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TalkingDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 03:04 PM Original message |
10 Tips to Stop Rape. From Rape Crisis Scotland |
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tblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 03:06 PM Response to Original message |
1. Is this a joke? |
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Kber (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 03:25 PM Response to Reply #1 |
8. Points 1, 2, 3 ,4, 5, 6, 7, 8 & 9 also put the onus on men. |
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pasto76 (835 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 09:00 AM Response to Reply #8 |
236. well, like, I have complete control of where my pecker goes. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:01 PM Response to Reply #1 |
40. the point. don't rape. all the onus is on the man. nt |
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NeedleCast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 11:39 AM Response to Reply #40 |
284. Unless the rapist is a woman |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:09 PM Response to Reply #284 |
301. yes. less than 2% are women and about all of that is with their children or children. |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 07:30 PM Response to Reply #1 |
102. It's the SERIOUS rejoinder to those who would in any way blame the woman. |
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vets74 (714 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:48 AM Response to Reply #1 |
188. Is it SCOTLAND ? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:50 AM Response to Reply #188 |
189. actually scotland is not the original creator. i have seen this for a while. nt |
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polly7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:20 PM Response to Reply #189 |
309. Google image search shows the graphic was first made by Alexander Rodchenko, |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:22 PM Response to Reply #309 |
310. i am sure no one minds. was meant to get message out. just not the first time i had heard this |
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polly7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:36 PM Response to Reply #310 |
315. Oh nooo, I didn't mean to imply anyone would mind. |
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DWilliamsamh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 07:21 PM Response to Reply #1 |
357. Every one of the points puts the onus on men.... |
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leftstreet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 03:06 PM Response to Original message |
2. K&R |
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valerief (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 03:07 PM Response to Original message |
3. Excellent! nt |
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ceile (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 03:10 PM Response to Original message |
4. K&R n/t |
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Uncle Joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 03:11 PM Response to Original message |
5. Kicked and recommended. |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 03:12 PM Response to Original message |
6. Wow. Copied and sent on as an email far and wide! Thanks for posting. K&R. nt |
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hlthe2b (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 03:18 PM Response to Original message |
7. Provocative, I guess |
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Tansy_Gold (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 03:28 PM Response to Original message |
9. Can't recommend this enough!! |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 03:35 PM Response to Original message |
10. Anybody have Ben Rothelisburger's e-mail? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:01 PM Response to Reply #10 |
41. +1. nt |
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SidDithers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:55 AM Response to Reply #10 |
234. Or Julian Assange's?...nt |
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RegieRocker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 03:36 PM Response to Original message |
11. Yea like that is going to work. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 03:51 PM Response to Reply #11 |
13. And the next step is... |
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RegieRocker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 03:55 PM Response to Reply #13 |
16. Maybe your step and ridiculous summation of my intent. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 03:58 PM Response to Reply #16 |
19. Right, I was told the same things, and so far so good |
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RegieRocker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 04:01 PM Response to Reply #19 |
20. Well if those are excuses it's B.S. Maybe I'm not in the loop |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 04:41 PM Response to Reply #20 |
29. Excuses like "she was walking alone"? |
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RegieRocker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:29 AM Response to Reply #29 |
178. Yes that is correct. |
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RaleighNCDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 09:48 AM Response to Reply #29 |
247. Of course, it is not the rapist who makes the excuses - it is the others, |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 11:03 AM Response to Reply #247 |
275. And I see this poster as educating those others, getting people to talk about issues like that. |
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Zoeisright (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 10:02 AM Original message |
Exactly. |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:48 PM Response to Reply #16 |
70. And if one of your kids is ready to do the preying? |
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RegieRocker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:32 AM Response to Reply #70 |
180. In regards to sons I see that point. As for adults, I don't see it doing much. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:40 AM Response to Reply #180 |
183. a large number of rapes are happening on college campuses. nt |
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RegieRocker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:56 AM Response to Reply #183 |
194. Why college campuses? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:59 AM Response to Reply #194 |
199. i could guess at a number of reasons. the point? nt |
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RegieRocker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:28 PM Response to Reply #199 |
311. It was not a statement it was a question. Point? |
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ehrnst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:57 AM Response to Reply #16 |
195. These are instructions on NOT preying on people, and don't discourage people |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 12:42 PM Response to Reply #195 |
294. You're right... "Don't drink and drive!" is MUCH more common |
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RaleighNCDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 09:45 AM Response to Reply #16 |
245. The point is, did you raise them to NOT prey on others? nt |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 10:00 AM Response to Reply #245 |
252. good point. sounds like there is a daughter, BUT has he had this conversation with sons.... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 12:43 PM Response to Reply #252 |
