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Eko

(7,282 posts)
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 11:11 PM Apr 2018

Name one book that helped to change your life.

Here is one for me.
The Power of one.
""First with your head and then with your heart." So says Hoppie Groenewald, boxing champion, to a seven-year-old boy who dreams of being the welterweight champion of the world. For the young Peekay, it is a piece of advice he will carry with him throughout his life.

Born in a South Africa divided by racism and hatred, this one small boy will come to lead all the tribes of Africa. Through enduring friendships with Hymie and Gideon, Peekay gains the strength he needs to win out. And in a final conflict with his childhood enemy, the Judge, Peekay will fight to the death for justice."
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Name one book that helped to change your life. (Original Post) Eko Apr 2018 OP
The Caine Mutiny MaryMagdaline Apr 2018 #1
I'll check it out. Eko Apr 2018 #4
Not hedging, but I had to read in 9th grade and never forgot it MaryMagdaline Apr 2018 #12
it is a great book. Herman Wouk is 102 and is still publishing. grantcart May 2018 #56
The Day of the Americans and "Nigger" by Dick Gregory grantcart May 2018 #57
The c programming language unblock Apr 2018 #2
Kernighan and Ritchie book was awesome thbobby Apr 2018 #18
most intimidating thing I ever did lapfog_1 May 2018 #152
How about: "IBM System/360 Basic Programming Support Basic Assembler Language" AJT May 2018 #110
good one! stands the test of time! unblock May 2018 #112
IBM 360/30 RPG, my first language! USALiberal May 2018 #192
Ahhh, that ended up being the coding language for the old system/36, AJT May 2018 #194
Now writing iPad apps. An amazing 42 years of technology. nt USALiberal May 2018 #196
I was a mainframe systems programmer for 35 years. AJT May 2018 #198
Berlin Diary by William Shirer. thucythucy Apr 2018 #3
Great one. Eko Apr 2018 #6
Never read Berlin Diary thbobby May 2018 #21
Horton Hears A Who ret5hd Apr 2018 #5
A person's a person no matter how small. An elephant's faithful, 100%. Hekate May 2018 #103
That is a great one! trixie2 May 2018 #174
7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Steven Covey. oasis Apr 2018 #7
To Kill a Mockingbird. Lint Head Apr 2018 #8
That book is the first one I remember reading that really Upthevibe Apr 2018 #15
I am still moved when I see it. Lint Head Apr 2018 #16
My choice as well. n/t phylny May 2018 #60
great great book Demovictory9 May 2018 #138
Recently reread "To Kill a Mockingbird" in my book club womanofthehills May 2018 #233
Trout Fishing in America Brother Buzz Apr 2018 #9
Any life shaped by that book has got to be an interesting one. SomethingNew May 2018 #40
I remember that book. I was in college. nt leftyladyfrommo May 2018 #68
I loved it as well. skip fox May 2018 #123
The one Brautigan poem I always remembered, ended with.. dixiegrrrrl May 2018 #170
I enjoyed his occasionally injecting haiku into his writing...sometimes with a bit of wry wit Brother Buzz May 2018 #187
Second Serve ryan_cats Apr 2018 #10
Yoko Ono's Grapefruit Grassy Knoll Apr 2018 #11
Just saw a PetSmart commercial using Yes, I'm Your Angel. greyl May 2018 #36
A Wrinkle In Time RainCaster Apr 2018 #13
The ones that did that for me were "Half Magic" and "The Phantom Tollbooth." Squinch May 2018 #127
loved all of the Edward Eager books! musette_sf May 2018 #202
"The Peg-Legged Pirate of Sulu" by Cora Cheney . . . Journeyman Apr 2018 #14
Sami Michael's Refuge ProudLib72 Apr 2018 #17
Get Shorty TeamPooka May 2018 #19
Catcher In The Rye. edbermac May 2018 #20
I reread that not long ago. leftyladyfrommo May 2018 #69
Yes, I Can justgamma May 2018 #22
The Bible Snake Plissken May 2018 #23
I Was Thinking The Same Snake ProfessorGAC May 2018 #70
BINGO! Ligyron May 2018 #177
The Golden Book of Chemistry Experiments. hunter May 2018 #24
+1 jberryhill May 2018 #126
Letters to a Young Poet royable May 2018 #25
most of all the books by dweller May 2018 #26
And didn't he end up in a pshychiatric facility? Capperdan May 2018 #153
I always treated it as fiction. alfredo May 2018 #197
Don't know about changed my life but Huck Finn inspired the crap out of me Quixote1818 May 2018 #27
Nods - I think it's one of the most important books in American Literature. nt el_bryanto May 2018 #225
All books by Gibran and Hesse randr May 2018 #28
Yes, The Prophet! usedtobedemgurl May 2018 #92
"Jitterbug Perfume" by Tom Robins... Dr Hobbitstein May 2018 #29
Yes, I have read this out loud for several special friends randr May 2018 #105
Love all Tom Rob Robbins books - he definitely has a way with words womanofthehills May 2018 #231
Still Life With Woodpecker is one of my favorite books Dr Hobbitstein May 2018 #237
Generations PoindexterOglethorpe May 2018 #30
Bury my Heart at Wounded Knee. ismnotwasm May 2018 #31
Yes! mountain grammy May 2018 #64
Awesome one. Eko May 2018 #157
I was reading through the list........ MyOwnPeace May 2018 #176
The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy. BlueTsunami2018 May 2018 #32
I'll drink a pan-galactic gargle blaster to that! n/t lapfog_1 May 2018 #154
The Elements of Style lapfog_1 May 2018 #155
My favorite books ever. Douglas Adams' writing introduced me to Richard Dawkins' The Selfish Gene, Grown2Hate May 2018 #189
So many books in a lifetime of reading, but Living in the Lap of the Goddess by Cynthia Eller... Hekate May 2018 #33
Hiroshima, by John Hersey, nevergiveup May 2018 #34
That book and a a few on Germany need to be required reading in high schools today Hekate May 2018 #104
Selected Writings of Ralph Waldo Emerson Miles Archer May 2018 #35
I'll second that one! Squinch May 2018 #86
Emerson had a huge impact on me as well. smirkymonkey May 2018 #98
Yes, exactly! Squinch May 2018 #102
Helped shape me in my 20's tons. Eko May 2018 #158
A Sand County Almanac Mendocino May 2018 #37
Absolutely! pandr32 May 2018 #141
Autobiography of Malcolm X ALBliberal May 2018 #38
I read that in my early 20s and it was stunning. He was not long dead at that point... Hekate May 2018 #84
I also read in my 20s for a U.S. History class. Incredible account of a black man growing up and ALBliberal May 2018 #93
It was assigned reading when I was in high school musette_sf May 2018 #203
Excellent thanks for posting. Nt ALBliberal May 2018 #211
Catch 22 RGinNJ May 2018 #39
The Hobbit Crutchez_CuiBono May 2018 #41
I'm trying to get my 13 y.o. grandson to read Earthsea.I finally gave him book 1 last time I saw him Hekate May 2018 #109
A surprisingly good trilogy. Crutchez_CuiBono May 2018 #169
I read a ton of Sci Fi as a kid. My dad would bring home a box at a time from his co-workers... Hekate May 2018 #171
Very interesting! Crutchez_CuiBono May 2018 #173
Hekate, Tucker08087 May 2018 #210
Thanks! He reads for pleasure, but his dad is heavy into dark fantasy, I think... Hekate May 2018 #213
The Grapes of Wrath eleny May 2018 #42
I Agree, Elena peggysue2 May 2018 #130
I read it between junior and senior year of high school eleny May 2018 #132
Sounds familiar peggysue2 May 2018 #133
I should have written to him since he was still alive in 1963 eleny May 2018 #135
The AARL Amateur Radio Handbook. KY_EnviroGuy May 2018 #43
It's Amateur Radio Relay League (ARRL) dumbcat May 2018 #72
Healing Back Pain marlakay May 2018 #44
Vagabonding In Europe and North Africa, by Ed Buryn subterranean May 2018 #45
John Robbins's area51 May 2018 #46
To Kill a Mockingbird rusty quoin May 2018 #47
Isn't this more of a Lounge post? oberliner May 2018 #48
Apparently not. Hekate May 2018 #100
Sorry, probably should have been in the lounge. Eko May 2018 #159
Never apologize for starting a book thread, any time, any where. Look how many ... Hekate May 2018 #216
Henry Miller's "Tropic of Cancer." betsuni May 2018 #49
Ha! I was composing my response while you posted yours... davekriss May 2018 #51
Heh. betsuni May 2018 #55
I liked The Air-Conditioned Nightmare, too davekriss May 2018 #136
One book? Not possible! davekriss May 2018 #50
Treasure Island Cicada May 2018 #52
Soon To Be A Major Motion Picture, by Abbie Hoffman. byronius May 2018 #53
Steal This Book Ligyron May 2018 #180
