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Equinox Moon

(6,344 posts)
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 10:14 PM Aug 2018

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And? HipChick Aug 2018 #1
+1000 nt jrthin Aug 2018 #22
She didn't seem totally "there" on the video clip and heavens, that was more than 10 years ago. hlthe2b Aug 2018 #2
I hope so too. Equinox Moon Aug 2018 #4
What things? That good and gentle people can also be ignorant or racist? WhiskeyGrinder Aug 2018 #3
She was ignorant. Equinox Moon Aug 2018 #5
I'm still not getting your point; your post has the air of "gotcha" but I can't tell what's getting WhiskeyGrinder Aug 2018 #8
I'm betting she was un/undereducated and thus ignorant and racist, but likely pre-senile as well. hlthe2b Aug 2018 #7
So she believes Muslims are bad? HopeAgain Aug 2018 #6
Actually, she did use the term "Arab" (though undoubtedly meant Muslim)... hlthe2b Aug 2018 #10
It's kinda like the thread about healthcare workers and racist patients. moriah Aug 2018 #12
No, she said he was an Arab. Either way, a bigoted remark. n/t SaveOurDemocracy Aug 2018 #14
maybe the assisted living center should just cut off the press??? Takket Aug 2018 #9
The problem with her statement and McCain's response has been largely ignored. Garrett78 Aug 2018 #11
I really don't think that's what McCain meant. NYC Liberal Aug 2018 #15
He could have added a statement about how the demonizing of Muslims is wrong. Garrett78 Aug 2018 #18
Really good point! Equinox Moon Aug 2018 #17
That always bothered me. madaboutharry Aug 2018 #30
If she believed it she was stupid. That's pretty cut and dried to me. Goodheart Aug 2018 #13
She had bad information, just like all the people that watch Fox News, Listen to Right wing talk tulipsandroses Aug 2018 #16
So it's ok to be racist and dumb if you're a gentle person? Bluepinky Aug 2018 #19
Sorry, but your post seems to be based on the premise that this woman was just misinformed... RockRaven Aug 2018 #20
Well to be fair...McCain and the Repubes had spent months before this clip trying to convince cbdo2007 Aug 2018 #21
although a better thing for her to have said would've been brettdale Aug 2018 #23
I like it. That would have been really cool. Equinox Moon Aug 2018 #24
She said it like it was a bad thing because that was what the right wing campaign against Obama OhioBlue Aug 2018 #33
If the living is very "assisted", hopefully they will keep her medical needs above media concerns. moriah Aug 2018 #25
Agreed and I wonder Equinox Moon Aug 2018 #26
Ah yes 2008... D_Master81 Aug 2018 #27
I don't know rpannier Aug 2018 #29
What about thr guy right before her? hibbing Aug 2018 #28
Trump's base is exploding with people who are wired like her. ooky Aug 2018 #31
ignorance is cut and dried Demonaut Aug 2018 #32
I'm not sure how much sympathy I'm supposed to have for a brainless pearl-clutcher Aristus Aug 2018 #34
I'd like to know how she got to the rally and wny she was there. Anyone notice how unkempt Cousin Dupree Aug 2018 #35
This is a question that I had too..and also, how what are they being exposed to at the facility? HipChick Aug 2018 #37
Meanwhile, "Get a brain Morans" guy is a happy Twitter blogger. JustABozoOnThisBus Aug 2018 #36
Was she in assisted living ten years ago? no_hypocrisy Aug 2018 #38

HipChick

(25,612 posts)
1. And?
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 10:16 PM
Aug 2018

jrthin

(5,223 posts)
22. +1000 nt
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 11:14 PM
Aug 2018

hlthe2b

(113,954 posts)
2. She didn't seem totally "there" on the video clip and heavens, that was more than 10 years ago.
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 10:17 PM
Aug 2018

Hopefully staff of the assisted living facility will protect her.

Equinox Moon

(6,344 posts)
4. I hope so too.
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 10:18 PM
Aug 2018

I'm sure they are doing something now. They would have to. To protect her and the rest of the residents.

WhiskeyGrinder

(26,955 posts)
3. What things? That good and gentle people can also be ignorant or racist?
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 10:18 PM
Aug 2018

Equinox Moon

(6,344 posts)
5. She was ignorant.
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 10:19 PM
Aug 2018

She had bad information and went with it.

WhiskeyGrinder

(26,955 posts)
8. I'm still not getting your point; your post has the air of "gotcha" but I can't tell what's getting
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 10:21 PM
Aug 2018

got.

hlthe2b

(113,954 posts)
7. I'm betting she was un/undereducated and thus ignorant and racist, but likely pre-senile as well.
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 10:21 PM
Aug 2018

As I posted upstream, I never thought she was "all there" on that appearance. If so, she's likely unable to answer for herself.

