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Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 12:48 PM Oct 2018

Please go to the damned doctor!!!

A plea.

We lost a dear friend to sepsis. She was young, healthy, and vibrant. She got sick with a UTI and instead of going to the doctor, opted for "herbal treatments".

Five days later she died in her husband's arms from sepric shock and massive kidney failure, leaving behind her devastated kids.

Go. To. The. Doctor!

A short course of amoxicillin would have saved her life.

This misinformation bullshit is ridiculous.Now those kids will never have a mother at their football games, band concerts, wedding, or graduation.

This sucks.

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Please go to the damned doctor!!! (Original Post) Drahthaardogs Oct 2018 OP
Wow, that was an aggressive infection Zing Zing Zingbah Oct 2018 #1
This happened to me 6X last year !! CountAllVotes Oct 2018 #2
I always have a round or two of anti-biotics on hand. My Doc trusts my judgement OhNo-Really Oct 2018 #7
I'd never go to the ER for that. Crunchy Frog Oct 2018 #12
In searching all the UTI and cystitis forums, many women said d-mannose is a great preventative womanofthehills Oct 2018 #61
Yes, that's what I've got. Crunchy Frog Oct 2018 #73
thanks for reminding me barbtries Oct 2018 #16
I have macrobid on hand CountAllVotes Oct 2018 #21
my first UTI barbtries Oct 2018 #22
I always travel with antibiotics. cab67 Oct 2018 #17
How do you know which antibiotic marybourg Oct 2018 #32
Broad spectrum. And finish the prescription! Ninsianna Oct 2018 #46
I would get a culture before I would take a broad spectrum womanofthehills Oct 2018 #60
There are plenty of broad spectrum antibiotics other than quinolones. Ninsianna Oct 2018 #70
Cipro, I thought was going to kill me about 6 months ago. Precribed for a UTI, I have taken them dewsgirl Oct 2018 #84
I've been cultured many times CountAllVotes Oct 2018 #55
I used to get UTIs 3 to 5 times a year. Haggis for Breakfast Oct 2018 #59
I already do that CountAllVotes Oct 2018 #78
Knudson's TuxedoKat Oct 2018 #83
Too late CountAllVotes Oct 2018 #88
Kick, kick, kick... mountain grammy Oct 2018 #3
I heard a report about that on the news the other day eleny Oct 2018 #10
Although last year's vaccine was less effective than usual, it did lessen the severity of the flu Nitram Oct 2018 #18
I've had the flu a couple of times and it's a tough experience eleny Oct 2018 #23
I've had it too. Since I turned 60 I've been getting the shot every year. Nitram Oct 2018 #24
Good for you! eleny Oct 2018 #27
Did you know shanti Oct 2018 #30
I didn't know! eleny Oct 2018 #36
That emoji is funny irisblue Oct 2018 #62
I just had the two part Shingrix shots. First was just fine - a slightly sore arm for a day. Second, erronis Oct 2018 #38
At what age should you get the shingle vaccine? Separation Oct 2018 #44
I think they're recommending around 50+. Past exposure to chicken pox makes it more important. erronis Oct 2018 #45
No, I'll definitely be getting it. Separation Oct 2018 #47
Ask your doctor shanti Oct 2018 #49
I cannot have the shingles vaccine CountAllVotes Oct 2018 #90
I had chicken pox as a baby and will talk to my doctor eleny Oct 2018 #64
That's the one I just got. I had the previous one a few years ago. Nitram Oct 2018 #42
oh, sorry! shanti Oct 2018 #50
K&R. Yes! KY_EnviroGuy Oct 2018 #31
! eleny Oct 2018 #37
Get the shingles shot!!!! catchnrelease Oct 2018 #43
It's effectiveness last year was pretty much normal. Ms. Toad Oct 2018 #63
Damn Right Leith Oct 2018 #4
I have a sister like that dem in texas Oct 2018 #5
We need a healthcare system that prioritizes health over profits and power ck4829 Oct 2018 #6
I'm afraid even well-to-do people can fall for the herbal treatment, homeopathic medicine cult. Nitram Oct 2018 #20
I hope you're not promoting alternative meds over evidence-based science... erronis Oct 2018 #39
I am so sorry for your loss. ✨✨hugs✨✨ OhNo-Really Oct 2018 #8
I'm so sorry about your friend, and especially for her husband and kids renate Oct 2018 #9
+1 sandensea Oct 2018 #15
Wife Made Me Go PaulX2 Oct 2018 #11
Jesus.. shanti Oct 2018 #33
Orothexia Nervosa Puppyjive Oct 2018 #13
Is social services helping her child? Ilsa Oct 2018 #34
Damn. That's frigging sad. :( C Moon Oct 2018 #14
Friend of mine got it from a cut on his hand. Dave Starsky Oct 2018 #19
hubbys a pharmacist..that herbal stuff isnt even allowed in our house. samnsara Oct 2018 #25
So tragic Meowmee Oct 2018 #26
My cousin's wife died in her 20's from sticking herself accidently with a sewing pin womanofthehills Oct 2018 #65
So sorry for that and for your loss Meowmee Oct 2018 #69
Thank you for this. Sorry for your friend, especially if it was avoidable. hostalover Oct 2018 #28
Natural. elocs Oct 2018 #29
Arsenic, chlorine, lead, and uranium... Dave Starsky Oct 2018 #57
So sorry you have lost a friend. AllyCat Oct 2018 #35
Or see another physician. Duppers Oct 2018 #41
And we men are the WORST about admitting we need to see a doctor. 7962 Oct 2018 #40
Did she have insurance? Honeycombe8 Oct 2018 #48
So sorry about your friend. kag Oct 2018 #51
Hopefully they won't play football... Joe941 Oct 2018 #52
Herbal treatments are good for making your immune system Doreen Oct 2018 #53
Agreed, marshmallow root and slippery elm can soothe your bladder while you are on antibiotics womanofthehills Oct 2018 #67
Exactly... nt Raine Oct 2018 #71
I hope money was not a factor. Lots of needless death due to people can not afford to get McCamy Taylor Oct 2018 #54
That's what I thought about jcsg Oct 2018 #56
She had TriCare....yes, almost FREE healthcare Drahthaardogs Oct 2018 #58
Mariana Bridi died from the same thing. joshcryer Oct 2018 #66
I Have Taken Herbs for Urinary Tract Infections in the Past, With Excellent Results. panfluteman Oct 2018 #68
I TOTALLY agree Raine Oct 2018 #72
Exactly. I Didn't Say That You Should Never Go to the Doctor. panfluteman Oct 2018 #75
Please delete this crap Drahthaardogs Oct 2018 #74
It's not BS. It's worked for centuries, and keeps on working panfluteman Oct 2018 #77
The other side of the story is a dead woman Drahthaardogs Oct 2018 #80
No it doesn't Drahthaardogs Oct 2018 #81
Just wow hueymahl Oct 2018 #82
This is one of the most ignorant posts I have seen on here in a long time hueymahl Oct 2018 #76
The herb supplements market is also a racket, without any of the safeguards of pharmaceuticals. SunSeeker Oct 2018 #86
Having had C. diff, I try to avoid unnecessary abx Freethinker65 Oct 2018 #79
My friend in hospital, exact same situation flibbitygiblets Oct 2018 #85
I'm headed back in a few CountAllVotes Oct 2018 #89
Well, what do you know CountAllVotes Oct 2018 #91
It's been posted that..... getagrip_already Oct 2018 #87
On the cancer discussion boards there are some who are Glimmer of Hope Oct 2018 #92

