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MatthewG.

(362 posts)
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 05:39 PM Nov 2018

When and how did you figure out that American Conservatism was a scam?

Last edited Mon Nov 5, 2018, 01:43 AM - Edit history (1)

I’ve been reading some columns by reformed Republican and former Wall Street Journal and Weekly Standard columnist Max Boot where he urges people to vote a straight Democratic Party ticket this year.

I can relate slightly to Max Boot - I was active in the College Republicans and even had a leadership position on a conservative campus newspaper that spawned the career of one or two of today’s Republican pundits.

It’s a source of embarrassment to me to this day.

I was about twenty when I figured out the GOP is, at least at a national level, a colossal scam which largely operates by harnessing ethnonational and religious resentments in the service of deficit-funded tax cuts geared to benefit the wealthy. This became clear to me back in the 90’s, when members of the LGBT community, not “Globalists”, Latino immigrants, and Muslims, were actively presented by Republicans as subversive, scary forces. I can still remember how heavily opinion pieces about the insidious “gay agenda” were pushed by people who privately admitted to me they could care less about the issue but it was a good way to “scare up” the religious Christian vote.


Nowadays, I try to look at my conservatism as a youthful indiscretion.


When did you realize American Conservatism was a hateful scam?

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When and how did you figure out that American Conservatism was a scam? (Original Post) MatthewG. Nov 2018 OP
I was about 24. SharonAnn Nov 2018 #1
When I heard rzemanfl Nov 2018 #3
Hahahahaha MatthewG. Nov 2018 #6
I was 18. The year was 1964. FuzzyRabbit Nov 2018 #2
Yeah, they get more putrid every year. MatthewG. Nov 2018 #12
I was way to young to vote onethatcares Nov 2018 #18
Strange trip indeed! Certainly, you picked the moral side. MatthewG. Nov 2018 #38
I think it started when I onethatcares Nov 2018 #53
Same here. My dad encouraged my to vote Republican because they were the procon Nov 2018 #54
You made the right choice! :) MatthewG. Nov 2018 #95
I was 4. The year was 1964. lagomorph777 Nov 2018 #93
I was in elementary school. In the SF Bay Area. When AIDS was really new and scary. RockRaven Nov 2018 #4
You had a good eye when young. MatthewG. Nov 2018 #13
1995, The Office of Technology Assessment sfwriter Nov 2018 #5
That's a good one I missed. Thanks for telling me about it. MatthewG. Nov 2018 #15
Wow Proud Liberal Dem Nov 2018 #21
I think it was when I read Al Franken's book, Rush Limbaugh is a Big Fat Idiot. Crunchy Frog Nov 2018 #7
I remember enjoying that. MatthewG. Nov 2018 #16
Despite its comedic format, it had a lot of information that was new to me. Crunchy Frog Nov 2018 #24
That was one of the first real political tomes I indulged in Proud Liberal Dem Nov 2018 #22
Suspected it during Reagan years, confirmed by Gingrich Congress Raven123 Nov 2018 #8
Gingrich Congress was a big jump the shark moment for many. MatthewG. Nov 2018 #19
I still have my bumper sticker. Delmette2.0 Nov 2018 #33
I voted for Reagan the first time LibinMo Nov 2018 #127
When William Loeb found Jesus. Mopar151 Nov 2018 #9
One thing I can say about the cult... MatthewG. Nov 2018 #23
Are you this guy? :) sharedvalues Nov 2018 #84
LOL MatthewG. Nov 2018 #94
While I have always been liberal, while in my early 20's I listened to Rush Limbaugh. wcast Nov 2018 #10
Rush's phoniness was well known in GOP circles. MatthewG. Nov 2018 #27
As Krugman wisely said sharedvalues Nov 2018 #85
Under Reagan, when I was in my 20s Chemisse Nov 2018 #11
I was pretty young at the time, but.... MatthewG. Nov 2018 #31
I had the impression all along that he was quite popular, Chemisse Nov 2018 #71
Iran Contra mnmoderatedem Nov 2018 #73
since Goldwater lanlady Nov 2018 #14
He changed bigly in the 1990's Proud Liberal Dem Nov 2018 #26
Yeah, I remember when he finally got fed up... MatthewG. Nov 2018 #36
Exactly the same for me! lagomorph777 Nov 2018 #96
You mean the Republican Party? The Nixon era revealed Hortensis Nov 2018 #17
Good point... MatthewG. Nov 2018 #37
Umhm. The purging of conservative ideology from the Hortensis Nov 2018 #48
I never thought otherwise Proud Liberal Dem Nov 2018 #20
You caught on early! MatthewG. Nov 2018 #97
I think its a mistake to call it a scam Mosby Nov 2018 #25
That's certainly one way to put it. MatthewG. Nov 2018 #32
Realised religion was a scam when I was 6 meadowlander Nov 2018 #28
Many aren't even religious. MatthewG. Nov 2018 #119
1992. I was in the Army underpants Nov 2018 #29
Must have been a shock! Glad you saw the truth. MatthewG. Nov 2018 #120
I was brought up knowing that. northoftheborder Nov 2018 #30
You had a great dad! MatthewG. Nov 2018 #34
Always was against the conservatives but I think firing of air traffic MaryMagdaline Nov 2018 #35
I voted for the first time in 1972. Everyone I knew thought like I did but walkingman Nov 2018 #39
Yep, the 1972 Nixon landslide, and lkinwi Nov 2018 #82
Interesting summary. MatthewG. Nov 2018 #121
