There are federal reverse mortgage programs, but the government is not in the business of making reverse mortgages; they still leave that to the banks. The government doesn't "get" your home.
A reverse mortgage requires no repayment for as long as you live in your home.You must be at least 62 years old and own your home (your principal residence) free and clear of any other mortgage, to qualify. You can also use an immediate advance from the reverse mortgage to pay off the existing mortgage. This is subject to loan qualification, of course.
You can take payment on your reverse mortgage as a lump sum, monthly advance, credit line, or combination of these.
When the last surviving borrower dies, sells the home, or permanently moves away, the mortgage then falls due. You could be in default if you don't pay your property taxes, let your homeowner's insurance lapse, or neglect your home's upkeep.When the reverse mortgage falls due, you *(or your heirs)* will owe the total of all cash advances received, plus interest, up to the loan's "nonrecourse" limit. What that means is that you cannot owe more than the value of the home at the time the mortgage falls due. The lender has no recourse to any other assets, either yours or that of your heirs. If the heirs want title to the home, they would need to repay the loan. If the loan balance is less than the home's value, and either you or your heirs pay the amount owed, the lender does not "get" the house.
So, if you end up living in your home for as long (or longer) than you anticipated and/or your home appreciates at low interest rates, you could come out ahead. If you die in just a few years after taking out the reverse mortgage, or interest rates rise substatially, or you decide to sell and relocate, or have to move, say to a nursing home, then you might not.It's quite a complicated financial instrument, and a serious decision that requires full information, so do plenty of research before you or anyone you love makes such a leap.
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