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Edited on Wed Feb-10-10 01:29 PM by Javaman
When I was a kid, I suffered from an obvious physical handicap, but not the kind that would limit me in any way shape or form from living my life in an otherwise normal manner.
However, it was obvious enough that it made me the object and scorn of rumors, taunts, teasing, gossip, bullying, fights and various forms of ambush like tactics to make my life a living hell from 1st grade till I graduated from high school.
And over these many years I learned a few things about bullies:
1) they never tell the truth.
2) they will weasel all they can to get away with what they have done.
3) they will lie in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary.
4) when stood up to, they always back down.
5) if they don't back done, you better not. If you do, they own you.
So as I watch and listen to our elected Dem Reps and Senators go on and on about how they want to take the high road or try every thing they can to come to a bi-partisan agreement with the republicans, I see echos of my youth and the bullies I have had to deal with.
The other thing about bullies is:
1) they are greedy and will always want more.
2) if you try to cut a deal with them, they will agree at first then break it later.
3) if they want something, they will come across as your best friend, but then drop you when they got what they want.
4) and if they really want something, they just take it.
So as I watch our Dem senators and reps deal with the republicans. I'm reminded of the things I have outlined above
Try as they might, our Senators and Reps are surprised time and time again by the overt blocking by there republicans.
I, on the other hand, am completely astonished at our Dem reps at being so completely gullible.
The only thing bullies understand are tactics like their own.
Now many people will say, "we don't need to go down to their level". THAT, my friends, is exactly what the republicans are banking on.
The daily taunting by the various bullies while in grade school was only made worse because:
1) I was smart
2) I was basically weak and skinny
3) grew up in an abusive home and didn't know how to defend myself either physically or verbally.
So, needless to say, on top of my physical issue, I was a prime target.
Our Dems come across as that weak skinny kid in grade school. And they seem to resort to the same tactics I did when fighting from a point of weakness.
I tried to:
1)reason with them (that worked on the more dimwitted ones, but not always; I have the scars to prove it)
2)I tried to bribe them, but that was a never ending "paying protection money" type endeavor
3)I would give them my homework. (basically the same as #2)
4)I would ignore them only to have my stuff stolen, destroyed or be beaten up.
As time wore on, I got older and stronger. The angst of a young teen took over. I got tired of the abuse.
Sometime around 10th grade, I finally stood up for myself. It still ended badly, but I was now not the push over I once was. I was still bullied, don't get me wrong, but not as often.
I would like to think that the Dems, by floating reconciliation, are starting to wake up. But until they actually do something, it's empty promises at best.
Finally, in 12th grade, a much larger "football player" type, started in with me and I snapped. All the rage that had built up for 12 long years amassed into a single punch. A punch that broke his jaw and my hand.
Now, I'm certainly not advocating physical violence, far from it, but the Dems are in such a strong position and are daily letting it go. And because they don't stand up, and seem to back down daily, they appear, and frankly, are weak.
See the thing is, if you have all the marbles sometimes you have to kick ass to make sure people know you have the marbles otherwise you will just become a push over.
Growing up, I never realized that I did have an advantage, but one I never knew I possessed.
That advantage is simple self respect.
Our elected officials need to show us some of that self respect, they need to stop hoping for a brighter tomorrow and make that hope happen today. That is done by kicking some metaphorical ass. To start off with: No more with playing nice. Stand up squarely and pointedly to the various false accusations. Pass bills through reconciliation. Do away with the filibuster, because it has been abused to the point of ridiculousness.
These things will break the log jam created by the republicans and get our government moving again.
And to me, it would scrape the image of spinelessness from our politicians and restore a little faith.
I'm just really tired of being pushed around and frankly, I don't want to break my other hand.
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