The other one was via PM.
I can't tell you what to do, but ... well, as I see it, our job isn't to find solace and comfort at DU for its pro-woman positions, but to EDUCATE the damn fools.
Maybe it's just me. I take GREAT comfort and pleasure fromt he fact that literally after years, Admin made "bitch" and "whore" off limits in most cases. I take GREAT pride and pleasure in the fact that the mods are locking more threads than they used to AND deleting more sexist posts than they used to. I think this too is due to Admin's influence. It heartens me.
I quit donating to DU some time ago because of the recalcitrant sexism here which DU ALLOWED (if not encouraged). (I subsequently made a small donation to be able to participate in the Groups.) Now I'm considering trying to make a small donation monthly, as I'd originally planned to do, because I am so PLEASED with the improvement in moderation on sexism issues.
And if you haven't seen it, please check out Skinner's response in this thread:
What in the hell? This is what DU is supporting?
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=104&topic_id=4199240&mesg_id=4199240I told him I was going to make a donation "to celebrate" that decision.
At the same time, I certainly see what seems like an increase in the sexism, so to a very large extent it feels like a wash, especially lately. :-(
There are times when I feel so hit-in-the-gut, so debilitated by all of it that I have to leave all of DU for a while.
But it's also been heartening, and strengthening, for me to feel that I have good support in DU's feminist community, women who will join in with their superb articulation, if not on every thread, then at least on some. It makes a huge difference to me, AND to my own ability to "fight" in the face of so much ugliness, so much hate, so much craven stupidity and self-serving arrogance.
So while I understand how you feel, I really would hate to see you leave entirely. Your presence and participation are NEEDED here.