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Snarkoleptic

(6,235 posts)
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 09:49 AM Oct 2018

MAGA encounter with employee at Trader Joe's.

So I get up to the cashier and she spots my Mickey Mouse-shaped American Flag pin, apparently mistaking it for an "I Voted" sticker.

She- Oh, did you early vote.
Me- I'm excited that I get to do that on Monday with my son.
She- Where can I early vote?
Me- Told her when, where and how, then finished with- "I know that's a lot of info, but I'm a Precinct Committeeperson and wanted to give you the full picture."
Me- Also, if you don't live in that precinct, don't forget your State-issued ID, as they don't have the poll books for every precinct.

-then things go sideways-

She-Voter ID should always be shown to keep illegals from voting.
Me (trying to remain chill)- When you register to vote, you already have to prove you're eligible to vote.
She- But how do we know it's the registered person who's voting?
Me- We have biometric identification, where the poll workers check your signature against what's in the poll book.
Me- Voter ID is unneeded and basically designed to disenfranchise POC, elderly, people who don't drive. We should all be able to vote.
She- Well, we need to keep America great.
Me- America was always great (glancing around for any reactions - none - just uncomfortable folks in line)

I managed to get that all in while I was begin rung-up, but later wondered by TJ's doesn't have a 'no politics - no religion' policy.
As always, I thought up my zinger AFTERWARDS and should have said my stock line "A working-class person voting for Republicans is like a chicken voting for Col. Sanders."
Briefly toyed with reporting her to management, but didn't want to get her written-up or fired, over her foolish/uninformed comments.