Woodstock Nation! byronius May 2018 #190
The Grass Is Singing by Doris Lessing. A white Rhodesia woman in the applegrove May 2018 #54
The Art of Loving by Erich Fromm, and ... CaliforniaPeggy May 2018 #58
A Wrinkle in Time... n/t Stand and Fight May 2018 #59
Lord of the Flies. Nt NCTraveler May 2018 #61
With the Old Breed: At Peleliu and Okinawa Rainbow Droid May 2018 #62
yes handmade34 May 2018 #120
The best first-person account of the Pacific Theater hellscape. VOX May 2018 #179
well, a 1903 encyclopedia britannica was so good, i stopped reading fiction. pansypoo53219 May 2018 #63
I love that old stuff. It's a window into a whole other world... Hekate May 2018 #214
The Jungle, Upton Sinclair mountain grammy May 2018 #65
My first science book around age 11 Runningdawg May 2018 #66
Naked Came the Stranger Dave Starsky May 2018 #67
You've *got* to track down Stranger Than Naked by one of the authors! The story of how it came to be Hekate May 2018 #115
Yeah, I heard about all that later. That's pretty funny. Dave Starsky May 2018 #137
But of course, and I would not take away that young experience for anything. Hekate May 2018 #139
No! I'm glad you mentioned that. Dave Starsky May 2018 #144
Time Enough For Love from RAH Blue_Adept May 2018 #71
And also "I Will Fear No Evil" dumbcat May 2018 #73
That was one of the reasons that I did read a lot of his stuff Blue_Adept May 2018 #219
I only read that twenty or so times. byronius May 2018 #168
I reread it every few years. Each reading has me finding new things about it Blue_Adept May 2018 #220
Fast food nation. Javaman May 2018 #74
"On Walden Pond" by Henry David Thoreau MineralMan May 2018 #75
Classic, one of my favorites. Eko May 2018 #160
The first time I read it, I was a sophomore MineralMan May 2018 #167
I got into Thoreau Eko May 2018 #188
I studied that in school trixie2 May 2018 #178
The Magic of Believing by Claude Bristol mtnsnake May 2018 #76
Hopscotch by Julio Cortazar IluvPitties May 2018 #77
The New Testament. Even though I am an atheist, the stories of Jesus have influenced me more Doodley May 2018 #78
I am an Atheist as well... handmade34 May 2018 #125
Diary of a Mad Housewife no_hypocrisy May 2018 #79
"Future Shock" by Alvin & Heidi Toffler PJMcK May 2018 #80
My Side of the Mountain MattBaggins May 2018 #81
Gone With the Wind. Croney May 2018 #82
Yes, GWTW also changed my life Raine May 2018 #90
GWTW changed my life. Lifelong Protester May 2018 #207
Trying to read it now. Do not know if I will feel a need to finish it. Freethinker65 May 2018 #111
Different groups do speak with distinct differences in real life. I don't know about GWTW... Hekate May 2018 #121
Taran Wanderer (by Lloyd Alexander, the 4th book in his Chronicles of Prydain series) 0rganism May 2018 #83
"Overshoot" by William Catton Jr. The_jackalope May 2018 #85
Jane Roberts' The Seth Material OxQQme May 2018 #87
bible, I'm an Athiest now! yortsed snacilbuper May 2018 #88
The God Delusion by Richard Dawkins NastyRiffraff May 2018 #89
Several of Wayne Dyer's books Sugarcoated May 2018 #91
The Dreyfus Affair by Peter Lefcourt LonePirate May 2018 #94
The Demon-Haunted World, by Carl Sagan. Codeine May 2018 #95
Anything by Sagan. Eko May 2018 #161
Little House on the Prairie - Wilder elfin May 2018 #96
I was obsessed with the Little House books. betsuni May 2018 #222
Dick and Jane Have Fun jalan48 May 2018 #97
I loved Dick and Jane. N/t Blindingly apparent May 2018 #107
The Burgess Books were great too later on. "Reddy, the Fox", "Blacky the Crow" and others. jalan48 May 2018 #114
Johnny Got His Gun Dyedinthewoolliberal May 2018 #99
This message was self-deleted by its author Freethinker65 May 2018 #113
read it for first time this year. Same reaction Freethinker65 May 2018 #116
"A Tale of Two Cities"...Charles Dickens (1859) Tikki May 2018 #101
The Captain's Verses -- Neruda fierywoman May 2018 #106
Silent Spring DemoTex May 2018 #108
To Kill a Mockingbird EffieBlack May 2018 #117
The Greening of America was the first. CanSocDem May 2018 #118
The Women's Room by Marilyn French AJT May 2018 #119
I just was having a conversation about this one with some women friends. Squinch May 2018 #129
Same here. musette_sf May 2018 #204
Donald Allen's The New American Poetry skip fox May 2018 #122
Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance LastLiberal in PalmSprings May 2018 #124
The Four Agreements HopeAgain May 2018 #128
The Structure of Scientific Revolutions by Thomas Kuhn Exotica May 2018 #131
Probably not what you had in mind but The Starch Solution by John McDougall MD Doremus May 2018 #134
The Devil's Chessboard, by David Talbot. librechik May 2018 #140
The Prophet, by Kahlil Gibran. I read it again once or twice a year and discover another nuance Atticus May 2018 #142
The bible. JNelson6563 May 2018 #143
The Politics of Experience and The Bird of Paradise -R.D. Laing 1967 Tom Rinaldo May 2018 #145
Long ago. No book has come close since. Blue_true May 2018 #146
The Second Sex by Simone de Beauvoir lanlady May 2018 #147
"The Peculiar Institution" by Kenneth Stampp (1956) Paladin May 2018 #148
What the Bible Really Says About Homosexuality by Daniel A. Helminiak, Ph.d MotorCityMan May 2018 #149
River of Grass, by Marjorie Stoneman Douglas. cwydro May 2018 #150
Breakfast of Champions Eliot Rosewater May 2018 #151
"Invisible Man." yallerdawg May 2018 #156
Lies And The Lying Liars by Al Franken PaulX2 May 2018 #162
The Awakening by Kate Chopin...amazing book...read it in college. Demsrule86 May 2018 #163
Night Falls Fast by Kay Redfield Jamison dreamland May 2018 #164
The Secret of the Old Clock by Carolyn Keene and all the other Nancy Drew mysteries. Sampan May 2018 #165
Time Enough For Love by Robert A. Heinlein Ferrets are Cool May 2018 #166
Forever by Judy Blume from my mother (1974) trixie2 May 2018 #172
All great choices! Tucker08087 May 2018 #209
The Voyage of the Beagle. Darwin's travels journal. GulfCoast66 May 2018 #175
Hard to pick just one, but I'll go with "Peter Pan" 50 Shades Of Blue May 2018 #181
The Necronomicon Ligyron May 2018 #182
The Bible is the popular choice at Free Republic's thread on this Kaleva May 2018 #183
They haven't read it, they just feel it is the right answer. FSogol May 2018 #224
The 1957 World Book Encyclopedia, A to W-X-Y-Z VOX May 2018 #184
Something of Value-Robert Ruark-n/t marked50 May 2018 #185
The Iliad (Robert Fagles translation) RockRaven May 2018 #186
Ohhhh, The Iliad. Eko May 2018 #191
Twelfth Night lkinwi May 2018 #193
Fahrenheit 451 alfredo May 2018 #195
Chilton's Repair Manual - 1976 Toyota Corolla jberryhill May 2018 #199
I have two - Curious Wine by Katherine V Forrest and Alice In Wonderland by Lewis Carroll. OhZone May 2018 #200
Our Final Invention...Artificial Intelligence and the End of the Human Era by James Barrat farmbo May 2018 #201
So hard to choose... Tucker08087 May 2018 #205
Where The Red Fern Grows. Snackshack May 2018 #206
So Many Possibilities Progressive2020 May 2018 #208
Message auto-removed Name removed May 2018 #212
Way at the bottom of the thread is a Message Auto Removed. How does someone manage that... Hekate May 2018 #215
Perhaps he transgressed elsewhere... dembotoz May 2018 #217
Theory of conspicuous consumption.by veblin and the poor pay more dembotoz May 2018 #218
One more: Sartre's "Nausea" betsuni May 2018 #221
Rene Dumal's "Mount Analogue" n/t FSogol May 2018 #223
The Autobiography of Malcolm X H2O Man May 2018 #226
1984. Now, more than ever, its message is vital. n/t Decoy of Fenris May 2018 #227
The Back Handed Johonny May 2018 #228
A book by Ruth Bennett, don't remember the name Thirties Child May 2018 #229
I remember the day I became an agnostic too - after reading a Bertrand Russell book of my dad's. womanofthehills May 2018 #235
The Ugly American by Eugene Burdick. Chipper Chat May 2018 #230
Harry Potter. tavernier May 2018 #232
A Course In Miracles MoonRiver May 2018 #234
The Butterfly Kid...Chester Anderson (1967) Tikki May 2018 #236

MaryMagdaline

(6,854 posts)
1. The Caine Mutiny
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 11:16 PM
Apr 2018

Not on the level of great works of art, but truly an eye opener as far as human behavior. The absolute best lesson on loyalty and group bullying.