295. "many young men use coercion without thinking it rape" |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:10 PM Response to Reply #295 |
303. hey... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 02:16 PM Response to Reply #303 |
327. I've missed you too... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-20-11 07:28 AM Response to Reply #327 |
365. . |
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RegieRocker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:34 PM Response to Reply #252 |
314. I have two sons and one daughter. A woman is always someones |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:39 PM Response to Reply #314 |
317. well, ya. and do you have conversations with sons about their part in the whole |
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RegieRocker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 02:46 PM Response to Reply #317 |
328. too bad for you. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 02:51 PM Response to Reply #328 |
329. you are just going to have to be more specific because i am clueless what your accusation |
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abelenkpe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:13 PM Response to Reply #16 |
305. It's important to tell kids it's not OK to prey on people too |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 03:54 PM Response to Reply #11 |
15. You have, in a rather grandiose manner, completely missed the point. |
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RegieRocker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 03:56 PM Response to Reply #15 |
17. It's called a realistic manner. Dream on. |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 04:28 PM Response to Reply #17 |
26. Oh, dear, once again...Luv, you clearly cannot "get it." |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 04:51 PM Response to Reply #26 |
34. is it |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 06:43 PM Response to Reply #34 |
86. Your reply would be more interesting if you explained what the hell you were |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 10:19 PM Response to Reply #86 |
136. well dang, I thought that would be pretty obvious |
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SemperEadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 05:31 AM Response to Reply #136 |
172. it's bad form to bring arguments from one thread and |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:46 AM Response to Reply #172 |
225. What's really bad form |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 07:49 AM Response to Reply #136 |
211. Oh, did you like that challenge? |
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duhneece (967 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 07:01 AM Response to Reply #26 |
200. It's not just about 'thinking HARDER' |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 07:47 AM Response to Reply #200 |
210. For some people, tho, thinking "in a different way" requires them to "think harder." |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 04:14 PM Response to Reply #11 |
25. Those don't prevent rape. Maybe some situations but not a lot of them. |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 04:32 PM Response to Reply #11 |
27. Insensitive and ignorant post. |
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RegieRocker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:58 AM Response to Reply #27 |
197. If you have a daughter and don't tell her these things I feel |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 02:52 PM Original message |
If I had a daughter I'd have her enrolled in martial arts classes from an early age |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:03 PM Response to Reply #11 |
42. wow. so women can't get in elevators, or go out in public without another with them? really? nt |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:31 PM Response to Reply #11 |
61. I guess you think men don't need to be told not to rape? |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 06:56 PM Response to Reply #61 |
91. Men shouldn't HAVE to be told not to rape. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 07:06 PM Response to Reply #91 |
94. i think part of the issue is societal reinforcement that male is to "encourage" female to have sex |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:19 AM Response to Reply #91 |
176. Most men don't have to be told not to rape |
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Ed Suspicious (336 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 02:06 PM Response to Reply #176 |
325. I say only a clear and resounding yes means yes |
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ProfessionalLeftist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:00 AM Response to Reply #91 |
213. And women shouldn't HAVE to live in fear either |
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Sparkly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 08:47 PM Response to Reply #11 |
115. You completely missed the point. nt |
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RegieRocker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:38 AM Response to Reply #115 |
182. Not at all. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 09:09 PM Response to Reply #11 |
126. Deleted message |
d_b (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 10:16 PM Response to Reply #11 |
135. what a dumb fucking post |
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vets74 (714 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:55 AM Response to Reply #135 |
193. Actually it's a test of sorts. |
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ehrnst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:59 AM Response to Reply #135 |
198. Do you think that 'Don't Drink and Drive' is fucking dumb? |
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d_b (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:26 AM Response to Reply #198 |
214. you're in the wrong thread, bud |
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SidDithers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:54 AM Response to Reply #135 |
232. +1... |
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AtheistCrusader (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:44 AM Response to Reply #11 |
159. I think you might be confused. |
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liberation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 02:28 AM Response to Reply #11 |
162. Wwwooooosssssshhhhhh |
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fasttense (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:42 AM Response to Reply #11 |
184. How exactly do you live your life without ever |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 07:41 AM Response to Reply #11 |
206. You really didn't get the point? |
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ProfessionalLeftist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 07:57 AM Response to Reply #11 |
212. Forcing abusers/rapists to take responsibility for their own behavior |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:40 AM Response to Reply #11 |
219. Don't "walk by yourself"?...Are you KIDDING? |
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TheLadyEvenstar (2 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-21-11 06:49 AM Response to Reply #11 |
372. Be a Prisoner then? |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 03:38 PM Response to Original message |
12. Bravo. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 03:52 PM Response to Original message |
14. Another sardonic approach I once heard was |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 10:45 AM Response to Reply #14 |
266. i suggested just that in my local newspaper.... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 03:20 PM Response to Reply #266 |
