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We're allowed to point to and criticize posters at other sites, but DU rules forbid us to point to and criticize fellow (I just love that our language isn't in any way gendered) DUers. Any attempt to criticize or correct a poster's misogynistic comments results in belittling us for not having a "thick skin," i.e. "not taking it like a man," a flamewar, deleted posts (we can't have "angry" women speaking out here; it's embarrassing) or deleted threads (see same about angry women).
My experience has been that feminists are despised by the right and the left; those on the right are more honest about their hatred. (*standard disclaimer: I am using generalities in this post in order to keep the post length down. Rather than putting in all the conditionals, i.e., some on the left, some men, some women-who-want-to-be-men, etc. Please read conditionals in the phrasing if that keeps your defenses from going into overload and requiring you begin bashing me for lumping you all together. Thank you.)
I think we're all aware of why men and women-who-want-to-be-men on the right, despise feminists. What is less clear is why men and women-who-want-to-be-men (hereafter referred to as wwwtbm. *please see standard disclaimer.) on the left of the political spectrum despise us as well. Well, here's my theory.
Liberal, leftist, Democratic men and wwwtbm (*see disclaimer) have to deny and hide their prejudices; racism, homophobia, misogyny, ageism, elitism, etc., from themselves and others in order to "belong" to the leftist movements as they have been traditionally perceived and promoted. In other words, the "core values" of leftist movements and politics has been broadcast as diverse, accepting, evolved, caring, etc. Anything outside that "norm" has been ridiculed and dismissed as unworthy of "us."
When we call someone who is of the left, on their prejudice, we have just made them aware that they do not, perhaps, fit the ideal of a progressive, liberal, Democrat, socialist, etc. We have called into question their "right," as they perceive it, to call themselves...pick a label. Because we have pointed out the contradiction, cognitive dissonance can result. Cognitive dissonance is painful in the extreme. It is also, downright terrifying. Humans have a habit of becoming extremely violent when we are terrified. We must get rid of that feeling as quickly as possible. What better way to relieve our terror than to attack someone else or to place the blame on someone else. The "other" caused our feeling of terror therefore the "other" must be removed, silenced, destroyed. Women are the quintessential "other."
As such, we and our labor are the first to be exploited and we and our needs and rights are the first to be jettisoned when any suppressed organization or group attains "respectability." See for example the growth of the early xtian church and its use of women to "spread the word" and the early unions and workers' rights organizations and their use of women's labor to "spread the word" and the position of women in the civil rights movement as defined by one civil rights organization leader, "the only position for women...is prone." As soon as any organization achieves, or more correctly, appears to achieve "respectability," the women, their labor and their rights will be returned to "their place." Women's passion will be labeled as anger, our concerns will be dismissed as selfish and petty and our place will be defined as inconsequential in the "grand scheme of things." Much as has been done to the word and movement called liberal. Guess what they do to women was just a template, huh?
So, to finally come to the point, the Democratic party and leftist organizations and their people, haves attained the perception of "respectable" and its leaders and followers have decided that women, the quintessential "other," are a danger to the liberal, leftist status quo. Anything we say which may "threaten" said "respectability" must be removed, silenced, destroyed lest we cause cognitive dissonance in the "grand scheme of things" with our petty, selfish, angry concerns.
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