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trumad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 06:16 AM Original message |
Help this straight guy out. Is Queer an OK term to use for Gay and Lesbians? |
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tkmorris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 06:21 AM Response to Original message |
1. I'm pretty sure the OP of that thread is gay |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 06:27 AM Response to Reply #1 |
3. I have no idea what his orientation is, but I'll vouch for him. |
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trumad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 06:28 AM Response to Reply #1 |
7. Confused a bit... |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 10:33 AM Response to Reply #1 |
23. actually that does make it ok, for a lot of us. |
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B Calm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 06:26 AM Response to Original message |
2. Didn't they have a TV show, Queer Eye For the Straight Guy? |
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rfranklin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 06:27 AM Response to Reply #2 |
4. Yes, it was part of the gay agenda... |
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B Calm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 05:34 PM Response to Reply #4 |
36. I thought the gay agenda was for gays to be happily married and |
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donheld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 06:27 AM Response to Original message |
5. I have no problem with it I guess |
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bklyncowgirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 06:28 AM Response to Original message |
6. As a straight person I'd be hesitent to use it. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 10:06 AM Response to Reply #6 |
17. excellent. also a lot of older gay people dont like its use. |
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bklyncowgirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 06:35 PM Response to Reply #17 |
44. Sometimes being PC is just being polite. nt |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 06:31 AM Response to Original message |
8. doesn't bother me when gay folk use it |
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soothsayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 06:34 AM Response to Original message |
9. Us gays are supposed to use that word in order to suck the negativity out of it |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 09:44 AM Response to Reply #9 |
16. its also taking pride in being different. |
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Smarmie Doofus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 07:22 AM Response to Original message |
10. I can't stand it, personally. But.... |
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LiberalFighter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 08:46 AM Response to Original message |
11. Just call them unstraight |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 09:35 AM Response to Reply #11 |
15. unstraight? i am not unstraight. my sexual identity is not defined by what i am not. |
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philosophie_en_rose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 10:46 AM Response to Reply #11 |
30. Does that make me ungay? |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 05:43 PM Response to Reply #11 |
40. That's really offensive |
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Sandaasu (268 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 09:00 AM Response to Original message |
12. I find it to be fine, as long as it's used right. |
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MuseRider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 09:32 AM Response to Original message |
13. It is a good question. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 09:34 AM Response to Original message |
14. ingroup honorifics makes something ok for an ingroup to say and not an outgroup |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 10:34 AM Response to Reply #14 |
25. Good explanation. In-group vs not in-group |
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IndianaJones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 10:08 AM Response to Original message |
18. I like to say "you people". nt. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 10:29 AM Response to Reply #18 |
19. poopy head |
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IndianaJones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 10:30 AM Response to Reply #19 |
20. un-male. nt. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 10:31 AM Response to Reply #20 |
21. lol. unwhite. unstupid. unbigoted. unamerican. i am un-manythings. |
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IndianaJones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 10:31 AM Response to Reply #21 |
22. unwhite is cool. nt. |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 10:38 AM Response to Reply #18 |
27. "Those people" is also always nice. |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 10:34 AM Response to Original message |
24. I would only use it amongst my personal gay friends if it was acceptable. |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 10:36 AM Response to Original message |
26. Don't use it, because someone might take it the wrong way. |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 10:43 AM Response to Original message |
28. I use the term to describe myself. "Queer" is more than sexual identity. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 10:44 AM Response to Reply #28 |
29. yeah that too. |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 10:47 AM Response to Reply #29 |
31. It's annoying to have to define ourselves as "different" from some so-called "norm" isn't it? |
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freebrew (478 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 10:54 AM Response to Original message |
32. There IS a good way to use the term... |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 10:55 AM Response to Reply #32 |
33. preference in regards to sexual orientation is however the one thing that generally pisses off most |
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terrya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 10:59 AM Response to Original message |
34. *I* don't like the word. |
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semillama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 12:41 PM Response to Original message |
35. I think you may have figured it out already, but |
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karlrschneider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 05:38 PM Response to Original message |
37. There must be...("good ways" and "bad ways" I mean.) |
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RebelSansCause (304 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 05:40 PM Response to Original message |
38. i did a program at a university one summer and was eating lunch when |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 05:41 PM Response to Original message |
39. Straight people aren't allowed to. |
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Prefer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 05:48 PM Response to Original message |
41. In the 50's I believe they used to say "happy" as a polite reference |
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TrogL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 06:08 PM Response to Original message |
42. In a formal, literary or scholarly context - yes |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 06:17 PM Response to Original message |
43. Only if you're queer. |
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Maven (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 06:42 PM Response to Original message |
45. The term is an old epithet and still appears here and there as a pejorative |
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Bjorn Against (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 06:50 PM Response to Original message |
46. I view it as similar to the n word... |
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goclark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 07:04 PM Response to Reply #46 |
50. I don't like to call a group something that they don't want others |
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FreeState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 06:54 PM Response to Original message |
47. I use queer - but Im queer too n/t |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 06:56 PM Response to Original message |
48. Unless you're among friends, |
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Didereaux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 06:58 PM Response to Original message |
49. personally I wish to hell they would settle on one term, so we could get back half a dictionary! |
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Neecy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-26-07 07:06 PM Response to Original message |
51. It's often meant in a cultural context... |
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McCamy Taylor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-27-07 12:12 AM Response to Original message |
52. Only if they talk to invisible creatures and collect lint. |
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