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CousinIT

(9,261 posts)
Mon Oct 8, 2018, 07:43 PM Oct 2018

One woman's bad-ass anthem is about to go viral: 'It's A Scary Time' (for boys)



It would be a good thing to ensure the assholes who lead the effort to shove Brett Rapenaugh on the USSC see this - a LOT.

@senatemajldr
@jeffFlake
@LindseyGrahamSC
@SenateGOP
@SenJudiciary (11 Grand Old Prick party & 10 Democrats)
@realDonaldTrump

I CAN’T WALK TO MY CAR LATE AT NIGHT WHILE ON THE PHONE

I CAN’T OPEN UP MY WINDOWS WHEN I’M HOME ALONE

I CAN’T GO TO A BAR WITHOUT A CHAPERONE

AND I CAN’T WEAR A MINI SKIRT IF ITS THE ONLY ONE I OWN

I CAN’T USE PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION AFTER 7 PM

I CAN’T BE BRUTALLY HONEST WHEN YOU SLIDE INTO MY DMS

I CAN’T GO TO THE CLUB JUST TO DANCE WITH MY FRIENDS

AND I CAN’T EVER LEAVE MY DRINK UNATTENDED

BUT IT SURE IS A SCARY TIME FOR BOYS

YEAH GENTLEMEN! BAND TOGETHER, MAKE SOME NOISE

ITS REALLY TOUGH WHEN YOUR REPUTATION’S ON THE LINE

AND ANY WOMAN YOU’VE ASSAULTED COULD TURN UP ANYTIME

YEAH, IT SURE IS A SCARY TIME FOR GUYS

CAN’T SPEAK TO ANY WOMEN OR LOOK THEM IN THE EYES

ITS SO CONFUSING, IS IT RAPE OR IS IT JUST BEING NICE?

SO INCONVENIENT THAT YOU EVEN HAVE TO THINK TWICE

I CAN’T LIVE IN AN APARTMENT IF IT'S ON THE FIRST FLOOR I CAN’T BE WEARING SILK PAJAMAS WHEN I ANSWER THE DOOR

I CAN’T HAVE ANOTHER DRINK EVEN IF I WANT MORE

I CAN’T MAKE YOU FEEL INVALID, UNSEEN, OR IGNORED

I CAN’T JOG AROUND THE CITY WITH HEADPHONES ON MY EARS

I CAN’T SPEAK OUT AGAINST MY RAPIST AFTER 35 YEARS

I CAN’T BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY IF I'M HOLDING BACK TEARS

AND I CAN’T EVER SPEAK EARNESTLY ABOUT ALL MY FEARS

BUT IT SURE IS A SCARY TIME FOR DUDES

CAN’T TEXT A GIRL REPEATEDLY ASKING FOR NUDES

CAN’T MAKE HER HAVE SEX WHEN SHE’S NOT IN THE MOOD

AND WHAT GIVES HER THE RIGHT TO GIVE YOU ATTITUDE??

