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skipos Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 10:15 PM
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Should gay men and lesbians be allowed to serve openly in the U.S. military? (DU THIS POLL)
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madeline_con Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 10:19 PM
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1. K&R
Edited on Fri Nov-30-07 10:19 PM by madeline_con
:kick:

edited to spell kick correctly. :blush:
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NMMNG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 10:20 PM
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2. Done
Should gay men and lesbians be allowed to serve openly in the U.S. military?
Yes 62% 19,817
No 35% 11,132
I'm not sure 4% 1,251

Note on Poll Results
Total Votes: 32,200
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kitp Donating Member (182 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 10:22 PM
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3. done
Edited on Fri Nov-30-07 10:23 PM by kitp
62% yes
35% no
4% not sure

(ps that's 101%)
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Double T Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 10:24 PM
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4. Yes ABSOLUTELY!
It is time for this wacky country to come out of the stone age.
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 10:24 PM
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SharkSquid Donating Member (659 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 10:36 PM
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11. Huh? n/t
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-02-07 05:52 PM
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56. WTF?
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unkachuck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 10:26 PM
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6. done....yes 62%....no 35%....n/t
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Kutjara Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 10:27 PM
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7. No they shouldn't.
Edited on Fri Nov-30-07 10:38 PM by Kutjara
Nor, for that matter, should straight people. America has proven that it can't be trusted to have a military without posing a danger to the rest of the world. Therefore, nobody should be allowed to serve and the military should be disbanded.

If we ask nicely, maybe the Canadians will take us under their strategic umbrella.
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SharkSquid Donating Member (659 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 10:37 PM
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12. Hahahahha
Oh your not joking...

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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-01-07 12:22 PM
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42. Good. Thank you.
Edited on Sat Dec-01-07 12:31 PM by uppityperson
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stillcool Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 10:27 PM
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8. done..
why do AOL polls seem like FOX polls?
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 10:29 PM
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9. done
:bounce:
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 10:34 PM
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10. Done. Of course they should be, if they want to.
But what will happen to them if they do? I'm afraid they'd be targets, just as they are in civilian life, only in the military all the bigots are armed.
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SharkSquid Donating Member (659 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 10:38 PM
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14. YOu underestimate the quality of Miltary personnel n/t
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noamnety Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 11:56 PM
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26. I don't think crim son's underestimating anything.
It's no big secret that we have a systemic problem with male soldiers raping the female soldiers. It's no big secret that the majority of women soldiers experience sexual harassment from the men they work with. And it's no big secret that domestic violence among soldiers is a huge problem. It's also widely known that the military is having a problem with neo-nazis and hate groups.

That doesn't mean all or even most military people do these things, but the reality is that as a woman in the military, the odds are at 90% that you will be sexually harassed on the job, and 30% that you will be sexually assaulted.

It'd be silly to assume that a gay or lesbian would be immune from harassment or assault.

I support their right to serve. And I recognize that crim son's concern is entirely valid. When I talk to women about joining, if they are determined to go in, and I know I can't talk them out of it, I tell the statistics and tell them to at least take a self defense course before they go in. Being realistic about the risks is part of truth-in-recruiting, and part of making sure they are prepared to defend themselves.

It's entirely within the realm of possibility that a lesbian would be a larger target for rape than a heterosexual woman who is married. It's entirely possible that a gay man, if assigned to some unit having problems with hate groups, would be a target. The military culture promotes hypermasculinity, and has a higher rate of gendered violence than the civilian population.
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 11:57 PM
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27. I believe I accurately estimate the quality of human beings in general.
Further, there has been a fair amount of media attention given to what can happen to Military personnel when they are overstressed and/or inadequately trained. Persons in the military are no worse and no better than anybody else.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-01-07 12:24 PM
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43. This from one who talked about military prejudice against women "rotten apple of pregnancy".
If you think so highly of the military regarding sexual orientation, why do you think so lowly regarding sexual physiology?
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=389&topic_id=2369554&mesg_id=2370377
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SharkSquid Donating Member (659 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-02-07 05:07 PM
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49. Uppity I explained this before
ON the referenced board, you are DRASTICALLY blowing up what I say.