MaryMagdaline

(6,854 posts)
12. Not hedging, but I had to read in 9th grade and never forgot it
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 11:30 PM
Apr 2018

Don't know if it would hold up now. The movie' still great, though

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
57. The Day of the Americans and "Nigger" by Dick Gregory
Tue May 1, 2018, 04:00 AM
May 2018


The Day of the Americans tells of American units liberating various Nazi Concentration camps. It had horrifying detail, and more important photographs.

"Nigger" whose sub title is "Mother if you ever hear that word you know they are advertising my book" by the late Dick Gregory.

At 12 both books yelled at me "Wake UP", not everything is at is seems in your nice suburban neighborhood, the world has great evil and oppression and everyone is trying to pretend it doesn't exist.

thbobby

(1,474 posts)
18. Kernighan and Ritchie book was awesome
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 11:59 PM
Apr 2018

Also called the white book, I think. I went through several copies of it. Don't know that it changed my life as much as Journey to Ixtlan by Castaneda did.

lapfog_1

(29,199 posts)
152. most intimidating thing I ever did
Tue May 1, 2018, 06:49 PM
May 2018

was doing a talk at an ACM conference on Unix and RAID and Dennis Ritchie was sitting in the front row, taking lots of notes.

I've been in meetings with other famous people... once was in a conference room with Al Gore when he was VP.

But the talk at the ACM conference was the one that almost made me pee my pants.

AJT

(5,240 posts)
110. How about: "IBM System/360 Basic Programming Support Basic Assembler Language"
Tue May 1, 2018, 03:01 PM
May 2018

I couldn't put it down. I was on the edge of my seat with the use of register 13.

thbobby

(1,474 posts)
21. Never read Berlin Diary
Tue May 1, 2018, 12:04 AM
May 2018

but I read The Rise and Fall of the Third Reich several times. I will check out Berlin Diary. Thanks.

Hekate

(90,673 posts)
103. A person's a person no matter how small. An elephant's faithful, 100%.
Tue May 1, 2018, 02:47 PM
May 2018

My future husband quoted Horton to me back when I was a single mom of toddlers. Ha! But it turned out that one of things he liked about me was my shelf of Japanese literature in translation.

oasis

(49,381 posts)
7. 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Steven Covey.
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 11:23 PM
Apr 2018

It's lessons have guided me through personal relationships at every level.

Lint Head

(15,064 posts)
8. To Kill a Mockingbird.
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 11:25 PM
Apr 2018

I was in Jr High living in the segregated south. When I read it, followed by MLK's marches, I knew, as a young white male teen, I had to stand up against the overwhelming odds and white acquaintances that believed differently than me. I must have received a different gene or something because I knew I had to speak up. That what I had witnessed since the day I was born was wrong. That book gave me the courage. I even cried all through the movie. Which I saw ocer and over in the theater. Back then it was easier to just stay seated and watch movies over. Later I would just hide in the men's room until the next feature.

Upthevibe

(8,042 posts)
15. That book is the first one I remember reading that really
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 11:37 PM
Apr 2018

struck a chord with me. I read it before it was required because fortunately, my parents were quite progressive (and in Texas to boot) and had me read the book and then watch the movie.

womanofthehills

(8,702 posts)
233. Recently reread "To Kill a Mockingbird" in my book club
Wed May 2, 2018, 11:02 AM
May 2018

and then "Go Set a Watchman" - set 20 yrs after Mockingbird when Scout returns to Maycomb.

Brother Buzz

(36,422 posts)
9. Trout Fishing in America
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 11:26 PM
Apr 2018

I couldn't begin to explain how it change my life but it came along while I was at a crossroad: it helped validate my crazy life and set me free.

SomethingNew

(279 posts)
40. Any life shaped by that book has got to be an interesting one.
Tue May 1, 2018, 02:15 AM
May 2018

I read that in engineering classes during my undergrad. Recieved more than a few strange looks for unexplainable laughter.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
170. The one Brautigan poem I always remembered, ended with..
Tue May 1, 2018, 08:20 PM
May 2018

The knight and his lady would have lived happily forever, if his horse did not get a flat in front of the dragon's lair.


A short review of Trout Fishing:
An indescribable romp, the novel is best summed up in one word: mayonnaise.

Brother Buzz

(36,422 posts)
187. I enjoyed his occasionally injecting haiku into his writing...sometimes with a bit of wry wit
Tue May 1, 2018, 09:23 PM
May 2018
Seventeen years later I sat down on a rock. It was under a tree next to an old abandoned shack that had a sheriff’s notice nailed like a funeral wreath to the front door.


NO TRESPASSING 4/17 OF A HAIKU

musette_sf

(10,200 posts)
202. loved all of the Edward Eager books!
Tue May 1, 2018, 10:46 PM
May 2018

I bought a boxed set of all of his Magic books several years ago... still love to dip into them.

This is the cover of "Half Magic" that I remember from my original reading:

Journeyman

(15,031 posts)
14. "The Peg-Legged Pirate of Sulu" by Cora Cheney . . .
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 11:37 PM
Apr 2018

First book I checked out of a library, it opened a world of wonder and knowledge which I've pursued now for some 60 years.

ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
17. Sami Michael's Refuge
Mon Apr 30, 2018, 11:46 PM
Apr 2018
The time is 1973, the setting the Yom Kippur War in Israel. Communist and Zionist, Israeli Arab, Palestinian refugee, and Ashkenazi Jews clash in this story of love and hatred. https://books.google.com/books/about/Refuge.html?id=tcpiAAAAMAAJ&hl=en

justgamma

(3,665 posts)
22. Yes, I Can
Tue May 1, 2018, 12:06 AM
May 2018

by Sammy Davis Jr. It taught me about the injustices of racism. I couldn't believe how badly a major star could be treated because of the color of his skin.

ProfessorGAC

(65,010 posts)
70. I Was Thinking The Same Snake
Tue May 1, 2018, 08:20 AM
May 2018

Since i was raised catholic (high mucky much cathedral altar boy and all that), we didn't do the whole memorizing bible verses stuff, but i read enough of it to know that i was not going to base my life on fairy tales.

hunter

(38,311 posts)
24. The Golden Book of Chemistry Experiments.
Tue May 1, 2018, 12:30 AM
May 2018


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Golden_Book_of_Chemistry_Experiments

I was born a pyromaniac. This dangerous book taught me pyromaniacs could be scientists!

Alfred Powell Morgan's radio books were another huge influence on my life, but it's too bad he called them "Boys Books" instead of "Boys and Girls Books." I started college as an electrical engineering major but there were only a few, and sometimes no, women in engineering classes. I switched my major to biology because they had amazing field trips and a 50% ratio of men and women. I figured that would increase my odds of finding a girlfriend.





royable

(1,264 posts)
25. Letters to a Young Poet
Tue May 1, 2018, 12:47 AM
May 2018

by Rainer Maria Rilke. Helped me get through a very psychologically bleak time.

dweller

(23,629 posts)
26. most of all the books by
Tue May 1, 2018, 12:54 AM
May 2018

Carlos Castenada, but not all at once ... took some rereading over time, and in-depth perplexive perspection ...