335. Wow, how sad that they deleted it. |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 03:56 PM Response to Original message |
18. Finally! Someone gets it. + R |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 04:06 PM Response to Original message |
21. Isn't this kind of a complete waste of time? |
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Uncle Joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 04:45 PM Response to Reply #21 |
30. Perhaps a few high end sociopath rapist types may take this advice as something |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 04:47 PM Response to Reply #30 |
32. OK. Let me finish off and publish my "Don't Murder" poster. |
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Uncle Joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:05 PM Response to Reply #32 |
45. You never know, it might? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:23 PM Response to Reply #21 |
53. as a society we put the burden of rape on women. as a society, murder is squarely put on the killer |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:29 PM Response to Reply #53 |
59. exactly. |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 06:37 PM Response to Reply #53 |
80. People keep saying "we as a society" blame women's behavior for rape. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 06:38 PM Response to Reply #80 |
83. How about in this case? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 07:15 PM Response to Reply #80 |
96. the glaring example is this thread. the OP. often when discussing rape it is always in the context |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 07:20 PM Response to Reply #96 |
97. I'm not like Whoopi Goldberg, I don't distinguish between "rape" and "rape-rape". |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 07:38 PM Response to Reply #97 |
108. agreed. and you are special. let whoopie read this |
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jeff47 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 10:56 AM Response to Reply #80 |
272. Look upthread. You'll find someone arguing vehemently that women have to change their behavior (nt) |
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SemperEadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 05:37 AM Response to Reply #53 |
173. exactly--in some parts of the world, the woman is legally held |
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TheLadyEvenstar (2 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-21-11 07:03 AM Response to Reply #173 |
373. You are so very right! |
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Exultant Democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 08:48 PM Response to Reply #21 |
116. You have a fundamental misunderstanding of this, it is political propaganda and very well done. |
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Morning Dew (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 11:11 AM Response to Reply #116 |
278. +1 |
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Chorophyll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 11:27 PM Response to Reply #21 |
140. The point is to make people, whomever they are, think about |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 11:42 PM Response to Reply #21 |
146. OMG |
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chrisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 09:28 AM Response to Reply #21 |
243. I took it as a tongue-in-cheek dig at "Stop Rape" suggestions that |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 10:02 AM Response to Reply #21 |
255. Not if your goal is to create a caricature to attack. n/t |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 10:48 AM Response to Reply #21 |
269. most of the time, a murder victim is NOT BLAMED FOR BEING MURDERED.... |
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Posteritatis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 04:09 PM Response to Original message |
22. Interesting that something so obvious as "rapists choose to commit rapes" offends so many here. nt |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 04:12 PM Response to Reply #22 |
23. I don't see anyone offended in this thread. |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 04:39 PM Response to Reply #23 |
28. Another one missing the point! |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 04:46 PM Response to Reply #28 |
31. I just want there to be fewer rapes. |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 04:50 PM Response to Reply #31 |
33. Here's the deal: read the OP. See how it puts the onus on MEN to stop rape, not women. |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 04:56 PM Response to Reply #33 |
36. I can't speak for "society" but I have never blamed women for being raped |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 06:34 PM Response to Reply #36 |
79. OK, look at it this way: this OP has turned the usual "how to stop rape?" stuff on its head |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 06:59 PM Response to Reply #79 |
92. There's a lovely little piece of doggerel in the film "Shirley Valentine" |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 04:57 PM Response to Reply #33 |
37. Educating people that these aren't excuses is somehow a waste of time and resources. |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 06:38 PM Response to Reply #37 |
82. pretty much...why don't they get it, though? |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 04:54 PM Response to Reply #31 |
35. educating men that these "excuses" aren't excuses, trying to get them to think, this is wrong? |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 04:57 PM Response to Reply #35 |
38. "These excuses"? What excuses? (nt) |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 04:58 PM Response to Reply #38 |
39. The ones this poster talks about. |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:04 PM Response to Reply #39 |
44. Putting drugs into a woman's drink is an "excuse" to rape her? |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:08 PM Response to Reply #44 |
46. Um, I think you are agreeing with the poster in the OP |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:10 PM Response to Reply #46 |
48. My point is that *everyone* agrees with the poster, |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:18 PM Response to Reply #48 |
51. Our point is that you are wrong. That this poster could get people talking and thinking. |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:43 PM Response to Reply #51 |
67. Talking like "hmmmm, so we *shouldn't* creep through women's windows and rape them!" |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:47 PM Response to Reply #67 |
69. If everyone agrees with OP, why are these still used to blame women for being victims? |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 06:34 PM Response to Reply #69 |
78. Nobody I know says stuff like that. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 06:37 PM Response to Reply #78 |
81. Whose fault was this rape? |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 06:45 PM Response to Reply #81 |
87. It would never even occur to me to ask whose fault a rape is. It's *always* the fault of the rapist. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 06:47 PM Response to Reply #87 |
88. rape is a "no fault" crime. Gotcha. Thanks for clarifying. |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 06:51 PM Response to Reply #88 |
90. Now I'm not really following you. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 06:59 PM Response to Reply #90 |
93. I agree that it is the rapist's fault. But too often the victim ends up being doubly victimized |
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canetoad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 09:03 PM Response to Reply #90 |
125. I object your honour. |