Was raised catholic and really believed in the catholic teachings on social justice rurallib Nov 2018 #40
Sounds like your upbringing helped you be a better and more perceptive person! MatthewG. Nov 2018 #43
And the priestly molestation made me very skeptical and untrusting rurallib Nov 2018 #45
I am so sorry to hear. MatthewG. Nov 2018 #49
age 46. ten years ago. Kurt V. Nov 2018 #41
Good Story! MatthewG. Nov 2018 #42
January 20, 1981 scheming daemons Nov 2018 #44
1980, i was 11, in 6th grade. 0rganism Nov 2018 #46
You had a good eye when you were young! MatthewG. Nov 2018 #50
My Parents violetpastille Nov 2018 #47
Your parents raised you well! MatthewG. Nov 2018 #51
Oh I should edit that to say, "bad" example. violetpastille Nov 2018 #59
Well, at least you learned the right lessons from their politics. MatthewG. Nov 2018 #60
Excellent parenting! Mine were Eisenhower Republicans... VOX Nov 2018 #113
I was too young to vote but it was as soon as I saw 2naSalit Nov 2018 #52
As soon as.. mvd Nov 2018 #55
You caught on early! MatthewG. Nov 2018 #98
My parents being Democrats really helped mvd Nov 2018 #137
I always knew too - OhZone Nov 2018 #56
I never really thought otherwise quaker bill Nov 2018 #57
I've always known. maxsolomon Nov 2018 #58
After Eisenhower colsohlibgal Nov 2018 #61
When Reagan was elected Generic Brad Nov 2018 #62
GWB Wawannabe Nov 2018 #63
High School -- mid 1960s TruckFump Nov 2018 #64
I was in the cradle, I believe .... kwassa Nov 2018 #65
I dated a Republican in 1989 ocd liberal Nov 2018 #66
2000 When Bush was "elected" by the Supreme Court Separation Nov 2018 #67
When I learned to think. rickford66 Nov 2018 #68
Good answer! MatthewG. Nov 2018 #69
+1 ck4829 Nov 2018 #75
From the moment I was first exposed to it at 19 years old ecstatic Nov 2018 #70
Bush Jr JonLP24 Nov 2018 #72
When I saw all the holier-than-thou hypocrites ck4829 Nov 2018 #74
In the 60s The Blue Flower Nov 2018 #76
figure out that American Conservatism was a scam? stonecutter357 Nov 2018 #77
Sophomore year in college. a la izquierda Nov 2018 #78
George W Bush... Mike Nelson Nov 2018 #79
Rotten Ronnie and the balanced budget Hermit-The-Prog Nov 2018 #80
When The Southern Racist Democrats Became Republicans. . . ProfessorGAC Nov 2018 #81
1979 when reagan's voodoo ekonomikkks came out. + i was not of voting age. pansypoo53219 Nov 2018 #83
That was probably the beginning of the end for serious conservatism MatthewG. Nov 2018 #91
Seeing smarmy Wm F Buckley on TV C_U_L8R Nov 2018 #86
Ironically, probably a moderate by today's standards MatthewG. Nov 2018 #90
True. And much smarter than today's Republican. C_U_L8R Nov 2018 #92
Is there a legitimate alternative political point of view to liberalism? elocs Nov 2018 #87
That's a good question. MatthewG. Nov 2018 #88
ronald. reagan. spanone Nov 2018 #89
**** Thirteen years old!!!!**** To this day I ask why the rich would care about middle class uponit7771 Nov 2018 #99
You caught on early! MatthewG. Nov 2018 #100
'68 ... Nixon was elected saying he had a secret plan to end the war and RHMerriman Nov 2018 #101
Awesome! Took me to age 15, I'm a slow plugger. VOX Nov 2018 #112
Reagan. old guy Nov 2018 #102
1980 and the election of Ronald Reagan with it's voodoo economics. nt madinmaryland Nov 2018 #103
was about 5 or 6 years old and Reagan was President JI7 Nov 2018 #104
My grandparents were in the Steelworkers' Union MountCleaners Nov 2018 #105
I can't recall a time thinking otherwise. Solly Mack Nov 2018 #106
Good call! MatthewG. Nov 2018 #109
Clinton's impeachment trial. Initech Nov 2018 #107
That was the era where any sentient moderate should have realized the GOP jumped the shark. MatthewG. Nov 2018 #108
Fall, 1964. I was 15. A high-school buddy talked me into going to a Goldwater rally in L.A. VOX Nov 2018 #110
You got inoculated early! Glad you took the right message from the experience. MatthewG. Nov 2018 #114
decades ago. conservatives claim to want smaller gov, gov out our lives unless it suits them Demovictory9 Nov 2018 #111
Runny RayGun and the PATCO strikers. lpbk2713 Nov 2018 #115
I grew up knowing that. murielm99 Nov 2018 #116
"Conservatism" is THE scam! They are RIGHT WING CORPORATE RADICALS. Piss On Them! LBM20 Nov 2018 #117
It was a congenital thing with me. Hugin Nov 2018 #118
Summer of 1968 DFW Nov 2018 #122
When I heard North Dakota farmers Wolf Frankula Nov 2018 #123
During the Goldwater campaign. MineralMan Nov 2018 #124
1980 LeftInTX Nov 2018 #125
Reaganomics! liberal N proud Nov 2018 #126
not sure if i ever thought them as scammers when i was younger.. just icky! samnsara Nov 2018 #128
My dad was a lifelong Republican who flipped his shit when Clinton won Downtown Hound Nov 2018 #129
Yeah, I think Limbaugh did more to destroy American politics than any other living person. MatthewG. Nov 2018 #135
Goldwater and Nixon sealed the deal jpak Nov 2018 #130
9/12/01 Glamrock Nov 2018 #131
Early 60's because of John Birch Society. retread Nov 2018 #132
No later than 1968. love_katz Nov 2018 #133
Seems like that was a seminal year for many here. Thanks for your story! MatthewG. Nov 2018 #134
Baptist church as a kid. joshcryer Nov 2018 #136
My family were/ are dems Meowmee Nov 2018 #138
When I was a teen Jamaal510 Nov 2018 #139