CountAllVotes

(22,213 posts)
2. This happened to me 6X last year !!
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 01:00 PM
Oct 2018

Last edited Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:01 PM - Edit history (1)

= ER @ 3:00 a.m. only to be drug tested, questioned and treated like a piece of sh*t. If you don't go you could be dead in 45 mins. they say.

Now I have a home testing kit on hand and the proper antibiotics on hand as well.

In fact, right now I'm going through this AGAIN!

If you ignore it and try "natural" remedies it WILL KILL YOU.

Sorry for your loss & thanks for spreading the word re: this issue!

& recommend!

OhNo-Really

(3,996 posts)
7. I always have a round or two of anti-biotics on hand. My Doc trusts my judgement
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 01:19 PM
Oct 2018

Women learn quickly the signs and symptoms of UTIs etc.

I wonder if financial strain kept the couple from seeking medical care?

Our system is an abomination.

Crunchy Frog

(28,280 posts)
12. I'd never go to the ER for that.
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 01:43 PM
Oct 2018

I use the urgent care. I've been getting them fairly frequently lately, and I am using natural remedies to try to prevent them.

I really should get a supply of ABX though.

womanofthehills

(10,988 posts)
61. In searching all the UTI and cystitis forums, many women said d-mannose is a great preventative
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 10:25 PM
Oct 2018

Works for me. Cranberry juice is too acidic for me. D - mannose is a simple sugar that supposedly attracts bacteria before they become a problem.

When I get a twinge of anything weird with my bladder, i take a teaspoon of d-mannose.

It's always a good idea to get a culture, because cystitis mimics UTI's.

barbtries

(31,307 posts)
16. thanks for reminding me
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 01:52 PM
Oct 2018

i have to get a new macrodantin Rx. I used to keep cipro on hand for stealth UTI's, but fluoroquinolones are not the 1st line defense anymore due to safety issues.

