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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-23-11 03:29 PM
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From oneighty's Journal. Lemon Meringue Pies Are Love?
For those of you who will remember and those of you who never had the wonderful privilege of knowing him. Here is an entry from Oneighty (180)

timely I thought with all the mention of food, pies etc.

He's still missed.

aA
kesha


oneighty's Journal
Lemon Meringue Pies Are Love?
Posted by oneighty in The DU Lounge
Fri Sep 08th 2006, 10:59 AM
There were three of them looking unfinished because Gramma did not have enough eggs for the Meringue.

It was the end of our short summer stay with Dad's parents in their cottage near Lake Ontario. World war two was still a year or two away.

On the last day of our stay Gramma gave us the Meringue-less lemon pies. Lois, Eunice and I did not care. And with some disbelief we were told we could each eat a whole pie.

Oh it was so good with each delicious bite carefully savored and tasting so good and so forever even unto this day. Grampa and Gramma watched us enjoy their gift of love and treat as their attentive eyes smiled and glistened wet with tears.

We will be returning that same day to the broken home where we exist. There will never be a lemon pie there ever.

Marked on a nearby door jam by Grampa are the marks of our growing older taller year by year visit by visit. Lois Eunice and me in descending order.

Sometimes when no one seemed to be watching I would catch Grammpa fingering the marks he had carved into the wood.

What I wonder was he thinking.

180
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-23-11 04:02 PM
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1. That is truly beautiful...
I thank you for posting this wonderful memory. He had such a terrific way of expressing himself.

I hope that you and yours will have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

:hi:
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-23-11 04:05 PM
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2. Thank You. We have much to be thankful for this year.
I thought this would be a good memory to share in the lounge.

Oneighty was truly One of a kind.

aA
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livetohike Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-23-11 04:28 PM
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3. Rest in peace dear Oneighty
How I miss his writing....Thanks aA for posting this. :hug:
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Tobin S. Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-23-11 04:52 PM
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4. I remember well
I have oneighty's books here and they are precious to me. I consider them among the most important things I own. He wrote with heart and empathy, and although he may not have been a professional writer, I've learned more from him about story telling than anyone I've ever read. And now a little story of my own in honor of oneighty.

Ed was his name. He used to post little stories in the lounge like the one in the OP. I had been reading them and became very impressed. I wrote a private message to him telling him so. I had just started posting little stories of my own in the lounge. Ed responded to my private message and we started talking about writing. He told me that he had self published a couple of works, one a novella and the other a larger book containing many of his short stories. I told him that I would very much like to read them and asked him if I could buy a copy of each from him. He said he would give me a copy of the novella, called Kazuko, that I could keep for free. The larger book, called Voyages of the Vicky Mary, was not for sale and he told me that it was expensive to publish. But he sent me a copy to read and then return to him on my promise. It was a very generous and trusting gesture, especially seeing as how I'd never met Ed in person and we lived several hundred miles apart. I became Ed's biggest fan. Well, Jitterbug Perfume might have something to say about that, but I was at least number two on the list.

I read Ed's books and developed a big ol' man crush on him in the process. I loved the guy. Those stories were amazing, and to top it off they were true! I hated to let go of the Voyages book, but there was no way I could go back on my promise to Ed. I did offer him money for it in an attempt to keep it, but he said he had to have it back. I sent it back along with a token of my appreciation. Ed had done something very important for me aside from letting me look at those wonderful books. He kindled what will probably be for me a life long interest in writing and I started writing more stories after I read his stuff. I now have enough little stories of my own to make a book about the size of his Voyages.

A little time went by and we had developed the writing forum here at DU and Ed and I would talk there sometimes. I was always trying to get him to attempt to commercially publish his books, and I think to the point that it even irritated him a little, but he had no interest in any money his books might generate. He told me that he wrote those books for his friends and family, and especially for his grandchildren whom he feared he would not see grow into adulthood. I did not understand that fear and it was very imperceptive of me. Ed was about 70 and I thought he would probably have many years left in him. Little did I know.

One day on a different message board, hosted by auntAgonist, that no longer exists, aA told me that Ed had passed away. It turned out that he had emphysema or some lung disease and had been struggling with it for a while, even when he and I first started talking. I was shocked because I didn't see it coming and it made me very sad. I decided to write to Ed's wife because I still had their address from when I had corresponded with Ed. I gave her my condolences and told her how much Ed meant to me. I was out on the road doing trucking stuff at the time and it would be a while before I got home, but when I did I had a wonderful unexpected gift waiting for me: The Voyages of the Vicky Mary.
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trof Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-23-11 06:22 PM
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7. He sent me one of his books, too. And I do still miss him.
Us geezers stick together.
:-)
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-23-11 08:17 PM
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8. He really was amazing Tobin and lives on in his words.
I really hated to give you the news of his passing. I am really glad you have The Voyages of the Vicky Mary.

Let's talk on the weekend and firm up our plans for your visit.

:hug:

k.
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-24-11 11:06 AM
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9. ... for those who missed it.
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ornotna Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-23-11 05:34 PM
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5. A DU gem for sure
Thank you auntAgonist for the memories.

RIP Ed


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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-23-11 06:15 PM
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6. Thanks ornotna, for posting this. I really enjoyed corresponding
with Ed and think of him often.


I was/am thankful to have known him.

aA
kesha
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redwitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-24-11 12:38 PM
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10. oneighty was one of the first to welcome me here in 2003.
He was a good'un.
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auntAgonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-25-11 06:30 PM
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11. the best. I'm glad you remember him.
:hug:
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