Psychological Effects of Abandonment on Children

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https://www.livestrong.com/article/139877-effect-child-abandonment-children/

Child abandonment is an increasing issue in the United States and also takes place frequently in other parts of the world. While child abandonment may take many forms, it essentially results in a child being left for someone else to care for him. The consequences of this act can be detrimental for the children who grow up with an awareness of the event. For abandoned children in the United States and those entering the country through international adoption, the effects of abandonment may be lifelong.

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Low Self-Esteem
Long-term effects of abandonment influence how a person feels about herself and her sense of self-worth. As a teenager or adult, coping mechanisms may be inadequate when managing painful situations, and a person with a history of abandonment may have difficulty relating with a spouse or partner.

Anxiety
Children aware they were abandoned may later show signs of anxiety while relating to caregivers or important people in their lives. Doris Landry, an author and educational expert in the field of international adoption, works with children who were abandoned as infants in China. Although they were adopted into loving families, the children still dealt with severe anxiety as manifested by difficulty separating from parents, sleep issues and controlling behavior.

Attachment
An abandoned child may have difficulty forming lasting bonds with others, particularly new caregivers. A child being cared for after abandonment may not attach with a new family and remain indifferent toward family members. He may have a lack of trust in others, fearing the departure of someone else important to him. By not allowing himself to bond with others, he rationalizes that he will not feel hurt again if he is rejected.