CountAllVotes

(22,213 posts)
21. I have macrobid on hand
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 01:58 PM
Oct 2018

In the past I've been RX'd sulfa.

I have MS and this is part of this very not so fun disease!

But I look so good!

Glad to know you are on top of this.

It is nothing to fool around with!



barbtries

(31,307 posts)
22. my first UTI
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:02 PM
Oct 2018

was when I was 15. I'm 63.

it's physiological in my case. I got treatment when i was 28 and lived about 10 blissful years without a single infection.

I already went to mychart and requested it.

cab67

(3,744 posts)
17. I always travel with antibiotics.
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 01:55 PM
Oct 2018

One of the worst MSSA infections I've ever gotten was this past summer while I was in Europe. It was the first time in a long while that I forgot to pack my doxycycline. I (very stupidly) decided not to go to a hospital; it showed up only a couple of days before my flight home, and I thought dealing with the paperwork stateside would be as painful as the abscess.

I don't know if my life was in immediate danger, but by the time I got to an urgent care center, the abscess was as big as a golf ball. It left a big permanent scar.

(I would have acted differently had I not been [a] in a developed country and [ b] so close to my return time. I brought a single course of antibiotics with me on an 8-week research trip, and an abscess appeared literally on the flight over. So I ended up using the whole course in Paris during the first week, hoping I wouldn't get another abscess. Which I did - in Uganda, half a month before I headed home. Fortunately, I was able to find some doxycycline.)

Staph infections should be taken very, very seriously. I'm sorry this young woman has died, and even sorrier that the kind of misinformation environment we have led her to believe she could take care of her problem without modern medical science.


marybourg

(13,640 posts)
32. How do you know which antibiotic
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:32 PM
Oct 2018

to take w/o a culture? My bugs seem to change & need different Rx’s.

womanofthehills

(10,988 posts)
60. I would get a culture before I would take a broad spectrum
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 10:17 PM
Oct 2018

90% of the time UTI's are caused by E. coli which can be cured with antibiotics with few side effects. I prefer the older antibiotics myself. The broad spectrum antiobiotics like Cipro have horrible side effects. People with life long injuries from Floroquinolones (Cipro, Levaquin, Floxin, etc) - refer to themselves as being "Floxed" and there are thousands of sad stories all over the net.

Ninsianna

(1,354 posts)
70. There are plenty of broad spectrum antibiotics other than quinolones.
Wed Oct 3, 2018, 03:52 AM
Oct 2018

Why would you prefer older antibiotics? That's a bit odd. I prefer the most effective ones and a culture is not always feasible.

dewsgirl

(14,964 posts)
84. Cipro, I thought was going to kill me about 6 months ago. Precribed for a UTI, I have taken them
Wed Oct 3, 2018, 10:29 AM
Oct 2018

in the past just fine. This time I was worse off for about a month after taking them, I will avoid them at all costs in the future if possible.

CountAllVotes

(22,213 posts)
55. I've been cultured many times
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 08:34 PM
Oct 2018

& I happen to personally know the M.D. at the ER!

He dictated some real sh*t last time around & they are now treating me *semi-human* almost!

He cultured it again & matched it to macrobid the last time I was at the ER.

Haggis for Breakfast

(6,831 posts)
59. I used to get UTIs 3 to 5 times a year.
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 09:46 PM
Oct 2018

It was ridiculous. But I am very pre-deposed to UTIs, kidney infections, bladder infections.

But a few years ago, my MD suggested two things ---- 1) cut down on caffeine and 2) drink a small glass of cranberry juice every night before bedtime.

I followed his advice. I haven't had a single infection in two years. That advice was a god-send to me.

Check with your MD, but I promise you, this works. It may take some time, but it is worth it.

If you can't take cranberry juice by itself, there are a lot of cranberry and other juices mixtures to try. My favorites are Langer's Cranberry/Raspberry and their Cranberry/Blueberry. Sometimes I even mix in a small amount of lemonade.

Please, at least give it a try.

CountAllVotes

(22,213 posts)
78. I already do that
Wed Oct 3, 2018, 09:32 AM
Oct 2018

Supposed to drink 100% organic. The ones you list are loaded with other things but not organic cranberry juice.

TuxedoKat

(3,843 posts)
83. Knudson's
Wed Oct 3, 2018, 10:09 AM
Oct 2018

has an unsweetened Cranberry Juice, nothing else added. I dilute mine 4:1 with water and sweeten with Stevia. Recently my local grocery started carrying another variety also unsweetened - Langer's, which is about half the price of Knudson's or your grocery may have their own brand of unsweetened Cranberry Juice.