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MAGA encounter with employee at Trader Joe's. (Original Post) Snarkoleptic Oct 2018 OP
You did your best to enlighten and it doesn't sound like the person was rabid about it. Afromania Oct 2018 #1
Your stock line is fantastic. Cracklin Charlie Oct 2018 #2
"Republican is the party that exists to serve the rich". Great line. should be used often nt lostnfound Oct 2018 #9
You could complain to the store management crazycatlady Oct 2018 #3
Yeah, I mulled that over... Snarkoleptic Oct 2018 #8
she initiated the conversation Marthe48 Oct 2018 #35
I think you did the right thing lunatica Oct 2018 #56
Complaining to mgmt because she has a different political view? Tipperary Oct 2018 #15
Bigotry isn't "a different political view". Mariana Oct 2018 #24
We consider it a slur, yes, but it is technically correct. Tipperary Oct 2018 #46
No it isn't technically correct. Mariana Oct 2018 #47
Ok, let's get her fired by all means. Tipperary Oct 2018 #49
No, complaining to the manager that she brought up politics at work crazycatlady Oct 2018 #45
I agree with you. LisaM Oct 2018 #51
I'm with you. cwydro Oct 2018 #55
Ditto Dorian Gray Oct 2018 #64
Unless she was being rude to the OP I see no reason to report her cstanleytech Oct 2018 #18
Exactly. nt Tipperary Oct 2018 #43
Sounds like you did a great job of deflecting her ignorance in a positive way. Dem_4_Life Oct 2018 #4
The notion that "illegals" are trying to vote is ridiculous. Just more unsupported RW tripe. n/t FSogol Oct 2018 #5
So true but nonetheless there are millions of gullible idiots in this country that believe cstanleytech Oct 2018 #20
This sounds like a conversation out of The Purge or Handmaids Tale Renew Deal Oct 2018 #6
I'm sure the management at TJ's Cha Oct 2018 #7
Maybe we could get TJs to install television monitors... magicarpet Oct 2018 #10
No one at my TJ store has ever talked politics marlakay Oct 2018 #11
I was somewhat shocked as well. Snarkoleptic Oct 2018 #13
Me either. Tipperary Oct 2018 #48
All is fair in love and war The Liberal Lion Oct 2018 #12
Wow. Just wow. Tipperary Oct 2018 #19
I had a MAGA encounter the other day. Initech Oct 2018 #14
good grief. eom LittleGirl Oct 2018 #17
That's Funny! ProfessorGAC Oct 2018 #21
What did you expect him True Blue American Oct 2018 #22
Yeah that was the irony of the whole thing! Initech Oct 2018 #30
Poll Parrots True Blue American Oct 2018 #42
You're a brave soul, Snarkoleptic. sandensea Oct 2018 #16
I live in Orange County - there's a lot of Trumpholes and Fox bots where I live. Initech Oct 2018 #33
I know of at least one, in OC, who had his Twitter revoked after sending Kamala Harris threats sandensea Oct 2018 #36
Where I live I only have to give my name, PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2018 #23
You gave great answers, no worries FakeNoose Oct 2018 #25
This message was self-deleted by its author AllaN01Bear Oct 2018 #26
i gave up reasoning with these people years ago. AllaN01Bear Oct 2018 #27
You were cool and professional vlyons Oct 2018 #28
Glad you stood your ground TEB Oct 2018 #29
Voter ID I BS If Someone Steals My Wallet Again I Can't Vote They Are Saying PaulX2 Oct 2018 #31
Reporting her to management? oberliner Oct 2018 #32
You should'a told her about the special voting provisions on Nov. 7 3Hotdogs Oct 2018 #34
I've never known TJ cashiers to be that outspoken. I'll bet the company would like to hear about it. C Moon Oct 2018 #37
The Colonal Sanders line is my go to with my dumb Trump loving co-workers RhodeIslandOne Oct 2018 #38
In essence, what she said seems to violate TJ's in-house culture statement. KY_EnviroGuy Oct 2018 #39
I'm glad you didn't report her JohnnyRingo Oct 2018 #40
Pass the word to your friends who shop there. saidsimplesimon Oct 2018 #41
I'm the sort that will steer back to her line. Snarkoleptic Oct 2018 #52
Great response but a signature is not a biometric. Celerity Oct 2018 #44
Actually, signature IS a biometric. Snarkoleptic Oct 2018 #53
It's a behavioural biometric, something that is a lot less solid Celerity Oct 2018 #58
I thought I was wrong once, but I was mistaken. Snarkoleptic Oct 2018 #61
I am wrong all the time, lolol Celerity Oct 2018 #62
They checked my signature with the one on my Florida license. Baitball Blogger Oct 2018 #50
You handled that really well. Power 2 the People Oct 2018 #54
"I thought up my zinger AFTERWARDS" Smickey Oct 2018 #57
My stock line is UpInArms Oct 2018 #59
Uggh. The stupidity is mind boggling. ecstatic Oct 2018 #60
No need to report her Raine Oct 2018 #63

Afromania

(2,809 posts)
1. You did your best to enlighten and it doesn't sound like the person was rabid about it.
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 09:52 AM
Oct 2018

So, good deal on not calling it in, that's the sort of thing they like to do. Besides, stupid people (trump voters) have to earn a living too.

Cracklin Charlie

(12,904 posts)
2. Your stock line is fantastic.
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 09:56 AM
Oct 2018

My dad used to say “Nobody that works for a living should ever vote for any Republican. They are the party that exists to serve the rich”.

lostnfound

(17,520 posts)
9. "Republican is the party that exists to serve the rich". Great line. should be used often nt
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 10:26 AM
Oct 2018

Snarkoleptic

(6,235 posts)
8. Yeah, I mulled that over...
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 10:21 AM
Oct 2018

I was thinking...
1) Sure she's a trumpanzee, but what if she gets fired and thrown into hardship.
2) I shop there frequently and don't want stink-eye from her/others.
3) What if they don't have a 'no politics' policy and I'm the idiot here.

#1 is primarily what kept me chill.

