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ccharles000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 09:57 PM Original message |
Dude, You’ve Got Problems |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 09:58 PM Response to Original message |
1. I thought this was excellent. nt |
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Stellabella (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 09:59 PM Response to Original message |
2. My dh is a teacher, and he STOMPS on this. |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 08:46 AM Response to Reply #2 |
51. dh? |
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Stellabella (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:28 AM Response to Reply #51 |
56. dear husband |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 01:38 PM Response to Reply #51 |
69. "Designated Hitter" ... in an American League marriage. |
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AnnieBW (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:10 PM Response to Original message |
3. Only now? |
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Peace_Sells (130 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:17 PM Response to Original message |
4. no subject |
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ccharles000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:23 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. Welcome to DU |
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Peace_Sells (130 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:34 PM Response to Reply #6 |
12. Thanks |
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8 track mind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:32 PM Response to Reply #4 |
10. I've been there man |
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Peace_Sells (130 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:44 PM Response to Reply #10 |
16. hi |
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8 track mind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 11:10 PM Response to Reply #16 |
25. It changed my whole life |
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Canuckistanian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:35 PM Response to Reply #4 |
13. Welcome to DU |
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Peace_Sells (130 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:45 PM Response to Reply #13 |
18. Thanks |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 01:38 AM Response to Reply #4 |
29. Welcome to DU and lord knows I know exactly what you talk about |
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Stargazer09 (625 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:59 PM Response to Reply #4 |
64. Welcome to DU! |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 02:26 PM Response to Reply #4 |
73. Welcome to DU. A lot of us have been there or skirted that hell, gay or straight. |
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NYC_SKP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:19 PM Response to Original message |
5. This is why, to this day, Jocks and smartasses in school really disturb me. |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:25 PM Response to Original message |
7. People only bully you as long as you allow them to. |
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dorkulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:32 PM Response to Reply #7 |
11. Such naive BS. |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:55 PM Response to Reply #11 |
20. I've been there. I know of what I speak. |
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dorkulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 11:10 PM Response to Reply #20 |
24. I agree with that, but |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 11:19 PM Response to Reply #24 |
26. Nobody deserves to be tormented for being nice. |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 01:44 AM Response to Reply #26 |
30. I stood up, hit back didn't help |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 01:53 AM Response to Reply #30 |
31. Fair enough. |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 02:13 AM Response to Reply #31 |
32. I think that in some cases fighting back works though |
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VOX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 04:32 PM Response to Reply #32 |
79. Agreed. In some situations, fighting back can take power away from the bully... |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 03:26 AM Response to Reply #20 |
38. A gentle soul, low self exteme, |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 06:08 AM Response to Reply #38 |
42. True enough. |
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sampsonblk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 01:19 PM Response to Reply #11 |
67. Standing up to a bully almost always ends it. Even if its a crowd. |
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Peace_Sells (130 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:41 PM Response to Reply #7 |
14. no sub |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 11:07 PM Response to Reply #14 |
23. I know how serious it is. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:42 PM Response to Reply #7 |
15. Nonsense. I was bullied incessantly throughout my school career |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:58 PM Response to Reply #15 |
21. Well where I come from you don't pick on girls like that. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 02:52 AM Response to Reply #15 |
36. I always stuck up for kids like you |
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Stargazer09 (625 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 01:02 PM Response to Reply #36 |
65. That's great! |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 06:37 PM Response to Reply #65 |
86. yes it does |
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Lilith Velkor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 09:21 AM Response to Reply #15 |
53. I've taken on packs before - you pick the biggest boy and bust his head open |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 09:27 AM Response to Reply #53 |
54. "bust his head open" |
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Lilith Velkor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:39 PM Response to Reply #54 |
63. Getting picked on is different than getting beaten and molested by a pack |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 03:14 PM Response to Reply #63 |
74. I never suggested what you did offended me |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 06:45 PM Response to Reply #63 |
88. Kill 'em there so you won't have to kill 'em at home later? |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 06:43 PM Response to Reply #53 |
87. I wasn't raised that way and I NEVER would choose violence |
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Wednesdays (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 11:07 PM Response to Reply #7 |
22. HAH! You "stand up for yourself" and you get blamed for the whole ordeal |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 11:35 PM Response to Reply #22 |
27. You don't have to do it in front of anyone. |
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conscious evolution (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 06:31 AM Response to Reply #27 |
43. I have to agree with you |
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Wednesdays (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 06:40 AM Response to Reply #27 |
44. I guess I don't know what I'm talking about, huh? |
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ellie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:42 AM Response to Reply #44 |
61. Her dragging you |