CountAllVotes

(22,213 posts)
88. Too late
Wed Oct 3, 2018, 04:24 PM
Oct 2018

Self-test came back +.

Back to the hospital in a few minutes. Luckily they managed to get me in before it turns into blood.

mountain grammy

(29,027 posts)
3. Kick, kick, kick...
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 01:01 PM
Oct 2018

Thanks for posting. Just listening to a program describing how more and more people aren't being vaccinated.. 80,000 dead from the flu last year.

eleny

(46,176 posts)
10. I heard a report about that on the news the other day
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 01:24 PM
Oct 2018

Last year's flu was especially virulent and the vaccine didn't deal with that strain. But this year's vaccine is on the job for the current flu type.

Nitram

(27,724 posts)
18. Although last year's vaccine was less effective than usual, it did lessen the severity of the flu
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 01:57 PM
Oct 2018

Last edited Wed Oct 3, 2018, 08:39 AM - Edit history (1)

if you happened to get it.

eleny

(46,176 posts)
23. I've had the flu a couple of times and it's a tough experience
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:05 PM
Oct 2018

Even your eyelashes seem to hurt. That was when I was in my 20s and 30s. Now that I'm older I wouldn't miss getting the shot. I can't imagine days of pain and nausea associated with the flu.

Nitram

(27,724 posts)
24. I've had it too. Since I turned 60 I've been getting the shot every year.
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:07 PM
Oct 2018

My doctor is great. When I go in for my physical he always makes sure I get the shot. Also got the new Shingles vaccine.

eleny

(46,176 posts)
27. Good for you!
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:17 PM
Oct 2018

I got the Shingles shot a while back. I always thought it was a painful deal but it's like getting a flu shot. Painless. My cousin's husband got Shingles and when I saw it first hand I called Walgreens that day and scheduled the shot appointment for the next day.

Be well!

shanti

(21,799 posts)
30. Did you know
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:30 PM
Oct 2018

Last edited Tue Oct 2, 2018, 03:03 PM - Edit history (1)

that there's a NEW shingles vaccine called Shingrix? It's a two part injection. I got my first one in August and will get the next one in November. You have to ask for it specifically though. Kaiser didn't want to give it to me at first, said it was reserved for people with serious conditions, but I perservered and got it. It does make your arm hurt like the dickens, but it's better than shingles!

eleny

(46,176 posts)
36. I didn't know!
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:45 PM
Oct 2018

I'm having a physical next month and will talk to my doc about it. She'll back me up if need be. Will tell my husband, too. Thx a million!

I can deal with arm pain like the dickens to avoid Shingles.
..... .....

erronis

(23,848 posts)
38. I just had the two part Shingrix shots. First was just fine - a slightly sore arm for a day. Second,
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:59 PM
Oct 2018

was a lot worse. Chills, fatigue, ditziness (more than my usual), aches for about a week plus.

Still, I'd do it again if it prevents me from getting shingles!

And based on my advanced age (not telling, but between 70 and 72), I'm also going to get my first flu shot.

erronis

(23,848 posts)
45. I think they're recommending around 50+. Past exposure to chicken pox makes it more important.
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 04:10 PM
Oct 2018

My mother actually had chicken pox as I was born and I'm pretty sure I had it as a young child.

I hope I don't dissuade anybody from doing this vaccine. It is apparently one of the most effective ones out there.

Separation

(1,975 posts)
47. No, I'll definitely be getting it.
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 04:19 PM
Oct 2018

I had the chicken pox when I was little, and I know people who have had shingles and it's not something I wanna mess with.

Lol Getting weird vaccines against Yellow Fever or other weird vaccines during my time in the military make it so nothing fazes me anymore.

As far as the pain after one, what I always did was drop down and bust out a bunch of push ups and followed by pullups. Never had any pain after doing that.

shanti

(21,799 posts)
49. Ask your doctor
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 05:16 PM
Oct 2018

My son got it at age 35 (!) and he'd had chickenpox as a kid. He actually got it for the first time when he was on a Hawaiian vacation. It was in a line on his side from about armpit to hip. They used to say age 60 for the vaccine, but it may have changed with the demographics.

CountAllVotes

(22,213 posts)
90. I cannot have the shingles vaccine
Wed Oct 3, 2018, 04:28 PM
Oct 2018

I have a compromised immune system. That vaccine could due a dirty on me and kill me. Uh huh ...

Check with your doctor *if you have one* to be sure!!

eleny

(46,176 posts)
64. I had chicken pox as a baby and will talk to my doctor
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 10:47 PM
Oct 2018

Sounds like I'm at risk even though I got the first type of Shingles shot.

Did you start getting symptoms right away before you got home? I'm asking since I'd have someone come with me if it came on suddenly. We're contemporaries since I turned 72 last month. You youngster!

