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katty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 11:39 AM Original message |
Dear Cary...my husband is too creative to work |
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cliffordu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 11:42 AM Response to Original message |
1. As a deadbeat, let me be the first to say: |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 11:47 AM Response to Original message |
2. I had an uncle something like that. Useless as teats on a hog. |
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LibertyLover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 11:51 AM Response to Original message |
3. Sounds like my husband - except he's too lazy to work |
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prolesunited (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 12:02 PM Response to Reply #3 |
5. Can I ask why are you still with him? |
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LibertyLover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 12:17 PM Response to Reply #5 |
13. Frankly I'm considering leaving him |
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prolesunited (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:23 PM Response to Reply #13 |
31. Her daddy can still be in her life and be a good father |
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LibertyLover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:35 PM Response to Reply #31 |
36. Too true |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:28 PM Response to Reply #36 |
115. have you clearly told him of your intentions in that regard? |
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LibertyLover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 08:07 AM Response to Reply #115 |
129. Well, we've only been married 10 years and he hasn't worked for 8 |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 08:31 AM Response to Reply #129 |
130. sorry- i guess i carried the 20 from the op... |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:43 PM Response to Reply #3 |
38. I don't get this |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:02 PM Response to Reply #3 |
45. I'm sorry, this is really none of my business and not |
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Hamlette (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 02:51 PM Response to Reply #3 |
142. I worry about your daughter |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 11:54 AM Response to Original message |
4. I divorced one of those. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 12:03 PM Response to Original message |
6. I wonder if reactions would be different |
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cliffordu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 12:11 PM Response to Reply #6 |
9. Yep. Not a fucking peep, then., |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 12:30 PM Response to Reply #9 |
18. Lol, I disagree. Her ass would have been working the register at Wal-Mart - |
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EOTE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 12:11 PM Response to Reply #6 |
10. No doubt. NT. |
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Demobrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 12:16 PM Response to Reply #6 |
12. That's an interesting point. |
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katty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 12:31 PM Response to Reply #12 |
19. agree-however, i know some couples with small children |
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Demobrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 01:10 PM Response to Reply #19 |
20. I've seen that situation too. |
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katty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 01:19 PM Response to Reply #20 |
21. it is really strange, i know a few couples that are in very |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 06:43 PM Response to Reply #21 |
92. No way in hell I would stay with a man who couldn't be bothered with his children. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 07:28 PM Response to Reply #12 |
97. No. The story would be a tear-filled story of loss due to the husband's long unemployment.. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 12:26 PM Response to Reply #6 |
15. No difference when foreclosure and bankruptcy are involved |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:27 PM Response to Reply #15 |
33. Oh definitely. eom |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 01:36 PM Response to Reply #6 |
25. Most likely |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 01:50 PM Response to Reply #25 |
26. Yes and No |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:04 PM Response to Reply #26 |
27. But the double standard in the OP once again works against the woman. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 07:19 PM Response to Reply #27 |
96. Homemakers are "being coddled"? |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 07:36 PM Response to Reply #96 |
100. No, you have completely misunderstood. The thread is not about homemakers. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 08:00 PM Response to Reply #96 |
103. Jeff, I want it on the record |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:36 PM Response to Reply #103 |
117. Will wonders never cease. |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:51 PM Response to Reply #26 |
121. or a father's work |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 02:34 AM Response to Reply #25 |
128. aw, poor BoneDaddy |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 09:29 PM Response to Reply #128 |
149. LOL |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:44 PM Response to Reply #6 |
39. Well, I know of a situation similar |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 04:35 PM Response to Reply #6 |
74. No double standards here. A moocher is a moocher. eom |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 05:53 PM Response to Reply #6 |
88. Ya think? |
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Demobrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 01:20 PM Response to Reply #88 |
136. What BS. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 05:29 PM Response to Reply #136 |
144. This isn't about the dear abby letter that constitutes the OP. |
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Marr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 07:31 PM Response to Reply #6 |
98. Same thought occurred to me. |
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Cats Against Frist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 11:28 PM Response to Reply #6 |
152. Not so. |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 12:08 PM Response to Original message |
7. There are jobs? |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 12:29 PM Response to Reply #7 |
17. Did you read the article? He has been offered jobs |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:58 PM Response to Reply #17 |
43. That's not quite how I read it; it sounds to me like quite a bit more is going on. |
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Dogtown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 12:10 PM Response to Original message |
8. He might have Borderline Personality Disorder |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 12:16 PM Response to Reply #8 |
11. It's not necessarily that dire. Anyone who's worked in the creative milieu has met dozens of these - |
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Dogtown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 12:29 PM Response to Reply #11 |
16. A valid point |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 01:25 PM Response to Reply #16 |
22. Nobody is ordinary. |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 07:07 PM Response to Reply #22 |
95. If you are "one in a million" there are 6,707 more of you... |
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wolfgangmo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:46 PM Response to Reply #11 |
62. It was explained to me this way by one of my music mentors |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 05:27 PM Response to Reply #62 |
86. Your mentor was/is wise! |
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B3Nut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 09:02 AM Response to Reply #62 |
