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irisblue

(37,463 posts)
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 02:20 PM Oct 2018

Stop Asking Hillary to Atone for Her Husband's Wayward Penis

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SOURCE::https://medium.com/@coreybking/stop-asking-hillary-to-atone-for-her-husbands-wayward-penis-7cd29171997c?_branch_match_id=581893952719357838

One of the most disgusting, misogynistic things in our society is asking an accomplished woman like Hillary Clinton to atone for her husband’s wayward penis. In a recent CBS interview, Hillary was asked about the affair that her husband had with Monica Lewinsky two decades ago. Her response was, “Monica was an adult.” Conservatives, who are forever on their moral, hypocritical high horse, used it as another way to attack the Clintons, who they view as the face of the Democratic Party (like Barack and Michelle Obama, the Castro brothers, Cory Booker, and Kamala Harris don’t exist). Liberals who are forever trying to take the moral high ground, like that ever gets anyone, anywhere, when dealing with Rethuglicans, were appalled and said things to the tune of “Hillary doesn’t represent feminists well”, “she shouldn’t have answered the question”, “she was attacking Monica”, yada, yada, eye roll, etc.

My response to all of you, is a collective: FUCK YOU! Hillary doesn’t owe any of you anything! She is a highly accomplished woman: credential lawyer for over 40 years, a Flotus who pushed through major legislation, a Secretary of State, and a Democratic Presidential nominee, so why minimize her accomplishments, and her worth, by asking her about her husband’s affair? Some of you are still mad, because she didn’t throw away her 40 year plus marriage because her husband got his dick sucked, something most men get done at the local strip clubs, adult bookstores, and even in their marital beds every day. Some of you are mad, because you tried to turn the Lewinsky/Bill Clinton affair as a MeToo moment (this idea is fueled by white women who stepped their happy asses in the booth to vote for the ultimate, orange misogynist Donald Trump), and then there are the ones who insist on being nice when the other side has proven to be deplorables!

The reality is Bill and Monica are totally in the wrong. Bill disrespected his marriage vows, and Monica was the 24 year old hussy who thought she was going to seduce the most powerful man in the country and turn it into a cash cow. (She gossiped about it to Linda Tripp, and saved the semen stained dress: she had an agenda, and it was not being the angel/victim that Conservative and Liberal media made her out to be).So if you have questions, concerns, or commentary to add about the affair, direct it to the two people who had it, and leave Hillary alone. It’s been 20 years, and I would bet my life that Bill had dipped his penis into countless other snatches around the country. Monica needs to get a real job, and to move on with the business of life, because there is nothing more sad than a 40 something year old, trying to relive the famed affair of her 20’s

One more paragraph at site.

Interesting article. I am over conservatives & republicans using ~that~ against HRC. Why aren't conservatives and republicans asking that of Melania Trump?

Yeah, this is a 'what about ism'. Maybe

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Stop Asking Hillary to Atone for Her Husband's Wayward Penis (Original Post) irisblue Oct 2018 OP
+1 MontanaMama Oct 2018 #1
You lost me at the word hussy Raven123 Oct 2018 #2
Not my original article. Check that out with the author irisblue Oct 2018 #3
You posted it here melman Oct 2018 #4
Does that mean that every word in any article that's posted irisblue Oct 2018 #5
Why not? melman Oct 2018 #7
Really? irisblue Oct 2018 #8
You read the article before posting melman Oct 2018 #11
I want to pick this up with you, b/c I'm intetested in this POV irisblue Oct 2018 #12
What point of view? melman Oct 2018 #16
Diversionary tacit not going to work with me. irisblue Oct 2018 #18
Stop it. KentuckyWoman Oct 2018 #13
Stop what? melman Oct 2018 #17
Cute. Right wing blames Hillary, you blame Irisblue Pathwalker Oct 2018 #19
Surprised? EffieBlack Oct 2018 #35
Same here about badmouthing Monica, Raven. Of course she Hortensis Oct 2018 #10
agree +++ JHan Oct 2018 #26
I admit that Monica seems suspicious to me... Adrahil Oct 2018 #20
I do not know. Raven123 Oct 2018 #22
Yeah, but.... Adrahil Oct 2018 #24
Look around. You might find one even if you can't think of one Raven123 Oct 2018 #27
Or, ya know, she did have a motive.... NT Adrahil Oct 2018 #28
That ripped me too. Duppers Oct 2018 #40
Sec Clinton should refuse too answer anymore questions about her husband's affairs, KCDebbie Oct 2018 #6
Yep. They are both seperate people and have seperate POVs & actions. irisblue Oct 2018 #9
The right wing--especially the evangelicals--will NEVER stop mnhtnbb Oct 2018 #14
I don't see anyone asking Melanoma to account for Donny's wayward button mushroom Blue Owl Oct 2018 #15
Melania is not powerful and effective Hermit-The-Prog Oct 2018 #39
I can't imagine how painful--and unfair--it is for her to have to *defend* his affair renate Oct 2018 #21
I think HRC should just do the "no comment" response to the affair or how it was handled aikoaiko Oct 2018 #23
the question should not be asked of her in the first place. JHan Oct 2018 #25
Given MeToo and Gillibrand statements I think the questions are fair if HRC is doing interviews aikoaiko Oct 2018 #30
MeToo is about sexual assault and non-consent... JHan Oct 2018 #31
It was consensual, but one of them had to lose their job at the Whitehouse. aikoaiko Oct 2018 #33
The amazing thing to me is that people are acting like there weren't consequences. JHan Oct 2018 #34
I agree there is no good answer which was really all I wanted to say. aikoaiko Oct 2018 #36
well that's a strange distinction... JHan Oct 2018 #38
Trump and the Republicans are totally obsessed with Bill and Hillary. It's weird. Kajun Gal Oct 2018 #29
It's as if The Arkansas Project never ended. Elwood P Dowd Oct 2018 #32
The Clintons aren't running for office. tavernier Oct 2018 #37

