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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-22-10 08:36 AM
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I want to say one thing about incest between a parent and child
adult or not. It's a terrible abuse of power on the part of the parent- even if it's supposedly consensual and the child is of age. It doesn't just happen. It happens because of prior abuse or grooming on the part of the parent.

It is NOT a sexual relationship entered into by two people of who are remotely equal in power.
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littlewolf Donating Member (920 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-22-10 08:43 AM
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1. ick... just ick .....gives me the willies thinking of it ... ick nt
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stray cat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-22-10 08:52 AM
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2. So consenting adult siblings would be ok?
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The Straight Story Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-22-10 08:53 AM
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3. Luke and Leia..... (nt)
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right2bfree Donating Member (383 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-22-10 09:04 AM
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6.  DUH, when Luke found out that Leia was his sister, he didnt persue it, did he? nt
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Raster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-22-10 09:26 AM
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11. it. was. a. movie. They were actors.
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Pacifist Patriot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-22-10 08:57 AM
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4. I will never understand why some people respond in this manner.
One very specific issue is being addressed. What on earth makes you think the OP is making any sort of statement one way or the other about sibling incest? Just because something is excluded from comment doesn't mean an opinion has been expressed by omission.
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-22-10 09:25 AM
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uncommon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-22-10 08:59 AM
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5. In fairness...
most relationships between a man and a woman in this world are not entered into by two people who are remotely equal in power.

That said, I agree with you. An imbalance of power that strong is never really overcome in life, even when one is caring for a parent who has become old and infirm.
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right2bfree Donating Member (383 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-22-10 09:06 AM
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7. quite true ! nt
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rucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-22-10 09:10 AM
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8. What brought this on?
Seems like a pretty random topic for discussion. Is there something in the news?
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bemildred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-22-10 09:13 AM
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9. Some guy was arrested for sex with adult offspring, I gather.
I have stayed far away from the subject myself.
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dionysus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-22-10 10:15 AM
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12. i think a college prof someone got arrested for sleeping with his adult daughter. creepy story.
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Still a Democrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-22-10 10:17 AM
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13. Professor Accused of Incest With Daughter
Columbia University professor David Epstein was charged last week with incest, accused of carrying on a three-year affair with his adult daughter.

According to the Columbia Spectator, the affair was consensual, but the political science teacher has been arraigned on one count of third-degree incest and could face up to four years in jail.

...

http://abcnews.go.com/Health/switzerland-considers-legalizing-consensual-incest-columbia-professor-accused/story?id=12395499
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rucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-22-10 10:50 AM
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15. Aha. That is a topic for General Discussion
They didn't hesitate to bring homosexuality into it, I see. Oy vey, I can hear the televangelists now.
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Still a Democrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-22-10 10:19 AM
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14. What was being questioned was only the father being charged legally
I suppose the DA has latitude, but some questioned why only he was pursued legally.
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rucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-22-10 10:53 AM
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16. Following the DA's logic, there should be crimes to charge him with
if they investigate more and go back to when she was a minor. If he's following his own theory, this didn't happen overnight. If the daughter was "groomed" for this, there needs to be some evidence to that effect.
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