131. I'm a musician... |
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Raksha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 07:54 PM Response to Reply #8 |
102. Probably not Borderline Personality Disorder, but he sounds like a classic case of ADD/ADHD. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 12:19 PM Response to Original message |
14. I know a lot of guys like this |
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Alcibiades (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:14 PM Response to Reply #14 |
30. "picks up girls?" |
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onethatcares (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:56 PM Response to Reply #30 |
41. it's in the book |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:09 PM Response to Reply #30 |
49. You know Freepers; the rules apply to everyone else |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 01:31 PM Response to Original message |
23. I'm creative as hell, but I manage to hold down a real job. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:08 PM Response to Reply #23 |
48. Yeah, I'm creative and I'm in one of the least creative fields possible |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:47 PM Response to Reply #48 |
64. What do you do again? |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:08 PM Response to Reply #64 |
110. Check your PM |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 01:34 PM Response to Original message |
24. Alot of self labeled "creative" people think they are special |
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Demobrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:05 PM Response to Reply #24 |
28. They are not only special |
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Marr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 07:45 PM Response to Reply #28 |
101. Ha! You've touched on a subject that's near to my heart. |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:46 PM Response to Reply #28 |
119. That is true as well |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:05 PM Response to Original message |
29. I'm picturing Tobias Funke, but without the wealthy in-laws. |
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Mz Pip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:24 PM Response to Original message |
32. This woman must be getting something |
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Freddie Stubbs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:28 PM Response to Original message |
34. Most divorces are caused by money problems |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:34 PM Response to Original message |
35. I've lost far too many creative friends to appreciate the bashing in this thread. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:00 PM Response to Reply #35 |
44. There are two people like that in my extended family. |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 04:40 PM Response to Reply #44 |
77. I'm grateful that there are people in our society like that |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 05:58 PM Response to Reply #35 |
89. If you think the primary target is "creative types" then you seriously misread DU. n/t |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 08:36 PM Response to Reply #89 |
106. Indeed? |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:16 PM Response to Reply #106 |
111. Creative women are respected. Creative men are freeloaders. n/t |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:24 PM Response to Reply #111 |
114. THAT'S the biggest load of hooey Jeff! |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:46 PM Response to Reply #114 |
120. Your observation is true, to a point. |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 10:06 PM Response to Reply #120 |
122. I have read about Georgia O'Keefe and Stieglitz. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 10:48 PM Response to Reply #122 |
123. The dyanmic is different. |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 01:38 AM Response to Reply #123 |
124. I wasn't thinking of the typical lunch lady career whim bankrolled by the mogul hubbie. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 10:53 AM Response to Reply #124 |
133. "Most male artists wouldn't have provided the same support, or tolerated the behavior," |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 02:12 PM Response to Reply #133 |
138. I know we're just cherry-picking here. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 05:51 PM Response to Reply #138 |
147. Thank you for your nice comments |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 02:18 AM Response to Reply #123 |
126. I mostly agree with you, but honestly, could you say as easily |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 10:46 AM Response to Reply #126 |
132. In the social environment in which they lived and worked, not really. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 03:02 PM Response to Reply #132 |
143. A culture not too different than ours or, not different enough. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 05:37 PM Response to Reply #143 |
145. I'm neither female nor an artist. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 05:50 PM Response to Reply #145 |
146. Depends what you're meaning by domination. |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 08:48 PM Response to Reply #35 |
108. Ouch |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:39 PM Response to Original message |
37. Frankly, the 'too creative to work' types should stay out of the workforce |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:10 PM Response to Reply #37 |
50. Some people really can't deal with working around other people. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:14 PM Response to Reply #50 |
52. And some others get along with other people just fine but don't want to work. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:17 PM Response to Reply #52 |
54. Sure. n/t |
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shadowknows69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 02:23 PM Response to Reply #50 |
140. Well put. I use to literally talk to thousands of people on the radio |
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Demobrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:46 PM Response to Reply #37 |
63. No kidding. I'm a "creative" in advertising. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:50 PM Response to Original message |
40. Fathers who don't work are leeches. Mothers who don't work are homemakers. |
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prolesunited (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:03 PM Response to Reply #40 |
46. I think most here were commenting on the specific situation |
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katty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:25 PM Response to Reply #46 |
60. yes, whatever is worked out by the couple-as fair as possible |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 04:07 PM Response to Reply #46 |
67. Nonsense. |
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prolesunited (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 05:18 PM Response to Reply #67 |
85. Personal attack? |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:15 PM Response to Reply #40 |
53. See post #15. nt |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:20 PM Response to Reply #40 |
56. But this couple had never agreed he would be the homemaker. |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:22 PM Response to Reply #56 |
112. yes, they did. 20 years is a decision. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:20 PM Response to Reply #40 |
57. When you're about to lose the house everyone should be working |
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Demobrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 04:14 PM Response to Reply #40 |
69. Some fathers who don't work are homemakers. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 05:58 PM Response to Reply #40 |
90. Ding, ding. ding. |
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davidthegnome (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 11:14 PM Response to Reply #40 |
150. Excellent post |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-30-09 12:31 AM Response to Reply #150 |
154. Each couple has to be judged based upon its own history and dynamic. |