YEAH, IT SURE IS A SCARY TIME FOR MEN

GIRLS LIKE TO ACT LIKE YOU’RE TO BLAME AND THEY’RE THE VICTIMS

HER DRESS WAS SHORT AND SHE WAS DRUNK, SHE’S NOT SO INNOCENT

THANK GOD YOUR DAD’S THE JUDGE AND YOU WON’T BE CONVICTED

OH WAIT...THAT’S RIGHT… IT’S NOT SUCH A SCARY TIME FOR BOYS

THEY’VE ALWAYS HAD THE UPPER HAND, THEY’VE ALWAYS HAD A CHOICE

IT’S TIME FOR WOMEN TO RISE UP, USE OUR COLLECTIVE VOICE

THE DAY TO VOTE’S NOVEMBER 6, SO LET’S GO MAKE SOME NOISE

http://www.VOTE.org


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One woman's bad-ass anthem is about to go viral: 'It's A Scary Time' (for boys) (Original Post) CousinIT Oct 2018 OP
This is very good! mobeau69 Oct 2018 #1
That is great malaise Oct 2018 #2
Love it! MineralMan Oct 2018 #3
thank you for including the lyrics for those of us who can't listen right now renate Oct 2018 #4
Kick. Great! Squinch Oct 2018 #5
Love it! SunSeeker Oct 2018 #6
TRUTH!!! K&R backtoblue Oct 2018 #7
Bravo! ProudProgressiveNow Oct 2018 #8
This is great, and I hope she can get it professionally recorded FakeNoose Oct 2018 #9
Me likey. DinahMoeHum Oct 2018 #10
She's awesome! Loryn Oct 2018 #11
It's Kinda Like Our Own Vietnam out There for Us Po'Boys Stallion Oct 2018 #12
Thanks for the lyrics. It was posted this morning BigmanPigman Oct 2018 #13
That was very nice. Talented lady and perfect for today. lancelyons Oct 2018 #14
SNL should give her a call ... aggiesal Oct 2018 #15
WTF is up w SNL's musical guest choices anyway? While there are great female groups SuprstitionAintthWay Oct 2018 #41
it's up around 1 million views NewJeffCT Oct 2018 #16
Absolutely wonderful!!! scarletwoman Oct 2018 #17
thank you AllaN01Bear Oct 2018 #18
Marvelous! LoisB Oct 2018 #19
Brava! peequod Oct 2018 #20
Brilliant! volstork Oct 2018 #21
I can hear her singing all the way to my house apkhgp Oct 2018 #22
WOW! I love it! liberalla Oct 2018 #23
Please vote. Women, and men who authentically care about them as people SuprstitionAintthWay Oct 2018 #24
She should start on KT2000 Oct 2018 #25
Damn Girl......Tell it like it is!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! nt List left Oct 2018 #26
Brilliant lyrics. Bravo! Vinca Oct 2018 #27
someone needs to get this to Taylor Swift asap! that's gold, gold I tell ya! n/t Locrian Oct 2018 #28
I saw on twitter that the video had over 4.3 million views NewJeffCT Oct 2018 #33
Yep study war no more Oct 2018 #34
Very good bluecoat_fan Oct 2018 #29
Brilliant! I love her! 💙💪🏾 BlancheSplanchnik Oct 2018 #30
thank you for the lyrics. LOVE this. niyad Oct 2018 #31
Outstanding! (nt) Paladin Oct 2018 #32
That...was...AWESOME! I hope she gets famous. She's a great songwriter! nt Honeycombe8 Oct 2018 #35
what is DMS? jg10003 Oct 2018 #36
Direct Message. Slide into means that you enter an Instragram chain to interupt grantcart Oct 2018 #38
thanks from a clueless old man jg10003 Oct 2018 #40
Thanks for posting! Dark n Stormy Knight Oct 2018 #37
Spanish translation posted in the comments on YouTube by Maternidarks: Denzil_DC Oct 2018 #39

renate

(13,776 posts)
4. thank you for including the lyrics for those of us who can't listen right now
Mon Oct 8, 2018, 08:08 PM
Oct 2018

Good for her!

I hope this woman's song, and Taylor Swift's speaking up, and (if it's not coming, it'd be political malpractice) a GOTV campaign aimed at young people will get a whole generation getting mad and getting involved and voting.

My daughter can't wait to vote

FakeNoose

(32,790 posts)
9. This is great, and I hope she can get it professionally recorded
Mon Oct 8, 2018, 08:42 PM
Oct 2018

It would be nice if a sound engineer could turn down the banjo a little, and crank up her voice a little.
It's not that complicated for professional sound studios to do.

Great song and very appropriate for this election!

aggiesal

(8,935 posts)
15. SNL should give her a call ...
Mon Oct 8, 2018, 09:13 PM
Oct 2018

So she can sing it live with whoever is the musical host for the week,
in front of a national audience.