MontanaMama

(24,719 posts)
1. +1
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 02:31 PM
Oct 2018

HRC catches hell for staying with her husband and would catch hell for leaving him. No win for HRC. No win for Dems...ever. That's how the Gropers roll.

Raven123

(7,787 posts)
2. You lost me at the word hussy
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 02:39 PM
Oct 2018

I'm not sure where you got your info on Monica's motives, but unless its based on hard fact, this post may be considered misongystic.

No, Hillary owes no one an apology for Bill and Monica.

irisblue

(37,463 posts)
3. Not my original article. Check that out with the author
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 02:45 PM
Oct 2018

Here's a twitter addy so you can take that up with him. @coreybking

irisblue

(37,463 posts)
5. Does that mean that every word in any article that's posted
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 02:54 PM
Oct 2018

Is the total responsibility of the DUer who posts it?
Legit ?

irisblue

(37,463 posts)
8. Really?
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 03:12 PM
Oct 2018

You are really saying, in writing, that any article that any DUer posts must totally representst 100% of the OP views?
Wow. Wow.
Did you miss that this is a discussion board? While I may agree with 90% of an article, I should not post it b/c I disagree with ~some~ of the authors writing?

Can you explain why you feel that way? I'll listen.



 

melman

(7,681 posts)
11. You read the article before posting
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 03:26 PM
Oct 2018

Yes? If so, you saw the language used and then posted it anyway. How are you not responsible for that?


btw, nowhere in your first post in this thread did you indicate any disagreement with the author, or mention the problematic language at all for that matter.

irisblue

(37,463 posts)
12. I want to pick this up with you, b/c I'm intetested in this POV
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 03:30 PM
Oct 2018

But the main point of this article is that it's way past time for conservatives and republicans to blame HRC for her husbands actions.

 

melman

(7,681 posts)
16. What point of view?
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 03:48 PM
Oct 2018

That you're responsible for what you post? What else it there to even say about it?



And yeah I get the point of the article. I just think it's bullshit that the author accuses others of misogyny one minute, and then uses misogynistic language the next.

irisblue

(37,463 posts)
18. Diversionary tacit not going to work with me.
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 03:52 PM
Oct 2018

"That you're responsible for what you post? What else it there to even say about it? "

Wow.

I'm done.

Pathwalker

(6,603 posts)
19. Cute. Right wing blames Hillary, you blame Irisblue
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 04:56 PM
Oct 2018

for things neither was responsible for. Nice thread high-jack, too.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
10. Same here about badmouthing Monica, Raven. Of course she
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 03:15 PM
Oct 2018

should not have been having an affair with a dazzling, extremely attractive married man. But Hillary called her an adult, and that's where I leave it also. Consensual.

But I have NEVER blamed Hillary for her husband's zipper problem. And that's knowing she married him with full awareness that that was part of the package. They had far more in common than a coupling for support and reproductive fidelity, and, with all her opportunities, for her this remarkable man was the one. I don't second-guess her choice. They both had many people to choose from and decided on each other with their eyes open.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
20. I admit that Monica seems suspicious to me...
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 05:28 PM
Oct 2018

Why did she keep a semen encrusted dress and not wash it? As a sovenier(gross) or for a rainy day?

I mean, who does that!?

Raven123

(7,787 posts)
22. I do not know.
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 06:10 PM
Oct 2018

But implying a sinister motive is exactly what the GOP did to Hillary. Remember the emails? Labeling someone requires more than suspicion in my opinion.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
24. Yeah, but....
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 06:27 PM
Oct 2018

Last edited Fri Oct 19, 2018, 07:11 PM - Edit history (1)

The dress thing IS suspicious! I can’t think of an innocent explanation of it.

Duppers

(28,469 posts)
40. That ripped me too.
Sat Oct 20, 2018, 12:45 PM
Oct 2018

The author's intent was nasty and most wrongheaded!

But "ole huzzy" is one of my hub's humorous nicknames for me, which I consider a compliment. (Decades ago, his psycho mother used to try to insult me by calling me that - little did she know that she cracked us up.)
He's an old sweetie.