Marthe48

(23,175 posts)
35. she initiated the conversation
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 11:31 AM
Oct 2018

by commenting on your pin. You represented your polling position professionally. Well done.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
56. I think you did the right thing
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 04:34 PM
Oct 2018

Reporting her just to get even is what the MAGA party does. All she did was express an opinion. She didn't single anyone out to rage her racism at.

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
15. Complaining to mgmt because she has a different political view?
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 10:46 AM
Oct 2018

Wtf? Wanting to get someone fired because they have a different viewpoint is despicable.

Smh.

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
46. We consider it a slur, yes, but it is technically correct.
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 01:04 PM
Oct 2018

Bullshit on getting a minimum wage worker fired for an ignorant remark.

Mariana

(15,626 posts)
47. No it isn't technically correct.
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 01:10 PM
Oct 2018

"Illegal aliens" or "Illegal immigrants" might be technically correct. "Illegals" is a slur.

LisaM

(29,634 posts)
51. I agree with you.
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 02:46 PM
Oct 2018

I don't like the idea of getting people fired over every little thing, especially because in this case, the DUer got to get in some salient points about how illegal voting is virtually non-existent. It sounds like a relatively civil exchange with people having two different points of view. I don't see a fireable offense, and I really don't like this jump to get everyone fired anyway.

Compare that to the two young women who were waiting for AAA to come, and were threatened in a criminal manner by the blonde woman who said she was going to pull a gun. While that had nothing to do with the threatening person's workplace, she committed a crime, and I think it's well within the company's rights to fire her.

But a conversation at a check stand? Let it go, get in a different lane next time, hope that your words had some effect. Sometimes those opinions are just born of ignorance, or what someone's heard at home.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
55. I'm with you.
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 04:18 PM
Oct 2018

Frightening to see the authoritarian views espoused here.

People have a right to different opinions.

Dorian Gray

(13,850 posts)
64. Ditto
Tue Oct 30, 2018, 06:30 AM
Oct 2018

I can't believe the people who think she should have been reported. The OP handled it just about as perfectly as she could. Cogent arguments.

cstanleytech

(28,471 posts)
18. Unless she was being rude to the OP I see no reason to report her
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 10:55 AM
Oct 2018

for her beliefs in supporting the Repugnants however misguided we consider them.

Dem_4_Life

(1,778 posts)
4. Sounds like you did a great job of deflecting her ignorance in a positive way.
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 09:59 AM
Oct 2018

Hopefully your words helped others in the line who were feeling awkward. I am surprised that MAGA people would even work at TJ's since it seems here that all TJ employee's are democratic minded people.

FSogol

(47,623 posts)
5. The notion that "illegals" are trying to vote is ridiculous. Just more unsupported RW tripe. n/t
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 10:07 AM
Oct 2018

cstanleytech

(28,471 posts)
20. So true but nonetheless there are millions of gullible idiots in this country that believe
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 10:59 AM
Oct 2018

illegals are a problem at the polls.
Its stupid as hell and I pointed out to my younger brother who is a Trumper that if that was true then they must have voted Repugnant since the Repugnants have the majority in Congress.............he did not find it amusing but I did

Cha

(319,067 posts)
7. I'm sure the management at TJ's
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 10:20 AM
Oct 2018

would Not approve of their employees spewing brainwashed propaganda at the damn register.

magicarpet

(18,509 posts)
10. Maybe we could get TJs to install television monitors...
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 10:30 AM
Oct 2018

.... at all the checkout lanes and blast Fukx Knuz all day long to sufficient indoctrinate the masses to Right Wing propaganda.

marlakay

(13,282 posts)
11. No one at my TJ store has ever talked politics
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 10:31 AM
Oct 2018

I live in Medford Oregon which is conservative but if I was to guess more democrats shop there.

Thats the vibe I feel from friendly open minded people.

Snarkoleptic

(6,235 posts)
13. I was somewhat shocked as well.
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 10:43 AM
Oct 2018

An early-voting conversation turns into MAGA propaganda.
This has never happened to me at TJ's before.

