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GetRidOfThem

(869 posts)
Thu Jun 28, 2018, 06:05 PM Jun 2018

Working in East Africa a few years ago...

...I was working with a Ugandan male, he was in a senior position. They have a lot of gender discrimination issues in Africa. He made a very simple proposal:

"Wives should tell their husbands: No sex, one, two, three months, until attitudes change. No sex."

Interesting proposal...

(He was a difficult egomaniac nonetheless, I would never have recommended him, but this proposal does seem interesting... )

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Working in East Africa a few years ago... (Original Post) GetRidOfThem Jun 2018 OP
Lysistrata dhol82 Jun 2018 #1
But openly expressed... n/t GetRidOfThem Jun 2018 #2
Some of the women couldn't take it, remember? ProudLib72 Jun 2018 #4
Well, yes but, she rallies her women and goes back to the fight. dhol82 Jun 2018 #5
As I recall, there was resistance for the plan from the women ProudLib72 Jun 2018 #6
Agree dhol82 Jun 2018 #8
This message was self-deleted by its author dhol82 Jun 2018 #7
As old as the hills, and stereotypical in multiple ways. braddy Jun 2018 #3

ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
6. As I recall, there was resistance for the plan from the women
Thu Jun 28, 2018, 06:56 PM
Jun 2018

At least one of them left. So the OP assumes that women are going to be able to be celibate for three months as though they don't have needs.

I wasn't commenting so much on your post as I was on how the plan lacks consideration of women's will power. Aristophanes took that dimension on board when he wrote the play.

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