Uppity people are mostly assholes BTW.

But if you are proud of it go ahead.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-02-07 05:40 PM
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55. simply repeating what you wrote, posting link to what you wrote.
Edited on Sun Dec-02-07 05:42 PM by uppityperson
Not blowing anything up, but providing link to your words. Are you calling me an asshole? I want to make sure that's what you mean.
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Toasterlad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-01-07 12:35 PM
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48. Having Served in the US Military Myself, I Can Assure You the Fear is Justified.
The military and professional sports are the largest bastions of homophobia left in the United States. Any openly gay soldier or sailor would absolutely be a target of violence and intimidation. However, like all ignorant behavior, it must eventually be challenged to be eliminated. Allowing gays to serve openly is a rubicon that must - and inevitably will - be crossed. At some point in the future, children will be taught about the intolerance of our time and be amazed that human beings could be so ignorant. But we have to live through it, first.
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SharkSquid Donating Member (659 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-02-07 05:09 PM
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50. The military adapts very well
faster and better than civilian society IMHO. That was my point, I hope I clarified my opinion on this subject.
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Thothmes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-03-07 09:31 AM
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58. Think racial integration
A good example. The armed services are probably the most heavily racialy integrated institution in the United States. If the President orders that Gays and Lesbians be allowed to serve openly, the armed services will carry out that order. It will be messy for a while but it will get done. Now the question is which Presidential Candidate would have the back bone to impliment the policy.
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SharkSquid Donating Member (659 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-03-07 02:52 PM
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60. Exactly my point. n/t
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-02-07 05:29 PM
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53. the thing is there are already gays in the army. dont ask dont tell just makes it easier for
homophobes to target them.

if you are afraid of being fired, you would be less likely to point out if someone is hurting you.

:hi:
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PDJane Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 10:38 PM
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13. excuse me.
There are still enough morons to make up 35% of the population?

I keep forgetting about that quirk....gays can get married in the Canadian armed forces.
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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 10:47 PM
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15. voted...results thus far --
Poll Results
Should gay men and lesbians be allowed to serve openly in the U.S. military?
Yes 62% 19,899
No 35% 11,185
I'm not sure 4% 1,253
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gatorboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 10:49 PM
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16. Again, there's that +30% were doomed to stay hostage to.
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 10:58 PM
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Bluebear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 11:00 PM
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18. Take your stupid bigoted bullshit elsewhere. ("oogling" LMAO!!)
Edited on Fri Nov-30-07 11:01 PM by Bluebear
What a fucking disgraceful way to think.
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yardwork Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 11:08 PM
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20. So you automatically assume that gay men make unwelcome advances?
It sounds like you can't trust yourself to be alone in a room full of women without ogling them and making sexual advances to them. Right?

Every heterosexual man would just naturally ogle and make unwelcome sexual advances on any woman, right?

No? That's not right? Then why do you assume that gay men would do that?

You are SO unwelcome to DU.
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Bluebear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 11:18 PM
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21. That's "oogling" to you
:silly:
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yardwork Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-01-07 12:07 PM
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35. My freeper is far from fluent - I'm working hard, but it's a difficult language to master.
It's so irregular.

:P
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gatorboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 11:19 PM
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22. Are you sure you weren't just giving out the wrong signals?
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Maven Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-01-07 12:00 AM
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30. STFU.
Seriously.
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David__77 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 11:07 PM
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19. They should be able to, but I hope they don't.
I wouldn't ever encourage anyone to join the armed forces with how they're being horribly misused.
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bellasgrams Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 11:25 PM
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24. I think it should stay don't ask don't tell
for their own safety. Too many macho guys would like to hurt or possibly kill a gay just for being gay. Especially now that they have lowered there standards for the military. Besides, it's no ones business.
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noamnety Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-01-07 12:05 AM
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32. logic problems with your last line.
"it's no one's business."