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AtheistCrusader (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 05:51 PM Response to Reply #88 |
353. You just completely misunderstood that poster. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 09:28 PM Response to Reply #353 |
362. I was being intentionally snarky. I think we worked it out elsewhere. thanks for being concerned, |
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MedicalAdmin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:36 AM Response to Reply #78 |
181. Are you friends with the entire human race? |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:29 PM Response to Reply #48 |
60. No not really. That poster addresses a whole number of societal messages that women get. |
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MedicalAdmin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:29 AM Response to Reply #48 |
179. I don't think you are wrong. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:08 PM Response to Reply #44 |
47. she was walking alone so it was her fault. She went to a party so it was her fault |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:12 PM Response to Reply #47 |
49. Again, any man who believes that a woman walking alone gives him an excuse to rape her |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:17 PM Response to Reply #49 |
50. You think educating youngsters might help? Might they read this and it make them think? |
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AngkorWot (792 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:23 PM Response to Reply #50 |
54. I myself am not offended, I just don't get the joke. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:28 PM Response to Reply #54 |
57. Who says rape is a joke? I guess you don't think talking about rape is worthwhile |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:28 PM Response to Reply #57 |
58. glitch during posting so marking to find this again. Please reply here so I will see it in mydu |
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AngkorWot (792 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:41 PM Response to Reply #57 |
64. The poster, apparently. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:50 PM Response to Reply #64 |
71. Why are raped women blamed for the things in OP? Is that not worth talking about? |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:45 PM Response to Reply #54 |
68. Well, there might be people who think that an expensive car parked and unlocked gives them an excuse |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:53 PM Response to Reply #68 |
73. Are victims of car theft treated the same as victims of rape? False comparison |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 06:39 PM Response to Reply #73 |
84. "It was your fault for leaving your car unlocked". |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 06:41 PM Response to Reply #84 |
85. And do car thieves get let loose on that defense? How about this case... |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 11:47 PM Response to Reply #85 |
149. Can you show me one case where a rape defendant's defense was that he had tampered with her drink? |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 10:01 AM Response to Reply #149 |
254. Or that she was walking alone? Or that she left her window open? |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 11:00 AM Response to Reply #254 |
273. Or that, god forbid, she used drugs, was unemployed, homeless, etc. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 11:42 PM Response to Reply #73 |
145. Is it blaming the potential victim to remind them that it's a good idea to lock their car? |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 11:02 AM Response to Reply #145 |
274. You didn't address what I wrote there. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 11:32 AM Response to Reply #274 |
282. And you didn't address what I wrote. |
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MedicalAdmin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:21 AM Response to Reply #44 |
177. If I may interject. |
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RegieRocker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:44 AM Response to Reply #177 |
186. I see it as excellent material for our sons. I also feel |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 07:36 AM Response to Reply #177 |
203. I've never hung out with asshats in a bar who make excuses for rape |
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MedicalAdmin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:07 PM Response to Reply #203 |
300. Hung out with? No. Overheard in bars, etc.? Yes. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:43 AM Response to Reply #177 |
221. Well said! nt |
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knightmaar (66 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:46 AM Response to Reply #44 |
224. It's used as an excuse |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 08:29 PM Response to Reply #31 |
112. if you stopped to think about it, I bet you have met a few men who actually needed that advice... |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 08:37 PM Response to Reply #112 |
113. Nope. Never known anyone who would drug a woman's drink. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 08:56 PM Response to Reply #113 |
122. i hate to tell you this, but most Frat members know a few men who need to be told unconcious or |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:47 AM Response to Reply #122 |
226. That's been my experience too. And lots of guys think a date is like a "contest" and if they have |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 09:03 PM Response to Reply #113 |
124. how about a guy/man boasting about getting the chick.... drunk? |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:45 AM Response to Reply #124 |
223. As in, "Candy is dandy but liquor is quicker?" nt |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:51 AM Response to Reply #223 |
227. i guess there are even cute little quips conditioning our boys.... nt |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 10:01 AM Response to Reply #124 |
253. Absent an IV tube, how would I get another person drunk? n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:14 PM Response to Reply #253 |
307. really, lumberjack? you truly are clueless what i am talking about or you |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 09:11 PM Response to Reply #113 |
128. yes |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 09:11 PM Response to Reply #113 |
130. yes |
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canetoad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 11:46 PM Response to Reply #113 |
148. Forget the drawn out discussion |
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Chorophyll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 11:28 PM Response to Reply #31 |
141. The point is that ANYONE who reads this might actually think, |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 04:44 AM Response to Reply #28 |
167. it's kind of disconcerting, CTyankee |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:42 PM Response to Reply #23 |
65. I am. |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 06:49 PM Response to Reply #65 |
89. No. It is attempting to change a mindset that exists in some men's minds and |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 09:11 PM Response to Reply #89 |
129. Who should change their habits to prevent bank robbery? |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 04:45 AM Response to Reply #129 |
168. OMG |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 09:07 AM Response to Reply #168 |
238. I get it and understand it. You're entitled to be wrong. n/t |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:51 AM Response to Reply #129 |
