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JanMichael Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-30-10 11:48 PM
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Why should I pray for a member of someone's family who was diagnosed
with a dreadful disease for "financial help" when the person asking voted Republican and resists any conversation about single payer healthcare because it's socialist?

Seriously?

I don't want to see people suffer, but PRAY? How about get HEALTH CARE?

Sometimes I could just scream.

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Gman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-30-10 11:50 PM
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1. 99.9999% of "christian" conservatives and other right wingers lie when they say they'll pray
Edited on Tue Nov-30-10 11:52 PM by Gman
for someone. It's just a free thing to say that doesn't cost a thing and no one checks anyway. Besides, praying would involve some form or caring about another human who they really don't give a damn about to begin with unless it's them or a their family. But then their friends don't give a damn either.
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JanMichael Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-30-10 11:52 PM
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2. This is a person on FB
asking for prayers for older relatives who are about to lose their healthcare bennies, and the wife was just diagnosed with cancer.

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Angry Dragon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-30-10 11:54 PM
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3. Tell them to go talk to their republican congress person
they are in a better position to help
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Psephos Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-30-10 11:56 PM
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4. Do you really allocate grace and karma based on a person's political beliefs?
Wow.

That's called dehumanization, and has led to some of history's most heinous and gruesome atrocities. Not only can dehumanized humans can be treated cruelly without burden of conscience, but that cruelty even starts to feel like moral propriety.
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JanMichael Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 12:01 AM
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5. Wtf are you talking about? I allocate grace and karma? ummmmm no
I don't have that kind of power.

When a person VOTES in the HOPE that health care remains an expensive commodity, and that people's lives don't matter to them....why the hell should they expect magical forces to step in and help them when they need it?

I don't care if you are a Christian, a Jew, a Muslim or a Pagan....really, I don't. At this point, whatever you believe is your personal myth...and I have nothing against it. However a vote...health care is something tangible that is within reach NOW...not something we PRAY for.

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Psephos Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 12:12 AM
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11. Mercy for all...who think like me.
Fuck the rest of 'em!

Dress it up however you like.
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JanMichael Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 12:14 AM
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14. That's the Republican motto. Thank you. We finally agree, except for ONE thing
You forgot to mention "and people who look like me."

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hayu_lol Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 12:03 AM
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6. Doesn't cost anyone a thing to donate...
a few good thoughts for a better outcome. When it comes to poverty, disease, and death...politics should not be a consideration.
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JanMichael Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 12:05 AM
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7. and it's pretty cheap to vote too.
and to act like you give a rat's ass about humanity as a whole.
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Greyhound Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 03:08 AM
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29. You speak of "political beliefs" as if they were a hobby or a sect that one
simply born into that bears no consequence.

If you think this is cruelty, come on out to Las Vegas. I'll take you on a little tour of the cruelty of indifference and so-called conservatism in operation. Ever seen a 5 year old kid that has never once seen a doctor, has eaten nothing but fast food, and suffers from both obesity and diseases normally seen only in children that have been severely malnourished? How would you like to have a one-on-one with a 60 year old woman that has been beaten and raped so many times that the police won't even take a report from her any more?

I've got plenty more for you if you have the stomach for it. How about the 57 year old man that holds an engineering degree, helped to develop the 8086 architecture, but last year had a heart attack at his desk in the shitty call center he works at but refused to leave because he knew he would be fired for missing work. The same call center that has had three TB outbreaks in the last two years but doesn't worry about the health dept. closing them down because they are "a major employer" and are politically protected from any repercussions.

We are a completely immoral society. We have been forever, but there was a brief time that we were getting better. Now we have undone all of that and argue in support of "Democrats" that happily ignore Dickensian suffering an injustice while congratulating themselves for creating the "Plutonomy".

Now, tell me all about "dehumanizing."

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Swamp Rat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 03:43 AM
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30. Amen, brother!
!!!


