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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region Forumsok, anyone else find the nicknames and deliberate misspellings ("Rmoney, Munster") just a
a tiny bit juvenile? To me, it does. I know, I know, not exactly of monumental importance, just a pet peeve of mine, but it is what it is. I now bring you back to your normal scheduled threads.
NightWatcher
(39,376 posts)Yes, they are very juvenile, but very descriptive and useful.
I likes em
Tom Ripley
(4,945 posts)Autumn
(48,962 posts)and that's when I'm in a good mood. When I really hate them I call them worse names.
quinnox
(20,600 posts)calimary
(90,021 posts)ProSense
(116,464 posts)is running a "juvenile" campaign.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10021126432
BlueStreak
(8,377 posts)Last edited Tue Aug 14, 2012, 03:05 PM - Edit history (1)
I advise my right wing friends that I will not read anything that has any of the following examples of childishness and/or bad faith:
- Pictures that deliberately distort Obama's appearance (making him look like a clown, witch doctor, or whatever)
- References to his middle name in a way that is clearly intended to be an epithet
- Deliberate misspellings of his name
- Derogatory nicknames
- Ad hominem attacks
If you want me to read what you have to say about president Obama, then follow these rules, and address him with the respect he deserves, otherwise the email goes straight into the trash bin. And if you violate these rules consistently, then I mark your email as a junk address.
That actually works in many cases. It is like teaching a child the limits. You don't throw food. You don't say swear words. You don't interrupt others -- wait your turn. You don't cut in line. etc.
BUT...
If we insist on these rules, we must live by them too. How many of us routinely referred to President Bush as a chimp, for example?
I realize "Rmoney" is almost irresistible. But it should be sufficient to see it occasionally in a cartoon. We should not do that in our normal criticism of the man. Criticize his policies and criticize his propensity to deceive and conceal. That is all fair game, and will keep us quite busy.
PatSeg
(53,214 posts)I will openly and freely criticize them and when they do or say something outrageous, I might swear at them, but I don't want to be the liberal version of what I've seen on the right.
I like to think we are more intelligent and better educated than most of those on the right, and I try to reflect that in anything I post on a public forum.
I admit to cursing on occasion, but try to stay away from the deliberate misspellings and such. Around here (TN) for some reason, half the people I have the misfortune to deal with insist on calling my President "Obamma" and "Obummer." I don't even understand the first one, can't tell what the intended insult is supposed to be. But it's beyond annoying.
Freddie
(10,104 posts)When I see those "cute" nicknames it's an instant cue and I don't read any further, and I suppose the other side does the same.
However I'm partial to Mittens, sounds like a puppy or a child's teddy bear.
Ryan is too vile for any cutesy names.
PatSeg
(53,214 posts)and it just reeked of sarcasm and hatred.
I have to say I like with Al Sharpton calls Romney "Willard", though I still call him "Romney" or "Mitt".
Freddie
(10,104 posts)I suspect he hates that--more the better!
BumRushDaShow
(169,761 posts)Willard was the crazy dude who befriended the rats.
PatSeg
(53,214 posts)the left during eight years of Bush and sometimes I said them as well. It didn't take long for the extremists on the right to pick them up and use them against our candidates. The one that comes to mind the most was "I want my country back". I know I said it and now hearing righties say it, I have decided to use my words more carefully.
I think it serves us best to maintain the high road whenever possible.
BlueStreak
(8,377 posts)I completely agree with your post, and I readily admit I have been guilty.
Name calling, pictorial distortions, and empty sloganeering are symptoms of a weak argument.
We can address Romney and Ryan with respect and at the same time shred their policies. For example, I believe there is a very good chance that Ryan committed felonies with insider trading during the financial meltdown. I see nothing wrong with making that accusation, as there is substantial evidence to support that. Likewise, there is plenty of evidence in Romney's background that her was personally involved with tax fraud schemes, and that this is a primary reason for maintaining obsessive secrecy with his tax returns. Those are not ad honinem attacks. They are observations and opinions based on facts that are not contested.
Likewise, I see no problem with short-and-sweet summations of their policies, such as "The Ryan plan is designed to kill Medicare and Social Security." It is true, even if they want to argue it isn't. We can support that headline with a very strong argument.
Hard-hitting is not the same thing as name calling.
PatSeg
(53,214 posts)I have no problem with the occasional humor, but repeatedly using the "empty sloganeering" and name calling implies we don't have valid reasons to oppose them.
Yep, I am all for Hard-hitting though!
BanTheGOP
(1,068 posts)The fact that DU is not open to anyone but democrats and progressives means we don't have to cater toward "civil" discussion with "political opponents," most of whom I hold an intense, passionate hatred of their very being on this planet. And I will NEVER give the "respect" of refering to rMoney as a human being, a "'friend' across the aisle", or anything that remotely resembles civil discourse. rLyin' is the same way.
