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Kid_Niki Donating Member (53 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 01:11 AM
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Woe is my wife, the sad state of healthcare in the USA..
Hello, I am new to the DU forums, I have just recently passed the mark for posting to start my own thread and I wanted to start it on the issue of healthcare! Here is a letter which I recently sent to many poloticians, local, state, and national. Of course I have not gotten a response but I have to share this with as many people as I can so that they may truely understand the sad state of healthcare in this country.

My letter:

"I am sending this message to both local and federal campaigns, Democratic and Republican, in the hope that someone will respond in a meaningful way! My Name is ******, I am writing this letter out of immense frustration and despair! My wife and I are both 26, we both work hard, and we both have aspirations. *****, my wife, has had Rheumatoid Arthritis since she was 13. If you are unfamiliar with this, it is where there is swelling in the joints and if ill-treated the joints can become damaged. Unfortunately for my wife her first few doctors did not treat her correctly and she has had some damage to her wrists, ankles, and hands. Regardless of this she works every day; she gets up and tries to live as normal of a life as possible, even if she is in pain. She did not choose this, yet she lives with it, and the current medical state in this country does not make it easy!

She currently has a job as a sales person, selling high-end eyewear, her company pays for an HMO which works, although it covers very little. She is attempting to change jobs, there is an opening which pays slightly less but will take her off of her feet, and possibly give her much more room to advance. The problem is though, that once she leaves her current job, she will be without health insurance (for up to 7 months because of how the new company works) and there is not ONE insurance company that will pick her up under an individual policy. This is sad, disgusting, and wrong! She is being discriminated against for something that she has no power over, something that she did not choose. In my mind a basic FREEDOM is to have access to the same resources as any other person. Due to her illness, she is denied the same resources as a healthy person. They do not even offer an alternative! Now you may ask, “What about COBRA?” This is the route which we are forced to take, but it is hardly reasonable and for some people not even available, which at that point they have to enroll in the Kansas provided Health Insurance program. The short term insurance available through Kansas is a total joke, due to unrealistic premiums and the fact that it doesn’t realistically cover prescription drugs. This is unacceptable! We pay our taxes, we reinvest in the economy and when it comes down to being able to obtain a basic necessity, my wife is being denied!

I implore someone to do something about the current state of this country, where the almighty dollar reigns supreme. I am told all the time by coworkers how the United States was founded under Christian ideals, I hear all this talk of values in the campaigns and at the end of the day, I don’t see any of these things at work. In my mind insurance or aid should be available to those with debilitating diseases, and it should be reasonable. My wife and I have literally nowhere to turn, other than to COBRA. I thank the Lord that we can afford it, but when you add in the costs of Medications, Doctor Visits, and Labs, it is gets very thin.

John Kerry says, “Help is on the way.”

Bush says that, “We must build a modern, innovative health care system that gives patients more options.”

I ask this, “When is the help going to arrive, and in what way are the health care systems going to be reformed or rebuilt?”

The help does no good if it still costs TONS of money, and the reforms mean nothing if you can’t even get insurance in the first place! Things have to change.

Thank you for your time,

**********"

I removed my and my wife's names.

ThanX, glad to be apart of this community!




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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 01:15 AM
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1. trust me I feel your desperation
We have health care but every tinme I need tests the aproval process is painful to say the least, This system is failing and fast... I beleive thiough that Kerry will be able to fix it, to a pioint as the repukes have managed to make socialized medicine almost impossible right now
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calimary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 01:17 AM
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2. Welcome to DU!
Sorry to hear about your struggle.

Frankly, you and millions of the rest of us would be FAR better off with fewer of those nice "compassionate conservatives" running amok. Therefore, you really have one choice available: John Kerry. bush won't do squat for you unless you're some big fatcat contributor or "Friend-of-Dad's." Besides, Kerry's wife, Teresa, is a world-class philanthropist. She's actually used the Heinz Foundation bajillions to help needy people.
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Kid_Niki Donating Member (53 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 01:20 AM
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3. Don't worry, my mind has been made up since the fall of 2000...
I will be voting for Kerry!
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cheshire Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 01:22 AM
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4. Welcome, This is just what is going on with so many. Hey folks can we
start a donation campaign here?
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 01:24 AM
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5. I went through something similar to what your wife went through
Edited on Sat Sep-11-04 01:32 AM by Droopy
Not too long ago I quit my job to return to school. I have a prescription that I have to take that is very expensive- $300 a month. I couldn't afford to spend that much and stay in school. I originally didn't think that the insurance that the school offered would cover my prescription because it was a pre-existing condition. It said as much in their literature. Then I contacted the health care department at the school and somebody there told me that it is illegal to deny to sell health insurance to somebody. All I needed was a statement of coverage by my previous insurer and they would cover the prescription.
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AP Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 01:29 AM
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9. That's a recent change in the law, and I believe you have Clinton to thank
for that.

So next time a Republican tells you it's Clinton fault for some bullshit, remind them of this.
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 01:35 AM
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11. Thank you Bill Clinton
If he did that he allowed me to do what I wanted with my life at the time. That's a great personal freedom.
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Ladyhawk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 01:25 AM
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6. I hear you. :(
You are so right! Your wife didn't choose this disease, yet she is discriminated against.

I am friends with a husband and wife who work in the health care field. Believe it or not, the clinic does not provide health care for them. The man is obese so no private pay will take him. The woman just developed rheumatoid arthritis, so she's in the same boat.