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CountAllVotes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 12:09 AM
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8. praying for financial help
I'd say go right on ahead and pray. It might help.

Even God has a blind eye at times I've noted.

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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 12:11 AM
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9. you just need to wish them the best and help if you can
Edited on Wed Dec-01-10 12:12 AM by Skittles
because it's the humane thing to do for someone who is ill
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JanMichael Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 12:12 AM
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12. OK, well....I'll try to work one up. It's kinda hard when one person in the marriage
is an Agnostic or Atheist depending on the mood, and the other is damn near a pagan...you know?
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Iggo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 02:44 AM
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26. Fucking atheists!!!!111!!!1
:rofl:
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JanMichael Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 12:15 AM
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15. heh. Changed it when you realized who you were talking to, eh?
How are you? ;)
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 12:17 AM
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16. naw, the prayer thing
I don't understand prayer, ever

doing alright; could be better but I imagine that describes pretty much everyone :)
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madmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 12:12 AM
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10. You pray that they get what they deserve.
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iamjoy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 12:13 AM
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13. Pray For Single Payer
and tell them that you will pray for single payer to come to this country so they won't ever have to worry about getting health insurance due to pre-existing conditions.
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laughingliberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 12:17 AM
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17. I'm fairly agnostic but I will pray for people when asked no matter who they are.
I don't wish ill on them. If they have awful politics, I might offer up a little prayer for them to see the light, too.
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Canuckistanian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 12:21 AM
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18. Can prayer bring financial help?
What are the stats on that? What are the prayer-to-profit ratios?

I may have a new career.
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canetoad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 02:12 AM
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22. Your waiting for
Single prayer health cover.
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Merlot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 01:03 AM
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19. It's like when god sent the rescue helicopter to the guy on the roof
you know the story...water rising, guy stuck on roof, prays for rescue. declines the boats and helicopter rescues because he waiting for god to rescue him. ends up drowning. god sez: I sent you a helicopter!

god works through people: boat drivers, helicopter pilots, and people who voter for single payer.

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awoke_in_2003 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 01:16 AM
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20. "Prayer...
how to do nothing and still think you are helping"
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saras Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 02:08 AM
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21. Pray for them to get what they deserve
You can pray that God does the right thing for them. It's not your decision whether they should live or die, or how they should die, it's God's decision.

If you really feel mean you can pray that they get to work through, in this lifetime, all the karma they have ever accumulated, and finally become liberated.
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Dappleganger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 02:18 AM
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23. I pray for stupid people.
Especially if they have innocent children who don't get to choose their parents.
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The Second Stone Donating Member (603 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 02:38 AM
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24. Tell them that you will and that you voted for them to have
medical help and will always vote for their friends and relatives to have medical help. As well as all the strangers.

If they can figure it out, they may change their way of thinking, and if they cannot, just remember that many people are blindingly stupid.
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Hannah Bell Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 02:40 AM
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25. because when a friend is gravely ill, it's not the time to get into political disputes?
Edited on Wed Dec-01-10 02:40 AM by Hannah Bell
you can bet that the victim & their family will be thinking about these issues, whatever face they put on.

just be kind & let bitter experience do its work, it's the best teacher.
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JVS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 02:50 AM
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28. Never underestimate how willfully stupid people are.
It would be better to simply denounce them and their totally fucked views at the kid's funeral.
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Hannah Bell Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 04:26 AM
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32. people will cling to any nonsense if you get their back up.
Edited on Wed Dec-01-10 04:27 AM by Hannah Bell
soft is better than hard in a lot of cases. i think life-threatening illness is one.

but the picture of someone denouncing them at the funeral made me laugh.
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JVS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 02:47 AM
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27. you could troll the fuck out of them to make a point
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Raine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-01-10 03:58 AM
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31. Pray that they get what they deserve for the life they have lived
in that way you wouldn't be wishing ill on them, only whatever they deserve. :shrug: A higher power will decide.
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