✌🏼️

Capperdan

(492 posts)
153. And didn't he end up in a pshychiatric facility?
Tue May 1, 2018, 06:51 PM
May 2018

I was entranced by his books also, but looking back, I doubt his wisdom now.

alfredo

(60,071 posts)
197. I always treated it as fiction.
Tue May 1, 2018, 10:12 PM
May 2018

When Don Juan takes a shit, the mountains shake. (Or something like that)

Quixote1818

(28,930 posts)
27. Don't know about changed my life but Huck Finn inspired the crap out of me
Tue May 1, 2018, 12:57 AM
May 2018

Such a brilliant demonstration of the beauty of how free-thought is morally superior to religion.

womanofthehills

(8,702 posts)
231. Love all Tom Rob Robbins books - he definitely has a way with words
Wed May 2, 2018, 10:51 AM
May 2018

Plus you can't beat the titles: "Still Life with Woodpecker," "Fierce Invalids Home From Hot Climates," "Half Asleep in Frog Pajamas," "Even Cowgirls get the Blues," etc. These are books I can read and reread. I have read (or listened to now) most of his books over five times over the yrs.

His creativity with words and characters blows me away. My love of his writing began many yrs ago with "Another Roadside Attraction." Richard Brautigan is another author who I loved in my younger days. I guess I need to reread him again too.

 

Dr Hobbitstein

(6,568 posts)
237. Still Life With Woodpecker is one of my favorite books
Wed May 2, 2018, 11:13 AM
May 2018

of all time. I also really enjoyed Villa Incognito and B is For Beer.

But yeah, all his stuff is great.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,853 posts)
30. Generations
Tue May 1, 2018, 01:13 AM
May 2018

by Neil Howe and William Strauss. The subtitle is The "History of America's Future, 1584 to 2069." It is simply the most amazing book I've ever read. It came out in 1992, and trust me, it's not outdated.

I sometimes have to control myself, because I can get a bit like someone who is a recent convert to a religion and wants everyone else to share in that experience. Luckily, this isn't religion. It's simply a way of looking at the world. Please, please read it. And even if you're not as entranced by it as I am, I do believe you'll get a lot from it.

Their other books are The Fourth Turning and Millennials and are equally as good. Their insights into generational differences are incredibly informative.

MyOwnPeace

(16,926 posts)
176. I was reading through the list........
Tue May 1, 2018, 08:46 PM
May 2018

knowing that I was going to add that book - glad to see others thought of it as well.

REALLY opened my eyes to where we have been and how far we need to go......................................

BlueTsunami2018

(3,491 posts)
32. The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy.
Tue May 1, 2018, 01:17 AM
May 2018

The whole five book “trilogy”.

If you’ve ever read it, you know why.

If you haven’t, go do so.

Grown2Hate

(2,010 posts)
189. My favorite books ever. Douglas Adams' writing introduced me to Richard Dawkins' The Selfish Gene,
Tue May 1, 2018, 09:25 PM
May 2018

which was my un-indoctrination from anti-evolution religious views to more of a scientific outlook.

Hekate

(90,673 posts)
33. So many books in a lifetime of reading, but Living in the Lap of the Goddess by Cynthia Eller...
Tue May 1, 2018, 01:18 AM
May 2018

...and The Chalice and the Blade by Riane Eisler, both of which I read in my early 40s, helped set me on a path of personal and academic inquiry that was exciting and life-changing. It's hard to remember what I read as a child that particularly struck me, because in our family we read All The Time.

I hope my son and grandson remember what I read to them, and that I did. It was my one chance to really talk with them -- When my son was 11 I read The Lord of the Rings trilogy to him, and it really gripped him. My grandson's baby sister died when he was 5, and reading Harry Potter (all of it) to him allowed us to talk about death and grief, as well as friendship and ethics and the rest.

nevergiveup

(4,759 posts)
34. Hiroshima, by John Hersey,
Tue May 1, 2018, 01:24 AM
May 2018

I read this in college in the 60's. At the time I was a Goldwater Republican. It shocked me into an anti-war lefty and I have never looked back.

Miles Archer

(18,837 posts)
35. Selected Writings of Ralph Waldo Emerson
Tue May 1, 2018, 01:27 AM
May 2018

I received my B.A. in English from San Jose State. In theory, that means I read every book that matters. In reality, this was the book that mattered. It was my take-away from the entire experience. Kerouac's "On The Road" was a close second, but in direct response to your OP, this was the book that changed my life.



https://www.amazon.com/Selected-Writings-Emerson-Signet-Classics/dp/0451531868/

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
98. Emerson had a huge impact on me as well.
Tue May 1, 2018, 02:30 PM
May 2018

I am not a religious person, but Emerson is as close as I come to having a spiritual guide and philosopher.

Hekate

(90,673 posts)
84. I read that in my early 20s and it was stunning. He was not long dead at that point...
Tue May 1, 2018, 12:30 PM
May 2018

An African American classmate from Chicago (we were at University of Hawaii) kept urging me to read the Autobiography and I was blown away when I did. Malcolm X utterly remade himself several times over, the last time on his Hadj to Mecca.

ALBliberal

(2,340 posts)
93. I also read in my 20s for a U.S. History class. Incredible account of a black man growing up and
Tue May 1, 2018, 01:17 PM
May 2018

surviving in Amerjca....culminating in the young adulthood he and so many fell into. And as you say remaking himself. Wonderful read about Islam as well.

musette_sf

(10,200 posts)
203. It was assigned reading when I was in high school
Tue May 1, 2018, 10:49 PM
May 2018

and I was deeply moved by it.

Original cover from Black Cat Books (an imprint of Grove Press):

Hekate

(90,673 posts)
109. I'm trying to get my 13 y.o. grandson to read Earthsea.I finally gave him book 1 last time I saw him
Tue May 1, 2018, 02:54 PM
May 2018

Need to check back on progress. Ursula Le Guin is one of the great American authors.

Hekate

(90,673 posts)
171. I read a ton of Sci Fi as a kid. My dad would bring home a box at a time from his co-workers...
Tue May 1, 2018, 08:32 PM
May 2018

...at Lockheed Aircraft, the family would gobble them up, and the box would go back. Later on another box would come like a big Christmas present. I had no idea that girls allegedly did not read sci fi. Even though I felt I was reading indiscriminately, the best was pretty darn good.

In my freshman and sophomore years of college, when I was taking introductory courses in anthropology, psychology, sociology, and the rest, all those concepts seemed utterly familiar to me already. I had already explored them on other planets than Earth.

Tucker08087

(621 posts)
210. Hekate,
Tue May 1, 2018, 11:18 PM
May 2018

If he doesn’t like that one, check back with me. I know many great books for reluctant, male teenaged readers.

Hekate

(90,673 posts)
213. Thanks! He reads for pleasure, but his dad is heavy into dark fantasy, I think...
Wed May 2, 2018, 12:30 AM
May 2018

Not that I don't like Dresden Files and Emberverse myself, but at a certain point when I was about to pass along my paperbacks I hesitated and asked myself about some of the content. He might already have read similar, but I don't know. At this age I was hoping to spark a bit of interest in stuff that will make him think without his realizing that is what is going on in the background.

I have no idea if his stepdad is a reader at all. He seems to like cooking big hunks of meat best. I like him better than my daughter's ex, who thinks he is a Jedi and walks around dressed in his black dojo outfit.

peggysue2

(10,828 posts)
130. I Agree, Elena
Tue May 1, 2018, 03:46 PM
May 2018

Steinbeck's writing both in Grapes of Wrath and Of Mice and Men, as well as Willa Cather's My Antonia were the first books that made me realize what words could actually do, the power and beauty of the written word. That's while I was in high school. There would be many books after but none that took me utterly by surprise as they did.

Case of first love, I guess.

eleny

(46,166 posts)
132. I read it between junior and senior year of high school
Tue May 1, 2018, 03:51 PM
May 2018

And I can still remember being curled up reading a little bit each day so I wouldn't go through it in a flash.

eleny

(46,166 posts)
135. I should have written to him since he was still alive in 1963
Tue May 1, 2018, 04:04 PM
May 2018

That was some year for America. The MLK march, the Beatles emerge, then Kennedy's assassination and so much more. Lots to make an impression on a 16 year old turning 17.
https://www.theatlantic.com/photo/2013/02/50-years-ago-the-world-in-1963/100460/

KY_EnviroGuy

(14,490 posts)
43. The AARL Amateur Radio Handbook.
Tue May 1, 2018, 02:28 AM
May 2018

(American Amateur Radio League)

This was (probably still is) the bible of ham radio. I took a very early interest at 10 or 12 years old in radio and electronics, and that was my starting point, along with lots of help from a couple of old timers. Everything was tube-based back then, well before solid state components were widely available.

Wound up with a degree in electrical engineering and I'm still a tinkerer today.

.......

dumbcat

(2,120 posts)
72. It's Amateur Radio Relay League (ARRL)
Tue May 1, 2018, 09:11 AM
May 2018

I also got my license in 1961 at age 12, and became an electrical engineer. I have many a copy of the Amateur Radio Handbook.

marlakay

(11,457 posts)
44. Healing Back Pain
Tue May 1, 2018, 02:34 AM
May 2018

By John Sarno.