FuzzyRabbit

(1,985 posts)
2. I was 18. The year was 1964.
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:00 PM
Nov 2018

Goldwater was running for president. My Political Science college professor grew up in Goldwater's neighborhood, and knew Goldwater and his parents. He told us all about the Goldwaters.

Since then, the Repubs have only gotten worse and worse.

MatthewG.

(362 posts)
12. Yeah, they get more putrid every year.
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:11 PM
Nov 2018

It’s amazing how the GOP manages to get more putrid each cycle. I honestly thought Bush Jr., was the most buffoonish and lousy figure the GOP could ever scrounge up for a White House bid.

onethatcares

(16,315 posts)
18. I was way to young to vote
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:16 PM
Nov 2018

in 64, but I remember that after JFK was killed and the Civil Rights movement became the enemy de jour, the teevee had pictures of people being beaten and firehosed, along with dogs being sicced on them and I thought "there is no reason for this". At that time I refused to accept their terms of service and became a liberal then.

Wow, what a long strange trip it's been.

onethatcares

(16,315 posts)
53. I think it started when I
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 07:24 PM
Nov 2018

ran away from home the first time at 11 years old and hitchhiked almost 1/2 way across America and people took care of me but didn't try to make me turn around and go back. Same pattern played out until I was 16 and left home for good.

There are some great people in this country. Bet On It.

procon

(15,805 posts)
54. Same here. My dad encouraged my to vote Republican because they were the
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 07:26 PM
Nov 2018

Party of intellectuals and successful, powerful men; unlike that other party.

So I was a browbeaten first time voter, but right after Reagan was elected I secretly switched to the Dems.

lagomorph777

(30,613 posts)
93. I was 4. The year was 1964.
Fri Nov 2, 2018, 03:21 PM
Nov 2018

My older brothers were very liberal, anti-war, and explained it all to me.

Now they're on the opposite end of the spectrum but I have grown more convinced of the evils of conservatism with every word and every action I see from "conservatives." Why should I be interested in helping billionaires conserve their fortunes by taking mine? That's all "conservatism" is.

RockRaven

(15,329 posts)
4. I was in elementary school. In the SF Bay Area. When AIDS was really new and scary.
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:04 PM
Nov 2018

And the profoundly hateful and vicious behavior of supposedly moral Christians towards the sick and dying was so obvious even a child could see they were full of crap. And if they were full of crap about morality, charity, and virtue... then what else were they wrong about? And were they genuine but wrong, or were they lying to us?

