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Omaha Steve (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 05:39 PM Original message |
Overflowing toilet leads to child neglect case (single mom was working to provide 4 them) |
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Mz Pip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 05:42 PM Response to Original message |
1. While I do feel bad for the |
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lame54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 08:14 PM Response to Reply #1 |
55. What's your solution for this particular dilemma? |
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Canuckistanian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 08:53 PM Response to Reply #55 |
67. You appeal to a social worker that you're unable to cope. |
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midnight (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 10:33 PM Response to Reply #55 |
87. Can you imgaine the Sophie's choice that mother has to make |
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Number23 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 08:39 PM Response to Reply #1 |
60. I could not agree more. ANYTHING could have happened to those children |
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MrCoffee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 05:45 PM Response to Original message |
2. Leaving a 4 year old and a 2 year old home alone is neglect. |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 05:50 PM Response to Original message |
3. Single mother made a dangerous choice. |
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backtoblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:55 AM Response to Reply #3 |
127. Sad situation altogether |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 05:52 PM Response to Original message |
4. as clear a case of child neglect as anyone could find |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 05:56 PM Response to Original message |
5. My mom left my brother and I alone... |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 06:54 PM Response to Reply #5 |
21. My father had to take us to work when my mother was in the hospital. |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 08:17 PM Response to Reply #5 |
57. It's not abuse, it's neglect |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 07:20 AM Response to Reply #57 |
111. I re-read my post |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 10:20 AM Response to Reply #111 |
129. You didn't seem to imply that at all... |
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zazen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 06:19 PM Response to Original message |
6. and where the hell was the Dad or Dads? where are fathers' rights advocates on this? |
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csziggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:19 PM Response to Reply #6 |
26. "the father has been cited for child neglect" |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 08:21 PM Response to Reply #6 |
58. Dad might be dead |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 08:41 PM Response to Reply #58 |
61. Yet another source says he has been cited for 'child neglet' |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 09:31 PM Response to Reply #61 |
73. Then it's not fair to judge him |
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TorchTheWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:40 AM Response to Reply #58 |
107. the mother may not know who the father is |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 08:43 PM Response to Reply #6 |
62. Deadbeat dads? SHE is the one who left her toddlers alone. |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 08:45 PM Response to Reply #62 |
63. What about the father who was cited for 'child neglet'? |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 08:47 PM Response to Reply #63 |
64. If this was a two parent household, then there's no excuse for either mom or dad. n/t |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 08:50 PM Response to Reply #64 |
66. Ok so you make that judgment without knowing what the father was doing |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 09:06 PM Response to Reply #66 |
69. "the kids said that mom goes to work and leaves them to watch tv" |
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Arkansas Granny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 01:33 PM Response to Reply #63 |
171. The fact that he was cited for child neglect makes me wonder if he |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 06:25 PM Response to Original message |
7. It isn't as if she left them to go drinking and dancing. Instead of |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 06:28 PM Response to Reply #7 |
10. I agree with this. It was neglect, but not malicious, selfish neglect. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 06:39 PM Response to Reply #10 |
16. Why are you justifying it, qualifying different types of neglect? Age 4 and 2? Left alone? |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 06:42 PM Response to Reply #16 |
17. Do you consider yourself a feminist? |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 09:48 PM Response to Reply #17 |
79. A feminist can't call that outright neglect? |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 06:57 PM Response to Reply #16 |
22. They're different qualifying types for homicide |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:13 PM Response to Reply #22 |
24. Leaving children 2 and 4 alone is not an option |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:20 PM Response to Reply #24 |
27. It makes me wonder what her options were |
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kiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:21 PM Response to Reply #24 |
28. No, but unfortunatly it's a reality. |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:37 PM Response to Reply #24 |
33. Reality is what you're left with when you can't afford "options". |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:42 PM Response to Reply #33 |
41. Not leave a 2 and 4 year old alone. Are you saying that's okay? |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:44 PM Response to Reply #41 |
42. I asked first. How would you have had her handle the situation? |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:46 PM Response to Reply #42 |
44. Pardon me. I'm not in for the belligerence here. Thank you. |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:51 PM Response to Reply #44 |
47. Now who's projecting? |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:53 PM Response to Reply #47 |
49. "I asked first" ---- oh look, I answered and you ignored it. |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 12:05 AM Response to Reply #42 |
101. I tell you what I never would have done as a single |
