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Renew Deal

(85,169 posts)
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 10:50 PM Dec 2011

"Help me figure out who my babies daddy is!!"

This discussion thread was locked as off-topic by tkmorris (a host of the General Discussion forum).

Posted: Dec-05 05:13 AM via the iPhone app (1 of 49)

My husband and I started trying for a baby this past fall. My LMP was October 8, 2011. My cycle is every 30 days. I had a positive OPK (Ovulation Predictor Kit) October 24, 2011. We had sex, unprotected every other day and he never ever pulled out. We even did it the day we had the positive OPK. BUT, on October 26, 2011 I was a complete idiot and had sex w my high school sweetheart. He was inside me, for just about a minute, unprotected when I said no, and we stopped. He wasn't close at all to climaxing. I left, realizing I had made a mistake. Nov 8th, my period was late and guess what?! Now I'm pregnant!!! I had a sono that read I was 5 weeks, 6 days pregnant on Nov 21st and I go again tomorrow for another one. I am scared to death to think there is any possibility that this baby may not be my husbands!!! Can anyone tell me what they think!!!? Please!!

http://www.whattoexpect.com/forums/35-moms-to-be/topic/help-me-figure-out-who-my-babies-daddy-is

Guess how the other expecting moms reacted to this.

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"Help me figure out who my babies daddy is!!" (Original Post) Renew Deal Dec 2011 OP
Holeeeyyy Moollleee. Texasgal Dec 2011 #1
About like I expected Pithlet Dec 2011 #2
Nope Renew Deal Dec 2011 #3
Are you implying that was the general consensus? Pithlet Dec 2011 #4
No, but there's lots of replies like that. Renew Deal Dec 2011 #8
Yes, but they were more than outnumbered Pithlet Dec 2011 #12
My first thought was ... Kennah Dec 2011 #5
Yes, but are you her Renew Deal Dec 2011 #7
sounds like sylveste Dec 2011 #6
Why on earth is this in GD? LeftyMom Dec 2011 #9
agreed demtenjeep Dec 2011 #10
Pregnancy = sex now? (nt) The Straight Story Dec 2011 #13
This is not even close to a sex thread Renew Deal Dec 2011 #14
It's a traditional GD thread that deals with complicated issues. Renew Deal Dec 2011 #11
She needs to get a DNA test as soon as possible tammywammy Dec 2011 #15
Personally, I blame gay marriage for her problems The Straight Story Dec 2011 #16
Gotta lock this one tkmorris Dec 2011 #17

Texasgal

(17,240 posts)
1. Holeeeyyy Moollleee.
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 10:54 PM
Dec 2011

I actually have nothing to say. A first here.

Pithlet

(25,089 posts)
2. About like I expected
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 10:55 PM
Dec 2011

She sure didn't get a whole lot of sympathy, did she?

Renew Deal

(85,169 posts)
3. Nope
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 10:56 PM
Dec 2011

"I agree. It's husband's even if it's not. The only person that will feel better if you tell is you and YOU don't deserve it. Suck it up. You made the bed. Lie in it."

Pithlet

(25,089 posts)
4. Are you implying that was the general consensus?
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 10:57 PM
Dec 2011

Because it wasn't.

Renew Deal

(85,169 posts)
8. No, but there's lots of replies like that.
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 11:01 PM
Dec 2011

Pithlet

(25,089 posts)
12. Yes, but they were more than outnumbered
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 11:08 PM
Dec 2011

by the ones judging her for what she did. And then that's not even including the more neutral posts, or the ones just giving her advice not counting advice on the DNA.

Kennah

(14,578 posts)
5. My first thought was ...
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 10:59 PM
Dec 2011

... FUCK ME!

My second thought was, wait a minute. Don't get the wrong idea. I ain't her highschool sweetie.

Renew Deal

(85,169 posts)
7. Yes, but are you her
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 11:00 PM
Dec 2011

husband?

sylveste

(197 posts)
6. sounds like
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 11:00 PM
Dec 2011

every episode of jerry springer.

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
9. Why on earth is this in GD?
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 11:05 PM
Dec 2011
 

demtenjeep

(31,997 posts)
10. agreed
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 11:06 PM
Dec 2011

I thought no sex threads

The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
13. Pregnancy = sex now? (nt)
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 11:11 PM
Dec 2011

Renew Deal

(85,169 posts)
14. This is not even close to a sex thread
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 11:12 PM
Dec 2011

This is about pregnancy and paternity issues.

Also, there's no such rule about "sex threads" at DU.

Renew Deal

(85,169 posts)
11. It's a traditional GD thread that deals with complicated issues.
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 11:07 PM
Dec 2011

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
15. She needs to get a DNA test as soon as possible
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 11:18 PM
Dec 2011

Best to be honest with your husband now then have it come up later.

The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
16. Personally, I blame gay marriage for her problems
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 11:22 PM
Dec 2011

tkmorris

(11,138 posts)
17. Gotta lock this one
Mon Dec 12, 2011, 11:26 PM
Dec 2011

This really isn't GD material, perhaps it would find it's proper audience in the Lounge.

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