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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsGirlfriend derails musician's career by replacing college acceptance letter w/fake rejection letter.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/morning-mix/wp/2018/06/15/clarinetist-discovers-his-ex-girlfriend-faked-a-rejection-letter-from-his-dream-school/?utm_term=.40c47c249dc4Clarinetist discovers his ex-girlfriend faked a rejection letter from his dream school
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Abramovitz spent hours every night practicing, he said in an interview with The Washington Post. And after his live audition in Los Angeles in February 2014, he was confident that he would be accepted.Eric Abramovitz was 7 years old when he first learned to play the clarinet. By the time he was 20, the Montreal native had become an award-winning clarinetist, studying with some of Canadas most elite teachers and performing a solo with Quebecs finest symphony orchestra.
During his second year studying at McGill University, he decided to apply to the world-class Colburn Conservatory of Music in Los Angeles, which offers every student a scholarship covering tuition, room and board, and living expenses. He hoped to study under Yehuda Gilad, an internationally renowned clarinet professor who accepts only two new students per year at Colburn.
Abramovitz spent hours every night practicing, he said in an interview with The Washington Post. And after his live audition in Los Angeles in February 2014, he was confident that he would be accepted.
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But two years later, Abramovitz would find out that he was, in fact, accepted to the program. The letter was sent not by Gilad but by Abramovitzs girlfriend, a flute student at McGill who had spent night after night consoling him about the rejection, Abramovitz said.
The girlfriend had logged onto his email account and deleted his acceptance letter to Colburn, Abramovitz said. She impersonated Abramovitz in an email to Gilad, declining the offer because he would be elsewhere. Then she impersonated Gilad through a fake email address, telling Abramovitz he had not been accepted, according to Abramovitz.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/morning-mix/wp/2018/06/15/clarinetist-discovers-his-ex-girlfriend-faked-a-rejection-letter-from-his-dream-school/?utm_term=.b93229680d49
On Wednesday, a judge in Ontario Superior Court awarded Abramovitz $350,000 in damages in Canadian dollars (more than $260,000 U.S. dollars) caused by his girlfriends reprehensible betrayal of trust and despicable interference in Mr Abramovitzs career, the judge, D.L. Corbett, wrote.
Kentonio
(4,377 posts)That is just.. I can't even find the words.
Demovictory9
(32,421 posts)In 2016, about two years after he thought he was rejected by Gilad, Abramovitz applied once more to study with the renowned professor.
Gilad remembered Abramovitz. And after his audition, Gilad asked him a perplexing question: What are you doing here? You rejected me.
mrs_p
(3,014 posts)My seven year old daughter would watch!
Similar story line in the Cinderella Story, which she loves.
brewens
(13,538 posts)Demovictory9
(32,421 posts)her photo has been posted too.
Sounds like she needs a mental health professional.
What exactly would she need protecting from?
She is an asshole for sure. But your post is pretty disturbing.
LuvLoogie
(6,913 posts)I'll start.
She is an Asshole....
RKP5637
(67,086 posts)malaise
(268,693 posts)Good effin' grief.
JI7
(89,239 posts)this as a way to control others.
Igel
(35,274 posts)RobinA
(9,886 posts)mother did this. Intercepted her mail when she was applying to colleges. Into the trash can. Ugh.
Demovictory9
(32,421 posts)Ilsa
(61,690 posts)Not that it matters, except to determine if she should be committed to a mental hospital. She might be dangerous, not just manipulative.
LisaL
(44,972 posts)Or at least that's what he thinks. She never responded to the lawsuit.
Oneironaut
(5,485 posts)Im not sure what theyre thinking, tbh. They probably feel a sense of ownership over the person, and therefore feel like theyre justified. Its bizarre.
Lee-Lee
(6,324 posts)It was a girlfriend intecpting the boyfriends college acceptance letters. They lived out in a rural area and their mailbox was out of sight of any other homes. She had a free period in her class schedule and was driving out there every day and screening his mail and taking any letters from schools she didnt want him to go to.
The parents had noticed some looked like the envelopes were damaged but just thought it was damaged in the mail. It was only discovered because one of the schools also sent the school guidance counselors lists of who from that school had been accepted. Then they followed up with other schools he had not heard from and discovered they had mailed letters also.
She was only caught because she got into a spat with a friend who then went and told the guidance counselor she had seen the letters in the girlfriends locker. The school searched the locker and found them there.
She ended up facing both theft and possession of stolen property charges from our agency as well as being referred to the USPS Postal inspectors who also pursued Federal charges.
All because she only wanted him to go to the same school she planned to.