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Cal Carpenter

(4,959 posts)
Sat Jun 23, 2018, 11:32 AM Jun 2018

Note: being an asshole is not a protected class

A lot of people seem to be equating refusal of service to Sarah Huckabee Sanders to illegal discrimination against people because they are gay.

These are legally and morally very different things.

As a small business owner, I cannot refuse service to someone based on their membership in a protected class - eg race, gender, sexual orientation (in some places/cases), nationality...

I can, however, refuse service to a racist piece of shit asshole. And I even keep a sign in the window saying as much, in more polite and civilized language, of course.

If someone comes into my business in a swastika t-shirt? Get the fuck out.

If someone comes into my business and tells another customer they are going to hell for being gay? Get the fuck out.

If someone comes into my business and mutters under their breath about a trans woman who is a regular here? SEE YA.

If someone comes into my business and bitches about all the different languages you can hear people speaking in the (very diverse) neighborhood? BYE FELICIA.

If Sarah Huckabee Sanders comes into my business? Or Ivanka Trump? Or Rick Snyder? Or Betsy DeVos? Or Stephen Miller? HOLD ON WHILE I TURN MY CELL PHONE CAMERA ON BECAUSE I WANT THE WORLD TO SEE ME TELL YOU TO FUCK OFF.

These things are not only legal, but imho moral. The normalization of these attitudes is dangerous as hell, and I think it is a moral person's job to call it out and make clear that it is NOT ACCEPTABLE.

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Note: being an asshole is not a protected class (Original Post) Cal Carpenter Jun 2018 OP
It's not a protected ass either :-D TheBlackAdder Jun 2018 #1
K&R PETRUS Jun 2018 #2
kick & rec. nt Ilsa Jun 2018 #3
These fuckers need to be shunned by decent people everywhere Blecht Jun 2018 #4
I think so too Cal Carpenter Jun 2018 #6
K&R smirkymonkey Jun 2018 #5
Cannot count the number of people I have had to explain this to. Pacifist Patriot Jun 2018 #7
K&R ismnotwasm Jun 2018 #8
Poor Red Hen owner being blasted online mainer Jun 2018 #9

Blecht

(3,805 posts)
4. These fuckers need to be shunned by decent people everywhere
Sat Jun 23, 2018, 03:33 PM
Jun 2018

In fact, not shunning these fascists is morally wrong.

Cal Carpenter

(4,959 posts)
6. I think so too
Sat Jun 23, 2018, 04:06 PM
Jun 2018

In fact, several years ago I thought I overheard a customer say something racist. He said it very quietly to his companion. I didn't believe my own ears. Now I know better - this shit is rampant, and it still weighs on me that I didn't tell him to leave.

I very much appreciate that the owner of the restaurant that asked Sarah Huckabee Sanders to leave is not backing down on making that choice.

mainer

(12,188 posts)
9. Poor Red Hen owner being blasted online
Sun Jun 24, 2018, 12:52 PM
Jun 2018

I wish I lived in the area. I would eat there once a week for the rest of the year.

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