If we were discussing our issues with independents who needed persuading or were ignorant but not combative, THEN I not only see your point, I would emphasize it. That is key. Even then, though, I won't change the spelling of rMoney; I won't use more disparaging names.
BlueStreak
(8,377 posts)before we use it on others.
It really comes down to this. What is your objective?
1) To vent your frustration?
2) To make the other guys mad?
3) To persuade others that our views have merits?
It seems tome there is only one productive objective in that list, and the only way to accomplish that objective is with civility. Firm civility. Adamant civility. Ruthless civility.
#1 and #2 are easy, but completely unproductive, and frankly, pretty tedious at times, even among friends.
It is not so easy to do #3, so I strongly encourage people to practice that continuously, even here in DU.
datasuspect
(26,591 posts)fuck 'em, they are traitors.
BlueStreak
(8,377 posts)and I would suggest we can't approach very many of them if we start the conversation with insults.
Tunkamerica
(4,444 posts)a harmless (not obscene, or derogatory) moniker that underlines the truth about himself and his candidacy. Repetition of the name keeps the facts of his Ridiculous wealth and his dedication to growing that and his friends' wealth at the expense of less fortunate/ruthless at the forefront of the mind.
Also, there are several more reasons why people might use the name.
4) Because they think it's humorous.
5) Because they think it's factual.
6) Because they think it might be effective in changing someone's mind that might be reading their comment.
7) Because they like to be part of the cool crowd.
8) Because they legitimately typed it incorrectly.
etc...
BlueStreak
(8,377 posts)If you are talking to a Romney supporter, you are not ever going to change his mind by addressing his man with an insulting name.
If you are not interested in getting more people on our side, then have at it, but please do it in private, because there are many of us out there trying to win over people who genuinely think that Romney is the better choice. It will help us if "our peeps" aren't seen as doing nothing but hurling insults, even if they seem harmless. What seems harmless to us may be just enough to drive an undecided away.
Tunkamerica
(4,444 posts)BlueStreak
(8,377 posts)If the goal is to be cute or snarky, I agree the misspellings are only a 2 on the 10-point incivility scale.
But you are not going to influence anybody from the other side by deliberately insulting a person they have regard for.
HangOnKids
(4,291 posts)Anyone who believes in or trusts Rmoney is a fool, who the fuck wants to influence them? They are not going to "come to our side" anytime soon, so why not just shove their asshole candidate in their face?
It is the best thing to do.
BlueStreak
(8,377 posts)Elections are all about persuading people to come to your side.
There are certainly some turds out there that aren't worth talking to . But there are many, even people who strongly align with the Tea Party, who can be brought along. The Ryan/Romney team is utterly disingenuous. They are providing no information about their plans. They are talking in circles about everything. And at the end of the day, nobody can be certain what they might do in office. I guarantee you there are many people who are leaning towards Ryan/Romney that already have some serious doubts, and with better information they will vote for Obama.
If your idea of political "activism" is to be a keyboard warrior spending your days on DemocraticUnderground (for Free Republic, for that matter) just agreeing with those you already agree with, you aren't helping very much. Everyone should set a goal of educating 20 Ryan/Romney supporters between now and election day.
And you can't do that my opening the conversation with an insult -- even a mild one.
HangOnKids
(4,291 posts)Hey Blue welcome to ignore! Thanks for the laughs and go play in traffic. Really.
ProSense
(116,464 posts)http://sync.democraticunderground.com/10021088588
Tierra_y_Libertad
(50,414 posts)lunatica
(53,410 posts)Angry Dragon
(36,693 posts)the other choice I have is Glove Romney
FSogol
(47,623 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)I think they are fun.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)I prefer to call the other liar Mittwit.
reflection
(6,287 posts)And I'm not proud of myself for it... I should know better than to stoop. This OP is a good reminder to check myself with respect to how I communicate.
progressivebydesign
(19,458 posts)I use an Rmoney once in a while, depending on my mood and what I'm saying. It's humor.. it's letting off steam.
Mostly I've come to call them RYAN/*romney. which is more apt.
HopeHoops
(47,675 posts)snooper2
(30,151 posts)and cloud based software integration for communications and delivery of services
We can call him Mittens and you'll be okay
CBGLuthier
(12,723 posts)I tend to not be fond of such things but I do kind of like RMoney as it is just so damned apt from the bigass R at the beginning to the money at the end.
bongbong
(5,436 posts)So, yeah, I see how Flip-Flopper would hate being called "Etch-A-Sketch" since that is a trademarked name, and he might get sued if he uses it.
gkhouston
(21,642 posts)Temperamentally, Ryan is much more like Eddie Haskell than Eddie Munster.