Nitram

(27,724 posts)
42. That's the one I just got. I had the previous one a few years ago.
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 03:53 PM
Oct 2018

It is supposed to be much more effective. I have yet to take the booster shot. I did have a sore arm for a couple of days.

shanti

(21,799 posts)
50. oh, sorry!
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 05:18 PM
Oct 2018

senior moment . I found out about the Shingrix right here on DU about May or so, but it was on the Senior Boards. Everyone should know about it though.

KY_EnviroGuy

(14,782 posts)
31. K&R. Yes!
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:30 PM
Oct 2018

All we have to do is witness a friend have shingles and we never forget, especially if they have follow-up nerve pain as a further reminder. I got my shot at around 65 after witnessing it in a good friend and she really suffered.

Pneumonia, flu, shingles and now Hep C are crucial for my area, especially for us older folks.

Thanks for reminding everyone...........

catchnrelease

(2,151 posts)
43. Get the shingles shot!!!!
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 03:56 PM
Oct 2018

I had shingles several years ago. Was misdiagnosed when I went to urgent care, so was in horrible pain for 2 more days until I got the correct meds. I have a high pain tolerance but I can verify it is HORRIBLE!! Had it on my forehead and down around my eye and nose. Luckily I seemed to have a mild case as no lasting effects and once on the right rx it only lasted about a week. But those first few days were enough to make me recommend to everyone--GET THE SHOT!

My dr at the time said I could get the vax 5 yrs after having the attack, so I did. Now am going to look into the new one too.

Ms. Toad

(38,630 posts)
63. It's effectiveness last year was pretty much normal.
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 10:46 PM
Oct 2018

The effectiveness of the flu vaccine has only been 50% or above once since 2010. Last year's was 40%.

dem in texas

(2,681 posts)
5. I have a sister like that
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 01:13 PM
Oct 2018

Puts off going to the doctor, when she does go, she argues with the doc. She is now in her 70's and she is falling apart health wise. The whole family is worried about her, but she thinks she knows best. Has a son in Colorado, he is not interested in her health or even visiting with her. Bad situation, I don't think it will have a happy ending.

ck4829

(37,748 posts)
6. We need a healthcare system that prioritizes health over profits and power
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 01:16 PM
Oct 2018

Expensive antibiotics, medicines, doctor visits, hospital visits

OR

Cheap "herbal treatments" and "natural cures"

Nitram

(27,724 posts)
20. I'm afraid even well-to-do people can fall for the herbal treatment, homeopathic medicine cult.
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 01:58 PM
Oct 2018

erronis

(23,848 posts)
39. I hope you're not promoting alternative meds over evidence-based science...
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 03:08 PM
Oct 2018

I agree with your first bullet - "Expensive antibiotics, medicines, doctor visits, hospital visits" but hope you aren't recommending substituting "herbal treatments" and "natural cures" for a decent medical exam.

While the medical/pharmaceutical industry is gouging US, the pseudo medical types are doing the same with no evidence that their solutions work. Anecdotal and advertisement-based treatment is a sham. Do some clinical trials, double-blind experiments, peer-reviewed results before making your patients your guinea pigs and your cash cows.

I've worked with "integrative" and "complementary-alternative" medicines. The difference between the scientific methods of self-proclaimed healers and certified healthcare professionals is huge, and not complimentary to the complementary ones.

OhNo-Really

(3,996 posts)
8. I am so sorry for your loss. ✨✨hugs✨✨
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 01:20 PM
Oct 2018

And thank you for sharing this. Perhaps some lives will be saved.

renate

(13,776 posts)
9. I'm so sorry about your friend, and especially for her husband and kids
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 01:24 PM
Oct 2018

What a horrible shock. And so needless.

Maybe in her case she had good insurance and was only trying to cure the UTI naturally for philosophical reasons, but it's so sad to think of all the people who don't go to the doctor for financial reasons and try natural treatments because they can't afford a bill. Until recently this would have been me, too, trying to grit my teeth and power through it and trying to take care of myself at home.

I don't want to make this political, but in a country where getting medical care is so dependent on one's socioeconomic situation, what happened to your friend is way too common, and not always due to misinformation.

I am so sorry. It's tragic for everyone who loved and still loves her, and extra heartbreaking that her death was so preventable.

sandensea

(23,332 posts)
15. +1
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 01:51 PM
Oct 2018

Affordability is definitely our biggest health care problem.

Even the Wall Street Journal is starting to sound concerned - if only because it's consuming the bottom line.

https://www.wsj.com/articles/does-health-care-need-to-cost-this-much-1533584842

shanti

(21,799 posts)
33. Jesus..
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:32 PM
Oct 2018

that's high! I hate to say it, but you probably weren't "fine" for years before. What is your A1C now?