228. You seem to be saying no one should DARE SUGGEST |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:54 AM Response to Reply #228 |
233. and a lot of people simply accept rape as part of a social condition |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 09:03 AM Response to Reply #228 |
237. I can do about as much to prevent rape as I can to prevent bank robbery. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 09:42 AM Response to Reply #237 |
244. And when your male friends or co-workers make remarks that suggest that rape |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 09:56 AM Response to Reply #244 |
249. That has never happened to me. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 10:51 AM Response to Reply #249 |
270. You have such all-or-nothing, judgmental, prejudiced thinking that |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 11:44 AM Response to Reply #270 |
285. Talk about projection. I'm not the one making the stereotypes, I'm the one objecting to them. n/t |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 09:46 AM Response to Reply #237 |
246. If you have male offspring, are you teaching him not to rape? |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 09:57 AM Response to Reply #246 |
250. Are you teaching yours not to steal? n/t |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 11:26 AM Response to Reply #250 |
281. Teaching boundaries to your children is basic parenting skills. |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 12:02 PM Response to Reply #250 |
289. that you equate theft of property with rape is telling |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 09:54 AM Response to Reply #237 |
248. As mentioned up thread, some men (generally young) think passed out or barely conscious women |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 09:59 AM Response to Reply #248 |
251. I didn't see any posts from "some men". |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 11:12 AM Response to Reply #251 |
279. You're setting the barre too low. Anyone here can claim anything as a personal experience. |
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knightmaar (66 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 10:11 AM Response to Reply #129 |
256. Just because it didn't change your mind? |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 10:19 AM Response to Reply #256 |
258. I'm sensitive to the idea that rape victims shouldn't be made to feel culpable. |
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knightmaar (66 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:33 PM Response to Reply #258 |
313. Did the OP instruct women to be careless? |
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ehrnst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 07:01 AM Response to Reply #23 |
201. "Don't Drink and Drive" vs "Stay off the road on New Year's Eve to avoid drunk drivers"" |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 10:22 AM Response to Reply #201 |
259. Arresting the ones who do is probably the most effective. |
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ehrnst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-20-11 02:51 PM Response to Reply #259 |
370. Not really - we don't blame the sober drivers who are killed by drunk drivers because |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 09:10 PM Response to Reply #22 |
127. actually, it only offends truly stupid men, and probably rapists too |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:52 AM Response to Reply #127 |
229. +1000. nt |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 10:37 AM Response to Reply #127 |
264. Would you describe me as a stupid probable rapist? n/t |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:03 PM Response to Reply #264 |
297. Reading what you have posted, I'll give you the benefit of the doubt, leave off that last 1/2 of |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:44 PM Response to Reply #297 |
319. Rules are funny. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 03:17 PM Response to Reply #264 |
333. Deleted message |
MedicalAdmin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 03:09 PM Response to Reply #127 |
332. +1 |
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Hell Hath No Fury (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 04:12 PM Response to Original message |
24. Love it! |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:03 PM Response to Original message |
43. Funny, and makes its point well |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:20 PM Response to Original message |
52. Makes the point well |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:25 PM Response to Original message |
55. good tip; DON"T RAPE! |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:26 PM Response to Original message |
56. Oh! I gotta write these down! |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 12:06 PM Original message |
men commit 99.9% of rapes |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 12:06 PM Response to Reply #56 |
290. men commit 99.9% of rapes |
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Abin Sur (647 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:37 PM Response to Original message |
62. Tip 11: Shoot rapists. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:42 PM Response to Reply #62 |
66. Before they rape? |
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Abin Sur (647 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:57 PM Response to Reply #66 |
74. There is normally a physical struggle of some sort |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 06:02 PM Response to Reply #74 |
76. Not for mine. A knife to the neck works quite well to stop that. Second time I was |
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Abin Sur (647 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 06:18 PM Response to Reply #76 |
77. Reasonable anticipation of physical harm is a perfectly justifiable reason |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:42 AM Response to Reply #77 |
185. please take your pre-crime fantasies elsewhere - home would probably be the best place. |
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iris27 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:39 PM Response to Original message |
63. I saw the headline and assumed it would be the usual claptrap putting the onus on women's choices. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 04:46 AM Response to Reply #63 |
169. well iris |
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joeybee12 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:51 PM Response to Original message |
72. KNR! This is great...it's men's behavior, not women's, that cause rape...nt |
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Ohio Joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 05:58 PM Response to Original message |
75. K&R - nt |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 07:11 PM Response to Original message |
95. k&r |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 07:22 PM Response to Original message |
98. Heres #11 and #12 for Roman Polanski and Whoopi Goldberg: |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 07:40 PM Response to Reply #98 |
109. +1. so true. nt |
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AtheistCrusader (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:52 AM Response to Reply #98 |
161. Yeah, that whole debacle... 'but she's forgiven him'. Nice. Still a crime. |
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edbermac (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 07:24 PM Response to Original message |
99. #11 Don't sleep with your underage students. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 07:25 PM Response to Original message |
100. Note to my fellow men: If she does not say "yes" it's FUCKING RAPE. Got it? |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 07:29 PM Response to Reply #100 |
