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OK, so last week was hell for me and I didn't hear any news of the outside world.
Came up for air today and heard about the loser who mowed people over because he doesn't get sex?
So, now I know about "incels".
Has there been a sadder bunch of losers, ever?
And, they actually believe in forced sex from women because they (the incels) "deserve it."
This is so lame I am having a hard time even wrapping my head around it.
Did DU talk about this?
I can't be away from the news for one week without something new and horrifying coming out that I've never heard about.
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,304 posts)Watching some media treat them as if their outlook is a valid option for moving through the world is both tiresome and infuriating.
Coventina
(27,052 posts)don't even consider them human, and yet they want to have sex with them?
That makes no sense to me.
If women are so horrible, why don't they embrace same sex love?
Or, be proud of their celibacy?
Embrace same sex love?
Please tell me that you dont believe being gay is a choice or a preference.
Coventina
(27,052 posts)But, take for example ancient Greece, where nearly every adult male was a practicing bisexual, (and misogyny was rampant, BTW), why not hold that up as some kind of ideal?
Have sex with your friends!
cwydro
(51,308 posts)Ok.
Atticus
(15,124 posts)masturbation accessories. Love, respect, tenderness, mutual pleasure---these are irrelevant concepts to these social eunuchs.
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,304 posts)MontanaMama
(23,294 posts)Woman haters on steroids. 😡
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,576 posts)Here's one of them: https://www.democraticunderground.com/100210536294
They "inspire" and egg each other on through the Internet, like ISIS.
gratuitous
(82,849 posts)I remember being 13 and just coming into puberty with a load of hormones dumped into my system. It was a tough time for a lot of boys. Most of us struggled with the embarrassing mix of maturing physical body and lagging emotional development. But we learned, sometimes painfully, to mesh the two natures and by the time we got into high school had turned the corner on the imbalance.
Then you have the guys who never did come to terms with the dichotomy, and who have ever since carried a grudge against their own natural development. Their emotional maturity thus stunted, they never did make peace with themselves, and decided that all their frustrations were everyone else's fault.
babylonsister
(171,029 posts)You won the bingo! I believe that's their problem.
Could be a lot of them out there, but these choose to publicize it for whatever warped reason.
cbreezen
(694 posts)reddit, 4chan, etc. The do not like SJWs (Social Justice Workers). These SJWs are almost always women.
We, here at DU, are perfect examples of everything they hate. OUR HOME supports women! OUR HOME doesn't care what you do in your bedroom! OUR HOME welcomes you, until we scorn you for not being yourself!
Codeine
(25,586 posts)Because social justice is a bad thing, I guess? Imbeciles.
cbreezen
(694 posts)but, anyway...
spinbaby
(15,088 posts)Thats like a lifetime of news anymore. Heck, I can step outside for a bit of gardening and when I come in, theres some new outrage going on.
Coventina
(27,052 posts)I had stacks of grading and other things going on at home and I missed a lot of the news.
It is a very scary world anymore.
People who would maybe otherwise get help with their problems are instead nurtured by these online hate groups who simply reinforce their twisted ideas.
babylonsister
(171,029 posts)It's not getting any better.
Yavin4
(35,420 posts)They cannot accept change in the culture. Primarily, they cannot accept the changing role of women in our culture.
Coventina
(27,052 posts)Losers all.
mitch96
(13,869 posts)I think the term they use is SNOWFLAKE... These losers can't get laid for free so they get upset.. God forbid they have to pay for sex... uffda
What a bunch of losers...
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ismnotwasm
(41,956 posts)An offshoot of Mens Rights Activists. I surprised that people are surprised
BlueSpot
(855 posts)Their inability to propagate strengthens the species as a whole.
Volaris
(10,266 posts)Generally the kind of discussion you'd expect on this type of topic, in all of its (sometimes entertaining) DU Glory.
My personal opinion of these people is that they're just flat out lazy. It does take SOME level of effort on your part if you wanna get that done. Hanging out in mom's basement complaining about it in a subreddit isn't gonna do it.
Initech
(100,029 posts)He nailed these losers!