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I have had a convergence of bad personal events. I lost my job last month and cannot draw unemployment due to the way I lost it (see below), and at the end of the month my lease is up and I cannot renew. Even so, I was going to move into a smaller place anyway, but without a job or income, getting housing was and is a barrier. I loved living in this apartment, but unfortunately, the complex changed hands and when it did, the rent was raised-- a lot. Meanwhile, due to all the sick and short-term disability time I had in the last two years, my income was much smaller than in proceeding years. Therefore, I have no savings at this point.
The safety net for single guys in this state sucks. I am seeking disability due to conditions I have, which have not only impaired my work performance, (again, see below), but led to my losing my job. Nevertheless, I am also seeking work and I am not giving up on it. I do want to work. If I get disability, I will write to supplement my income as long as I can. I have been given food stamps, and a friend did forward me a grant. I don't think I could ask him for any more.
In all of this, I received good and bad news from my doctor. The good news-- actually mixed news, is that he considers me to be almost totally disabled, so eventually I can draw disability and SSI. The bad news is he gave a poor prognosis. He reminded me that I had a very serious condition, which is going to deteriorate as I grow older. I'm already 50. I have both bipolar illness and long term effects from head injury. Between the two of them, I am going to become progressively more impaired. When I lost my job, I was about forty percent slower than normal-- I was on a job where your speed was measured in detail.
It does almost sound like fiction at this point, (unfortunately it isn't) but I also need medications if I am going to keep anything together at all. Almost all (yes, I'm on that many) are generics, and the ones that aren't I can get generic I can get samples from my doctors. However, a few of these drugs are expensive even as generics. One is $133 generic, and it is absolutely the most effective bipolar medication that I take.
I have few possibilities for housing right now. My landlord has agreed to extend my time for a few days, but at the same high cost-- money I don't have. After that, I could live out of my car. I don't know if I could keep that together though, as much as I'd like to see if I could.
I have to admit that I have one sentimental requirement for actual housing: it has to allow me to keep my cat, and the cat, I'm afraid, can't live with any other, though she is extremely friendly with people. I just got her in February, she was a rescue but they couldn't find a home for her. She spent six months in a cage, they really loved her and wanted her adopted. I don't want to part with her, even a "temporary" arrangement where she is boarded in a cage. I wish she got along with other cats, but that's what made her unadoptable. Having her saved my life immediately after I lost my job because I really couldn't stand to commit suicide and have her put in a cage again, and eventually having to be put down. She is very significant to me.
So, the one tiny, noisy bedroom at my relative's house with the three other cats might not work. I might have to make it work for a while, but it's going to be trying on the cats nerves and mine. Other choices include moving to another state where I have other relatives, but that would pretty much cancel the disability that I would get from this state and also separate me from my doctor when I need him. My family is already over-loaded with other hardship. So, they can't be counted on for anything but crash-space.
I have a lot of problems to solve in a very short time, and I have trouble both planning and sticking to plans. Some days when I get up, it takes hours for me to remember what I should be doing. Even after I do, it's hard to restrain my impulse and not do something else.
I will take whatever suggestion anyone can make. I have a list of resources from Vocational Rehab, but I just started to call them on Friday. I am filling out the very long paperwork for both medicaid and SSI. But that doesn't do anything for short term income. I am seeking freelance work, which hasn't paid off for anything yet. I can write, but I can't really speak well. With writing I can take my time with what to say, not so when I'm speaking. This doesn't make for good job interviews.
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