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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-23-07 10:56 PM Original message |
Check in if you enjoy sex. |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-23-07 11:16 PM Response to Original message |
1. The idea that any of us hate sex is totally ridiculous. |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-23-07 11:28 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Well said -- |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 01:45 AM Response to Reply #1 |
5. Bravo! |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 10:26 AM Response to Reply #1 |
13. Thom -- a simple question |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 10:35 AM Response to Reply #13 |
14. I think he was trying to draw a distinction between thoughtless |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 11:46 AM Response to Reply #14 |
18. I have often considered exactly that point, |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 11:56 AM Response to Reply #18 |
20. That's a great explanation of |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 10:43 AM Response to Reply #13 |
15. I don't see the contradiction. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 10:48 AM Response to Reply #15 |
16. Thom -- please find me a single post of mine that says |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 11:11 AM Response to Reply #16 |
17. No, you haven't. |
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iverglas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 02:11 PM Response to Reply #17 |
25. what a fine expression of it all |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 03:34 PM Response to Reply #17 |
27. I don't think I smeared anyone |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 04:35 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. It's the industry |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-26-07 02:04 AM Response to Reply #27 |
71. Here's my take on that |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-26-07 03:09 PM Response to Reply #71 |
79. You do realize that I'm |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-26-07 05:38 PM Response to Reply #79 |
81. I have no idea why you think those things are relevant |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-26-07 07:17 PM Response to Reply #81 |
83. About this part of your post: |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-26-07 09:13 PM Response to Reply #83 |
84. It's in the post I initially responded to. Direct quote from her. nt |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-26-07 07:11 PM Response to Reply #71 |
82. Exactly. |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-26-07 09:33 PM Response to Reply #27 |
85. ? |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-26-07 10:28 PM Response to Reply #85 |
86. It was posted in the women's rights forum |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-26-07 11:04 PM Response to Reply #86 |
87. One person says something on the Women's Right's forum and you trash all of us for it. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 01:14 PM Response to Reply #17 |
51. i own porn too and love porn. however porn is an industry not a concept |
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femrap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-23-10 02:39 PM Response to Reply #1 |
95. I hate bad sex....you |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 12:50 AM Response to Original message |
3. Oh hell yes |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 09:23 AM Response to Reply #3 |
10. Wow -- |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 01:27 AM Response to Original message |
4. I rather like it, myself |
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Branjor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 06:57 AM Response to Original message |
6. I for one |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 07:42 AM Response to Original message |
7. Very happily married woman here |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 09:25 AM Response to Reply #7 |
11. Indeed -- |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 11:26 AM Response to Reply #11 |
43. I googled IBTP |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 01:18 PM Response to Reply #43 |
53. Twisty is quite brilliant. |
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atommom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 08:22 AM Response to Original message |
8. Of course I like sex. But then it never occurred to me until I got to DU |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 09:25 AM Response to Reply #8 |
12. lol |
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cally (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 09:12 AM Response to Original message |
9. Of course I do |
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libnnc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 11:47 AM Response to Original message |
19. Question: do lesbians who enjoy sex |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 12:00 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. I can't really answer that, |
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libnnc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 12:03 PM Response to Reply #21 |
22. thank you for your honesty |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 12:40 PM Response to Reply #22 |
23. Thanks. |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 03:36 PM Response to Reply #19 |
28. As I answered to your post in GD - Everyone participates in the patriarchy |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 06:03 PM Response to Reply #19 |
31. any lesbian made porn that i have seen is very liberating with adult actors. |
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lizerdbits (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 07:53 PM Response to Reply #19 |
36. Interestingly |
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Samurai_Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 12:41 PM Response to Original message |
24. This feminist likes sex, and was in the adult sex industry |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 02:41 PM Response to Reply #24 |
26. Thank you : ) |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 06:01 PM Response to Original message |
30. i love sex and i love SOME porn. porn can be a product of feminism but frequently isnt. |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 06:35 PM Response to Reply #30 |
32. That is very hypocritical, and yes, ironic. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 06:46 PM Response to Reply #32 |
33. i had second thoughts about keeping this comment up |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 06:52 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. Definitely not an expression I would expect |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 07:03 PM Response to Reply #32 |
