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Top him,beat him down give him his own medicine right back. Republicans have conduct disorders,this is why they are republicans.(Why fundies are fundies)They as a population have a stunted empathy,an insatiable greed,a liar heart,a very toxic,amoral,narcissistic mental illness that is destructive to relationships.
To me a conduct disorder a bully problem,an authoritarian, is the only real mental illness that poses a consistent real danger to society's functioning.The abusers and perpetrators among us are the problem.They are the reason peace,equality,diversity and justice,never happens in government or marketplace.Bullies can't or refuse to tolerate being in a relationship based in cooperation,mutual respect,democracy,sharing,equality,human rights(for others) or peace.
If you fight back against soulless thugs wearing masks of sanity this does not by default mean you have a conduct disorder even tho the bully will cry victim,point fingers and refuse to take responsibility for his own actions. What is in your heart what kind of culture do you want to live in?
Do you beat up opponents to sadistically dominate them or silence them because you can Or do you do it because the republican has made himself a menace to peace to humanity,to community,to society and disrupts peace and ruins life for others?
Republicans have no conduct boundaries internally on their own behavior.If they can get away with it,they will.To them they make the right and wrong according to what they want and what they can get away with.
They need external boundaries.Social barriers,and people willing to fight them,shame them,disrupt their schemes, expose them,and take away what they have stolen,etc.People who are not bullies need to assert sane fair and equitable boundaries on all seekers of power. This does not mean passivity or no violence as an absolute.
The bullies are in control of our country.They are very manipulative and secretive,controlling vicious and insidious.They have tons of P.R. covering up their personality flaws and bad deeds..Those of us who do not want to be abused need to knock them down to earth before they get enough people cowed,and morally bankrupted,traumatized and confused enough destroy society and steal and enslave this world under our noses.
Those of us with heart and desire to change relationships to a more sane culture need to get beyond our moral absolutist Utopian dreams . They sound nice on paper. It's a disappointment to realize some people will not choose get along,without a fight,will not play fair until they are taken out of the game,,will not do the right thing because they don't want to.. So America needs to learn how to put real boundaries with real teeth on the bullies.Be it the republican game of disordered conduct or an abuser in the home. Imposing ethical empathy based values on bullies is necessary ,a human centered value of conduct of right and wrong asserted upon bullies by others is necessary because the bully lacks in their own heart the empathy so they don't have an adequate emotional connection with humanity,They can't or refuse to feel other's pain as they abuse them. Bullies can fake empathy however(compassionate conservatism).They will not to be able to understand why it is wrong to dominate,steal from,abuse and exploit people when they are allowed to get away with it.So Don't LET them get away.If you let them get away they will never stop it. Drop the moral utopias,Bullies need boundaries imposed upon them from the outside. A Society who does not want to suffer abuses or tolerate abuses,lies and intimidation needs to top the bullies in their life,in the home,at work,in the government as soon as the bully acts out of line..
We need to decide what kind of a culture we want.
Do we want a culture of cooperation,relationship, empathy,taking care of each other,quality of life,diversity,equality,a respect of all human rights to all,(sane human values )?
or of mono culture,cutthroat competition,arbitrary human rights, domination and winning,masters and servants,quantity of life,(bully culture).
What do you do with people who because they are sick,in the heart in the moral center, refuse to share,to do their part in a relationship, those who abuse you and betray you,lie and steal? If you cannot leave the authoritarian fool ,you got to fight them and resist them and disobey and ignore all their threats bargaining,lies and distractions and fight back until they are beaten down enough to decide it is more in their selfish interests to be respectful of others than to abuse them.
After the bully has this realization you must watch them and never trust them again because they are emotionally like rabid dogs but mentally they are liars like Machiavelli their sanity is fake a mask..People need to learn to detect this kind of disordered conduct reject and mistrust bullies ,disobey and assert themselves against authoritarians, abusers,liars, sociopaths narcissists and bullies wherever they appear and assert healthy community values and demand respect for themselves and other members of said community and raise the standards of the group milieu or society itself...
Individuals in a society are EACH co-responsible for instilling the cooperation based,humanitarian,anti authoritarian,equality based,diversity respecting, values for a culture..Individuals(as in YOU and I) need to understand what manipulation is,what abuse is,and guard our freedom to be who we are and to live as we desire and be free of domination and corruption. Society has to make sure bullies are never are able to cross social boundaries and social contracts on conduct in our relationships that make it possible for vastly different people to peacefully co-exist.Bullies chafe against all boundaries on their conduct and would rather get away with abuse ,theft,and exploiting without accountability.Society once it understands what sane anti bully values are they got to make sure bullies never get anywhere near the power they seek....
If changing culture requires us to fight bullies in the street and fight bullies in our own hearts..than fight we must Freedom requires a person to be eternally vigilant for tyrants and abusers of trust,freedom and privacy.Democracy is incompatible with authoritarianism,lies,abuse and domination.
People can change society itself by personally limiting what bullies they interact with can do/take/have,limit their freedom,and not taking their claims of'authority' seriously. A bully deserves contempt because they demonstrated when they have freedom they'll abuse your freedom abuse you and take anything else they can get away with. Stop letting them get away.
The only reason Abu Gharib is a problem is because it was "leaked" someone told the truth outside of the "family" (the military culture)despite the code of silence,secrecy and threat..Abusers everywhere HATE to have their abuses exposed to others outside their realm of control..It makes it much harder for them to be trusted enough to acquire power and abuse some more.
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