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Coventina

(27,052 posts)
Wed May 2, 2018, 07:16 PM May 2018

Incels? What. The. Actual.



OK, so last week was hell for me and I didn't hear any news of the outside world.

Came up for air today and heard about the loser who mowed people over because he doesn't get sex?

So, now I know about "incels".

Has there been a sadder bunch of losers, ever?



And, they actually believe in forced sex from women because they (the incels) "deserve it."

This is so lame I am having a hard time even wrapping my head around it.

Did DU talk about this?

I can't be away from the news for one week without something new and horrifying coming out that I've never heard about.
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Incels? What. The. Actual. (Original Post) Coventina May 2018 OP
There's nothing new about men who feel they are entitled to women's bodies. Just the names change. WhiskeyGrinder May 2018 #1
I guess the thing I'm really struggling with is that they hate women so much Coventina May 2018 #2
Uh what? cwydro May 2018 #6
No, I do not believe being gay is a choice. Coventina May 2018 #9
Oh lordie. cwydro May 2018 #10
Sorry to be crude, but such men view women only as Atticus May 2018 #8
There's no logic to them. WhiskeyGrinder May 2018 #11
These folks are a sick bunch. MontanaMama May 2018 #3
There were a number of threads about it. The Velveteen Ocelot May 2018 #4
Oh, you probably knew them once upon a time gratuitous May 2018 #5
"all their frustrations were everyone else's fault." babylonsister May 2018 #17
This is something you can find out there. cbreezen May 2018 #7
Social Justice Warriors, actually. Codeine May 2018 #12
Workers, Warrors... cbreezen May 2018 #13
A whole week! spinbaby May 2018 #14
Sadly, you are correct. But, it's almost the end of the semester. Coventina May 2018 #15
Maybe thank your lucky stars you're so busy. babylonsister May 2018 #19
Incels and Islamic extremists/terrorists both share the same philosophy Yavin4 May 2018 #16
Good point. Apparently they have the same propensity toward violence. Coventina May 2018 #18
"Has there been a sadder bunch of losers, ever? " mitch96 May 2018 #20
They've been around for a while ismnotwasm May 2018 #21
That's natural selection for you, right there BlueSpot May 2018 #22
Yes they were discussed here... Volaris May 2018 #23
Watch the Jim Jefferies show from last night. Initech May 2018 #24

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,304 posts)
1. There's nothing new about men who feel they are entitled to women's bodies. Just the names change.
Wed May 2, 2018, 07:18 PM
May 2018

Watching some media treat them as if their outlook is a valid option for moving through the world is both tiresome and infuriating.

Coventina

(27,052 posts)
2. I guess the thing I'm really struggling with is that they hate women so much
Wed May 2, 2018, 07:20 PM
May 2018

don't even consider them human, and yet they want to have sex with them?

That makes no sense to me.

If women are so horrible, why don't they embrace same sex love?

Or, be proud of their celibacy?

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
6. Uh what?
Wed May 2, 2018, 07:25 PM
May 2018

“Embrace same sex love?”

Please tell me that you don’t believe being gay is a choice or a preference.

Coventina

(27,052 posts)
9. No, I do not believe being gay is a choice.
Wed May 2, 2018, 07:28 PM
May 2018

But, take for example ancient Greece, where nearly every adult male was a practicing bisexual, (and misogyny was rampant, BTW), why not hold that up as some kind of ideal?

Have sex with your friends!

Atticus

(15,124 posts)
8. Sorry to be crude, but such men view women only as
Wed May 2, 2018, 07:27 PM
May 2018

masturbation accessories. Love, respect, tenderness, mutual pleasure---these are irrelevant concepts to these social eunuchs.

gratuitous

(82,849 posts)
5. Oh, you probably knew them once upon a time
Wed May 2, 2018, 07:24 PM
May 2018

I remember being 13 and just coming into puberty with a load of hormones dumped into my system. It was a tough time for a lot of boys. Most of us struggled with the embarrassing mix of maturing physical body and lagging emotional development. But we learned, sometimes painfully, to mesh the two natures and by the time we got into high school had turned the corner on the imbalance.

Then you have the guys who never did come to terms with the dichotomy, and who have ever since carried a grudge against their own natural development. Their emotional maturity thus stunted, they never did make peace with themselves, and decided that all their frustrations were everyone else's fault.

babylonsister

(171,029 posts)
17. "all their frustrations were everyone else's fault."
Wed May 2, 2018, 07:59 PM
May 2018

You won the bingo! I believe that's their problem.

Could be a lot of them out there, but these choose to publicize it for whatever warped reason.

cbreezen

(694 posts)
7. This is something you can find out there.
Wed May 2, 2018, 07:26 PM
May 2018

reddit, 4chan, etc. The do not like SJWs (Social Justice Workers). These SJWs are almost always women.

We, here at DU, are perfect examples of everything they hate. OUR HOME supports women! OUR HOME doesn't care what you do in your bedroom! OUR HOME welcomes you, until we scorn you for not being yourself!

spinbaby

(15,088 posts)
14. A whole week!
Wed May 2, 2018, 07:49 PM
May 2018

That’s like a lifetime of news anymore. Heck, I can step outside for a bit of gardening and when I come in, there’s some new outrage going on.

Coventina

(27,052 posts)
15. Sadly, you are correct. But, it's almost the end of the semester.
Wed May 2, 2018, 07:53 PM
May 2018

I had stacks of grading and other things going on at home and I missed a lot of the news.

It is a very scary world anymore.

People who would maybe otherwise get help with their problems are instead nurtured by these online hate groups who simply reinforce their twisted ideas.

Yavin4

(35,420 posts)
16. Incels and Islamic extremists/terrorists both share the same philosophy
Wed May 2, 2018, 07:55 PM
May 2018

They cannot accept change in the culture. Primarily, they cannot accept the changing role of women in our culture.

mitch96

(13,869 posts)
20. "Has there been a sadder bunch of losers, ever? "
Wed May 2, 2018, 09:02 PM
May 2018

I think the term they use is SNOWFLAKE... These losers can't get laid for free so they get upset.. God forbid they have to pay for sex... uffda
What a bunch of losers...

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ismnotwasm

(41,956 posts)
21. They've been around for a while
Wed May 2, 2018, 09:04 PM
May 2018

An offshoot of Men’s Rights Activists. I surprised that people are surprised

BlueSpot

(855 posts)
22. That's natural selection for you, right there
Wed May 2, 2018, 10:38 PM
May 2018

Their inability to propagate strengthens the species as a whole.

Volaris

(10,266 posts)
23. Yes they were discussed here...
Wed May 2, 2018, 10:43 PM
May 2018

Generally the kind of discussion you'd expect on this type of topic, in all of its (sometimes entertaining) DU Glory.

My personal opinion of these people is that they're just flat out lazy. It does take SOME level of effort on your part if you wanna get that done. Hanging out in mom's basement complaining about it in a subreddit isn't gonna do it.

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