Your thoughts on this relationship?

[Sweet Freedom]

I'm not sure how to create the correct type of partner chart, so was wondering what the group thought of this romance?
(yes, it's me :) I'm the surprised and happy cappy.)

(female)
born on 2 Jan 1969 local time 7:28 pm
in Dunkirk, NY (US) U.T. 00+28
79w20, 42n29 sid. time 02:00:30

(male) I don't know birth time; used noon.
born on 16 Nov 1980 local time 12:00 noon
in Irving, TX (US) U.T. 18:00
96w57, 32n49 sid. time 15:16:02

I appreciate your time. :hi:

[MorningGlow]

1. Hey!

We have the same birthday! (But I was born in 1966 in Rochester.) Cool! Hey fellow Cappie! :hi:

Oh yeah--I have absolutely no knowledge of astrology--sorry--but I'm sure our resident wise ones will be able to help out! :P

[Sweet Freedom]

4. I remember!!! :) /nt

[glinda]

2. Your signs do not look too bad. I suggest that if this is serious and just to do it,

find a reputable person and get your charts done. You really need to know where your moons are and your ascendants. I feel this would be a good thing to do anyways. I will give you an example:
When I met my husband, I suggested for his own purposes that he get his chart done by a friend of mine. I thought I would also. Her reading to me revealed that if you lay my chart over his, it made a complete circle. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
Good luck!
And btw... if he thinks the notion is silly, maybe he is not the one for you? My husband thought it silly but worth doing. LOL!

[Sweet Freedom]

3. Well, I can make a partner chart

at Astro.com, but I don't know which type to make, nor do I know how to read them. I made this one with the Partner Click feature, but really have no clue what it says.

[ricochetastroman]

13. The amplified Moon

that we see on the left side, due to it's close proximity to the HOUSE 1, makes the Moon very strong.
+ side, it makes the relationship full of emotion
- side, you must watch that one of you isn't UNEQUALLY being called to do the mothering for both of you.
You must guard against codependency with this. With the fairly close opposition of the Moon to Uranus, it CAN mean that
the EMOTIONAL nature of the rel. will go up and down and prove to be erratic.
Also, it MAY indicate that the female in the rel. OR a female from outside of the rel. will prove to be erratic or upsetting.

These are just some minor indications; chart comparisons are very difficult and time consuming WHICH is exactly why I have not chimed in before this.

I do thousands of COMPOSITE charts, which is what this is. As I have learned from the past, the first thing before comparing charts is WHAT POTENTIAL DOES SHE have to have a healthy rel.? And, what potential does HE have, etc. Then we compare the two charts TO each other, then the Composite.

I spend a lot of time studying YOUR chart for the apprx. date that he came into your life. and vice versa.
That tells me what MESSAGE you each have for each other.

WITH PLUTO starting to approach opposition to your Moon since 1/25/08, that why it brought you a Scorpio. Scorps are ruled by Pluto.
Your chart is MAJOR LUNAR - MOON. He has come to teach you about passionate, intense, relationship, loving. Not the kind that is clingy or codependent. That is why he is here.

In my humble opinion; there is no way to say ahead of time whether this rel. is "good" or "bad." The GREAT ADVANTAGE you have is that you are EXTREMELY INTUITIVE. Pay keen attention to your deep gut - I'm not copping out here either. His chart is way too intense for me to say one way or the other. Don't PUT NEED in front of your assessments. Moon in Cancer (as you have) or people with lots of Cancer energy can be very irrational when it comes to emotional need. They need it because they need it because they need it.

Feel with your heart Luke, and you'll know what to do.

Best to you.

[ricochetastroman]

14. Ignore the part about the amplified Moon

why?

because your chart is based upon your birth time where his is based upon a noon (made up) time.
Therefore, the combined chart is incorrectly rotated.

The rest of my analysis, I stand by.

Sorry, thanks, Mercury Rx

[Sweet Freedom]

15. Thanks!

I'm going to read this a couple times and absorb it. I can say that I am able to tell him exactly what I am feeling, which is something I was completely incapable of doing in my marriage. It doesn't seem to bother him, but I think it's forcing him to be a bit more mature than he's used to.

(If you literally meant when he came into my life, I met him six years ago when he started working at the same place I do. I was married then and regardless, thought someone that young would not be interested in me. And then when I was going through my divorce 2 years ago, he married someone out of the blue. He is now divorcing. So while we've known each other and worked together for years, we just discovered our mutual interest for one another on Sept. 2 and our first date was Sept. 4)

SF

[ricochetastroman]

16. This is all from JUPITER, NEPTUNE, CHIRON

sitting on your VENUS (love) in Aquarius, in the 7th house, the house of relationships.

This is a very good sign; one that is fortunate. He is the deliverer of good karma to you; the embodiment.
Don't be scared; this is very good and you have to TRUST IT, the hardest thing for Capricorns.

[Sweet Freedom]

17. You must be a fly on the wall...

I just told my friend today that I was so scared of getting hurt that I may just end it.

The hardest thing indeed!

[ricochetastroman]

18. When that door opens to the cage

does the bird fly out?
Gawd, now that's scary.
And so true.

[Sweet Freedom]

5. ...

[I Have A Dream]

6. I wish that I could help, but I'm just a beginner...

and even trying to interpret a natal chart is a challenge for me. :(

Sweet Freedom, I wish you much love & happiness. If this person is a good person, I hope that it works out between the two of you. (As long as it is for the highest good of all involved.) You deserve good things! :hug:

[Sweet Freedom]

9. Thanks IHAD

I've known him for years and have always secretly crushed, but he's so much younger than me I thought he couldn't possibly be interested. Apparently, I was wrong. :)

[stellanoir]

7. I'll take a look when I have a moment if no one else chimes in first.

Just have a whole lot on my plate right now.

Wish you great happiness and all the best.

In the interim consider trying to get an exact birth time.

The Bureau of Vital Statistics in Austin has specific birth records from 1917 to the present. I've no clue as to whether or not that state has open records.

Maybe try calling them and asking.

It'll really help with the interpretation and is worth a shot.

Remember that every four minutes make a difference.

[Sweet Freedom]

8. I'll see if I can find out. Thanks! /nt

[Sweet Freedom]

10. Well, that was fast.

He's decided to take a break since he's still going through his divorce. I understand, but am sad. :(

[I Have A Dream]

11. I'm sorry, Sweet Freedom.

:(

:hug:

[Sweet Freedom]

12. Thanks, me too. /nt