101. And even if she *does* say "yes", if she happens to be 13 years old, it's *still* RAPE. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 07:36 PM Response to Reply #101 |
105. Yup. |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 07:33 PM Response to Original message |
103. How are people missing the point here?! It's a RIPOSTE to those disingenuous "How Women Should Act" |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 07:37 PM Response to Reply #103 |
106. Some posters are going through the knee-jerk "YOU ARE A MAN-HATER" routine. |
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laundry_queen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 08:12 PM Response to Reply #103 |
111. Not only that (which I totally agree with) |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 07:36 PM Response to Original message |
104. Here's #13 for Dominique Strauss-Kahn |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 07:42 PM Response to Reply #104 |
110. see |
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tammywammy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 07:37 PM Response to Original message |
107. LOVE IT!!!! k&r |
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Ripley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 08:40 PM Response to Original message |
114. Ever wonder why so many great women left DU? |
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TalkingDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 08:49 PM Response to Reply #114 |
118. I once had a vicious argument with a male friend when I gave him my new idea for reducing crime |
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Ripley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 09:01 PM Response to Reply #118 |
123. Thanks for the OP |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 12:26 AM Response to Reply #118 |
155. This is something a lot of men, even very smart and well-meaning ones |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:54 AM Response to Reply #155 |
192. Whoa, whoa, whoa!! |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:02 AM Response to Reply #118 |
175. Thank you TalkingDog. |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 08:51 PM Response to Reply #114 |
119. Thank you. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 08:52 PM Response to Reply #114 |
120. I am ashamed that it took my best friend being raped to make me realize that. |
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Sparkly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 08:53 PM Response to Reply #114 |
121. Right. It's up to women not to "ask for it." |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 09:20 PM Response to Reply #114 |
131. I was shocked by the apologists for Roman Polanski and Dominique Strauss-Kahn. |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:57 AM Response to Reply #131 |
196. Apologists for Dominique Strauss-Kahn, the non-criminal? |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 11:51 AM Response to Reply #196 |
286. That would be Dominique Strauss-Kahn, the "rutting chimpanzee" (nt) |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 11:37 PM Response to Reply #114 |
144. I try to be civil, sometimes it is difficult. |
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Sen. Walter Sobchak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 12:21 AM Response to Reply #114 |
153. Oh for fucks sake, |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 04:49 AM Response to Reply #153 |
170. disappointing that YOU don't.fucking.get.it |
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Sen. Walter Sobchak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 05:15 AM Response to Reply #170 |
171. I get it. I just reject it. |
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harmonicon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:48 AM Response to Reply #114 |
187. Please don't say "75% of rapists walk". |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:09 PM Response to Reply #187 |
302. 75% means most of us never report it to the police or, if we do, nothing comes of it. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 12:58 PM Response to Reply #114 |
296. +1 |
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AngkorWot (792 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:05 PM Response to Reply #114 |
299. The overwhelming stupidity of the average post. |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 08:49 PM Response to Original message |
117. K&R |
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MellowDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 09:23 PM Response to Original message |
132. The poster does not address the real issue... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 09:31 PM Response to Reply #132 |
133. women commit about 2% of all sexual offenses and their abuse often involves their own child or child |
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MellowDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 09:48 PM Response to Reply #133 |
134. I think it is... |
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comtec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 03:29 PM Response to Reply #133 |
337. 2% of REPORTED yes I completely agree with you |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 03:34 PM Response to Reply #337 |
339. all i perspective. as i said in a post above, when i first read this a while ago |
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tammywammy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 10:20 PM Response to Original message |
137. This reminds me of an article I read a few weeks ago "Schrödinger’s Rapist" |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 11:18 PM Response to Reply #137 |
138. Any guy who does not already know the stuff in the article |
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Chorophyll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 11:32 PM Response to Reply #138 |
142. Dude, obviously there are lots and lots and lots of guys |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 11:34 PM Response to Reply #142 |
143. "Lots and lots and lots of guys" who don't know not to "put drugs in women's drinks"? |
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canetoad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 12:03 AM Response to Reply #143 |
152. OK, time to put a distinct end to your bullshit |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 12:23 AM Response to Reply #152 |
154. I'm not opposed to the message at all, obviously. |
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canetoad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 12:36 AM Response to Reply #154 |
156. Then *you* have obviously never studied the stats |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 12:45 AM Response to Reply #156 |
157. If lots of your friends don't understand that "no" means "no" |
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canetoad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 12:48 AM Response to Reply #157 |
158. How do you take the leap |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 07:45 AM Response to Reply #158 |
208. "I'm not responsible for others". That kind of attitude is the problem here. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:27 AM Response to Reply #208 |
215. i tell my guys, that they are the ones with most influence of their peers. |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 11:10 AM Response to Reply #215 |
276. To answer your question, not personally, |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 10:36 AM Response to Reply #208 |
263. Deleted message |
Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 10:47 AM Response to Reply #263 |
268. If you knew "lots of men" who are "not aware of the basic premise that no means no" (post 156) |
