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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 03:39 PM Original message |
If a boy or man wants to act or dress effeminately, is that wrong? |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 03:41 PM Response to Original message |
1. I don't think it's wrong, and I doubt many progressives here do. n/t |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 03:42 PM Response to Reply #1 |
4. Oh man, then I guess you missed the threads when the butch lesbian |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 03:46 PM Response to Reply #4 |
10. And people here had a problem with that? Geez. n/t |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 03:47 PM Response to Reply #10 |
14. A huge problem -- the threads were epic |
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Creideiki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-13-09 07:59 AM Response to Reply #1 |
100. The problem there is thinking that DU is particularly progressive |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 03:41 PM Response to Original message |
2. I have no problems with gender variance |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 03:41 PM Response to Reply #2 |
3. Right! Gender variance. That's the term. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 03:45 PM Response to Reply #3 |
9. Right, either term works |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 03:42 PM Response to Original message |
5. I call it |
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glowing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 03:46 PM Response to Reply #5 |
13. My 4 yr old son like to wear adult shoes.. he will put on his dads slippers |
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YOY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 03:42 PM Response to Original message |
6. Don't think too many folks here have a problem with that. |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 03:46 PM Response to Reply #6 |
11. Well I will make an admission that I'm not particularly proud of. |
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YOY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 03:52 PM Response to Reply #11 |
16. Doesn't freak me. |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 07:33 PM Response to Reply #11 |
40. Have you ever discussed your particular phobia with a therapist? |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 08:07 PM Response to Reply #40 |
45. No - if it were something that created an ongoing problem for me, I would. |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 08:26 PM Response to Reply #45 |
48. I got raped back in the early 90s. |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 08:37 PM Response to Reply #48 |
49. Yeah, not to deliberately stereotype here, but his father |
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Zenlitened (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 03:19 PM Response to Reply #49 |
83. I recognize that feeling, too. |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-11-09 03:53 PM Response to Reply #49 |
94. Yes, I'm beyond it for the most part now. |
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Zenlitened (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 03:21 PM Response to Reply #48 |
84. I'm glad you were able to confront and grow beyond that... |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-11-09 03:55 PM Response to Reply #84 |
95. Awww, thank you. |
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glowing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 03:43 PM Response to Original message |
7. I think it depends on how you were brainwashed as you grew. |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 03:48 PM Response to Reply #7 |
15. "Obama running around in a dress and getting elected" - that made me laugh. |
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imdjh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 12:52 AM Response to Reply #7 |
57. I think the idea of clothing needs to change. |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 03:44 PM Response to Original message |
8. I dunno, but I don't pay much attention to that stuff. So many |
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Chipper Chat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 03:46 PM Response to Original message |
12. It's not wrong when it's natural to the "effeminate person." |
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imdjh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 12:35 AM Response to Reply #12 |
55. How can we even know what's natural? |
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Chipper Chat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 08:56 AM Response to Reply #55 |
62. Oh hell, I know girls from Oklahoma that chew tobacco. |
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FreeState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 03:55 PM Response to Original message |
17. There is no such thing as just two genders (male and female) |
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imdjh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 09:10 AM Response to Reply #17 |
64. +1 As close to inarguable as we are likely to get on this subject. n/t |
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Siwsan (385 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 03:56 PM Response to Original message |
18. Oh Bla Di, Oh Bla Da, Life goes on |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 03:58 PM Response to Reply #18 |
20. Oh, yeah. I love those kurta thingies they wear in Bollywood films. LOL |
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queerart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 04:13 PM Response to Reply #18 |
25. A Man In A Kilt.... |
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IntravenousDemilo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 03:53 PM Response to Reply #25 |
97. And if it's worn right... |
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doctor jazz (474 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 03:57 PM Response to Original message |
19. Not disturbing but pretty unattractive (to ME, a very gay man) |
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FreeState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 04:00 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. While it may be unattractive to you I find your statement sexist to the extreme |
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doctor jazz (474 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 06:02 PM Response to Reply #21 |
29. I should know better than to have an opinion on this stuff. Somebody always gets their undies |
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FreeState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 06:04 PM Response to Reply #29 |
30. If your going to express your opinion you cant expect others to not express theirs n/t |
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littlebit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 08:39 PM Response to Reply #29 |
50. I completely understand how you feel. |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 05:39 PM Response to Reply #50 |
87. The point of this thread is not whether you are attracted to a butch woman or a femme man... |
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imdjh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 09:32 PM Response to Reply #87 |
90. self delete |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 10:02 PM Response to Reply #87 |
91. +1 |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 04:00 PM Response to Reply #19 |
22. Always found it inexplicable that in highly macho cultures, effeminate guys |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 07:41 PM Response to Reply #22 |
41. Quite a few men tend to love other men more than they do women. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 06:17 PM Response to Reply #19 |