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KitchenWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 01:07 PM Response to Reply #41 |
147. And get evicted from her and her children's home because she can't pay rent. |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 09:00 PM Response to Reply #16 |
68. Because I am poor and a mother, and I've made hard choices too. |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 09:24 PM Response to Reply #68 |
71. Neglect is neglect |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 09:37 PM Response to Reply #71 |
75. You assume too much. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 10:21 PM Response to Reply #75 |
83. NOT at 2 and 4 YEARS old |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 10:58 PM Response to Reply #83 |
88. Well let me put it this way: |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 11:50 PM Response to Reply #88 |
97. "It doesn't matter how unthinkable it is, or how obviously wrong--it's GOING to get worse." |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 10:25 PM Response to Reply #75 |
85. It is NEVER okay to leave a 2 yr old and a 4 yr old alone. |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 11:01 PM Response to Reply #85 |
89. Of course it isn't. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 11:34 PM Response to Reply #89 |
94. The neglect was caused DIRECTLY by the mother's judgement |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 11:35 PM Response to Reply #89 |
95. . |
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Kool Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 12:39 AM Response to Reply #89 |
105. Very well said. |
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ima_sinnic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 01:49 PM Response to Reply #71 |
172. holier-than-thou, sanctimonious, judgmental people are so delightful |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 10:13 PM Response to Reply #68 |
82. How absurd. |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 11:02 PM Response to Reply #82 |
90. Well that settles that. |
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Hippo_Tron (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 09:40 PM Response to Reply #16 |
76. What she did was wrong... |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 10:23 PM Response to Reply #76 |
84. And how long had this "desparation" gone on, gambling, before she was found out? |
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Hippo_Tron (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 11:53 PM Response to Reply #84 |
98. Clearly she needs outside intervention |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 11:15 PM Response to Reply #16 |
93. News to you: the world is NOT black & white. There are degrees of almost everything. -nt |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 11:54 PM Response to Reply #93 |
99. Do you have a point or just a drive by? You think 2 children under 5 should be left alone? |
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Duer 157099 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 06:46 PM Response to Reply #10 |
18. Classes? And who will watch the children while she's there? |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:25 PM Response to Reply #18 |
29. Maybe have the classes before the children? |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:40 PM Response to Reply #29 |
36. No prob -- I'll just fire up the time machine... |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:41 PM Response to Reply #36 |
39. Drop your projections. |
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dropkickpa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 01:28 PM Response to Reply #29 |
148. And there it is! |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:34 PM Response to Reply #148 |
158. The justification in this thread for leaving a toddler and 4 year old alone is truly bizarre. |
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dropkickpa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 07:32 AM Response to Reply #158 |
164. I was commenting on YOUR attitude |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 11:28 AM Response to Reply #164 |
168. your mistake |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 11:11 PM Response to Reply #18 |
92. You take your kids WITH you to parenting classes. That's the point. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 11:36 PM Response to Reply #92 |
96. "trying to raise kids while struggling to survive" |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 08:25 PM Response to Reply #10 |
59. Neglect is neglect |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:42 PM Response to Reply #7 |
40. And removing the children from her care sounds like |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 11:06 AM Response to Reply #40 |
131. Exactly. Jailing and fining her are not the answer. Foster care isn't the |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 11:07 AM Response to Reply #40 |
132. dupe. nt |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:48 AM Response to Reply #7 |
125. What if they burned the building down? So many |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 11:04 AM Response to Reply #125 |
130. I DIDN'T SAY THEY SHOULD BE LEFT ALONE, for crying out loud. I was talking |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 11:10 AM Response to Reply #130 |
133. No need to yell. |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 11:13 AM Response to Reply #133 |
135. This was also a reply to the rest of this portion of the thread, capped to get their attention. |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 11:19 AM Response to Reply #135 |
137. I don't think she should be thrown in jail, but something needs to be done. |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 11:28 AM Response to Reply #137 |
140. No one is arguing with you on that. I was stating that there is no |
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OmmmSweetOmmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 06:27 PM Response to Original message |
8. This is child neglect, plain and simple. We need free, safe childcare for poor working parents. |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 06:33 PM Response to Reply #8 |
12. Who is neglecting the children, the mother trying to keep |
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OmmmSweetOmmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 06:50 PM Response to Reply #12 |
20. Both. |
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Number23 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 08:47 PM Response to Reply #8 |
65. That is so true. And "safe" is the operative word here |
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OmmmSweetOmmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:03 AM Response to Reply #65 |
113. On our income tax returns there is a child tax credit but it's not large enough. In the case |
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janx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 06:27 PM Response to Original message |