Or, better yet, do something like "We Are The World".
Where famous female musicians/entertainers come together to record
the song with each singing one of the lines.

It's a great song, and the fact that's she's mocking IQ45 is the
"Cherry on Top".

FANTASTIC.

41. WTF is up w SNL's musical guest choices anyway? While there are great female groups
Tue Oct 9, 2018, 06:15 PM
Oct 2018

...and solo artists out there just killing it?

So many SNL music spots have suuuuuuuuuucccckkkked.

Why not give a boost to a very worthy new band or act like...

Dream Wife

The Regrettes

Mitski

Snail Mail

Wolf Alice (female frontwoman; great, heavy rockin songs to choose from)

The female duo who does Locker Room Talk, I forget their name

Inspired, topical, good music is going begging for visibility while SNL feeds us, mostly, crap.

And yes PLEASE get THIS girl on the show live BEFORE THE ELECTIONS.

apkhgp

(1,068 posts)
22. I can hear her singing all the way to my house
Mon Oct 8, 2018, 10:31 PM
Oct 2018

Really heartwarming to know we still have a right to speak our mind. The Right Wing has not taken that away yet.

24. Please vote. Women, and men who authentically care about them as people
Tue Oct 9, 2018, 12:17 AM
Oct 2018

rather than as possessions.

You in neither of those two groups: Stay home election day and raise your jacked-up truck higher or screw some more blinding fog lights onto it or something.

Denzil_DC

(7,278 posts)
39. Spanish translation posted in the comments on YouTube by Maternidarks:
Tue Oct 9, 2018, 05:16 PM
Oct 2018
No puedo caminar a mi coche tarde en la noche con el teléfono en la mano
No puedo abrir mis ventanas cuando estoy sola en casa
No puedo ir a la barra de un bar sin un chaperon
Y no puedo llevar una mini falda si es la única que tengo

No puedo utilizar el transporte público después de las 7 pm
No puedo ser brutalmente honesto cuando te metes en mi dms
No puedo ir al club para bailar con mis amigos
Y no puedo dejar mi bebida desatendida

Pero ¡uf! ¡seguro es un tiempo muy terrible para los hombres!
¡sí, caballeros! Júntense, hagan algo de ruido
Es muy difícil cuando tu reputación está en la línea
Y cualquier mujer que has abusado podría acusarte en cualquier momento

Sí, seguro que es un tiempo dificil para los chicos.
No puedes hablar con ninguna mujer o mirarlas a los ojos
Es tan confuso, ¿es violación o es solo ser agradable?
Tan inconveniente que tengas que pensarlo dos veces

No puedo vivir en un apartamento si está en el primer piso
No puedo llevar pijamas de seda cuando respondo a la puerta
No puedo tomar otro trago incluso si quiero más
No te puedo hacer sentir invalidado, no visto o ignorado

No puedo correr por la ciudad con auriculares en mis oídos
No puedo hablar contra mi violador después de 35 años
No puedo ser tomada en serio si estoy aguantandome las lágrimas
Y nunca puedo hablar frente a todos de todos mis temores

Pero ¡seguro es un tiempo muy dificil para los hombres!
No pueden textear a una chica insistentemente para pedir nudes
No puedes obligarla a tener sexo cuando no tiene ganas
¿y qué le da el derecho a ella a tratarte asi?

Sí, seguro que es un tiempo terrible para los hombres.
A las niñas les gusta actuar como si fueras el culpable y ellas son las víctimas
Su vestido era corto y ella estaba ebria, no es tan inocente
Gracias a dios tu padre es el juez y no serás condenado

Oh, espera ... Eso es correcto ...

No es un tiempo tan terrorífico para los hombres
Siempre tienen la preferencia siempre han tenido una elección
Es hora de que las mujeres se levanten,
Utilizar nuestra voz colectiva
El día para votar el 6 de noviembre, así que hagamos ruido

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