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
48. Me either.
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 02:12 PM
Oct 2018

My Trader Joe’s is full of very cool folks.

However, we never discuss politics.

Initech

(108,782 posts)
14. I had a MAGA encounter the other day.
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 10:44 AM
Oct 2018

I was at a bar watching the Stanford - Washington State game on Saturday.

Me: Wow, there are a lot of empty seats in the stands.
Him: Attendance is down everywhere because of this kneeling stuff.
Me: You realize that this is college and not the NFL right?
Him: Oh I don't watch any sports because of that.
Me: But you're literally watching a football game right now.
Him: *dead silence*

Pretty much that was the end of the conversation. I didn't need any further information.

Initech

(108,782 posts)
30. Yeah that was the irony of the whole thing!
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 11:23 AM
Oct 2018

I love the Trumpholes' response to kneeling during the anthem how they call it the "No Fans League" and make fun of the NFL, but they still sell out stadiums every time.

sandensea

(23,342 posts)
16. You're a brave soul, Snarkoleptic.
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 10:46 AM
Oct 2018

I've known people in Orange County (CA) and the Deep South who could get violent before the discussion got even half that involved.

They'd start with "Reagan this" and "Reagan that;" it would usually go downhill from there - fast.

Initech

(108,782 posts)
33. I live in Orange County - there's a lot of Trumpholes and Fox bots where I live.
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 11:26 AM
Oct 2018

Hell my neighbor across the street has Fox News on practically 24/7.

sandensea

(23,342 posts)
36. I know of at least one, in OC, who had his Twitter revoked after sending Kamala Harris threats
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 11:38 AM
Oct 2018

A (badly) closeted gay guy, as I recall. Sad.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(28,493 posts)
23. Where I live I only have to give my name,
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 11:06 AM
Oct 2018

year of birth, and the street I live on. Actually, there are no other "Poindexter Oglethorpes" out there (not my real name, but my real name is likewise unique) so my name ought to be sufficient.

I wonder if people like her, who believe illegals are voting in huge numbers, simply never vote themselves so they are completely unaware of what you go through to register to vote. Maybe they think people simply show up at a polling station and are given a ballot or shown to a machine. If so, their belief that millions of illegals vote makes sense, at least in their understanding of the voting process.

FakeNoose

(41,631 posts)
25. You gave great answers, no worries
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 11:12 AM
Oct 2018

Probably she wouldn't have gotten the chicken-Col.Sanders reference anyway. But it is a great line!

Thanks for fighting the good fight. Look for the Blue Wave on November 6th!




Response to Snarkoleptic (Original post)

vlyons

(10,252 posts)
28. You were cool and professional
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 11:19 AM
Oct 2018

You did just right. You gave her straight facts without any bitter vitriol. I don't think your stock line would have been appropriate at all. She would have taken it as a snarky offense. And god only knows how her resentment would have escalated.

You were a perfect gentleman and didn't leave any negative feelings. Good job.

 

PaulX2

(2,032 posts)
31. Voter ID I BS If Someone Steals My Wallet Again I Can't Vote They Are Saying
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 11:24 AM
Oct 2018

Or if I can't pay tickets, or have days to go through the hoops in many cases.

3Hotdogs

(15,368 posts)
34. You should'a told her about the special voting provisions on Nov. 7
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 11:26 AM
Oct 2018

for people who have questions about how to register.

C Moon

(13,643 posts)
37. I've never known TJ cashiers to be that outspoken. I'll bet the company would like to hear about it.
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 11:51 AM
Oct 2018
 

RhodeIslandOne

(5,042 posts)
38. The Colonal Sanders line is my go to with my dumb Trump loving co-workers
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 11:55 AM
Oct 2018

You'd think a Trumpkin would avoid that shit in a Trader fucking Joe's.

