entire time to let us know about it. Of course, they have to compete with my MIL's performance of how much extra work she's doing. To keep things interesting, MIL and both BIL nag and berate my FIL over every little thing. Also, they never have approved on my husband leaving home to marry me. Spending the day with them is enough face time for me. However, my mother recently passed on, my MIL has been pressuring my husband to stay with her, and they're all getting older. Four of the kids have their own homes near-by now, so there would only be four of us staying over. We also figured it would be easier on my Dad not to have to play host this time, and it would make my husband's parents happy.
So, we get there and find out that my father-in-law has the "flu". Not only that, but my MIL and two BIL also had had the flu. It looked to me like a bad cold, and I was thinking we could have postponed the trip to allow everyone to feel better. This morning, after my husband, daughter and son all woke up with upset stomachs, we found out that the "flu" was actually a stomach bug. We drove home, but my husband is now in bed with a fever and my daughter is trying to decide whether to cancel her annual New Year's Eve sleep over. I'm leaning toward telling her to re-schedule since I sure don't want to pass this on. Right now I'm more than a little pissed that my husband's family didn't ask us to show up next week when everyone was feeling better.
Thanks for letting me vent.
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