9. I have always wondered, having been a single mother myself, |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:46 PM Response to Reply #9 |
45. I've heard of such co-opts |
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janx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:59 PM Response to Reply #45 |
50. I've never heard of it! But I've always wondered why some kind |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 08:09 PM Response to Reply #50 |
52. Yup - I think it might be quite workable |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 06:32 PM Response to Original message |
11. When I worked as a warehouse supervisor, we had one guy who was a great |
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Art_from_Ark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 09:52 PM Response to Reply #11 |
81. I once worked with a guy like that, too |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 06:34 PM Response to Original message |
13. no mention of the father, as usual |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:41 PM Response to Reply #13 |
38. Someone else posted that the Dad was cited for child neglect. |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 06:36 PM Response to Original message |
14. A woman with children that young should not be expected to work outside the home. |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 06:39 PM Response to Reply #14 |
15. Bingo.. |
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Laelth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:16 PM Response to Reply #14 |
25. Hear, hear! n/t |
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Hippo_Tron (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 09:48 PM Response to Reply #14 |
78. This is why I'm still adamantly opposed to "welfare reform" |
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nadine_mn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 06:50 PM Response to Original message |
19. neglect - yes... should she have been arrested.. nope |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:00 PM Response to Original message |
23. How's about the do-goody social workers help her out with child care |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:32 PM Response to Reply #23 |
31. Careful -- that might involve work. |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:47 PM Response to Reply #31 |
46. they get money for yanking kids from their parents |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 10:31 PM Response to Reply #46 |
86. Social workers get money for taking kids out of their homes?? |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 07:51 AM Response to Reply #86 |
112. Not directly, but there is a bounty put on kids' heads for putting them in foster care |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 11:12 AM Response to Reply #112 |
134. If it's the law I am thinking of, |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 12:00 PM Response to Reply #134 |
144. Nothing, except when it's used as an incentive to remove |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 12:41 PM Response to Reply #144 |
145. But if the money goes to the families |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 12:57 PM Response to Reply #145 |
146. the money goes to the agencies |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:53 AM Response to Reply #46 |
126. what a disgusting and completely false claim. |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:29 PM Response to Reply #126 |
157. Wrong nt |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 09:28 PM Response to Reply #23 |
72. How about helping her with child care and also penalizing her? |
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Hippo_Tron (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 09:44 PM Response to Reply #72 |
77. She should have a social worker check up on her periodically |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:08 AM Response to Reply #72 |
114. Perhaps some community service? |
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flying rabbit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:31 PM Response to Original message |
30. Where does it say she was single? |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:35 PM Response to Reply #30 |
32. Well they didn't arrest a father for child neglet |
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flying rabbit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:38 PM Response to Reply #32 |
34. See post 26 |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:46 PM Response to Reply #34 |
43. That article says the mom was at work as well |
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flying rabbit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:52 PM Response to Reply #43 |
48. It is a bit confusing. n/t |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:39 PM Response to Original message |
35. Well I think that 4 years old and 2 years old are way too young |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 08:04 PM Response to Reply #35 |
51. I agree. Also, according to the story the kids said that this was the normal routine. |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 07:40 PM Response to Original message |
37. This sucks in so many ways. |
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AzDar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 08:11 PM Response to Original message |
53. She needs HELP, not criminal charges. |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 08:14 PM Response to Original message |
54. Sorry Steve, that's called neglect |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 08:16 PM Response to Reply #54 |
56. My question is what the father was doing while she was at work |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 09:21 PM Response to Reply #56 |
70. Maybe he's dead |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:35 AM Response to Reply #56 |
118. I'd like to know that too |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 09:51 PM Response to Reply #54 |
80. She's 33. She should know better. I hope someone monitors |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 11:21 AM Response to Reply #80 |
139. Age and Ability to Reproduce do not a good parent make. nt |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:03 PM Response to Reply #139 |
149. It helps if you're out of your early 20s and your brain has developed. n/t |
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ZombieHorde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 09:31 PM Response to Original message |
74. Sad story, child care should be socialized. nt |
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rcrush (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 11:03 PM Response to Original message |
91. That free day care from those "evil" socialist countries sounds pretty good right now. |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 11:57 PM Response to Original message |