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Swede (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 10:56 AM Response to Reply #268 |
271. Ladies and gentlemen,I rest my case. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:12 PM Response to Reply #263 |
304. I think you misread what he wrote. I had to read it a couple times to figure out |
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MedicalAdmin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 03:20 PM Response to Reply #152 |
334. +1 |
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Chorophyll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 10:17 AM Response to Reply #143 |
257. You have a lovely way of not responding to what's actually being said. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:14 PM Response to Reply #143 |
306. Of course he's a creep but how do we know that AHEAD of time? |
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tammywammy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 11:57 PM Response to Reply #138 |
150. I agree. |
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AtheistCrusader (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:50 AM Response to Reply #138 |
160. It's also an attitude adjustment for younger men/boys. |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 11:21 PM Response to Original message |
139. Women: Carry a gun and blow his nuts off. |
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Abin Sur (647 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-11 11:58 PM Response to Reply #139 |
151. Don't shoot to maim. |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 09:21 AM Response to Reply #151 |
240. Actually I was being facetious. |
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Abin Sur (647 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 09:26 AM Response to Reply #240 |
242. Given that appealing to these men's better angels is probably an exercise in futility, |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 10:24 AM Response to Reply #242 |
260. I agree. |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:40 PM Response to Reply #242 |
318. Who is stating they do not have that option? |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:44 AM Response to Reply #139 |
222. You might want to reword the second half of your advice there |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 09:23 AM Response to Reply #222 |
241. It was a lame attempt to be funny. |
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gtar100 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 02:31 AM Response to Original message |
163. Awesome! Yes, it's the men who are responsible. |
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caseymoz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 02:31 AM Response to Original message |
164. Sarcasm has a very poor success rate at stopping rape. |
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canetoad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 02:34 AM Response to Reply #164 |
165. And doesn't this poster |
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caseymoz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:51 PM Response to Reply #165 |
322. Because it makes error and culpability interchangeable. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:59 PM Response to Reply #322 |
323. my white son, at a young age asks, why should blacks be mad at him. he has done nothing |
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caseymoz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 04:55 PM Response to Reply #323 |
342. Now you're just being condescending to me. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 05:01 PM Response to Reply #342 |
343. no, i am not being condescending. the example is parallel and i thought if saying it outside of |
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caseymoz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 05:20 PM Response to Reply #343 |
346. So, you begin by repeating your previous wrong point. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 05:28 PM Response to Reply #346 |
347. we disagree. on about every one of your points. nt |
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caseymoz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-21-11 12:08 AM Response to Reply #347 |
371. Because you've already assigned my motives |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-21-11 07:12 AM Response to Reply #371 |
374. dude, i dont need to be a part of conversation if you are telling me what i think. |
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Fokker Trip (222 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 02:45 AM Response to Original message |
166. I think its important to see thais a young male might see it. |
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MrScorpio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 05:46 AM Response to Original message |
174. Anyone here who's not a rapist shouldn't be offended by this. |
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vets74 (714 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:51 AM Response to Reply #174 |
190. Why would a rapist be offended ? |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:47 PM Response to Reply #190 |
321. Exactly. |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 05:56 PM Response to Reply #321 |
354. If you're so against stereotyping, why don't you ever show up in threads where women are stereotyped |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 06:54 AM Response to Reply #174 |
191. Read all the replies saying this 'puts the onus on MEN.' |
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MrScorpio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 07:40 AM Response to Reply #191 |
205. Do you think that women give off signals that they want to be raped by men? |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 07:46 AM Response to Reply #191 |
209. Interestingly the poster doesn't mention the word "men" at all. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:32 AM Response to Reply #209 |
217. men are not a wallet, dont treat them as one. |
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comtec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 03:39 PM Response to Reply #217 |
340. The problem Sea, is that you're a fairly critical thinker |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 07:31 AM Response to Original message |
202. Being purposefully obtuse is certainly not the same thing as "not getting it" |
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myrna minx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 07:38 AM Response to Original message |
204. K&R n.t |
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cate94 (573 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 07:41 AM Response to Original message |
207. This is brilliant! |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:31 AM Response to Original message |
216. Rec'd. I love it! nt |
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knightmaar (66 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:38 AM Response to Original message |
218. I didn't get it at first either |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:53 AM Response to Reply #218 |
231. this is such a good post, for so many reasons. thank you. nt |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 10:27 AM Response to Reply #218 |
261. Thank you so much for this post. (nt) |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 10:36 AM Response to Reply #218 |
262. No, you're still not getting it. |
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jeff47 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 11:11 AM Response to Reply #262 |
277. I'm afraid it's you not getting it. |
