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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:01 PM Original message |
I was "pre-tipped" last night at a table |
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Just-plain-Kathy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:04 PM Response to Original message |
1. I have a brother inlaw who pre-tips at weddings so his glass is always full. n/t |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:07 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. I've been in the restaurant business for 15 years |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:05 PM Response to Original message |
2. I like that! |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:05 PM Response to Original message |
3. hmmm -- there's one i haven't heard of. |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:08 PM Response to Reply #3 |
7. I'm in Maine |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:23 PM Response to Reply #7 |
19. change of subject -- do you get good tourist trade |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 11:44 PM Response to Reply #19 |
50. yeah, we're right near a hotel. So we certainly get our fair share of the tourists. |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:06 PM Response to Original message |
4. Good. And Bad...10% WTH??? |
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msanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:07 PM Response to Original message |
6. My dad would do it at the opera. At intermission, drinks were at the ready. n/t |
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Nicole Lambeth (419 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
8. that's awesome! |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:13 PM Response to Reply #8 |
10. waiting tables was something I had never planned on going back to |
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Nicole Lambeth (419 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:58 PM Response to Reply #10 |
34. you do what you can to survive |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-11-09 12:01 AM Response to Reply #34 |
55. thanks Nicole, and welcome to DU |
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enough (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:10 PM Response to Original message |
9. You're giving me a chance to ask a question about tipping. |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:18 PM Response to Reply #9 |
13. cash. |
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KatyMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:14 PM Response to Original message |
11. Wouldn't a better word for 'pre-tipping' be |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:20 PM Response to Reply #11 |
15. depends on how it is used I suppose |
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KatyMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:45 PM Response to Reply #15 |
31. So |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 11:43 PM Response to Reply #31 |
49. I always put forth my best effort, |
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Blue_Tires (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:15 PM Response to Original message |
12. the only time i've seen pre-tipping |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:22 PM Response to Reply #12 |
18. "The daughters in their twenties" had a lot of money to throw around too. |
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Contrary1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:18 PM Response to Original message |
14. A friend of ours had a similar approach... |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:21 PM Response to Reply #14 |
17. that's kind of assholy-ish. |
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Contrary1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:24 PM Response to Reply #17 |
23. Nah, he wasn't an ass about it...they knew he was goofing off with them. |
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DS1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 02:03 PM Response to Reply #17 |
37. Agreed |
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NeedleCast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:24 PM Response to Reply #14 |
22. I HATE that shit |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:47 PM Response to Reply #14 |
32. That's horrible. It's overly "sing for your supper" IMO. |
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burning rain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 02:32 PM Response to Reply #14 |
43. The fact that different servers wanted the table doesn't make what your friend did right. |
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Luminous Animal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 08:59 PM Response to Reply #14 |
48. Nothing like keeping the servants subservient! |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-11-09 01:52 AM Response to Reply #14 |
59. Did he offer to save them some of his salad? or an onion ring? |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:20 PM Response to Original message |
16. Of course. It's entirely rational. |
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havocmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:24 PM Response to Original message |
20. I know a few who KNOW they are a pain in the ass to wait staff so they pre-tip |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 11:47 PM Response to Reply #20 |
51. I like your thinking! |
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Blue_In_AK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:24 PM Response to Original message |
21. I wasn't going to get in on the "tipping wars," |
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NeedleCast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:31 PM Response to Reply #21 |
25. Yeah, The protocol is probably inform a manager |
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Blue_In_AK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:40 PM Response to Reply #25 |
28. We didn't notice it at any other restaurant, |
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NeedleCast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:49 PM Response to Reply #28 |
33. Yeah, that's just straight up theft IMO |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:37 PM Response to Reply #21 |
27. You must have met up with some Palin relatives. |
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poverlay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:42 PM Response to Reply #21 |
29. In 20 years of waiting tables I would never have done such a thing without asking " Do you want |
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Arkansas Granny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 02:12 PM Response to Reply #29 |
38. I have been asked before if I need any change back. If the change is about what |
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NeedleCast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 02:27 PM Response to Reply #38 |
41. You Did Right |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 08:55 PM Response to Reply #38 |
47. We've had a time or two |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 11:48 PM Response to Reply #21 |
52. I never ask if someone needs change. I just always bring the cash |
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hellbound-liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:27 PM Response to Original message |
24. My mother, first told me about "pre-tipping" many years ago. |
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Stinky The Clown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:36 PM Response to Original message |
26. The girls read DU |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 06:49 PM Response to Reply #26 |
45. It's a good thing that they were generous and had the money to spare. |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 01:42 PM Response to Original message |
30. I generally leave twenty percent--that's my starting point. |
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Libertyfirst (583 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 02:01 PM Response to Original message |
35. Always pretip if I have a party of six or more. Hand the wait person |
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JanMichael (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 02:03 PM Response to Original message |
36. So, you knew, in all likelihood, you weren't waiting on DUers! |
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Carni (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 02:22 PM Response to Original message |
39. Never heard of pre-tipping |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 11:53 PM Response to Reply #39 |
53. I'm not quite sure. This is my first experience with a pre-tip. |
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sinkingfeeling (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 02:24 PM Response to Original message |
40. Is pre-tipping the new bribe? |
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NeedleCast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 02:32 PM Response to Reply #40 |
44. As an ex-server/manager, I don't mind it |
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fob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 02:31 PM Response to Original message |
42. There was a program on tv,(forget what channel) and they had a snippet |
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rockymountaindem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 08:34 PM Response to Original message |
46. I've always thought you of the low classes should just be happy with the $2.12/hr mandated by law |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-10-09 11:59 PM Response to Reply #46 |
54. we get half of minimum wage, so that's 3.625 per hour |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-11-09 12:50 AM Response to Original message |
56. I'll often pre-tip a bartender, particularly in a crowded place. |
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Betty88 (437 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-11-09 07:37 AM Response to Reply #56 |
60. the magic $20 |
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Systematic Chaos (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-11-09 12:57 AM Response to Original message |
57. Unless my service has been godawful I always tip very high. |
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Truth2Tell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-11-09 12:57 AM Response to Original message |
58. Back when I used to drink professionally |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-11-09 09:21 AM Response to Original message |
61. I do something similar any time I'm with a large group, and .... |
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