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Wednesdays (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 01:34 PM Response to Reply #61 |
68. Sigh...solve violence with violence |
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ellie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 10:02 PM Response to Reply #68 |
94. No, not at all. |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 06:26 PM Response to Reply #7 |
83. You pull that shit these days and you go to jail. |
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chill_wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:29 PM Response to Original message |
8. K & R n/t |
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dorkulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:30 PM Response to Original message |
9. I don't know if it's really possible to stop kids from being mean to each other. |
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Toucano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:45 PM Response to Reply #9 |
17. +1 |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 03:38 AM Response to Reply #17 |
39. You're wrong. |
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Toucano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 09:02 AM Response to Reply #39 |
52. By all means, proceed. |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 10:29 AM Response to Reply #52 |
55. The world would be |
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givemebackmycountry (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:49 PM Response to Original message |
19. "TONY" by Patti Griffin |
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file83 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 01:31 AM Response to Original message |
28. When a bully calls you "fag"... |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 02:16 AM Response to Original message |
33. I went to junior high and high school with one of the preeminent violinists in the world |
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Bluebear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 02:21 AM Response to Reply #33 |
34. OMG what a sublime piece of music :) |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 02:40 AM Response to Reply #34 |
35. The CD is beautiful, isn't it? |
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Mopar151 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 03:23 AM Response to Reply #33 |
37. Important points, to be sure |
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Hannah Bell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 03:44 AM Response to Reply #33 |
41. he makes mountlake terrace in the 70s sound like it was the ghetto. it wasn't. |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:33 AM Response to Reply #41 |
57. Here we go again, Hannah |
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Hannah Bell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 03:16 PM Response to Reply #57 |
75. i don't disbelieve him. i don't disbelieve you. but i lived in the south end. |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 05:45 PM Response to Reply #75 |
81. And your point is? |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 06:32 PM Response to Reply #75 |
84. What are you trying to say?! |
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MrsMatt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 01:15 PM Response to Reply #33 |
66. Edgar Meyer is the 3rd performer |
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canetoad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 03:40 AM Response to Original message |
40. Hate to say this son, but |
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shadowknows69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 07:15 AM Response to Reply #40 |
48. What has changed is the intensity of that situation |
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shadowknows69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 06:48 AM Response to Original message |
45. The hate has increased exponentially over the years |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 06:59 AM Response to Original message |
46. You will never stop bullying. YOU FOOLS. |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:37 AM Response to Reply #46 |
59. So, in other words, that's okay. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 06:55 PM Response to Reply #59 |
92. Deleted message |
VOX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 04:44 PM Response to Reply #46 |
80. Geez, you don't have to be a bully about bullying. Was that upper-case "YOU FOOLS" really necessary? |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 06:52 PM Response to Reply #80 |
91. You have to let fools understand that THEY ARE FOOLS. |
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cabbage08 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 07:00 AM Response to Original message |
47. K&R |
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Rockholm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 07:20 AM Response to Original message |
49. An 11-year old hung himself recently. Same thing. |
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chrisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 08:43 AM Response to Original message |
50. The problem is that most teachers don't care, or... |
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Catherine Vincent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:35 AM Response to Original message |
58. Everytime one of these bullying threads open on DU, |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:41 AM Response to Reply #58 |
60. Maybe the bullies are the ones saying we'll never get rid of it... |
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Lilith Velkor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:18 PM Response to Reply #60 |
62. Mandatory martial arts in elementary school would get rid of most of it |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 01:41 PM Response to Reply #58 |
70. Oh, I used to bully people. |
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ieoeja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 02:00 PM Response to Reply #70 |
72. No. But I've known enough bullies in life to know you really believe that. |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 03:27 PM Response to Reply #72 |
76. Oh I don't believe that for a second. |
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ieoeja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 03:40 PM Response to Reply #76 |
77. Like I said, I know that's what you believe. |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 04:00 PM Response to Reply #77 |
78. Alright. |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 06:21 PM Response to Reply #76 |
82. I didn't |
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RedCappedBandit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 06:47 PM Response to Reply #76 |
90. Hahahahahahahahahhaha. nt |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 12:35 AM Response to Reply #76 |
95. I never bullied. |
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Reterr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 01:13 AM Response to Reply #70 |
96. You don't say! |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 01:44 PM Response to Reply #58 |
71. We actually did have a former bully confess to us at one time. |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 06:34 PM Response to Reply #58 |
85. Oh, you'll find the bullies. They don't come out and say so, but |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 08:55 PM Response to Reply #85 |
93. Well, a few of them do come out and say so |
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RedCappedBandit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 06:46 PM Response to Original message |
89. Thread is full of ignorance. |
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