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grumpyduck

(6,222 posts)
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 12:01 PM Jun 2018

Email from an old friend who's a Republican

Recently I've cut down my presence here in DU -- it's just too depressing. Not the posts: the subject matter.

But just now I got an email from a loooong-time friend who happens to be a Rep. He's actually a very nice guy and I like him a lot, but I refuse to talk politics with him. There wouldn't be any point in it. So here's the email. I don't have a clue what the source was, but I can see several holes in the argument and a couple places where I want to YELL and SCREAM at my friend. What do you think?

“In March of 1993, The United States Supreme Court issued a ruling in Reno v Flores. (Yes, “That” Reno. Janet Reno, Bill Clinton’s first Attorney General who ordered that young Elian Gonzalez be torn from his family’s arms while hiding in a Miami closet. You might remember the iconic photograph.)

The Court in Flores decided that minors could not be incarcerated with the adults accompanying them across the United States border illegally. The decision was the result of a long dispute in how to best care for these children while the adults were detained for criminal proceedings.

You see, when aliens cross the border illegally, they are incarcerated until their criminal case is decided. The understandable argument at the time was “why should children be incarcerated while their parents are in jail?” It seemed a fundamental violation of international human rights. Makes sense, right?

As a result, The Flores case drew a line in the sand. Children could not be incarcerated with their parents or accompanying adult while being held for illegal immigration violations. And a subsequent 1997 agreement stipulated that children must be placed in a safer environment where they could enjoy certain privileges, including education, a clean, safe environment and other normal life cycle amenities that incarcerated individuals do not enjoy.

It was considered a “victory” for human rights. By separating adult and child, we protected the children, reducing any harm done to them for their parent’s or accompanying adult’s decisions.

A lot has happened since then. However; bottom line, these juvenile, shelters have been operating in accordance with the law, and overseen by the Department of Health and Human Services to protect those children from the hazards of parental incarceration since 1997.

So, since Donald Trump was running his real estate empire, selling wine and casinos in 1993, we are left to determine just how he managed to orchestrate this cruel “separation of immigrant parent and child” 25 years BEFORE he was President of the United States. The obvious answer is, he didn’t. He had nothing to do with establishing this United States immigration policy. Today, he simply enforces it.

This one story illustrates how important it is for us to do our research regarding today’s headlines. The Corporate Media either refuses to do the research, is incapable of doing the research or has done the research and decided to lie to you about its findings. Either way, this would make the Corporate Media lazy, incompetent or just plain deceptive. Liars, if you will.”

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Email from an old friend who's a Republican (Original Post) grumpyduck Jun 2018 OP
Must be the current talking point The Blue Flower Jun 2018 #1
It is my husband's trump worshipping cousin posted how Democrats cheered him being sent back to Cuba maryellen99 Jun 2018 #10
i had a friend send this kind of stuff to me...finally i returned it and said they i would have to samnsara Jun 2018 #2
Mother drowned Corgigal Jun 2018 #3
He isn't a nice guy atreides1 Jun 2018 #4
Yeah, block his address. lagomorph777 Jun 2018 #9
His Dad-his only Surviving Parent Wanted Him Back in Cuba Stallion Jun 2018 #5
The policy for all children separated from parents marylandblue Jun 2018 #6
Using this is another example of Republican hypocrisy since they hated what happened at the time eleny Jun 2018 #7
Yeah, Attorney General Reno Reno was trashed for returning Vogon_Glory Jun 2018 #14
Ask how Trump is now suddenly able to fix this crisis with a stroke of a pen! What changed???? Freethinker65 Jun 2018 #8
That is so fucking insanely stupid jberryhill Jun 2018 #11
his surviving parent, who was notably *not* an immigrant, legal or otherwise. unblock Jun 2018 #16
Elian Gonzalez? The right-wing liars forgot something Vogon_Glory Jun 2018 #12
many if not most of these people are not crossing illegally, but are claiming asylum. unblock Jun 2018 #13
P.S. I don't know why you came here to post this bullshit eleny Jun 2018 #15
I hope s/he doesn't, because I firmly believe in knowing our enemies Vogon_Glory Jun 2018 #18
The OP is doing the work of the Republicans whether they know it or not eleny Jun 2018 #20
I disagree. The other posters did a great job at refuting Vogon_Glory Jun 2018 #23
The replies aren't the point eleny Jun 2018 #26
Yeah, I'm not buying what his friend is selling NY_20th Jun 2018 #19
Are these parents being charged with crimes? Mariana Jun 2018 #17
Seems to me that Bill Clinton was reuiniting a family, not seperating them, GoCubsGo Jun 2018 #21
I'd ask him if he wants a genuine conversation but the fact he bettyellen Jun 2018 #22
I'm sorry to tell you, he isnoit a nice guy. The fact that he voted fro trump and SILL supports him lunamagica Jun 2018 #24
Crossing the border is a misdemeanor. procon Jun 2018 #25
Oh, and Elian was rescued fron cousins to be reunitd with his father lunamagica Jun 2018 #27

The Blue Flower

(5,433 posts)
1. Must be the current talking point
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 12:04 PM
Jun 2018

I got something similar from my now former friend who was making excuses for this atrocity. I don't care about all the verbiage. What this is is simply more excuses. There is no excuse for the destruction of young lives.

maryellen99

(3,785 posts)
10. It is my husband's trump worshipping cousin posted how Democrats cheered him being sent back to Cuba
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 12:17 PM
Jun 2018

I posted something in response and unfriended.

samnsara

(17,605 posts)
2. i had a friend send this kind of stuff to me...finally i returned it and said they i would have to
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 12:07 PM
Jun 2018

...put them in my junk email if they cont to send me this propaganda. which I did anyway.

atreides1

(16,066 posts)
4. He isn't a nice guy
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 12:08 PM
Jun 2018

He's just another asshole trying to justify a cruel and inhumane practice, if I were you I'd find better friends!!!