KY_EnviroGuy

(14,782 posts)
39. In essence, what she said seems to violate TJ's in-house culture statement.
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 12:02 PM
Oct 2018

See: https://www.traderjoes.com/careers

Couldn't find any statement on their web site about customer treatment, so I assume that's buried in their training manuals. However, the in-house cultural statements below should also apply to customer interactions.

(snip)

Culture:

We're flexible—our Crew determines their schedule availability. We don't believe you have to compromise important priorities in your life to be in ours.

We foster an environment that reflects the diversity of our neighborhoods to enhance the customer experience and benefit our Crew.

We behave with integrity—we treat others as we would like to be treated.

We shun bureaucracy and advocate for decision-making to happen at our stores.

We value open and honest communication and are committed to listening to our Crew. Their ideas make us better.

We structure our entire business around supporting the Crew Members at our stores, so they can earn the delight of our Customers.

It's simple, really. We believe that doing the right thing, as it relates to all Trader Joe's stakeholders—Crew, Customers, Vendors—is the right thing to do. And it starts with our Crew.

I'm guessing she could claim the statement about illegals is non-partisan, but the part about keeping America great is right out of a Trumpster's playbook and that was uncalled for from an employee.

Regardless, I admire you for unselfishly passing along the accurate and thorough voting info. I think you reacted well and proper. Another way to see it is that if you rebounded in a verbally abusive manner, that could have influenced her to never swing toward voting blue!

.......................

JohnnyRingo

(20,870 posts)
40. I'm glad you didn't report her
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 12:04 PM
Oct 2018

You wouldn't have if she was on our side, and you continued the discussion. She heard you out and expressed a different opinion without insulting you.

People change. Give her time.

saidsimplesimon

(7,888 posts)
41. Pass the word to your friends who shop there.
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 12:12 PM
Oct 2018

I would refuse to get in the line for this person. Should the manager suggest faster service in a shorter line, I would say that I am not there to hear about MAGA nonsense.

Snarkoleptic

(6,235 posts)
52. I'm the sort that will steer back to her line.
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 03:00 PM
Oct 2018

My habit is to talk to anyone, anywhere.
It's kind of sad walking through any retail store, as so many people are frowning and/or looking at the floor.

Celerity

(54,407 posts)
44. Great response but a signature is not a biometric.
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 12:46 PM
Oct 2018

Biometric examples: fingerprints, facial recognition, DNA, palm prints, iris recognition, retina scanning, etc.

I know of no polling place that would have that sort of info on people. I hope it never ever gets to that level.

Snarkoleptic

(6,235 posts)
53. Actually, signature IS a biometric.
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 03:04 PM
Oct 2018
https://www.biometricsinstitute.org/types-of-biometrics

Signature Recognition

Visual/Behavioural Biometric The authentication of an individual by the analysis of handwriting style, in particular the signature. There are two key types of digital handwritten signature authentication, Static and Dynamic. Static is most often a visual comparison between one scanned signature and another scanned signature, or a scanned signature against an ink signature. Technology is available to check two scanned signatures using advances algorithms. Dynamic is becoming more popular as ceremony data is captured along with the X,Y,T and P Coordinates of the signor from the signing device. This data can be utilised in a court of law using digital forensic examination tools, and to create a biometric template from which dynamic signatures can be authenticated either at time of signing or post signing, and as triggers in workflow processes.

Baitball Blogger

(52,344 posts)
50. They checked my signature with the one on my Florida license.
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 02:26 PM
Oct 2018

But, I have one of the up to date licenses.

Power 2 the People

(2,437 posts)
54. You handled that really well.
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 04:15 PM
Oct 2018

You gave her something to think about without making it seem like a lecture.

ecstatic

(35,075 posts)
60. Uggh. The stupidity is mind boggling.
Mon Oct 29, 2018, 10:31 PM
Oct 2018

The only illegal voters appear to be republicans. Normal, non right-wing people barely find the time/energy to vote once, much less multiple times.

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