equally common in both sexes--but it manifests differently in the sexes. This article explains it pretty well. I have both girls and boys with ADD in my family. The boys tend to be more hyper (ADHD) while the girls are distractable, time-challenged, & have difficulty focusing. Both can be prone to substance abuse. It's important to identify it in girls--often missed. Someday this constellation of characteristics will be called something else. It is not attention deficit, it is attention inconsistency. Often there is hyperfocus, obsessive focus.
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"There are several different types of ADDmany people think Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) is a boy's disease. It is commonly believed that it occurs at least twice as often in boys as in girls. Although it is true that boys are more often diagnosed, the rates are actually about the same in both genders. Boys more often have the variety called Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) - and that's what tends to get their problem noticed.
Parents, teachers, and even health professionals tend to picture the classic case of ADD as a boy with a lot of hyperactivity. The average girl with ADD acts differently. In girls, the disorganization and distraction results in lack of activity--they are just too confused to get things started, and instead are often described as daydreamers.
This is in stark contrast to the boys. Boys' distractibility is expressed as impulsivity--a flurry of activity. While both genders have trouble learning the nuances of social interactions, the results for each are different. Girls end up shy and withdrawn - they don't like the negative reactions they get when they don't clue in to the nuances. Boys on the other hand are more likely to proceed with social behavior that is considered inappropriate. While they are bewildered when they get negative reactions, they continue." (more at link)
http://www.science20.com/science_motherhood/girls_add_why_it_so_often_missed