Me, I plan on using "zombie-eyed granny starver" a lot.
2pooped2pop
(5,420 posts)but if u choose the Munster haircut, ya gots to take the Munster name.
though "zombie-eyed granny starver" does have more appeal. It is too long so I am going to have to shorten it to Zegs, which unfortunately doesn't have the immediate association factor that "zombie-eyed granny starver" does.
gkhouston
(21,642 posts)what was up with the "Zegs" nickname.
2pooped2pop
(5,420 posts)lilly ludebummer
(11 posts)Yup.
I swear to Gawd, I wonder about some of the good progressives (
) on here...I wonder how they interact with people in their everyday lives...Especially those who differ in viewpoints.
Ikonoklast
(23,973 posts)I wonder that myself, sometimes.
Oh, wait, you're being serious.
datasuspect
(26,591 posts)AtomicKitten
(46,585 posts)Iggo
(49,928 posts)We really do. Thanks for the laugh.
SammyWinstonJack
(44,316 posts)ProudToBeBlueInRhody
(16,399 posts)redqueen
(115,186 posts)I find it as silly as people saying "Obummer".
Ikonoklast
(23,973 posts)So, I can be a bit juvenile.
Guilty as charged.
What else ya got?
ecstatic
(35,075 posts)Anyway, OP. Consider me guilty as charged.
Besides, Willard really is weird and he's all about making money! I think people should be reminded of that at every opportunity.
AtomicKitten
(46,585 posts)Rob H.
(5,851 posts)Consider that stolen--love it.
AtomicKitten
(46,585 posts)loud and often
BumRushDaShow
(169,761 posts)
2pooped2pop
(5,420 posts)TheKentuckian
(26,314 posts)Curtland1015
(4,404 posts)We aren't a news organization. We're a chat board where all the members share the same (basic) point of view.
We're among "friends". I think that gives us a little leeway to be informal when discussing things.
RedStateLiberal
(1,374 posts)That's the point I wanted to make.
And, it's just fun to be silly sometimes. It helps me blow off steam. Politics is so damn serious that if I can't have that release I'd go crazy. Why should I be held to a higher standard than Jon Stewart or Steven Colbert on an internet forum?
Also, it's hard to show respect to someone who blatantly lies all the time and has truly horrible ideas for our country. Even spelling Rmoney's name correctly gives him too much respect for me.
Kalidurga
(14,177 posts)I think it is ok and fun to use those terms here. Except for Munster I don't like that one, a good man might be smeared here. Ryan is wants to have seniors die as quickly as possible so they aren't a burden on the budget, giving him a cutesy name like Munster kinda irks me. Oh well, to each their own, I prefer zombie eyed granny killer because it is so descriptive. That being said, when I talk to conservatives I avoid calling their animal abusing, grandma killing, insider trading, cop impersonating, wackadoodle politicians names that are disrespectful. Because really when it comes down to it, are there any names out their that adequately cover how horrible these two people are?
grntuscarora
(1,249 posts)It humorously sums up what this election is about, Imo.
Raffi Ella
(4,465 posts)Rmoney defines him perfectly.
Warren Stupidity
(48,181 posts)messaging isn't sophisticated, it is juvenile, it is about talking to the emotional brain, not the rational brain.
rMoney rLyan 2012.
Lint Head
(15,064 posts)I like Granny Killers myself.
MineralMan
(151,269 posts)In the grand scheme, it doesn't mean anything. It has no influence on the election, so I just don't care very much. I'll continue to use actual names, though.
MrScorpio
(73,772 posts)UTUSN
(77,795 posts)We have boundaries enough of acceptability, so this is within bounds. It's sometimes funny and therefore leavens GD for those who think it's too dull/serious or depressing.
datasuspect
(26,591 posts)unblock
(56,198 posts)the idea is, while you don't want to live in the gutter, you certainly don't want to cede that front to the opposition.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(130,538 posts)However, I prefer Robme and Ruin.
I'm a little disappointed Mittens didn't pick Tim Pawlenty so we could use Robme Plenty.
Amonester
(11,541 posts)It's shorter than the PC alternative, and it describes these dangerous life-long felons perfectly.
Purity is a losing cause, although it shouldn't be. Everybody should stay young forever also.
sinkingfeeling
(57,835 posts)jeff47
(26,549 posts)Intentional misspellings like "Rmoney" only gets across that you don't like the person. Might be cathartic, but isn't helpful otherwise.
Instead, call Ryan the Zombie-eyed granny starver. That makes a policy statement while calling him names.
Booster
(10,021 posts)scheming daemons
(25,487 posts)Thanks for your concern, yada yada.
intheflow
(30,179 posts)Munster is just an insult to fictional monsters everywhere.
