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MarianJack

(10,237 posts)
Sun Jan 14, 2018, 06:38 PM Jan 2018

Today I observe, but not celebrate, an anniversary.

Today is 28 years of sobriety for me. I don't consider bit to be particularly remarkable, but simply a continuation of a long string of "one day at a time" decisions.

If you are struggling with alcoholism or any other form of addiction, I promise you that you CAN get here from there. Life will not be perfect, but I promise you that it will be better.

In my boozing days my wife wouldn't have given me a second look and I wouldn't have deserved it.

Thank you for reading.

PEACE!

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Today I observe, but not celebrate, an anniversary. (Original Post) MarianJack Jan 2018 OP
I applaud your commitment and success to one day at a time. MLAA Jan 2018 #1
Thank you MarianJack Jan 2018 #2
Amazingly well done!! GreenPartyVoter Jan 2018 #3
Congratulations MarianJack, this is quite an accomplishment. Irish_Dem Jan 2018 #4
Congratulations, MarianJack Ohiogal Jan 2018 #5
Congratulations! HopeAgain Jan 2018 #6
Good work Angry Dragon Jan 2018 #7
This is huge elfin Jan 2018 #8
Congratulations MarianJack! smirkymonkey Jan 2018 #9
Congratulations! RandomAccess Jan 2018 #10
Definitely an accomplishment worth noting. 3catwoman3 Jan 2018 #11
Good on ya, Jack! Cha Jan 2018 #12
Congratulations! and you should celebrate with much pride, not a drink. demigoddess Jan 2018 #13
I'm a member of ACOA Rhiannon12866 Jan 2018 #31
I've had a lot of family and friends with substance abuse issues, so I know that's a HELL of an Grown2Hate Jan 2018 #14
Congrats, MarianJack. 28 years of ODAAT! TygrBright Jan 2018 #15
Happy trudging! madamesilverspurs Jan 2018 #16
Thank you for hanging in. Live does get better, doesn't it? marble falls Jan 2018 #17
Congratulations! Of course what you've done is remarkable!!!! All the best... Demoiselle Jan 2018 #18
Congrats! JDC Jan 2018 #19
You should celebrate....while observing! Well done !! n/t Kirk Lover Jan 2018 #20
... spanone Jan 2018 #21
👏👏👏👏👏 irisblue Jan 2018 #22
That is quite an accomplishment kimbutgar Jan 2018 #23
What an accomplishment, MarianJack. Congratulations! democrank Jan 2018 #24
All day, every day, 10,227 days in a row. That is kinda remarkable. Iggo Jan 2018 #25
Bravo shenmue Jan 2018 #26
That is so wonderful! Ilsa Jan 2018 #27
Congrats closing in on 18 here dsc Jan 2018 #28
Thank you friend.... mreilly Jan 2018 #29
Congratulations and thank you for sharing! Rhiannon12866 Jan 2018 #30
I never thought I could quit drinking but Ive been sober for 36+ years. argyl Jan 2018 #32

MLAA

(17,252 posts)
1. I applaud your commitment and success to one day at a time.
Sun Jan 14, 2018, 06:44 PM
Jan 2018

👏🏿👏🏻👏🏽👏🏾👏🏼

elfin

(6,262 posts)
8. This is huge
Sun Jan 14, 2018, 07:08 PM
Jan 2018

Have a close friend who is close to 20 yrs of ODAT. No one ever thought they would be able to get through a month, let alone 20 years.

Scared serious by family intervention, then had the dough to get to Betty Ford, then the unbelievable hard work and diligence and constant sharing of its importance to their life.... and voila! Twenty Years! And yet, still, ODAT.

Many many meetings, sometimes two or three times a day if possible by traveling to other venues, reaching out, appreciating those who honor their sobriety, and on and on.

Congrats!

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
9. Congratulations MarianJack!
Sun Jan 14, 2018, 07:18 PM
Jan 2018

That is no small accomplishment and it is remarkable, even if it was just "one day at a time". Addiction is a powerful force and to be able to resist that every day is something incredible. I wish you lasting health and happiness in your continued journey!

3catwoman3

(23,950 posts)
11. Definitely an accomplishment worth noting.
Sun Jan 14, 2018, 07:44 PM
Jan 2018

I hope your message os success anad encouragement reaches someone who needs to hear it.

Cha

(296,868 posts)
12. Good on ya, Jack!
Sun Jan 14, 2018, 07:46 PM
Jan 2018

It really is quite an accomplishment.. I know!

You can celebrate in other ways.

demigoddess

(6,640 posts)
13. Congratulations! and you should celebrate with much pride, not a drink.
Sun Jan 14, 2018, 08:31 PM
Jan 2018

my parents drank too darn much and it made my childhood rather dark. So, I say good on you!!!

Grown2Hate

(2,009 posts)
14. I've had a lot of family and friends with substance abuse issues, so I know that's a HELL of an
Sun Jan 14, 2018, 08:32 PM
Jan 2018

accomplishment! Well done, and I wish you continued health and success in your recovery.

TygrBright

(20,755 posts)
15. Congrats, MarianJack. 28 years of ODAAT!
Sun Jan 14, 2018, 08:33 PM
Jan 2018

It can be done.

You did it.

Someone else can do it, too.

One day at a time.

Sharing stories is sharing strength.

appreciatively,
Bright

JDC

(10,117 posts)
19. Congrats!
Sun Jan 14, 2018, 08:50 PM
Jan 2018

Do you mind if I cross reference your post in the Addiction and Recovery Group? I think it's important to share the success and message of hope there.

Thx and congrats again.

irisblue

(32,932 posts)
22. 👏👏👏👏👏
Sun Jan 14, 2018, 09:01 PM
Jan 2018

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

kimbutgar

(21,056 posts)
23. That is quite an accomplishment
Sun Jan 14, 2018, 09:16 PM
Jan 2018

Pat yourself on the back you deserve it. My best friend has been sober for over 7 years and I make sure to praise her.

democrank

(11,085 posts)
24. What an accomplishment, MarianJack. Congratulations!
Sun Jan 14, 2018, 09:21 PM
Jan 2018

Such commitment and courage.I'm so happy for you.

~PEACE~

 

mreilly

(2,120 posts)
29. Thank you friend....
Sun Jan 14, 2018, 09:40 PM
Jan 2018

... I am a practicing alcoholic and your words are greatly uplifting. Good to know there is a light out there. I will think upon your words and work them into my plan.

Again, thank you and congratulations upon your 28 years.

argyl

(3,064 posts)
32. I never thought I could quit drinking but Ive been sober for 36+ years.
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 03:25 PM
Jan 2018

You’re right, things won’t be perfect but it sure beats the alternative. In my sobriety I’ve taken some hard shots but I’ve never considered drinking as any type of remedy.
When I was first trying to stay sober I was as wobbly as a newborn colt. Then this old timer told me,” There’s not a problem in the world that a drink won’t make worse.”
And that one sentence made so much sense to me.

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