Its about mind body and how suppressed anger and being a perfectionist causes pain and how to heal from it.

Cured me from awful pain I had for years.

subterranean

(3,427 posts)
45. Vagabonding In Europe and North Africa, by Ed Buryn
Tue May 1, 2018, 02:47 AM
May 2018

The book inspired me to take a two-month backpacking trip to Europe in my early twenties, my first trip outside the U.S. And that experience helped give me the courage to buy a one-way ticket to Japan a couple of years later, which changed the course of my life.

 

rusty quoin

(6,133 posts)
47. To Kill a Mockingbird
Tue May 1, 2018, 02:55 AM
May 2018

Everything was about that for me. I think this novel made many white people realize so much.

Hekate

(90,673 posts)
216. Never apologize for starting a book thread, any time, any where. Look how many ...
Wed May 2, 2018, 12:51 AM
May 2018

...have responded!

betsuni

(25,481 posts)
49. Henry Miller's "Tropic of Cancer."
Tue May 1, 2018, 03:16 AM
May 2018

I'd never seen prose like that, a sort of DIY writing without rules, no scent of the classroom, academia; not really intellectual, yet Miller had a voracious appetite for literature as well as for life.

davekriss

(4,616 posts)
51. Ha! I was composing my response while you posted yours...
Tue May 1, 2018, 03:29 AM
May 2018

My first pick was Miller's, Big Sur and the Oranges of Hieronymus Bosch! A joy to read, Mr. Miller!

(Hmm, notice that the Henry Miller readers here posted at 2-3 am in the morning. You know, after we came home from wild evening of debauchery and bacchanalian reverie!)

betsuni

(25,481 posts)
55. Heh.
Tue May 1, 2018, 03:50 AM
May 2018

I hesitate a little to admit loving Miller because everybody thinks of the sex stuff first. Anais Nin, too. I'm reading Nin's unexpurgated Diary from 1939-47, "Mirages" containing letters from Miller (Anais is such a nut, but I love her). Miller's "The Air-Conditioned Nightmare" was published at the time and not a success, but I like it.

davekriss

(4,616 posts)
136. I liked The Air-Conditioned Nightmare, too
Tue May 1, 2018, 04:07 PM
May 2018

But I liked everything of Miller’s that I’ve read, which is pretty much everything he wrote.

davekriss

(4,616 posts)
50. One book? Not possible!
Tue May 1, 2018, 03:22 AM
May 2018

Henry Miller, Big Sur and the Oranges of Hieronymus Bosch + Alan Watts, The Book: On the Taboo Against Knowing Who You Are + Joseph Campbell, The Masks of God: Creative Mythology + Norman O Brown, Life Against Death: The Psychoanalytical Meaning of History + Gary Snyder, Earth House Hold + Harry Braverman, Labor and Monopoly Capital + Herman and Chomsky, Manufacturing Consent + Julia Kristeva, Black Sun + Andre Malraux, The Voices of Silence + Baba Ram Das, Be Here Now.

All of these and many more have changed my evolving life. I've got about a dozen books open that I'm reading right now, each with sentences, paragraphs, and pages that go way beyond 140 characters!

Dylan, those not busy being born are busy dying. Truth! Words can birth new modalities, new ways of seeing, feeling, and being.

PS/ Yikes! You might not want to ask me for my favorite films. I've got a top ten list with 100 movies on it, 90 of which most people have never heard of.

Cicada

(4,533 posts)
52. Treasure Island
Tue May 1, 2018, 03:30 AM
May 2018

At ten years old I was transported from my very boring life to a pirate ship in the South Pacific. Once I read that book a broad exciting world opened up for me in great stories.

byronius

(7,394 posts)
53. Soon To Be A Major Motion Picture, by Abbie Hoffman.
Tue May 1, 2018, 03:32 AM
May 2018

Assigned by an awesomely intelligent poli-sci prof at ASU.

I was only a Republican until I was thirteen, but that book kicked me into philosophical warp drive. She knew what she was doing.

applegrove

(118,642 posts)
54. The Grass Is Singing by Doris Lessing. A white Rhodesia woman in the
Tue May 1, 2018, 03:42 AM
May 2018

1940s makes an unfortunate marriage because people laughed at her for being single. She was creative and ingenious and had to kill all that in herself to continue in her abusive marriage. She should have never married. She was happy on her own.

Okay...it is about sexual and racial power and politics in rhodesia but the lesson for me was the above.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,611 posts)
58. The Art of Loving by Erich Fromm, and ...
Tue May 1, 2018, 04:03 AM
May 2018

Richard Halliburton's Complete Book of Marvels. It was there that I first learned about Petra. It kindled a flame that has never gone out, to travel there and see the wonders he wrote of.

Rainbow Droid

(722 posts)
62. With the Old Breed: At Peleliu and Okinawa
Tue May 1, 2018, 05:59 AM
May 2018

I read it at a very, very young age, and if books such as this were required reading in schools we'd have less war.

VOX

(22,976 posts)
179. The best first-person account of the Pacific Theater hellscape.
Tue May 1, 2018, 08:51 PM
May 2018

Eugene Sledge was an extraordinary human being.

pansypoo53219

(20,975 posts)
63. well, a 1903 encyclopedia britannica was so good, i stopped reading fiction.
Tue May 1, 2018, 06:14 AM
May 2018

got 3 free ones from an estate sale. OH IF ONLY I TOOK THEM ALL!!! well, i waited and found a complete 1891 set.

Hekate

(90,673 posts)
214. I love that old stuff. It's a window into a whole other world...
Wed May 2, 2018, 12:35 AM
May 2018

Have you checked out Gutenberg.org? 50,000 free books all out of copyright.

mountain grammy

(26,620 posts)
65. The Jungle, Upton Sinclair
Tue May 1, 2018, 06:26 AM
May 2018

The Fire Next Time, James Baldwin.

Way to hard too narrow it down to one book.

Runningdawg

(4,516 posts)
66. My first science book around age 11
Tue May 1, 2018, 07:42 AM
May 2018

I was raised in a fundy cult but by age 11 I was allowed to visit the local library by myself. When I found the science section, I hesitated before touching any of the books. I literally thought I would burst into flames. If it hadn't been for libraries and librarians that didn't rat me out to my parents, I might still be in that cult.

Dave Starsky

(5,914 posts)
67. Naked Came the Stranger
Tue May 1, 2018, 07:55 AM
May 2018

Discovered it on the shelf at a friend's house when I was about 13. Started thumbing through it. Wow.

Hekate

(90,673 posts)
115. You've *got* to track down Stranger Than Naked by one of the authors! The story of how it came to be
Tue May 1, 2018, 03:06 PM
May 2018

...is really funny. If you didn't already know, it was written on a dare by a bunch of reporters who looked at a crop of bestsellers and all more or less said, "Hell, we could do that in our combined lunch hours." Each one took a chapter, and the rest is literary history. Whatever you thought at 13 will be enhanced by what you discover as an adult.

Dave Starsky

(5,914 posts)
137. Yeah, I heard about all that later. That's pretty funny.
Tue May 1, 2018, 04:12 PM
May 2018

Of course, when I was 13, I took it completely seriously.

Hekate

(90,673 posts)
139. But of course, and I would not take away that young experience for anything.
Tue May 1, 2018, 04:27 PM
May 2018

However, The story of the lengths they went to in choosing cover art, and a photo of the "author" and the choice of a name, all that stuff, made for a fun read as an adult.

Ignore me.

Dave Starsky

(5,914 posts)
144. No! I'm glad you mentioned that.
Tue May 1, 2018, 05:29 PM
May 2018

That book was apparently a huge scandalous bestseller. It doesn't really speak very highly of the literature at the time, if the authors really thought that people would go out in droves to read that, no matter how trashy they tried to make it. But they were right!

As far as the cover art, it attracted me to the book, which got me to open it, which got me to read it cover to cover. I think that any "grown-up book" that can entice a 13-year-old to do that is a success in a weird way. It was just after that when I discovered the writings of Ray Bradbury.

Blue_Adept

(6,399 posts)
71. Time Enough For Love from RAH
Tue May 1, 2018, 08:22 AM
May 2018

A lot of good eye-opening stuff from Heinlein that helped to provide a lot of contrasting views to things I believed in and got me to open to other views.

dumbcat

(2,120 posts)
73. And also "I Will Fear No Evil"
Tue May 1, 2018, 09:18 AM
May 2018

I think I have read everything he ever wrote. (Which is a lot!) I particularly liked his later novels, which many did not. He really made you think about other views.