Stallion

(6,473 posts)
5. His Dad-his only Surviving Parent Wanted Him Back in Cuba
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 12:09 PM
Jun 2018

that was a Conflict of Law issue involving conflicting laws between 2 countries concerning a Cuban national

so NO-not similar facts

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
6. The policy for all children separated from parents
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 12:11 PM
Jun 2018

whether incarcerated or for some other reason is to first try place them with relatives and second into foster care. Makeshift detention centers are a form of incarceration.

Freethinker65

(9,999 posts)
8. Ask how Trump is now suddenly able to fix this crisis with a stroke of a pen! What changed????
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 12:15 PM
Jun 2018

Is it perhaps that he was lying all along? Did he perhaps change the policy in the first place after agreeing with advisers like Steven Miller that separating families at the border would deter future "immigrants" and show political strength? Did he send Nielsen out to deny it was even happening and praise her communication skills (lies) and then have to later admit the separations?

Did Trump only change his tough alpha male brilliant mind when faced with the blow to his image, power, and pocketbook?

Did Trump, once again, play his 30% base for fools, knowing that he truly could shoot someone on 5th Avenue (or take babies away from mothers whose only crime was a potential misdemeanor for seeking asylum in th US), and they would believe any and changing stories for why this happened?

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
11. That is so fucking insanely stupid
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 12:17 PM
Jun 2018

The entire POINT of the Elian Gonzalez situation was to return him TO HIS SURVIVING PARENT.

unblock

(52,116 posts)
16. his surviving parent, who was notably *not* an immigrant, legal or otherwise.
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 12:20 PM
Jun 2018

that case has virtually nothing to do with the present circumstances.

Vogon_Glory

(9,109 posts)
12. Elian Gonzalez? The right-wing liars forgot something
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 12:18 PM
Jun 2018

Yes, Elian Gonzalez’s mother DID drown at sea, but Elian’s father was very much ALIVE, living in Cuba, and wanted to have his son sent HOME. To deny the Elder Gonzalez’s parental rights would have broken a number of international agreements and threatened the chances of tens of thousands of American parents involved in international custody disputes.

Yes, Elian was torn from the arms of those uncles but was RETURNED TO HIS FATHER, a point today’s righ-wing liars choose to overlook.

All I can say about claims that Donnie’s action is like Attorney General Reno’s action with Elian is

“LIAR!”

“LIAR!”

“LIAR!”

unblock

(52,116 posts)
13. many if not most of these people are not crossing illegally, but are claiming asylum.
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 12:19 PM
Jun 2018

even if their claim is eventually rejected, it's not illegal to try to immigrate here claiming asylum.

donnie started the policy of treating *all* immigrants (on our border with mexico, anyway) as if they were coming here illegally *even when they are not*.


no other president has ever pried apart families wholesale based on arbitrarily lumping in *legal* behavior together with illegal behavior.

i shouldn't say "arbitrary". they have the same skin color (non-white) and language (spanish).

eleny

(46,166 posts)
15. P.S. I don't know why you came here to post this bullshit
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 12:19 PM
Jun 2018

I urge you to self delete this propaganda.

Vogon_Glory

(9,109 posts)
23. I disagree. The other posters did a great job at refuting
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 12:33 PM
Jun 2018

that quoted right-wing deplorable’s lies.

eleny

(46,166 posts)
26. The replies aren't the point
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 12:37 PM
Jun 2018

The OP is dragging up this story to demean Democrats. It's the "both sides do it" equivalency bullshit. Nevermind that at the time Republicans decried the decision to return the child to his father in Cuba.

 

NY_20th

(1,028 posts)
19. Yeah, I'm not buying what his friend is selling
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 12:23 PM
Jun 2018

and I'm really not in the mood to read bullshit Republican lies.

Mariana

(14,854 posts)
17. Are these parents being charged with crimes?
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 12:20 PM
Jun 2018

Are they being arraigned and having bail set? Are they being assigned public defenders to represent them? Are the children being placed with relatives when possible, or in foster care, which is what is done when a parent can't care for them due to arrest?

Your "friend" is full of shit.

GoCubsGo

(32,074 posts)
21. Seems to me that Bill Clinton was reuiniting a family, not seperating them,
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 12:25 PM
Jun 2018

as this pile of nonsense would like one to believe. He sent the kid back to his father. I don't see how that is a bad thing, and it is certainly no comparison to what Comrade Trump and his storm troopers have been doing.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
22. I'd ask him if he wants a genuine conversation but the fact he
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 12:26 PM
Jun 2018

That he sending you a cut and paste is kind of bullshit. This was a cruel policy change, and I’d ask him if he knows and can acknowledge that. He’s kind of screwed nor because Trump has admitted it.

But if you want to go zero tolerance since he doesn’t respect your boundaries, that’s okay too.

lunamagica

(9,967 posts)
24. I'm sorry to tell you, he isnoit a nice guy. The fact that he voted fro trump and SILL supports him
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 12:36 PM
Jun 2018

proves otherwise.

procon

(15,805 posts)
25. Crossing the border is a misdemeanor.
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 12:36 PM
Jun 2018

The government labels assault, theft crimes, DUI and prostitution as misdemeanors, too, "minor offenses" that are generally punished with fines, probation, community service. Only rarely, like when the defendant has a prior criminal history, is the maximum sentence of one year in jail ever used.

Putting immigrants in prison and forcibly taking their children away for a misdemeanor violation like crossing the border is a punitive political decision that doesn't match the sentences given to other people who are charged with other misdemeanor crimes, even when violent is used, and they are released with only a fine and no one takes their kids away.



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