HopeAgain

(4,407 posts)
6. So she believes Muslims are bad?
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 10:20 PM
Aug 2018

She called him a Muslim, not an Arab. I have no sympathy for someone who shows her bigotry in public. Don't see it as not cut snd dry, sorry...

hlthe2b

(113,954 posts)
10. Actually, she did use the term "Arab" (though undoubtedly meant Muslim)...
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 10:23 PM
Aug 2018

moriah

(8,312 posts)
12. It's kinda like the thread about healthcare workers and racist patients.
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 10:25 PM
Aug 2018

General consensus seemed to be that a small pass should be given for obvious dementia. They really are sick, unlike the ones who aren't demented yet care more about the color of the person starting their IV than the color their arm will be after staff decides to abide by their wishes and gives them the newest pale nurse.

SaveOurDemocracy

(4,566 posts)
14. No, she said he was an Arab. Either way, a bigoted remark. n/t
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 10:27 PM
Aug 2018

Takket

(23,714 posts)
9. maybe the assisted living center should just cut off the press???
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 10:22 PM
Aug 2018

Garrett78

(10,721 posts)
11. The problem with her statement and McCain's response has been largely ignored.
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 10:24 PM
Aug 2018

Both her statement and McCain's response imply that being an "Arab" is bad, that an Arab can't be "a good family man."

NYC Liberal

(20,453 posts)
15. I really don't think that's what McCain meant.
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 10:29 PM
Aug 2018

What was he supposed to say? If he’d simply said “No, he’s not Arab”, you could infer the same thing from that too (that being Arab is bad).

Garrett78

(10,721 posts)
18. He could have added a statement about how the demonizing of Muslims is wrong.
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 10:31 PM
Aug 2018

But I wouldn't expect a Republican to do that.

Equinox Moon

(6,344 posts)
17. Really good point!
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 10:30 PM
Aug 2018

madaboutharry

(42,033 posts)
30. That always bothered me.
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 11:51 PM
Aug 2018

He said : “No mam, he is a good family man....” and went on that they didn’t agree politically.

I always thought he should have said that “Arabs” are also good people and it’s wrong to be prejudiced.

He was unprepared for someone saying that, but I thought he should have been quicker on his feet.

 

Goodheart

(5,760 posts)
13. If she believed it she was stupid. That's pretty cut and dried to me.
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 10:27 PM
Aug 2018

tulipsandroses

(8,251 posts)
16. She had bad information, just like all the people that watch Fox News, Listen to Right wing talk
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 10:29 PM
Aug 2018

radio, watch Alex Jones, etc etc etc
Whatever.

She's one of the millions of the fans of that crap. She's just one that got exposed.

Bluepinky

(2,548 posts)
19. So it's ok to be racist and dumb if you're a gentle person?
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 10:58 PM
Aug 2018

I’m scared that people like her make up a significant portion of people voting.

RockRaven

(19,365 posts)
20. Sorry, but your post seems to be based on the premise that this woman was just misinformed...
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 10:58 PM
Aug 2018

But the issue is not whether or not Obama was an Arab -- or a Muslim -- or whether she believed he was either of those things, or whether she had been lied to by someone about either of those things.

The thing people are criticizing about her is that she takes this bad data and interprets it through a bigoted thought process. The idea that him being Arab (or Muslim) is something to be concerned about categorically is what bothers people. It's the bigotry, not the misinformation, which causes offense. Even if she never had heard this "incorrect news" about Obama, her reaction to some similar "correct news" about some other person would have resulted in the same reaction in her, no? That reaction is the problem. That's what everyone is bothered by. Does anyone really expect her to learn/grow/change/etc? Of course not. But that doesn't mean we can't point to that reaction/behavior as something which is not good and should not be passed on to new generations.


If I'm going to think someone who appeared in that video clip is being criticized too harshly, I'd be more likely to choose McCain. The first few seconds of his sound-bite "he's not A, he's B" can be portrayed as saying that A's cannot be B's. I think it's fair to say it sure seems that way when viewed only up to that point; but listening to the clip in full makes it seem to me that he's just trying to shut this lady's misinformation and bigoted premise down, and keep the debate/contrast on the level of policy choices. Could he have done it better? Certainly.

cbdo2007

(9,213 posts)
21. Well to be fair...McCain and the Repubes had spent months before this clip trying to convince
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 11:11 PM
Aug 2018

everyone that Obama *might* be an Arab or Muslim. I think the interesting thing in the clip was that McCain went along with it not thinking people were dumb enough to believe it, but his reaction in seeing that people are that dumb was mind blowing for him.

Then of course for months AFTER this video, Palin STILL was trying to convince people Obama was an Arab or Muslim, so there's that.

 

brettdale

(12,748 posts)
23. although a better thing for her to have said would've been
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 11:17 PM
Aug 2018

"wow Barack Obama is an Arab, he would be our first Arab President?, I wonder what that
will do to our relationships in the middle east?"

She said Arab, like it was a bad thing.

Equinox Moon

(6,344 posts)
24. I like it. That would have been really cool.
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 11:21 PM
Aug 2018

Too bad it was racist comment though.