Egalitarian Thug
(12,448 posts)riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)his Bain Capital jobs killing, his greed and the Mormon Church's funding of opposition to Prop 8 in CA....
But overall, I don't use the derogatory nicknames even with W, Limbaugh etc. To be honest, I don't think Rmoney is offensive at all. Not like some of the nicks used on the right - Rmoney is very, very mild.
Chiyo-chichi
(3,976 posts)You begin by asking whether anyone else finds the deliberate misspellings juvenile. "To me, it does" is discordant. You might have just said "I do."
Grammar.
Just a pet peeve of mine.
I've been on DU eight years and this is my first Grammar Police post. See what you made me do?
Rmoney/Eddie Munster 2012!
quinnox
(20,600 posts)I thought it didn't sound right when I wrote it, and thanks for the correction.
lonestarnot
(77,097 posts)backscatter712
(26,357 posts)Why get in the ring with one hand tied behind your back?
backscatter712
(26,357 posts)Ryan looks like Carter Burke from Aliens!

He acts like him too!
Le Taz Hot
(22,271 posts)It makes us look like idiots.
ZenLefty
(20,924 posts)I don't think republicans deserve the honorific. It's not worth the effort of my pinky muscles to hit the shift key when spelling out romney. It's my small act of rebellion.
loyalsister
(13,390 posts)The misspellings and nicknames seem to me to be unsuccessful attempts to be clever. They kind of grate on my nerves, but to each his\her own.
grantcart
(53,061 posts)quinnox
(20,600 posts)ProgressiveProfessor
(22,144 posts)However there are those that seem to enjoy it, and every so often I do see a sample that makes me chuckle
ProSense
(116,464 posts)http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=1084531
Lit up twitter!
quinnox
(20,600 posts)than the others, because it has some real wit to it.
99Forever
(14,524 posts)Asshole 1
and Asshole 2.
That better for your delicate "pet peeve" sensibilities ?
Bake
(21,977 posts)Bake
JoePhilly
(27,787 posts)Drives them crazy because you are taking their silly attack and sending it right back. If you want to agitate the RW, which can be fun, simply look at what they think is funny (like these silly names), and turn it around ... they get very very angry, which is hilarious.
TDale313
(7,822 posts)Yes, but still admit I've used Rmoney on occasion?
quinnox
(20,600 posts)madokie
(51,076 posts)MNBrewer
(8,462 posts)It's like Nobama, for example.
Fozzledick
(3,921 posts)

WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)On the Road
(20,783 posts)Occasionally it's clever, like Mitt Rmoney and Pual Rayn. But usually not, and not more than once per person.
I think people would do themselves a favor by using people's real names, since some people adopt Stephen Fry's attitude about those who intentionally misspell others' names for amusement: "You have nothing to learn from such a person."
And if your audience is not already on your side, it significantly weakens your case. Do you automatically turn off your ears when you see a comment beginning "Hillary KKKlinton..."? I sure do. Better to think of an angle that might actually strike a chord and make them think.
onethatcares
(16,992 posts)am so glad the right wing always refers to the POTUS with the correct spelling of his name and never inpugns on his race or anything. You're right, we should cease and desist immediately.
eShirl
(20,259 posts)(romney sheep) (Eddie Munster)
JoeyT
(6,785 posts)People are blowing off steam among friends. Rmoney is pretty tame compared to what right wingers call our guy in public. You'd be horrified to hear what they say about him when they're amongst friends.
And we're not dragging ourselves down to their level, either. I've *never* seen anything on this board approach it.
It's juvenile harmless fun. I don't object to it for the same reason I don't object to meme pictures or joke threads on here. When you're constantly reading outrageous stuff, it helps to have some silly to break it up and bring the blood pressure back down.
yortsed snacilbuper
(7,947 posts)
joshcryer
(62,536 posts)just1voice
(1,362 posts)I never call the (R)epukes anything else as they don't deserve polite conversation as they are vile members of our society.
Tommy_Carcetti
(44,499 posts)Although I will admit Rmoney is a bit clever in terms of being an apt anagram. So I'll let that one slide. But Munster? Meh.
I tend to avoid juvenile nicknames for politicians, but I do make two exceptions for a pair of my state's most notorious politicos.
For Allen West, I add "
R-Crazytown)" to the end of his title, since that's essentially where he's coming from in terms of most of his statements.
For Rick Scott, I call him "Governor McFraudy" given his past business experience of running Columbia HCA and the massive investigation of Medicare fraud that went on under his tenure.
slackmaster
(60,567 posts)So does portraying a person as some other species, and other such tripe.
magical thyme
(14,881 posts)and Her Royal Haughtiness Empress Ann really does come across as incredibly haughty and entitled (in its truly perjorative sense). Aside from that, yes. But I do it anyway.