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varelse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 02:56 PM Response to Original message |
42. Cary provided excellent advice |
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ContinentalOp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:23 PM Response to Reply #42 |
58. Well done! |
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varelse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:37 PM Response to Reply #58 |
61. I don't think the intention of the OP was man bashing |
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Juche (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:05 PM Response to Original message |
47. I'm so glad I couldn't get a girlfriend |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:14 PM Response to Reply #47 |
51. So her glass is "half full" why? |
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Juche (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:17 PM Response to Reply #51 |
55. I'm talking about my life, not hers |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:24 PM Response to Original message |
59. Lady, let me make it clear: You married a L-O-S-E-R! |
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Demobrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:51 PM Response to Reply #59 |
66. That depends on your POV. |
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NeedleCast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 03:49 PM Response to Original message |
65. Boggles the Mind |
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earth mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 04:14 PM Response to Original message |
68. I don't think everyone is cut out for a 9 to 5 job nor do I think that all jobs should only be |
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Demobrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 04:18 PM Response to Reply #68 |
70. Following his dream would be fine |
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earth mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 04:34 PM Response to Reply #70 |
73. How is he taking the family down with him? She was the main breadwinner and lost HER job. |
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Demobrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 04:39 PM Response to Reply #73 |
76. Oh he's working with her to figure out ways to bring in money? |
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earth mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 04:43 PM Response to Reply #76 |
80. You should read post #71 and educate yourself about what being creative means. nt. |
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Demobrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 04:45 PM Response to Reply #80 |
81. I've made my living as a writer for 25 years. |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 08:42 PM Response to Reply #81 |
107. Sure you have. Just like William Blake. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-30-09 10:03 AM Response to Reply #80 |
155. What creative can also mean.... |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 04:32 PM Response to Reply #68 |
72. But using another person to support you while you 'follow your dream' is shitty |
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earth mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 04:37 PM Response to Reply #72 |
75. How do you know all that from a short letter? |
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27inCali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 04:30 PM Response to Original message |
71. in response to some of the bashing here of creative types |
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earth mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 04:41 PM Response to Reply #71 |
78. Great post! You nailed exactly how I feel about this! |
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Demobrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 04:42 PM Response to Reply #71 |
79. Did any of those men expect to be supported by women |
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ContinentalOp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:33 PM Response to Reply #79 |
116. Um, actually yes. Many artists are supported by their spouse, lover, etc. |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 04:47 PM Response to Reply #71 |
82. Thank you. Those are good examples. |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 04:56 PM Response to Reply #71 |
83. I'm trying to figure out which one of these people on your list - |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 05:04 PM Response to Reply #71 |
84. Some people aren't comfortable unless they're slamming someone for something |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 05:46 PM Response to Reply #71 |
87. Agreed. And it is silly to believe one person's version of a relationship. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 07:32 PM Response to Reply #87 |
99. That's absolutely true. |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 06:02 PM Response to Reply #71 |
91. Nobody is preventing him from being an artist. |
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Demobrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 06:55 PM Response to Reply #91 |
93. Quite the contrary. His wife has enabled him to be an artist for 20 years. |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 08:58 PM Response to Reply #71 |
109. +35 |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:41 PM Response to Reply #71 |
118. "you can go slave your ass off your whole life at the factory to build doodads to make someone else" |
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Greyhound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 02:12 AM Response to Reply #71 |
125. "I thought we were progressives here and wise to that corporate bullshit" |
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Demobrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 01:15 PM Response to Reply #125 |
135. Actually we all find the idea of a family losing their |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 06:57 PM Response to Original message |
94. Never had much respect for alleged "too dreamy to live in reality" types. Shit or get off the pot. |
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Demobrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 08:04 PM Response to Reply #94 |
104. Me neither. I have absolutly no problem with supporting people |
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shadowknows69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 02:26 PM Response to Reply #94 |
141. Don't worry those of us afflicted with that don't have much respect for ourselves either |
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Roon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 08:09 PM Response to Original message |
105. Every,last, single person I have ever been with |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-28-09 09:23 PM Response to Original message |
113. it's time for peter pan to grow some balls... |
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KillCapitalism (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 02:28 AM Response to Original message |
127. Where does this couple live? |
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MindPilot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 11:11 AM Response to Original message |
134. I had a room-mate like that; dumb as a posthole, |
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European Socialist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 01:58 PM Response to Original message |
137. AS they say in sports--You are never so good when winning... |
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Thegonagle (548 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 02:20 PM Response to Original message |
139. I've never seen so many strawmen (and strawwomen) in one thread, on any website, ever. |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 05:53 PM Response to Original message |
148. This letter really makes me sympathize with poor Mrs Beck |
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ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 11:22 PM Response to Original message |
151. She enabled his spoiled ways for 20 years |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-29-09 11:30 PM Response to Original message |
153. Tough shit |
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