OhioBlue

(5,202 posts)
33. She said it like it was a bad thing because that was what the right wing campaign against Obama
Wed Aug 29, 2018, 12:16 AM
Aug 2018

(and before that it was used in the Dem primaries)

The timing - 6/7 years after 9-11. Remember what the atmosphere was like? Most people in our Country didn't even question a President taking us into war in Iraq even though Iraq had nothing to do with 9-11. There was mass hysteria and a lack of critical thinking by almost all Republicans but also many Independents and quite a few Dems. The hard core right-wing propaganda machine fed Islamophobia.

So along comes Barack Hussein Obama - Obama sounds like Osama and his middle name is Hussein, and his father was a Muslim.

Before the time of memes.... there were chain emails sent around about Obama being a secret Muslim with ties to terrorists - hell, even a Dem County chair person sent me one during the primaries. I corrected her as I did several other dems. Plus the right-wing propagandists were pushing out content about Obama's ties to Ayres, about his pastor, about his dad and step-dad, going to school in Jakarta which they claimed was a Madrasa. In Arabic Madrasa translates to "school" but Madrasa meant something very different to the American public at the time as Al Queda had been funding fundamentalist madrassas with money from Saudi Arabia to brainwash young Muslims in parts of Afghanistan. The fact that Obama's school was in a very different location in a very different decade was lost to propagandists and their sheep.

So, while I do not condone it, I do understand perfectly what was being implied in that exchange. We have an older, ignorant voter, filled with post 9-11 fear, who probably listened to Rush and Fox and got emails from her neighbors outlining Obama's ties to Muslims and alleged terrorists and she freaked the f_ck out as many did. And for most of us that knocked on doors during the '08 campaign in rural areas, we know the brainwashing that went on. When she said "Arab", she didn't mean "Arab". She was actually trying to be politically correct when she meant Muslim aligned with terrorists and John McCain knew that too. In that context, his response makes sense.

moriah

(8,312 posts)
25. If the living is very "assisted", hopefully they will keep her medical needs above media concerns.
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 11:25 PM
Aug 2018

If your friend wants to do something, have them contact the facility and make the media leave the complex alone -- if not for her, for the other residents.who deserve to retire without a media swarm.

I agree with others she didn't seem to have everything "together" a decade ago, and I can't imagine her mental condition has improved since.

There are some people who will die as bigots, and there's little we can do to change them. I see trying to chase an interview with this woman a decade later as rather vulgar and pointless.

Equinox Moon

(6,344 posts)
26. Agreed and I wonder
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 11:30 PM
Aug 2018

I would think the facility has enough sense to protect the residents from media. I don't know how that is being handled. I would assume the leadership have figured something out. They might have to hire some security guards for a while.

I think it would be an interesting follow up to ask her if she changed her mind after what McCain said to her. I will have to pass along my question and see if an answer finds it way back to me.

D_Master81

(2,585 posts)
27. Ah yes 2008...
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 11:33 PM
Aug 2018

It doesnt seem like that long ago that crazies were still called out on the GOP side. Now you know Trump would've said something like, "you know, some people are saying he's Arab, some are saying he isnt, I dont know..."

rpannier

(24,924 posts)
29. I don't know
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 11:37 PM
Aug 2018

Pretty much sums up his knowledge on any topic

hibbing

(10,597 posts)
28. What about thr guy right before her?
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 11:36 PM
Aug 2018

He was scared of President Obama.


Peace

ooky

(10,922 posts)
31. Trump's base is exploding with people who are wired like her.
Wed Aug 29, 2018, 12:09 AM
Aug 2018

Unfortunately for our country, she is not so unique at all.

Demonaut

(10,078 posts)
32. ignorance is cut and dried
Wed Aug 29, 2018, 12:12 AM
Aug 2018

Aristus

(72,180 posts)
34. I'm not sure how much sympathy I'm supposed to have for a brainless pearl-clutcher
Wed Aug 29, 2018, 12:43 AM
Aug 2018

who goes on TV and says stupid things.

Cousin Dupree

(1,866 posts)
35. I'd like to know how she got to the rally and wny she was there. Anyone notice how unkempt
Wed Aug 29, 2018, 06:24 AM
Aug 2018

her hair was? Most women wouldn’t go out with hair looking like that. Which leads me to think that she is not taking care of herself properly. And her caregivers didn’t bother to comb her hair. Did someone at the facility plan a field trip to a trump rally?

HipChick

(25,612 posts)
37. This is a question that I had too..and also, how what are they being exposed to at the facility?
Wed Aug 29, 2018, 06:50 AM
Aug 2018

Faux News 24/7?

JustABozoOnThisBus

(24,681 posts)
36. Meanwhile, "Get a brain Morans" guy is a happy Twitter blogger.
Wed Aug 29, 2018, 06:38 AM
Aug 2018

Fame affects people differently.

Or infamy.

https://www.sbnation.com/2011/7/17/2279239/get-a-brain-morans

no_hypocrisy

(54,904 posts)
38. Was she in assisted living ten years ago?
Wed Aug 29, 2018, 06:56 AM
Aug 2018

She seemed middle aged and ill informed at that time.

My father was like her and devoted to repeating the last thing he heard on FOX News. The worst thing he could do was vote, so we blew him off.

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