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astral (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 10:47 PM Original message |
So can we talk about cougars, then? |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 11:08 PM Response to Original message |
1. I've never seen it as offensive. |
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astral (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-09-11 01:16 AM Response to Reply #1 |
29. oh that's right ... I used to have a star .... |
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Major Nikon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 11:10 PM Response to Original message |
2. I've heard the thought police sometimes refer to it as offensive |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 09:07 AM Response to Reply #2 |
13. so, if you feel it is offensive you a) are a thought police. b) not allow to share opinion |
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Major Nikon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 10:00 AM Response to Reply #13 |
15. I'll go with a 3rd option |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 10:06 AM Response to Reply #15 |
17. but i asked you a question? how is that reading too much into something? |
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Major Nikon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 10:37 AM Response to Reply #17 |
22. Another way of saying is your inferrences were incorrect |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 11:07 AM Response to Reply #22 |
25. that was really unnecessary and i stopped reading after the first couple sentences |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 11:18 PM Response to Original message |
3. Being seen as attractive by younger men can not possibly be a bad thing. |
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TorchTheWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 11:41 PM Response to Reply #3 |
6. pffftt... |
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TorchTheWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 11:34 PM Response to Original message |
4. It doesn't matter if it is intended as a put-down |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 11:38 PM Response to Original message |
5. I thought it meant slightly "predatory" |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 11:51 PM Response to Original message |
7. It's not a term that I personally consider offensive in most usages, but I recognize |
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Tyrs WolfDaemon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 11:58 PM Response to Original message |
8. I think we can all agree to this 'cougar' |
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TreasonousBastard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 12:04 AM Response to Original message |
9. .I never thought of it as offensive, but... |
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TreasonousBastard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 12:04 AM Response to Original message |
10. dupe |
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HopeHoops (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 08:59 AM Response to Original message |
11. I think "cougar" is a rather complimentary term. Maybe we should ask Mrs. Robinson. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 09:05 AM Response to Original message |
12. an older woman not comfortable in her skin trying to be younger basically paying a young man |
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Major Nikon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 10:05 AM Response to Reply #12 |
16. So an older woman who dates a younger man a) is uncomfortable and b) has to pay for sex |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 10:06 AM Response to Reply #16 |
18. no. the women defined as a cougar are just that. not all women |
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HappyMe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 10:14 AM Response to Reply #18 |
19. I hardly think it is pathetic! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 10:19 AM Response to Reply #19 |
20. yes. they are paying. maybe not as in prostitution. but like the sugar daddy, yes |
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Major Nikon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 10:48 AM Response to Reply #18 |
23. Then I'd say your definition doesn't match mine |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 11:05 AM Response to Reply #23 |
24. i can agree with you on the second part of your post. i dont use it |
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HappyMe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 09:13 AM Response to Original message |
14. I don't find it offensive. |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-09-11 06:13 PM Response to Reply #14 |
35. I find it a problem when the younger man is much too young |
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bluedigger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 10:24 AM Response to Original message |
21. The term is just descriptive of a pattern of behavior. |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 11:12 AM Response to Original message |
26. Any nickname can be offensive to anyone. |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 12:16 PM Response to Original message |
27. I'm not sure how I feel about it. |
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KamaAina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 12:19 PM Response to Original message |
28. Certainly. Do you know of any in the Silicon Valley area? |
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astral (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-09-11 01:29 AM Response to Original message |
30. I guess the partial double-standard was what I was thinking of. |
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MiddleFingerMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-09-11 01:36 AM Response to Original message |
31. !!! |
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RedCloud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-09-11 02:26 PM Response to Original message |
32. I've been called a "tiger" and I don't mind at all. |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-09-11 03:02 PM Response to Original message |
33. Personally, I avoid the term because I think it is offensive ... |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-09-11 05:10 PM Response to Original message |
34. The problem is it doesn't always mean hot older woman |
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