Blue_Adept

(6,399 posts)
219. That was one of the reasons that I did read a lot of his stuff
Wed May 2, 2018, 05:50 AM
May 2018

There was more than enough to interest in concepts but the layering and the "other views" aspect was something that back during that time you didn't see a whole lot of.

I didn't want to read things that just conformed to my worldview. I wanted to understand other views so that I could engage. I adore Starship Troopers but it didn't mean I wanted to exist in that world But I came away understanding a very different mindset and could see how to adapt slivers of it, etc.

Blue_Adept

(6,399 posts)
220. I reread it every few years. Each reading has me finding new things about it
Wed May 2, 2018, 05:52 AM
May 2018

as I get older as well.

Obviously, a lot of things don't age well. I found that in Stranger in a Strange Land re-reading I did last year, the first in about a decade. But there's also a lot that works to challenge my own beliefs regularly.

MineralMan

(146,288 posts)
75. "On Walden Pond" by Henry David Thoreau
Tue May 1, 2018, 11:50 AM
May 2018

For years, I re-read it every year on my birthday. After a few years, though, I had pretty much memorized it, so I stopped doing that.

There are many others, but that one was perhaps the most important influence.

MineralMan

(146,288 posts)
167. The first time I read it, I was a sophomore
Tue May 1, 2018, 07:48 PM
May 2018

Electronics Engineering major in 1964. Two months later, I dropped out of college and set off on an adventure that is still going on. Thoreau changed my entire direction in life. It's been great.

Eko

(7,282 posts)
188. I got into Thoreau
Tue May 1, 2018, 09:24 PM
May 2018

in my high school days in the 90's, I had a really good lit teacher. He played guitar, I don't think that was a coincidence at all.

trixie2

(905 posts)
178. I studied that in school
Tue May 1, 2018, 08:46 PM
May 2018

And was soooo disappointed by his "real" life story. I was crushed when I found out he only visited the hut during the day and went home to his mother who cooked, cleaned and did his laundry every single day.

Don't even get me started on A Room of One's Own by Woolf. [runs away screaming]

mtnsnake

(22,236 posts)
76. The Magic of Believing by Claude Bristol
Tue May 1, 2018, 11:51 AM
May 2018

If you want to harness the power of your subconscious mind and make things happen that you really want to happen, then read this book. It's old, but IMO it's still the best self-help book of its kind.

Doodley

(9,088 posts)
78. The New Testament. Even though I am an atheist, the stories of Jesus have influenced me more
Tue May 1, 2018, 11:54 AM
May 2018

than anything else.

handmade34

(22,756 posts)
125. I am an Atheist as well...
Tue May 1, 2018, 03:35 PM
May 2018

but I am moved whenever I read John 21:15-17

When they had finished breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon son of John, do you love me more than these?”
He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.”
Jesus said to him, “Feed my lambs.”
A second time he said to him, “Simon son of John, do you love me?”
He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.”
Jesus said to him, “Tend my sheep.”
He said to him the third time, “Simon son of John, do you love me?”
Peter felt hurt because he said to him the third time, “Do you love me?”
And he said to him, “Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you.”
Jesus said to him, “Feed my sheep.

PJMcK

(22,035 posts)
80. "Future Shock" by Alvin & Heidi Toffler
Tue May 1, 2018, 11:58 AM
May 2018

From Wikipedia:

The Tofflers argued that society is undergoing an enormous structural change, a revolution from an industrial society to a "super-industrial society". This change overwhelms people. He believed the accelerated rate of technological and social change left people disconnected and suffering from "shattering stress and disorientation"—future shocked. The Tofflers stated that the majority of social problems are symptoms of future shock. In their discussion of the components of such shock, they popularized the term "information overload."


In 1970, they made numerous predictions about the future of society and the increase in the tempo of change. Several of their predictions:

- Convert to a cash-less economy
- Higher rates of divorce and re-marriage
- Targeted marketing even on the scale of an individual (thanks, Facebook)
- A greater segmentation of society
- Planned obsolescence of goods
- Higher turnover in careers and jobs; less commitment by workers to employers (and vice versa)

It's a terrific book that I've re-read several times over the years.

MattBaggins

(7,904 posts)
81. My Side of the Mountain
Tue May 1, 2018, 12:00 PM
May 2018

I'm not really sure why, but that story had a truly profound influence on me. I was an unhappy, friendless child and the story takes place in the very area I grew up, so I found it to be an escape for me.

Croney

(4,659 posts)
82. Gone With the Wind.
Tue May 1, 2018, 12:24 PM
May 2018

I read it as an innocent Southern teenager who wanted to be fearless like Scarlett O'Hara. I wasn't capable of recognizing the myths, the lies, the warped views of humanity. This book was, and still is, the bible for millions of Southern white people who don't consider themselves racist but have a soft spot in their hearts for those good old plantation days when happy darkies picked cotton for the kind ole massa.

Raine

(30,540 posts)
90. Yes, GWTW also changed my life
Tue May 1, 2018, 12:59 PM
May 2018

I got interested in history because of it and learned the difference between fiction and REAL history.

Lifelong Protester

(8,421 posts)
207. GWTW changed my life.
Tue May 1, 2018, 11:08 PM
May 2018

I tell people it's not a love story, but a story of a fierce woman who'd do anything to survive. I knew it was fiction and because of it I too, became interested in REAL history.

Freethinker65

(10,017 posts)
111. Trying to read it now. Do not know if I will feel a need to finish it.
Tue May 1, 2018, 03:03 PM
May 2018

Less than one hundred pages in and I was immediately struck by the house "help" dialogue. Not speaking English as well as their owners , if all they do is attend to their white charges for decades, is unbelievable. It is definitely written from a Southern classist/racist point of view, and even eludes to Northern Georgia not being as worldly and civilized as, say, Savannah, but still better than those Northern Yankees.

Hekate

(90,673 posts)
121. Different groups do speak with distinct differences in real life. I don't know about GWTW...
Tue May 1, 2018, 03:24 PM
May 2018

...but an author like Joel Chandler Harris was genuinely trying to get dialect right, not mock it. People hold to their group's accents, rhythms, and dialects out of group identity as much as anything else. Nowadays they talk about "code-switching" when people are adept at communicating with varying audiences.

Nonetheless, GWTW is an outstandingly racist piece of fiction. My mother (born 1924 in Colorado) nearly snarled when she talked about both the movie and the book, as she had known young women who were utterly enamored of the fairy tale. Mom despised fairy tales for women, and also thought Mitchell was a mediocre author. Talk about damning the story on all counts.

Enjoy!

0rganism

(23,944 posts)
83. Taran Wanderer (by Lloyd Alexander, the 4th book in his Chronicles of Prydain series)
Tue May 1, 2018, 12:29 PM
May 2018

so much in there about finding oneself and seeing how one fits in with the world
like Sidhartha with a work ethic

The_jackalope

(1,660 posts)
85. "Overshoot" by William Catton Jr.
Tue May 1, 2018, 12:31 PM
May 2018

It completely changed my outlook for the future of industrial civilization, and the human species itself. I used to be a techno-optimist ("Whatever problems there may be, human ingenuity will fix them.&quot Now I'm a Taoist ("Que sera, sera&quot also known pejoratively in the West as a fatalist. This book was the catalyst for that shift.

OxQQme

(2,550 posts)
87. Jane Roberts' The Seth Material
Tue May 1, 2018, 12:41 PM
May 2018

So enlightening for me at 30 years old that I bought and read all of her books.
Some quotes:
"You create your own reality."
"Dreaming or awake, we perceive only events that have meaning to us."
"You get what you concentrate upon. There is no other main rule."
“You may want others to change. In doing so you begin with yourself.”
Many more --> https://www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/16174.Jane_Roberts?page=1


I also had an epiphany reading Sitchin's "The 12th Planet" and "Genesis Re-visited" which led me to immerse into what is
considered "woo" by many.
I have all of his books in my library and consider myself to be a believer.



"Starting in childhood, he has studied ancient Hebrew, Akkadian and Sumerian, the language of the ancient Mesopotamians, who brought you geometry, astronomy, the chariot and the lunar calendar. And in the etchings of Sumerian pre-cuneiform script — the oldest example of writing — are stories of creation and the cosmos that most consider myth and allegory, but that Mr. Sitchin takes literally."
https://www.nytimes.com/2010/01/10/nyregion/10alone.html

Several Edgar Cayce books. ""What your mind dwells upon, it becomes."