Puppyjive

(987 posts)
13. Orothexia Nervosa
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 01:46 PM
Oct 2018

My family has fallen victim to this horrible eating disorder. Parents have been bullied by my stepsister for years over the way they eat. My stepdad has cancer and she thinks her naturepath has cured him. Her neice is anorexic now, after living with her. Her daughter, who was born with part of her brain not developed, has seizures. She thinks food causes the seizures, so guess what? She looks anorexic too. Finally put my foot down and called her out.

Ilsa

(64,361 posts)
34. Is social services helping her child?
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:40 PM
Oct 2018

Orthorexia nervosa needs to be added to the DSM-5. Your stepsister's case is so extreme. I hope the pediatrician has made the referral.

Dave Starsky

(5,914 posts)
19. Friend of mine got it from a cut on his hand.
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 01:57 PM
Oct 2018

One month in the hospital, two weeks of which were in the ICU. Another three months in skilled nursing and rehab.

Do not fuck around with infections. ANY infection. Bugs are getting nastier and harder to fight. For God's sake, get it checked out.

Meowmee

(9,212 posts)
26. So tragic
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:12 PM
Oct 2018

So sorry for that😿 Many people do go to the doctor/ hospital and still don't get a diagnosis and treatment of the initial infection or the sepsis.

https://rorystauntonfoundationforsepsis.org/

womanofthehills

(10,988 posts)
65. My cousin's wife died in her 20's from sticking herself accidently with a sewing pin
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 10:50 PM
Oct 2018

Hospital did not diagnosis and treat her for sepsis until it was too late.

Meowmee

(9,212 posts)
69. So sorry for that and for your loss
Wed Oct 3, 2018, 03:05 AM
Oct 2018

I read about this 3-4 months ago when I had a cut on my hand I was worried about which I ended up taking an antibiotic for. I hope they are improving the whole situation.

 

elocs

(24,486 posts)
29. Natural.
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:28 PM
Oct 2018

Rattlesnake venom is natural. So is poison ivy.
"Natural" is too often an overblown marketing ploy that claims to deliver miraculous results.
Who would ever take any med that had the near non-existent scientific testing of "natural" remedies with their ancecdotal evidence for their claims?

Dave Starsky

(5,914 posts)
57. Arsenic, chlorine, lead, and uranium...
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 09:15 PM
Oct 2018

Are so natural and pure, they're on the Periodic Table of Elements.

AllyCat

(18,837 posts)
35. So sorry you have lost a friend.
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 02:42 PM
Oct 2018

I am all for herbal treatments for things. But if there is not massive improvement in a day or so GO TO THE DOCTOR! It doesn’t mean parasites or poor diet have taken control. Infection can happen to anyone. Seek medical advice for stuff. If they “can’t find anything wrong, it may be diet or parasites. Try your favorite herbal treatment after real medical issues are ruled out.

Duppers

(28,469 posts)
41. Or see another physician.
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 03:49 PM
Oct 2018

A small percentage of docs do miss things.


Btw, I had to go to a medical school to be diagnosed.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
40. And we men are the WORST about admitting we need to see a doctor.
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 03:44 PM
Oct 2018

I get a physical every year. Mainly because when I was growing up, I cant remember HOW many times someone the family knew would die, and I'd hear my parents say "Well, they said if he'd just gone to the doctor when it started bothering him....."
Going every year doesnt guarantee anything, but it certainly doesnt hurt either.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
48. Did she have insurance?
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 05:01 PM
Oct 2018

That's important, since many people can't afford a treatment plan without insurance, or without insurance with a low deductible. (My ACA deductible is thousands of dollars. I would hesitate to go to the dr. for what I think is a normal fever or whatever.)

I looked up homeopathic treatment for UTI. It said up front that anyone with UTI needs to be under the care of a health professional. The homeopathic remedies can be helpful, though, and help to prevent recurrences, I read.

So the sister wasn't following basic homeopathic remedies, either.

Get thee to a doctor, if it's something serious, like an infection. I went to an UrgentCare place for a dog bite on my hand that was way too swollen and red (infection). Don't take chances with infections. That's very serious.

kag

(4,197 posts)
51. So sorry about your friend.
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 05:34 PM
Oct 2018

I lost my mom to cervical cancer when I was sixteen. Back then they didn't know the HPV connection, and women weren't warned to get paps every year. Still, if it had been caught earlier...

Another thing to be aware of with infections: An autoimmune kidney disorder called IgA Nephropathy. My daughter started running a fever and peeing blood. We and our doctor assumed it was a UTI, but the culture came back negative. Fortunately our family doc is excellent. He sent her to a nephrologist (kidney doc) who confirmed IgA Nephropathy. Antibiotics cleared the infection, but the kidneys will react this way with ANY infection (we will never know what the "original" infection was).