It's just like loans: if you need a loan, you can't get one.

LH
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gospelized Donating Member (580 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 01:25 AM
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7. when considering
both candidates respective 'promises' regarding healthcare, keep in mind that one of the candidates has already had 4 years to deliver on his promises, which he has not done. so any claims bush makes now should be taken with a grain of salt, since he has made claims before, and ended up handling healthcare attrociously.

here are some point's from Kerry's plan for healthcare.


# Up to $1,000 of Health Care Premium Relief
The Kerry-Edwards plan will provide relief for employers who offer their employees quality health coverage by helping out with certain high cost health cases - saving families up to $1,000 per year.

# A Health Plan for Every Child
The Kerry-Edwards plan will pick up the full cost of the more than 20 million children enrolled in Medicaid. In exchange, states will expand eligibility for children's health coverage and low-income adults and enroll every child automatically.

# Manage Skyrocketing Health Care Costs
The Kerry-Edwards plan will improve health outcomes while reducing health care costs by cutting administrative costs, waste, fraud, and abuse; enhancing disease management efforts; and reforming malpractice insurance.
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AP Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 01:28 AM
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8. See how this works. People can't force employers to compete for employees.
Health insurance forces people to remain in bad jobs because they can't afford to make the change.

It holds down wages, and it's no accident.

Greasing the skids for employees to follow the best job forces employers to compete for the best employees. Public transportation is one way to grease the skids. Health insurance is another.

Like I said, this is NO accident that this works out this way. It's by design.

It's bullshit and it's bad for the economy, and not just for individuals.
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Kid_Niki Donating Member (53 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 01:32 AM
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10. Even worst..
Edited on Sat Sep-11-04 01:33 AM by Kid_Niki
My father-inlaw is a HUGE Bushie!!! Thinks that Bush (including Jeb) is just what this country needs!!!!! Oh no!!! Anyway, I stay way from polotics with him if I can, we don't need strife there, plus they are helping us out. I kindly appreciate the offer for donations, but we have it taken care of. Instead, everyone, the next time you see a homeless person begging, take them to the nearest place and buy them some grub! ;)
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AP Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 01:47 AM
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16. I guess he thinks that people who work for a living shouldn't be able
to accumulate wealth, and that they shouldn't be able to compete on a level playing field with the people who want to buy their labor.
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 01:36 AM
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Kid_Niki Donating Member (53 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 01:38 AM
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13. It was all a line...
Edited on Sat Sep-11-04 01:40 AM by Kid_Niki
"The Republicans will NEVER give us health insurance. WTF happen to LIFE, liberty and the pursuit of happiness???" just to get us on the boats and over here! Seriously, the pursuit is a never ending one for some!

Edit:

"outliar", sorry not to be a prick. I am sorry to hear about your father, he should see if there are any ressidency hours or clinics, they are usualy free, or a very low cost! He should be able to be checked up on there, drugs a re another story though!
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 01:40 AM
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Kid_Niki Donating Member (53 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 01:43 AM
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15. Just try and concentrate on the good things..
Even if they are far and few, grab on to them and hold on! When the chips are down, try and remember the good things, and look forward to more!
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LynzM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 01:49 AM
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17. In the same boat with ya, at the moment...
Just got laid off last month, insurance ran out August 31st. I'm diabetic, so no private insurance would cover me. COBRA would be $800/month. Sure, that's realistic. High-risk pool for the state insurance is $315+/month, for basic coverage, for just me. That does nothing for my husband. And on top of that I'd still have to pay prescription costs. I agree, it sucks being penalized for something I had no control over (I'm type I, diagnosed at age 9). Good luck to you and your wife, I hope something works out for you, and soon.
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Kid_Niki Donating Member (53 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 01:53 AM
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18. LynzM
LynzM, my heart goes out to you, you have it far worse than we do! God bless you.
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LynzM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 10:54 AM
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21. Thanks, we're not that bad yet
Luckily, there is light at the end of the tunnel, in that I should have a job by the end of the year that will have good insurance. Still, it's a scary transition time. Good luck to you guys, as well. I'm just about to get into a debate about nationalized health care on another board, wish me luck! :)
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eridani Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 01:53 AM
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19. When Michael Moore comes out with his health care movie--
--we are going to have a real 'teachable' moment. If we can get Kerry in, and immediately pressure him to drop this incremental crap, and back it up with real organizing, we might have a chance.

Do not settle for anything less than EVERYBODY covered! Everybody in, nobody out! Now!
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cthrumatrix Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 07:37 AM
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20. I can't wait...people will be outraged
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A_Possum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 11:01 AM
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22. My husband an I have been in this situation for years
We now pay about $45k/yr OUT OF POCKET for policies with 5k deductibles. My husband only has hospitalization. He can't get major medical because he had a stage 1 melanoma removed 15 YEARS ago, but that means he "had cancer" and so he gets no coverage. We worked for years to just get him what he has.

Welcome to DU.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 11:18 AM
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23. Without going into detail, just let me say, Lord, can I sympathize.
Most people who are covered take health insurance for granted.

That's a dangerous proposition that can lead to financial devastation; and WE WERE COVERED.

May God have mercy indeed on those who cannot be covered.
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barb162 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Sep-11-04 11:26 AM
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24. I hear you and I have been there
people don't realize how much COBRA will cost until the time comes as they leave their positions. So many people are uninsured in this country for many reasons and it just haws to be fixed already.
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