My mother. She could have written a book about "Who you hang out with, you become."






Sugarcoated

(7,722 posts)
91. Several of Wayne Dyer's books
Tue May 1, 2018, 01:07 PM
May 2018

but I'd say The Power Of Intention changed my inner, and as a result, my outer life the most.

Hiroshima changed my world view the most.

LonePirate

(13,419 posts)
94. The Dreyfus Affair by Peter Lefcourt
Tue May 1, 2018, 01:20 PM
May 2018

The book was released in the early 90s while I was still in college. I wouldn’t say it was life changing but it was warmly welcomed, if not mildly inspirational, as it provided a funny and optimistic perspective on gay life in America (well, from a unique, fictional and sadly, still unrealized perspective) that contrasted with the dark and sad media representation that was available at the time.

Sometimes it is good for the soul to absorb some life-affirming, pop culture media especially when the landscape offers nothing but one depressing choice after another. It’s not just princesses who long for a happily ever after.

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
95. The Demon-Haunted World, by Carl Sagan.
Tue May 1, 2018, 01:26 PM
May 2018

I was a very skeptical child, a lifelong atheist non-believer in any sort of goofy shit, but I drifted a bit toward woo when I was 19 or 20. This book sort of slapped me upside the head and shook me by the shoulders until I learned to think straight again.

elfin

(6,262 posts)
96. Little House on the Prairie - Wilder
Tue May 1, 2018, 01:42 PM
May 2018

It catapulted me from Dick and Jane into "real" books. My little world became a universe along with a library card.

betsuni

(25,481 posts)
222. I was obsessed with the Little House books.
Wed May 2, 2018, 08:33 AM
May 2018

Sort of still am. Bought the annotated autobiography, "Pioneer Girl" last year.

Response to Dyedinthewoolliberal (Reply #99)

 

CanSocDem

(3,286 posts)
118. The Greening of America was the first.
Tue May 1, 2018, 03:16 PM
May 2018


It was a pop-sociological analysis of the social revolution happening at the time. It made a good case for wearing bell-bottoms that, ultimately changed my life.


.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
129. I just was having a conversation about this one with some women friends.
Tue May 1, 2018, 03:41 PM
May 2018

We all agreed it set our lives on different trajectories than they had been on before we read it.

124. Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance
Tue May 1, 2018, 03:33 PM
May 2018

It discussed the difference between doing something because you've got reasons (which can be generated endlessly by the mind) and just naturally knowing what has quality, without given a reason for it.

It made me stop making pro-con lists when I have to make a decision. Now, I just choose, and when someone asks, "Why?" I tell them, "It's because that's what I choose. No reason."

Drives people crazy, and I always feel good about my choice.

My second choice is "A Course in Miracles," from which I got this life-changing gem: "You are never upset for the reason you think." It's saved a lot of heartache in my marriage.

HopeAgain

(4,407 posts)
128. The Four Agreements
Tue May 1, 2018, 03:40 PM
May 2018

by Miguel Ruiz. Powerful book that teaches us to live in serenity.

There is another even bigger to me that I won't reveal for certain reasons, but let's just say it is "big".

 

Exotica

(1,461 posts)
131. The Structure of Scientific Revolutions by Thomas Kuhn
Tue May 1, 2018, 03:50 PM
May 2018

My father gave it to me for my 16th birthday and it has shaped and inspired my entire academic career so far.

Many people will recognise it as the work that gave the world the concept of the 'paradigm shift'.

Doremus

(7,261 posts)
134. Probably not what you had in mind but The Starch Solution by John McDougall MD
Tue May 1, 2018, 04:02 PM
May 2018

This book, along with others from Esselstyn and other whole foods plant based doctors, helped me cure my fatty liver and avoid all the horror that entails in later years. It's also currently helping hubby cure his diabetes.

librechik

(30,674 posts)
140. The Devil's Chessboard, by David Talbot.
Tue May 1, 2018, 04:28 PM
May 2018

Allen Dulles, the CIA, and the Rise of America's Secret Government (2016 )

Tears off all the veils.

Atticus

(15,124 posts)
142. The Prophet, by Kahlil Gibran. I read it again once or twice a year and discover another nuance
Tue May 1, 2018, 04:50 PM
May 2018

each time. Those who seeks spirituality without dogma will find it in these pages.

JNelson6563

(28,151 posts)
143. The bible.
Tue May 1, 2018, 04:56 PM
May 2018

No, seriously!

I was raised Catholic and was quite comfortable. Then I started reading history, came upon the reformation, went investigating. Read all sorts of works by various authors on the topic. Found I was getting nowhere. Decided to just cut the crap and thoroughly read the bible. Did so. Was astounded to find how incredibly unenlightened it was!

In the end it turns out I am an atheist. Reading the bible was one of the best decisions I've ever made.

Tom Rinaldo

(22,912 posts)
145. The Politics of Experience and The Bird of Paradise -R.D. Laing 1967
Tue May 1, 2018, 05:42 PM
May 2018

From (I believe) the preface, but definitely from that book:

"The condition of alienation, of being asleep, of being unconscious, of being out of one's mind, is the condition of the normal man. Society highly values its normal man. It educates children to lose themselves and to become absurd, and thus to be normal. Normal men have killed perhaps 100,000,000 of their fellow normal men in the last fifty years [c. 1917-1967]."


I was probably 20 when I read that book. It helped launch me on a life long path of always questioning normality, (among other things.)

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
146. Long ago. No book has come close since.
Tue May 1, 2018, 06:06 PM
May 2018

"The Pearl"

Taught me about the importance of knowing what is important in my life and me behaving and making choices accordingly.

lanlady

(7,134 posts)
147. The Second Sex by Simone de Beauvoir
Tue May 1, 2018, 06:14 PM
May 2018

Feminism and feminist philosophy were still coming into their own back then (early-mid 70s). This book was a complete revelation, a game-changer for me, teaching me to challenge the male-centered view of the world.

Paladin

(28,254 posts)
148. "The Peculiar Institution" by Kenneth Stampp (1956)
Tue May 1, 2018, 06:31 PM
May 2018

I read this book about American slavery in 1968, when I was a freshman in college. It swept away a lifetime of pro-confederate myths I'd grown up with in the south, principally the notion that slaves by-and-large had it pretty good, and suffered great hardships once they were freed. I hear these twisted viewpoints propounded to this day; thanks to Stampp's book and the additional studies it caused me to undertake, I know better.

MotorCityMan

(1,203 posts)
149. What the Bible Really Says About Homosexuality by Daniel A. Helminiak, Ph.d
Tue May 1, 2018, 06:39 PM
May 2018

I was raised Catholic, and even though non-practicing, always had issues with Leviticus and having that thrown in my face. This book took a load of worry of my mind. Agnostic as I am or not, I just felt so much better after reading this book.

yallerdawg

(16,104 posts)
156. "Invisible Man."
Tue May 1, 2018, 07:04 PM
May 2018

I thought I had the science fiction story, but I had the Ralph Ellison book.

To this day, it made me aware of perspective in this country, and I'm still woke.

Demsrule86

(68,556 posts)
163. The Awakening by Kate Chopin...amazing book...read it in college.
Tue May 1, 2018, 07:21 PM
May 2018

Also, there is an author who changed my life...Nom de Plumes were Barbara Michaels and Elizabeth Peters...she was a PHD Egyptologist and obviously well read...her books which are light fiction are full of interesting quotes. She introduced me to Edna St.Vincent Millay as well as other authors I had never heard of and came to love and also I developed a lifelong interest in early Gothic novels which were the first time women were able to write books...The Mysteries of Udolpho by Anne Radcliffe is classic.

Sampan

(121 posts)
165. The Secret of the Old Clock by Carolyn Keene and all the other Nancy Drew mysteries.
Tue May 1, 2018, 07:39 PM
May 2018

I got lost in them. And developed a love of reading because of these books.

trixie2

(905 posts)
172. Forever by Judy Blume from my mother (1974)
Tue May 1, 2018, 08:36 PM
May 2018

I was 12 at the time and the main character was a senior in high school. Her grandmother told her about birth control and at the back of the book there was a free phone number for Planned Parenthood. Great book. I remember one line the grandmother said, "Once you have sex you can't go back to holding hands". Very profound without being preachy.

Link to book.

My mother also gave me Are you There God? It's Me Margaret at age 9. She also signed the permission slip for the sex talk and ordered the full start up kit. That was in 4th grade. I always felt bad for the one girl who had parents that refused her participation. She really stood out.

She gave me Go Ask Alice when I was 14. I had very liberal and open parents. We found out about sex when our mom was pregnant, we were 5.