31. Deleted sub-thread |
Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 07:45 PM Response to Reply #19 |
42. It seems "stupid" to you? |
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doctor jazz (474 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 08:25 PM Response to Reply #42 |
47. Okay, I should have said pointless. |
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FreeState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:08 PM Response to Reply #47 |
77. Id like to clarify my comment to you from above |
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doctor jazz (474 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 08:16 PM Response to Reply #77 |
89. I understand and want to thank you for the clarification. I tried, not as well as I wanted, to |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 12:09 PM Response to Reply #19 |
75. i am fine with your first statement which is a declaration of your own tastes |
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Bluebear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-11-09 07:25 PM Response to Reply #19 |
96. As you age you'll discover not everything is about what turns you on sexually. |
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endarkenment (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 04:05 PM Response to Original message |
23. I don't care what you wear or what gender you like to display. |
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Toucano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 04:07 PM Response to Original message |
24. There's nothing wrong with it until |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 06:18 PM Response to Reply #24 |
32. So basically, you get annoyed if people don't fit into the gender roles you define |
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Toucano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 06:27 PM Response to Reply #32 |
33. Yeah, that's what I said. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 06:32 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. I'm not particularly masculine or feminine, so I'd probably pass your poser test |
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Toucano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 06:39 PM Response to Reply #34 |
35. Not so fast. n-t |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 07:48 PM Response to Reply #33 |
43. "Posers?" |
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Toucano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 10:39 PM Response to Reply #43 |
52. Learning to tell if someone is genuine is an important life skill. |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 09:41 AM Response to Reply #52 |
68. I sort of know what you mean. For example, |
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imdjh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 11:49 AM Response to Reply #68 |
74. Agree. Oddly, in the 70's he seemed hot. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 06:56 PM Response to Reply #24 |
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Toucano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 07:05 PM Response to Reply #36 |
37. I didn't ask them to fit anyone's idea about who they are. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 07:08 PM Response to Reply #37 |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 12:10 PM Response to Reply #24 |
76. i can understand that. |
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damntexdem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 04:16 PM Response to Original message |
26. What's wrong are those, including some psychiatrists and many school systems, that try to stop it. |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 07:50 PM Response to Reply #26 |
44. I agree. |
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8 track mind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 04:29 PM Response to Original message |
27. Doesn't really bother me |
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tbyg52 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 05:57 PM Response to Original message |
28. God, who cares? |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 07:17 PM Response to Original message |
39. I'll let Joan Jett explain it. |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 08:13 PM Response to Reply #39 |
46. Yes, I always loved her. |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 09:35 PM Response to Original message |
51. I am attracted to butch women |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 09:35 AM Response to Reply #51 |
65. hey, we have the same tastes!!! |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 03:56 PM Response to Reply #65 |
86. I come from "Queens" |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-09-09 11:33 PM Response to Original message |
53. Current American society thinks so. |
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imdjh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 12:22 AM Response to Original message |
54. It all depends on the situation. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 06:19 AM Response to Reply #54 |
59. You seem to think that people choose how masculine or feminine they are |
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imdjh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 09:08 AM Response to Reply #59 |
63. Would you explain that to me? |
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imdjh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 12:46 AM Response to Original message |
56. I see the issue for women a little differently than for men |
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RetiredTrotskyite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:46 AM Response to Original message |
58. I Don't Have A Problem.... |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 07:30 AM Response to Original message |
60. i find gender nonconforming behavior in either gender very sexy |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 09:39 AM Response to Reply #60 |
66. Like you, I also like butch women. I always have. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 09:41 AM Response to Reply #66 |
67. when lisa walks through chelsea she gets cruised a lot. i think its very hot |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 09:43 AM Response to Reply #67 |
69. LOL - is that right? |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 07:48 AM Response to Original message |
61. Who gives a hoot? |
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LeftHander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 09:50 AM Response to Original message |
70. Key point to remember in this discussion... |
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imdjh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:46 PM Response to Reply #70 |
79. How about the female straight filter? |
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LeftHander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-13-09 10:38 AM Response to Reply #79 |
102. True any "definition" based on a binary.... |
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Crowman1979 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 10:02 AM Response to Original message |
71. I don't care as long as their not one of the RW hypocrite closet-types. |
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One_Life_To_Give (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 10:09 AM Response to Original message |
72. Unfortunatly for many it is |
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IntravenousDemilo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 04:05 PM Response to Reply #72 |
98. I think at least some of the derision originated in the fact that Guiliani is a Republican... |