35. my experience were part of who i am. i find people who like to call/imply that i am a slut |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 12:33 AM Response to Reply #35 |
38. I'm glad you're here |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 11:18 AM Response to Reply #38 |
42. well thats because both men and women are critical about womens sexuality, |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 01:19 PM Response to Reply #42 |
54. How true. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-04-10 09:48 AM Response to Reply #42 |
94. Amen to that! Even now a woman encounters a lot of judgement and social disapproval for |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 11:53 AM Response to Reply #30 |
45. There you go. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 01:03 PM Response to Reply #45 |
49. we should be able to have a debate about porn that does not depend on the misery of a woman |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 01:22 PM Response to Reply #49 |
55. Indeed. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 01:29 PM Response to Reply #55 |
58. it may be a problem with mass produced porn. most of the porn i own and watch is lesbian made porn |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 02:42 PM Response to Reply #58 |
59. Nor would I. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 04:14 PM Response to Reply #59 |
62. absolutely. |
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iverglas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 12:23 PM Response to Reply #30 |
46. blows me away |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 01:04 PM Response to Reply #46 |
50. a large number is more than most 'normal' women esp lesbians have had |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 01:24 PM Response to Reply #46 |
56. Well said. |
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iverglas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 03:53 PM Response to Reply #56 |
60. well ... |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 03:58 PM Response to Reply #60 |
61. Muahahaha. |
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iverglas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 05:46 PM Response to Reply #61 |
67. just to sort it out if needed |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-26-07 11:22 AM Response to Reply #67 |
74. "Now that's some prelogical thinking." |
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iverglas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-26-07 11:41 AM Response to Reply #74 |
76. and I see you were being offered cake |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 04:30 PM Response to Reply #30 |
63. It is funny how all this sex positive feminism |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 05:32 PM Response to Reply #63 |
66. yup |
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femmedem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 09:17 PM Response to Reply #63 |
69. The madonna/whore paradigm even exists in the sex industry. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-26-07 03:32 PM Response to Reply #69 |
80. wherever sexism exists that paradigm exists |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-24-07 11:30 PM Response to Original message |
37. Me, me, me...checking in...! |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 05:21 AM Response to Original message |
39. Speaking out against rape somehow equates to .... |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 08:32 AM Response to Reply #39 |
40. Indeed. |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 10:25 AM Response to Original message |
41. you can definitely count me in. n/t |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 11:51 AM Response to Original message |
44. Everyone's different |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 12:29 PM Response to Reply #44 |
47. That's a common debate tactic |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 12:47 PM Response to Reply #47 |
48. You've definitely been paying attention. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 01:17 PM Response to Reply #47 |
52. well said! |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 05:08 PM Response to Reply #47 |
65. Yep, and then they talk down to you scornfully as if you are |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 07:10 PM Response to Reply #47 |
68. Very well said... |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 01:27 PM Response to Reply #44 |
57. Our positions in society are different -- |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-25-07 05:07 PM Response to Reply #57 |
64. Arguing with those guys you get the vibe they definitely feel |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-26-07 12:47 AM Response to Reply #57 |
70. I can't imagine ever feeling that I was entitled to use another person for my sexual gratification |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-26-07 11:21 AM Response to Reply #70 |
73. Exactly! |
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lizerdbits (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-26-07 12:25 PM Response to Reply #70 |
77. If men have "uncontrollable urges" |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-26-07 01:28 PM Response to Reply #77 |
78. Blaming the victim is what |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-26-07 10:24 AM Response to Original message |
72. I like sex. |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-26-07 11:23 AM Response to Reply #72 |
75. Oh darling, it's because our culture (and most others as far as I can tell) define sex |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-27-07 10:18 AM Response to Reply #75 |
88. Amen/Ramen to that! |
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lizerdbits (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-27-07 10:44 AM Response to Reply #88 |
89. "No sex is better than bad sex" |
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roody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-31-09 01:34 AM Response to Reply #72 |
93. Also a vibrator beside the bed in case you need more. |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-27-07 11:26 PM Response to Original message |
90. I love that this thread has over 2,000 views, and almost 90 posts. |
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Boojatta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-29-09 12:03 PM Response to Reply #90 |
91. Kick, to help more DU members discover this DU Group. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-30-09 06:53 PM Response to Reply #91 |
92. interesting read. thank you for pulling this back up. i agree with everyone. lol. nt |
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Qanisqineq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-24-10 01:26 AM Response to Original message |
96. I don't remember |
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