 

KCDebbie

(664 posts)
6. Sec Clinton should refuse too answer anymore questions about her husband's affairs,
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 02:56 PM
Oct 2018

Monica Lewinsky, Benghazi, Travelgate, Whitewater and Vince Foster...

mnhtnbb

(33,338 posts)
14. The right wing--especially the evangelicals--will NEVER stop
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 03:40 PM
Oct 2018

asking Hillary "why", or attacking Hillary, or criticizing Hillary about the Bill/Monica sexual escapade.

It's in their value system: men aren't responsible for their actions (especially when the penis is involved) because they buy into the Eve and the apple story. It is always the woman's fault.

This is why they are so intent on controlling women. If the women are under control, then the men don't have to be responsible for letting their dicks do their thinking for them.

Hermit-The-Prog

(36,631 posts)
39. Melania is not powerful and effective
Sat Oct 20, 2018, 04:44 AM
Oct 2018

HRC terrifies the right-wing cons. She's tough, powerful, and very effective. You can measure how good she is by how much money, effort, and time they have spent attacking her.

renate

(13,776 posts)
21. I can't imagine how painful--and unfair--it is for her to have to *defend* his affair
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 05:53 PM
Oct 2018

It's ridiculous how he got away scot free while Hilary and Monica are still getting grilled about it all the time, and Hilary has paid a political as well as a personal price for it. If he had any class at all, in 2016 he would have done an interview and taken full responsibility for it and fallen on his knees in gratitude for Hilary's forgiving him.

I disagree very much with the tone this article's author takes towards Monica. She was a very young (and single) woman and he was the most powerful man in the world. Admittedly, she knew he was married, so she did a terrible thing. But he's the one who voluntarily and freely broke his vows. I think Monica would very much like to move on (and she politely walked off the stage at a recent event when she had been promised the affair wouldn't be brought up, and that promise was broken in front of an audience). It makes me sick the way that these two women, one of them the betrayed wife, get more crap for his behavior than he does.

aikoaiko

(34,214 posts)
23. I think HRC should just do the "no comment" response to the affair or how it was handled
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 06:22 PM
Oct 2018

There really aren't any good ways for her to answer the questions.

JHan

(10,173 posts)
25. the question should not be asked of her in the first place.
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 06:56 PM
Oct 2018

there are no good ways to answer such a question by the wife who was cheated on.

I mean seriously. As if "no comment" would have been better in this case. I think some elements in the media need an exorcism .. I think the clintons haunt them at night.

aikoaiko

(34,214 posts)
30. Given MeToo and Gillibrand statements I think the questions are fair if HRC is doing interviews
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 10:43 PM
Oct 2018

I just don't think she's (or anyone) could respond in a way that doesn't open her up to more criticism.

Its a trap for her.

JHan

(10,173 posts)
31. MeToo is about sexual assault and non-consent...
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 10:47 PM
Oct 2018

it's disingenuous to frame the Lewinsky-Clinton affair in those terms - not even Monica does that, she's suggested her experience doesn't fit into MeToo.

aikoaiko

(34,214 posts)
33. It was consensual, but one of them had to lose their job at the Whitehouse.
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 11:03 PM
Oct 2018

I think the MeToo context is relevant to these questions.

We can learn from our mistakes.

JHan

(10,173 posts)
34. The amazing thing to me is that people are acting like there weren't consequences.
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 11:08 PM
Oct 2018

Clinton was impeached, there was a 70 million dollar investigation. You have people acting like there wasn't a "reckoning" , there was.. and the abuse Monica suffered happened once the affair became public. There are intriguing arguments in support of the idea he should have resigned ( politically some have merit) but at this point in time, what else do people what? What new questions are to be asked?

Books have been written, by both Clintons about this episode. Monica has written books.

The only purpose for all this is to find ways to continue an almost ritualistic humiliation of Hillary Clinton, requiring she talk about a painful episode in both her life and Chelsea's. There is no "good answer" that will satisfy the unquenchable thirst for this kind of spectacle. ....

Like how many times are they gonna ask the same question in a million different ways?

aikoaiko

(34,214 posts)
36. I agree there is no good answer which was really all I wanted to say.
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 11:20 PM
Oct 2018

But the reckoning was for lying under oath and not the relationship between a president and intern.

In the late 1990s I didn't want to see Bill resign for either mistake because I thought him being in office was more important than paying for those mistakes. I think some people are wondering if that was the right choice.

JHan

(10,173 posts)
38. well that's a strange distinction...
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 11:35 PM
Oct 2018

the lying came about as a result of the relationship. In any case, the person to answer for the relationship is Bill ( and Monica- she was an "adult" and she admits she "pursued" him, and she's talked extensively about the affair). But he had the greater responsibility then, and now, to answer for his actions. The affair itself was unethical because a President should not break boundaries in the work place and indulge in sex with an intern. what is the suitable punishment now for this? After impeachment?

Media heads should spend more time contemplating how they abused Monica and helped make her a national punchline.

Elwood P Dowd

(11,453 posts)
32. It's as if The Arkansas Project never ended.
Fri Oct 19, 2018, 10:55 PM
Oct 2018

The repukes started it when I was in my 40s. Now in my 70s, and it's still active.

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