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TEmperorHasNoClothes (356 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 10:43 AM Response to Original message |
73. You sound young, being comfortable in your own skin comes with age and experience |
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tekisui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:14 PM Response to Original message |
78. Everyone should be comfortable and confident to express their |
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qb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 02:12 PM Response to Original message |
80. Not a problem for me... my SO is a former drag queen. |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 02:22 PM Response to Original message |
81. it's an atavistic reaction |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 02:57 PM Response to Reply #81 |
82. actually lots of people ask about mannish women and even on du |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 03:28 PM Response to Reply #82 |
85. what disturbs me the most |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 05:52 PM Response to Reply #85 |
88. OMG |
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Duncan Grant (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-11-09 01:44 PM Response to Reply #85 |
92. You didn't use any apostrophes so I think you're safe. |
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imdjh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-13-09 12:43 AM Response to Reply #81 |
99. Speaking of cavemen |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-13-09 09:22 AM Response to Reply #99 |
101. That's a good point. Behaviors defined as 'masculine' and 'feminine' are bound by culture. |
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Stevenmarc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-11-09 03:27 PM Response to Original message |
93. Only if they wear white after Labor Day |
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LeftHander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-13-09 10:43 AM Response to Reply #93 |
103. :giggle:....nt |
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DuaneBidoux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-13-09 09:57 PM Response to Original message |
104. your fucking kidding, right? |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-14-09 10:31 AM Response to Reply #104 |
105. If I fucking were, I would have probably said something humorous in the thread title. |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 02:32 AM Response to Original message |
106. My thoughts on this. |
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Prism (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 07:03 AM Response to Reply #106 |
107. You remind me a bit of my boyfriend |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 01:12 PM Response to Reply #107 |
112. That's really cool. |
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Tim01 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 12:24 PM Response to Original message |
108. I guess I'll be the one to say it bothers me. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 12:37 PM Response to Reply #108 |
109. that probably is it. nt |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 12:57 PM Response to Reply #108 |
110. I'm straight and it doesn't bother me at all. |
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FreeState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 01:00 PM Response to Reply #108 |
111. I think it may have more to do with being an American Male more than your orientation |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 01:25 PM Response to Reply #111 |
113. This. |
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Tim01 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 02:18 PM Response to Reply #113 |
121. I think parents trying to put their kids on a particular path is a waste of time. |
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Tim01 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 02:01 PM Response to Reply #111 |
116. I think it is more of a genetic predisposition thing. |
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One_Life_To_Give (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 02:28 PM Response to Reply #116 |
122. They learn so much from peers and society at large |
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Tim01 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 02:42 PM Response to Reply #122 |
125. I think what they learn is what is acceptable in society. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 02:56 PM Response to Reply #122 |
126. pink even in this culture, was originally for little boys. it switched years later. |
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FreeState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 03:29 PM Response to Reply #126 |
127. Interesting - did a search on it and found this |
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Duncan Grant (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 01:29 PM Response to Reply #108 |
114. It has nothing to do with your straightness and everything to do with one's attitude. |
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Tim01 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 01:52 PM Response to Reply #114 |
115. Are you telling me to get out of this forum? |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 02:02 PM Response to Reply #115 |
117. if you dont support gay & trans rights and it doesnt bother you, why are you here? |
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Tim01 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 02:07 PM Response to Reply #117 |
119. Why are you hyper defensive? |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 02:15 PM Response to Reply #119 |
120. LOL. enjoy your stay. |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 02:30 PM Response to Reply #119 |
123. Aren't you cute. |
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Creideiki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 03:49 PM Response to Reply #119 |
128. "Everybody has equal rights" might be your problem |
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iris27 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 09:37 PM Response to Reply #119 |
129. "eliminate guys" |
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Tim01 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-16-09 09:54 AM Response to Reply #129 |
132. Yeah, I know. It was too late to fix it by the time I noticed it. |
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Duncan Grant (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 02:03 PM Response to Reply #115 |
118. Far from it. |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 02:35 PM Response to Original message |
124. Certainly it is not wrong. In what way could it be? |
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iris27 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-15-09 09:57 PM Response to Original message |
130. No, it's hot. :) |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-16-09 09:34 AM Response to Reply #130 |
131. Yes, you got it - 'misogyny'. That IS what underlies hostility to crossdressing and |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-16-09 12:35 PM Response to Reply #130 |
133. "Why can't we let people just be people already?" |
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Crowman1979 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-16-09 01:15 PM Response to Original message |
134. Just as long as they follow the rules of fashion. |
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One_Life_To_Give (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-16-09 02:55 PM Response to Reply #134 |
135. Better avoid Old Orchard Beach on Canada Day then |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-16-09 02:55 PM Response to Original message |
136. Doesn't bother me. |
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