So, she started taking blood pressure meds at 18 to help keep her kidneys healthy, but any time she gets an infection (sinus, throat, respiratory, etc.) she starts peeing blood and if she doesn't get on antibiotics FAST, she could sustain serious kidney damage. Also, since ibuprofen (once my go-to drug for fevers) is cleared by the kidneys, she can't take it, at least not for a fever.

So, yes. Go. To. The. Damn. Doctor.

Doreen

(11,686 posts)
53. Herbal treatments are good for making your immune system
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 06:18 PM
Oct 2018

stronger and making illness more unlikely but usually do not cure a sickness if they. Herbal and modern medicine should be used together not separately. I am sorry for your loss.

womanofthehills

(10,988 posts)
67. Agreed, marshmallow root and slippery elm can soothe your bladder while you are on antibiotics
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 10:54 PM
Oct 2018

Many people on here put down herbal treatments. it does not have to be black and white. Most of us are intelligent enough to combine treatments.

McCamy Taylor

(19,240 posts)
54. I hope money was not a factor. Lots of needless death due to people can not afford to get
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 07:58 PM
Oct 2018

health care. Asthmatics who stay home and die. Heart attack patients afraid of the cost of an ER visit will bankrupt the family.

 

jcsg

(55 posts)
56. That's what I thought about
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 09:07 PM
Oct 2018

I wonder what on earth she took that caused this to happen. So sad for the family.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
58. She had TriCare....yes, almost FREE healthcare
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 09:30 PM
Oct 2018

This is purely a case of stubborn resistance to modern medicine due to the bullshit put out there.

Waited until it was too late. Devastating.

joshcryer

(62,536 posts)
66. Mariana Bridi died from the same thing.
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 10:53 PM
Oct 2018

UTI causing sepsis, wound up having her hands and feet amputated, but it didn't save her.

panfluteman

(2,193 posts)
68. I Have Taken Herbs for Urinary Tract Infections in the Past, With Excellent Results.
Tue Oct 2, 2018, 11:10 PM
Oct 2018

I also have cured myself of infectious phlebitis with herbs and fasting. I hate all this sensationalism and propaganda. No talk here about the over one hundred fifty thousand patients per year who die from the side effects of prescription drugs. Heck, even the commercials for the drugs themselves mention death as a possible side effect. And by the way - TV commercials advertising prescription drugs should be illegal. Only one's doctor should be able to decide whether or not you even need a certain drug. TV advertising for prescription drugs violates the doctor - patient relationship; many MDs complain that these patients come into their office convinced that they need a drug they saw advertised on TV - and they know that if they don't give it to them, they will just go on until they find some doctor who will. Hippocrates is rolling over in his grave. The medical / Pharmaceutical racket is hopelessly corrupt. Just thought that I would present the other side of the story here.

Raine

(31,175 posts)
72. I TOTALLY agree
Wed Oct 3, 2018, 04:44 AM
Oct 2018

lots of people don't realize how dangerous prescription drugs can be. So many drugs pushed at the pubic in extravagant commercials are withdrawn in a short time because they had so many horrible side effects along with death. It's no wonder there's such a prescription drug problem in this country, practically every commercial is for big pharma pushing people to demand their doctor let them have the drug they saw advertised on TV.

panfluteman

(2,193 posts)
75. Exactly. I Didn't Say That You Should Never Go to the Doctor.
Wed Oct 3, 2018, 09:24 AM
Oct 2018

For example, I had a horrendous crisis of an infected tooth, with severe inflammation, swelling and pain the last time I was in Mexico that would have sent the average person straight to the emergency room. Luckily, I had a little bottle of Castor Oil on hand and massaged some of that Castor Oil into the submaxillary lymph nodes below the jawbone on the affected side. Castor Oil draws out pus and toxins, and that draining of the toxins from the lymph nodes enabled my immune system to overcome the infection, and within half an hour or so, the pain and swelling went down, and was totally gone by the following morning. I had used that remedy before for another abscessed tooth, so I knew it worked. However, I did follow up on that tooth, albeit a few months later, with a dentist when I was able to do so. Until I was able to get to the dentist, I was very aggressive and proactive with my dental hygiene.

Regarding pharmaceutical drugs, so many of them are just developed as a money making venture - there are usually older drugs on the market that work pretty well. and do the same thing - and usually without the horrendous sided effects. My teacher of Western Medicine in acupuncture school, who was a naturopathic doctor, ND, by training, said that 80% of the drugs currently in use were not in use 20 years ago. What happens? In spite of the animal testing and clinical trials, certain deleterious effects of the drugs become better known, and legal claims and lawsuits start to pile up. But never fear - if the pharmaceutical company has marketed their new drug aggressively in the beginning, they have made a ton of money, and the profits they have made easily outweigh the claims they have to pay out, and it's a winning venture - for the drug companies at least, but not for the victims.