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knightmaar (66 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:30 PM Response to Reply #262 |
312. I'm not getting what, precisely? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:37 PM Response to Reply #312 |
316. how come it is so easy for you? |
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knightmaar (66 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 02:10 PM Response to Reply #316 |
326. It was *not* easy for me |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 02:52 PM Response to Reply #326 |
330. interesting. |
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MedicalAdmin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 03:30 PM Response to Reply #326 |
338. "You can lead a horses ass to water ... |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:16 PM Response to Reply #218 |
308. Thank you for this post. |
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MedicalAdmin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 03:26 PM Response to Reply #218 |
336. Excellent points and eye opening. |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:42 AM Response to Original message |
220. Perpetuating the myths that most rape is by strangers and that it's mostly about sex |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:56 AM Response to Reply #220 |
235. What specifically leads you to the conclusion |
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knightmaar (66 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 09:11 AM Response to Reply #220 |
239. That's the only thing I see wrong with it |
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jeff47 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 11:12 AM Response to Reply #220 |
280. It only works when it's the advice given to women? (nt) |
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mistertrickster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 05:48 PM Response to Reply #220 |
351. "Patronizing humor" . . . sums it up perfectly. +1 nt |
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SidDithers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:53 AM Response to Original message |
230. K&R. That's really clever... |
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Swede (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 10:38 AM Response to Original message |
265. K&R |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:04 PM Response to Reply #265 |
298. I should have posted this blog about privilege here. |
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AnneD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 10:46 AM Response to Original message |
267. Love it..... |
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mistertrickster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 11:39 AM Response to Original message |
283. Wow. Brilliant. Stop crime by telling criminals to stop being criminals. |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 11:51 AM Response to Reply #283 |
287. I'd say raising awareness and acting as a catalyst for discussion is clever |
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mistertrickster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 03:58 PM Response to Reply #287 |
341. Right, me with my MA in English Lit, what do I know about irony . . . nt |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 05:03 PM Response to Reply #341 |
345. Well somehow the meaning escaped you... |
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mistertrickster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 05:41 PM Response to Reply #345 |
348. I got the "deeper" meaning just fine. It just doesn't strike me as very deep. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 07:11 PM Response to Reply #348 |
356. this is what bothers me. we have media, society as a whole demanding men are vile |
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mistertrickster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-20-11 08:42 AM Response to Reply #356 |
366. You implicitly already agreed with my post. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-20-11 08:57 AM Response to Reply #366 |
367. i re read what you wrote |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 11:55 AM Response to Original message |
288. Deleted message |
redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 12:18 PM Response to Original message |
291. I wonder if this would help more people to "get it". |
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Blecht (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 12:23 PM Response to Original message |
292. Nice post |
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DaveJ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 12:41 PM Response to Original message |
293. Wierd, looks like the whole site is offline now. nt |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 01:45 PM Response to Reply #293 |
320. Pity. n/t |
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Ken Burch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 02:04 PM Response to Original message |
324. uh..."REMEMBER not to rape her"?????? |
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mistertrickster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 05:47 PM Response to Reply #324 |
349. Right, because every man's first thought would turn to rape . . . kinda dumb, isn't it. nt |
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Ken Burch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 05:48 PM Response to Reply #349 |
350. And wouldn't this mean that the onset of Alzheimer's would turn old men into rapists? |
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mistertrickster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 05:49 PM Response to Reply #350 |
352. Hehehe . . . nt |
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a2liberal (381 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 02:52 PM Response to Original message |
331. K&R (n/t) |
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LeftishBrit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 05:02 PM Response to Original message |
344. +1000! |
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DaveJ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 07:06 PM Response to Original message |
355. One must also consider the environment where this is posted |
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StarryNite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 07:23 PM Response to Original message |
358. Wow! |
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DWilliamsamh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 07:25 PM Response to Original message |
359. Here are my 10 methods: |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:27 PM Response to Reply #359 |
360. Do you wait until they rape you or shoot them preemptively? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-19-11 08:56 PM Response to Reply #360 |
361. i think about this too, whenever i hear this. |
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Abin Sur (647 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-20-11 12:44 AM Response to Reply #359 |
363. Hm...a 9 shot magazine. That does narrow it down. |
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Bonobo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-20-11 12:49 AM Response to Original message |
364. I don't understand this. Surely the OP knows that a rapist would, by definition, not listen. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-20-11 10:36 AM Response to Reply #364 |
368. Hi Bonobo. It isn't aimed at rapists, per se, but getting people talking and thinking about |
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Bonobo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-20-11 11:22 AM Response to Reply #368 |
369. Yeah, I see that now. It is an interesting approach. Thanks, UP. nt |
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