100. I'm sorry, I've been a single mother, but you just do NOT |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 12:06 AM Response to Reply #100 |
102. I agree. |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:26 AM Response to Reply #102 |
115. All it takes is the four year old manages to open a window. Hope Mom gets help she needs |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 10:00 AM Response to Reply #115 |
128. Not sure what you mean with "all it takes is the four year old manages |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 11:48 AM Response to Reply #128 |
143. Someone posted that cute story recently about the two babies who wandered into the neighbor's. |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:07 PM Response to Reply #128 |
151. there was a news story a while back- one toddler opened window and the other fell out of it |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:27 PM Response to Reply #151 |
155. Oh! I do remember that now. Yes, anything could have happened. |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 11:18 AM Response to Reply #115 |
136. Living in NY, are you talking about a child falling out of a window from a great height? nt |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:06 PM Response to Reply #136 |
150. Yes. As others have lamented- it only takes a second. Didn't Eric Clapton write a song |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:28 PM Response to Reply #150 |
156. Yes, and I also know of a family who lost a 3 year old to a freak accident |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:58 PM Response to Reply #150 |
163. Yes. Tears in Heaven. Children have to be watched. That mom needs help. nt |
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Forkboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 12:08 AM Response to Original message |
103. She was totally wrong to leave kids that young alone, but talk about a no-win situation. |
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sohndrsmith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 12:24 AM Response to Original message |
104. Doesn't matter what one can/can't afford, you don't leave toddlers alone. |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 01:20 AM Response to Reply #104 |
106. Amen, very well put! |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 05:51 AM Response to Reply #104 |
108. Well said |
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Omaha Steve (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 06:17 AM Response to Original message |
109. Where is subsidized child care for parents that work? |
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MrsBrady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 06:48 AM Response to Reply #109 |
110. you are so right. |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 11:20 AM Response to Reply #109 |
138. Exactly. Not all companies provide for childcare deductions |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:21 PM Response to Reply #109 |
153. Thank you. |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:31 AM Response to Original message |
116. The Village failed this family |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:37 AM Response to Reply #116 |
120. Any mention of The Village with initial caps makes me think of one thing |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:42 AM Response to Reply #120 |
123. Would you leave your kids with them? |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 11:38 AM Response to Reply #123 |
141. Yes, without hesitation |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 11:45 AM Response to Reply #120 |
142. It makes me think of M. Night Shyamalan and "those we do not speak of." |
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deek (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:21 PM Response to Reply #116 |
154. The Village does not exist. eom |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:34 AM Response to Original message |
117. Not one word about the FATHER (or fathers) of those children |
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Jennicut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:36 AM Response to Original message |
119. I am a 33 year old mother myself with a 3 and 4 year old. Its dangerous to leave them alone though |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:38 AM Response to Reply #119 |
122. Yes, I'd rather see her on 100% public assistance than leaving kids unattended |
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Jennicut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:44 AM Response to Reply #122 |
124. I left my 3 year old playing in the living room yesterday to go make her breakfast and our new |
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WI_DEM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:37 AM Response to Original message |
121. A good judge will probably see the circumstances, but still it's not good to leave a 4 year old and |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:12 PM Response to Original message |
152. a lot of poor people worldwide have to lead toddlers alone |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:38 PM Response to Reply #152 |
159. The USA has become a Third World Nation |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:41 PM Response to Reply #159 |
160. yeah, no one woudl fault a mother living in the slums in india because she had to leave |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:50 PM Response to Original message |
161. A midwife who works at a clinic that offers free maternity services for poor women wonders how |
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CatsDogsBabies (652 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:00 PM Response to Original message |
162. I read the article |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 07:42 AM Response to Original message |
165. 4 and 2 is just too young to be left home alone. |
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varelse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 07:44 AM Response to Original message |
166. Nice - I see the "kick em when they're down" progressives are out in force here |
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karynnj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 08:04 AM Response to Original message |
167. Leaving a 2 and 4 year old alone is child neglect and greatly endangered the children |
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GetTheRightVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 12:30 PM Response to Original message |
169. All I will state is that you can tell the single parent no help from those that were not in post. |
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Greyhound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 01:02 PM Response to Original message |
170. More victims of Clinton's legacy, thanks Bill. n/t |
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