So, if you're going to use a pharmaceutical drug, try sticking to those with a track record of safety and reliability that's at least 20 years old - preferably longer. At least everything is known about that drug.

Of all the positive things in my life, I am the most thankful for herbs and herbal medicine. Music and flutes would follow that closely.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
74. Please delete this crap
Wed Oct 3, 2018, 09:12 AM
Oct 2018

This mentality is what killed her. Starat your own thread if you want to tout this bullshit. Get it out of mine.

panfluteman

(2,193 posts)
77. It's not BS. It's worked for centuries, and keeps on working
Wed Oct 3, 2018, 09:29 AM
Oct 2018

for those who are willing to work with nature. And thanks for your suggestion. Perhaps I will start my own thread, but I felt obligated to present the other side of the story here.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
80. The other side of the story is a dead woman
Wed Oct 3, 2018, 09:43 AM
Oct 2018

It's my OP and I want this OUT of it. Your opinion is not welcome here.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
81. No it doesn't
Wed Oct 3, 2018, 09:46 AM
Oct 2018

Influenza was the #1 killer before the invent of penicillin.

For the love of God I am a toxicologist who did my undergrad work in plant secondary metabolites.

STOP. THE. WOO!

hueymahl

(2,904 posts)
76. This is one of the most ignorant posts I have seen on here in a long time
Wed Oct 3, 2018, 09:26 AM
Oct 2018

Like the poster above said, please delete. No bs herbal remedy cured your infection. Your own body did, as it has for millions of years. You just got lucky that your immune system could handle it - many millions died prior to antibiotics because their immune systems were not up to the task. The fact you took some overpriced ground plant-of-the-day had nothing to do with it.

To top it off, you conflate antibiotics with drug advertising. I have never seen an advertisement for antibiotics because there does not need to be one. You take them when your doctor says you need them to cure an infection. It is not patient driven.

There is no other side. There is reality, and then there is whatever crap the herbal and homeopathic quacks trying to sell you as medicine. And let there be no doubt - they are trying to sell you - and it looks like you bought it hook, line and sinker.

SunSeeker

(58,270 posts)
86. The herb supplements market is also a racket, without any of the safeguards of pharmaceuticals.
Wed Oct 3, 2018, 11:44 AM
Oct 2018

Nutritional supplements are not tested for efficacy or purity. It is a total crap shoot what you are getting.

Freethinker65

(11,203 posts)
79. Having had C. diff, I try to avoid unnecessary abx
Wed Oct 3, 2018, 09:35 AM
Oct 2018

However, when things get bad enough to require medical attention, I go to a medical professional who is aware of my medical history for diagnosis and treatment.

I have taken abx a couple of times in the past ten years.

flibbitygiblets

(7,220 posts)
85. My friend in hospital, exact same situation
Wed Oct 3, 2018, 10:57 AM
Oct 2018

She's going to survive. But nearly died needlessly. And is actively warning others not to do what she did.

CountAllVotes

(22,213 posts)
89. I'm headed back in a few
Wed Oct 3, 2018, 04:26 PM
Oct 2018

I don't B.S. around with UTI's.

Maybe cranberry helps but I cannot afford to take the risk given my medical history.

Nope.



CountAllVotes

(22,213 posts)
91. Well, what do you know
Thu Oct 4, 2018, 12:09 AM
Oct 2018

Glad I didn't wait.

It seems I'm having a bout with diverticulitis. There is no bladder infection, hence no need for antibiotics.

Too strange and just another example of why you should seek medical care when you suspect something is amiss.

Diverticulitis = felt like I was going to DIE and yeah that is how bad it is.

getagrip_already

(17,802 posts)
87. It's been posted that.....
Wed Oct 3, 2018, 12:50 PM
Oct 2018

The whole anti-vax, anti-medicine, anti-science movement was started by russian psy-ops operatives. It's part of their overall architecture to destroy our country and democracy.

It seems some people are very easily lead away from common sense by alternative appeals.

Sure, corporate medicine has its evil side, but so does the ant-vax movement.

I'll trust science and medicine over putin, thank you very much.

Thoughts for your friend. That certainly does have a devastating end for all.

Glimmer of Hope

(5,823 posts)
92. On the cancer discussion boards there are some who are
Thu Oct 4, 2018, 12:23 AM
Oct 2018

Forging chemo and trying alternative routes that have no proven anti-cancer properties. It drives me nuts.

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