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Edited on Thu Oct-13-11 05:57 PM by Lydia Leftcoast
One of the sobering things they told us during orientation was that only 1/3 of street kids made it into productive adulthood. Of the rest, half died before the age of 25, and half ended up institutionalized.
What they had in common were parents who were alcoholic/drug addicted/criminal/mentally ill/abusive/"respectable" but sociopathic/some of the above/all of the above. About 1/3 of the kids had been thrown out for being gay or transgendered.
One girl was thrown out of the house when she became pregnant at the age of 12. Well, you know that getting pregnant wasn't her idea. The father was her mother's boyfriend, but instead of throwing out the boyfriend and pressing criminal charges, she dumped her daughter out onto the streets. This girl had three more children by the age of 21.
One mother told a pair of twins on their sixteenth birthday, "You're old enough to get full-time jobs. I don't want you back here after school. You no longer live in this house."
One boy spent Thanksgiving weekend skiing with a friend and his family and came home to find that his parents had moved away to another city without telling him.
A boy with cerebral palsy and mild retardation was thrown out on the streets at age 11. The agency placed him in a group home, where he lived for a couple of years. He used to drop by the agency and call all the women "Mama." One day, he died in a freak accident, and when the police informed his mother, her only response was, "I hope this doesn't mean I have to pay for his funeral."
One girl told me that she was going to spend the weekend at her father's house. I asked why she didn't live with him, and she said that her father's girlfriend didn't like her, so she had to live on the streets unless the girlfriend was out of town.
Another pair of twins was passed around among relatives all their lives. By the time I met them, they were a striking pair of identical twin leather punks. However, they both ended up in prison the last I heard.
If you think the movie was depressing...
Since Streetwise was made in 1986, I wouldn't be surprised if the children of the kids portrayed in the film are showing up at Seattle social service agencies now. The agency I volunteered for had just seen their first second-generation street kid shortly before I started there.
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