Tucker08087

(621 posts)
209. All great choices!
Tue May 1, 2018, 11:11 PM
May 2018

My mom told me little, I think due to that being the cultural norm here at that time, and those books really spoke to me as I was growing into the woman that I am now.

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
175. The Voyage of the Beagle. Darwin's travels journal.
Tue May 1, 2018, 08:44 PM
May 2018

Started my long personal journey to throw off the creation myths I grew up believing.

FSogol

(45,481 posts)
224. They haven't read it, they just feel it is the right answer.
Wed May 2, 2018, 08:51 AM
May 2018

If they did read it, they'd realize that Jesus the Super Liberal said to ignore all that other nonsense and help the poor, the hungry, the sick, etc.

VOX

(22,976 posts)
184. The 1957 World Book Encyclopedia, A to W-X-Y-Z
Tue May 1, 2018, 09:11 PM
May 2018

To an impressionable kid’s inquisitive mind, it served as a gateway introduction to the world, its peoples, its history, its creatures past and present, and into space beyond.

The volumes are a bit tattered now, but they still occupy an honored spot in the bookshelves.

RockRaven

(14,966 posts)
186. The Iliad (Robert Fagles translation)
Tue May 1, 2018, 09:21 PM
May 2018

The first assigned reading from the first class, first day, first year of college.

Up to that point, I had read a lot of classics, but not any Classics.

There was no "AHA!!!" moment, but in hindsight it started something in my reading appetite which, as I satiated said appetite, helped me shed the sticky bits of "but surely there must be *something* truthful/worthwhile about this, b/c it has lasted so long" perspective, which when applied to the Bible was hindering my acknowledgement of my lack of belief in the things many people around me were espousing. To be clear, to that point I was between "having a LOT of doubts" and "not believing" so it did not make me a non-believer, but rather allowed me to be comfortable in embracing my non-belief.

[this looks like something which would confirm the evangelical, right wing attitude that education is bad. whoops.]

Eko

(7,282 posts)
191. Ohhhh, The Iliad.
Tue May 1, 2018, 09:34 PM
May 2018

I read that in my freshman year at high school, it was an AP class, The class mixed literature with history studies, I forget what it was called, anyways, The Iliad was the book that led me to Atheism and skepticism, reason and science.

lkinwi

(1,477 posts)
193. Twelfth Night
Tue May 1, 2018, 09:53 PM
May 2018

In high school English, we had just finished Romeo and Juliet which was a downer, so my teacher decided to lighten things up with a comedy. I loved it. It started my love of Shakespeare that most people in my life still do not understand.

alfredo

(60,071 posts)
195. Fahrenheit 451
Tue May 1, 2018, 10:05 PM
May 2018

It turned me into a book lover because I realized the importance of the written word and the ideas they bring.

OhZone

(3,212 posts)
200. I have two - Curious Wine by Katherine V Forrest and Alice In Wonderland by Lewis Carroll.
Tue May 1, 2018, 10:42 PM
May 2018

A beautiful, romantic, and erotic lesbian novel I read when I was about 12. It echoed the feelings I was beginning to experience, perhaps a little early.

And Alice in Wonderland got me started on a shrinking fetish that still obsesses me! ha And the surrealism influenced me to be open minded.

farmbo

(3,121 posts)
201. Our Final Invention...Artificial Intelligence and the End of the Human Era by James Barrat
Tue May 1, 2018, 10:42 PM
May 2018

This timely and through analysis of Silicon Valley’s (and the Pentagon’s) headlong, unregulated pursuit of higher machine learning and artificial intelligence is provocative and downright sobering. Nothing less than the future of modern civilization is at stake in this real life drama, and most of us are totally oblivious to this threat.


Tucker08087

(621 posts)
205. So hard to choose...
Tue May 1, 2018, 10:59 PM
May 2018

I have several, but my first thought is, “So Long, and Thanks for all the Fish!”
🐬

Snackshack

(2,541 posts)
206. Where The Red Fern Grows.
Tue May 1, 2018, 10:59 PM
May 2018

First book I ever read. It didn’t change my life so much since I was 7 at the time but it did help as a guide.

Progressive2020

(713 posts)
208. So Many Possibilities
Tue May 1, 2018, 11:10 PM
May 2018

Great Thread to read and see what others choose. For me:

"Dragons of Eden" by Carl Sagan is a favorite. Someone else mentioned "Demon Haunted World", I think. Anything by Sagan. "Cosmos" (the PBS show) inspired me to study Science at the University level.

Other influential books: "The Tao of Physics" by Fritjof Capra. Some else mentioned Toffler, "Future Shock". "Diet For a Small Planet" also influenced me.

Fiction: so many to choose from, but first and foremost amongst SF for me is Frank Herbert's "Dune". Also read a lot of Fantasy, from Tolkein to LeGuin to Gene Wolf. Also Zelazny (Lord of Light, The Amber Chronicles), Moorcock (Elric Books, others).

Someone else mentioned the World Book Encyclopedia. Great Choice! My parents got us the World Book as kids. I still have it as the core of my personal Library.

Also just love all of my College Text Books, which I kept. I always wondered why people would sell their College Texts back to the University Book Store. I figure that I spent so much blood, sweat, and tears in my coursework, no way I am getting rid of my books. I can still crack open my Chemistry 100 text and remember working so hard in that class and doing well. The book still smells like the Lab.

Anyway, good topic.

Response to Eko (Original post)

Hekate

(90,673 posts)
215. Way at the bottom of the thread is a Message Auto Removed. How does someone manage that...
Wed May 2, 2018, 12:40 AM
May 2018

...in a thread like this? Inquiring minds really want to know.

betsuni

(25,481 posts)
221. One more: Sartre's "Nausea"
Wed May 2, 2018, 08:20 AM
May 2018

It changed my life:

"So I was in the park just now. The roots of the chestnut tree were sunk in the ground just under my bench. I couldn't remember it was a root anymore. ... It had lost the harmless look of an abstract category: it was the very paste of things, this root was kneaded into existence. Or rather the root, the park gates, the bench, the sparse grass, all that had vanished: the diversity of things, their individuality, were only an appearance, a veneer. ... If you existed, you had to exist all the way ... . This root -- there was nothing in relation to which it was absurd. Oh, how can I put it in words? Absurd: in relation to the stones, the tufts of yellow grass, the dry mud, the tree, the sky, the green benches. Absurd, irreducible; nothing -- not even a profound, secret upheaval of nature -- could explain it. ... I understood the Nausea, I possessed it. ... I began to laugh because I suddenly thought of the formidable springs described in books, full of crrackings, bursting, gigantic explosions."















Thirties Child

(543 posts)
229. A book by Ruth Bennett, don't remember the name
Wed May 2, 2018, 10:37 AM
May 2018

The year was 1961, I was a 26-year-old who didn't go to church, had never had a Christian ah-ha moment, but more or less accepted the Christian views that I'd been taught. I bought a book by anthropologist Ruth Bennett at a D.C. bookstore, read that the Virgin Birth was a common belief in Middle Eastern religions. OMG. If a Virgin Birth wasn't unique to Jesus, how could I believe any of it? That day I became an agnostic and a Unitarian. In 1968 I read another book, don't remember the author or the name of the book, but it changed my view of the world. I discovered/accepted the idea of reincarnation because it explained the unfairness of life. That, however, is another story.

womanofthehills

(8,702 posts)
235. I remember the day I became an agnostic too - after reading a Bertrand Russell book of my dad's.
Wed May 2, 2018, 11:10 AM
May 2018

My parents were not Catholic, but I grew up in a Catholic neighborhood and all my cousins were Catholic - so I became a Catholic. One day I was a Catholic and the next an agnostic - thank you Bertrand Russell.

Chipper Chat

(9,678 posts)
230. The Ugly American by Eugene Burdick.
Wed May 2, 2018, 10:50 AM
May 2018

Educated me on the misconception the the USA is infallible. Insight into the minds oe communists and Eastern thinking. Why foreigners lok at Americans as brash and obnoxious.

tavernier

(12,383 posts)
232. Harry Potter.
Wed May 2, 2018, 11:00 AM
May 2018

I know that sounds odd, but I met dozens of friends, all ages, from different countries online because of the books, and ended up traveling all over the world for that reason, and also hosting many that came to visit me. All because I read the the first book with my grandson and then got hooked.

Tikki

(14,557 posts)
236. The Butterfly Kid...Chester Anderson (1967)
Wed May 2, 2018, 11:12 AM
May 2018


First book my husband and I read together. We have read it together many times since.

The Tikkis
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