If your orientation is nobody's business, that means the heterosexuals should serve under don't ask don't tell also. So if they have a spouse or a girlfriend/boyfriend, they shouldn't be allowed to mention them by name, have them live on post, bring them to military functions, etc.

Oops, that doesn't work.

The reason it doesn't work is that there's a difference between saying "it's not your business" (my right to control what private information I release about myself), and putting a gag order on another person.

It's not your business what religion I am. <-- okay statement.
You are not allowed to tell people what religion you are. <-- not an okay statement.
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yardwork Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-01-07 12:10 PM
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37. Here's a news flash - plenty of gay men are "macho guys."
If gays and lesbians were allowed to serve openly, I think that most of the United States would be astounded at the large number who are currently serving. It might be the bigots who were scared, for a change.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-02-07 05:14 PM
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51. dont ask dont tell doesnt protect. it adds institutionalized homophobia
to personal homophobia. doubling someone's chances of being killed for being gay
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-02-07 05:58 PM
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57. So, according to you, it's okay for heterosexuals to talk about their lives, but not gays?
Plenty of gay men are "macho guys," and military law will protect them from harassment. Currently, they're subject to harassment without protection, because coming forward about harassment often leads into an investigation about their sexual orientation.

We're the only NATO country, aside from Turkey, that doesn't allow openly gay troops to serve. Our troops already serve with openly gay soldiers the rest of the NATO countries.
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bonito Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 11:22 PM
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23. A wedge issue for homophobes imo
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patrice Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 11:53 PM
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25. Done - Fun blog! nt
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Renew Deal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 11:57 PM
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28. Yes, the new policy should be called "Act dumb, get fired."
Edited on Fri Nov-30-07 11:58 PM by Bleachers7
People work with openly gay and closeted gay people in every other job and environment. Why should the military be different? There are already policies and laws about sexual harassment in the workplace. Eliminate don't ask, don't tell and follow the existing law.
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yardwork Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-01-07 12:12 PM
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39. Exactly. But then the military might have to address the high level of sexual harrassment
that is currently tolerated among heterosexuals serving in the military. They already hide the large number of rapes that occur - or even blame the victims.
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cynthia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-30-07 11:58 PM
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29. with 32,591 votes in
Yes 61% 20,043
No 35% 11,291
Unsure 4% 1,257

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spag68 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-01-07 12:04 AM
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31. It's just midevil
that even 35% of people still have a question about this.
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Tom Joad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-01-07 12:32 AM
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33. People who have ever participated in any sexual activities should be excluded from the US military
or even thought about it.

This would make the world a much safer place.
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yardwork Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-01-07 12:08 PM
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36. That'll do it. That's the ticket.
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me b zola Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-01-07 01:26 AM
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34. 62% say yes
:thumbsup:
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IndianaJones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-01-07 12:11 PM
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38. I would support it IF...
we could maybe call it something else.
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yardwork Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-01-07 12:13 PM
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40. ....
Edited on Sat Dec-01-07 12:13 PM by yardwork
:hi:

Edited to add: I don't know why you don't get DUzies on a regular basis.
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IndianaJones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-01-07 12:14 PM
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41. getting shot at is a sacred thing to many Americans. nt.
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ruggerson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-01-07 12:25 PM
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44. Civil service?
n/t
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IndianaJones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-01-07 12:26 PM
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45. civil soldiering. nt.
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ruggerson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-01-07 12:33 PM
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46. domestic defense
n/t
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IndianaJones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-01-07 12:34 PM
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47. seperate but equal is as American as apple pie and bigotry. lets get a taco. nt.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-02-07 05:16 PM
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52. ABSOLUTELY BRILLIANT. you have guts to post this w.out a sarcasm tag
but your pointing out how this argument relates to the marriage vs. civil union argument (that liberals like to support as well) is brilliant.

kudos.

:thumbsup:
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0007 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-02-07 05:31 PM
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54. voted yes
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Fleshdancer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-03-07 09:39 AM
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59. how do you ask someone to put their lives on the line inside of a closet?
I never understood don't ask don't tell. It's absolutely absurd.
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