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GBLT DUers and other enemies of Proposition 8:
I cannot imagine how you must feel over the passage of proposition 8, how betrayed by your fellow Californians and Democrats you must feel, nor how righteously angry you are with the results. However, I do sympathize with you and hope you would allow me to give my two cents about how to deal with my coreligionists and other people of faith who voted in favor of proposition 8 (and how we got same-sex marriage protected in Massachusetts).
First of all, I would like to remind you that the parties you are combating are neither fully rational nor unified. While protests, boycotts, and postcard campaigns are great ways to combat unjust decisions made by the government or by corporations, I don't think it will work on churches. Governments and corporations must in one way or another bend to the will of citizens/consumers because careers and livelihoods are on the line. With a church, however, this model doesn't hold. Many religions, particularly the Christian denominations you are dealing with, have a pretty strong us-v-them dichotomy. By going after them economically, you will probably not weaken there resolve, but rather strengthen it via a persecution complex. And since Christianity is a religion that raises persecution to an ideal (we're all raised on stories of the martyrs), they will take it as a sign they're doing God's work. Failing that, you run the risk of alienating those people of faith who are your supporters, even if they do it quietly in a voting booth.
The battle to defeat proposition 8 must take place in the hearts and minds of Californians. You must hammer home the message that all people in our country are equals (recall the Constitution and Declaration of Independence). It is not fair or right that one segment of the population be denied rights granted to every other. I know you all have been doing that for a long time now, but please do not give up! Work to persuade people to your side. Write letters to the editor, get on the radio or TV, hold public discussions (hell, even invite your opponents. They might reveal themselves to be hypocrites while there), and show them that homosexuals are normal people and not the leather-clad Lotharios your opponents make you out to be. Bombard them with information. I know this battle can be won.
I'd be willing to bed that a lot of pew-sitters vote the way their churches tell them to because they don't have the right information. In Massachusetts the Catholic Church railed hard against same-sex marriage, yet it was legalized (in a primarily Catholic state, I should add). What tipped the votes of a number of Catholics and other Christians I know was that they were convinced by letters to the editor, radio and television programs, and the like that reminded them that homosexuals are human beings deserving of all the same rights straight people have.
That's my 2 cents. Take it for what it's worth.
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