That made me skeptical of everything prominent conservatives had to say, even though I did not know enough about all of the policies/positions to have reasoned through any of those issues individually yet.

 

sfwriter

(3,032 posts)
5. 1995, The Office of Technology Assessment
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:08 PM
Nov 2018
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Office_of_Technology_Assessment

Killed by the Republicans to hide evidence that might hurt their real clients, business and corporations.

Crunchy Frog

(26,753 posts)
7. I think it was when I read Al Franken's book, Rush Limbaugh is a Big Fat Idiot.
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:09 PM
Nov 2018

I was always a Democrat, but up until then I think I regarded the Rs as just a political party with a different governing philosophy.

MatthewG.

(362 posts)
16. I remember enjoying that.
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:15 PM
Nov 2018

I remember enjoying that, too. It was one of the first popular liberal books I perused after quitting the cult of Reagan and Supply Side.

Crunchy Frog

(26,753 posts)
24. Despite its comedic format, it had a lot of information that was new to me.
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:20 PM
Nov 2018

That's where I first learned what Mr. Family Values Newt Gingrich did to his first wife, and their children.

Proud Liberal Dem

(24,539 posts)
22. That was one of the first real political tomes I indulged in
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:20 PM
Nov 2018

His other ones are great too, especially The Truth (with Jokes). *sigh* I miss him.

Mopar151

(10,056 posts)
9. When William Loeb found Jesus.
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:09 PM
Nov 2018

Or, when the Birchers hooked up with the TV Preachers.
An unholy alliance if there ever was one!

MatthewG.

(362 posts)
23. One thing I can say about the cult...
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:20 PM
Nov 2018

Speaking as a former insider in the Cult of Reagan and Supply Side, one can thing I can say is that the non-fundamentalist Republicans do not, as a rule, like the religious right a whole lot. A lot of times I’d hear things like “they’re crazy, but we need the votes.” At best, the non-religious Republicans would say things like “most of what the fundamentalists believe obviously isn’t true, but a lot of society needs the fictions of religion to stay strong.”

wcast

(595 posts)
10. While I have always been liberal, while in my early 20's I listened to Rush Limbaugh.
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:09 PM
Nov 2018

This was almost 30 years ago. So one day I'm listening to him in my car and he stated that corporations don't benefit from their stock price and have no reason to use illegal or unethical practices. (I'm paraphrasing as it's been 30 years.)

I knew that was a huge lie. Corporations benefit immensely and manipulate their stock prices to benefit officers and shareholders. From that point on I stopped listening to Rush. I also realized that corporations are the primary problem in both the economy and politics. Ive always been union as was my dad but I stopped being a blue collar Democrat to a full fledged Democrat.

MatthewG.

(362 posts)
27. Rush's phoniness was well known in GOP circles.
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:22 PM
Nov 2018

When I was a member of the cult of Reagan and Supply Side, the smarter College Republicans all knew Rush was totally one-sided and prone to wild exaggerations, though they figured he was a corrective to the “liberal media.” The dumber cult members adored him, though.

sharedvalues

(6,916 posts)
85. As Krugman wisely said
Fri Nov 2, 2018, 08:21 AM
Nov 2018

“Republicans used to think they controlled the rightwing media. Now they see the rightwing media controls them.”


Limbaugh has the last laugh on those guys.

Chemisse

(30,847 posts)
11. Under Reagan, when I was in my 20s
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:11 PM
Nov 2018

With "trickle down economics", wherein tax cuts to the rich and businesses were expected to benefit everybody as the money trickled down to the rest of us.

I don't understand why everything he did was so popular. I was infuriated at the time, and envisioned peons such as myself, with tongues out, desperately hoping for the occasional drip of water to fall our way.

MatthewG.

(362 posts)
31. I was pretty young at the time, but....
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:27 PM
Nov 2018

I was pretty young when Reagan was President, but i remember the dominant attitudes, at least in my area, were “good at image control but not too bright and a bit too old for the job.” (And that was moderate opinion, not liberal opinion.)

His canonization is one of the more interesting and cynical scams foisted on the public. When I was active in the cult (early 90’s) he was already aggressively being promoted as the 20th Century’s greatest President, with all talk of the Iran-Contra Matter - a truly big deal of a scandal - muted.

Chemisse

(30,847 posts)
71. I had the impression all along that he was quite popular,
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 09:15 PM
Nov 2018

Starting right after the assassination attempt and lasting through until around the middle of his second term, when people began to wonder if he was losing his mental faculties (which of course he was).

It may be because I lived in New Hampshire, which was decidedly red back then, so was surrounded by Republicans, that I had a more skewed impression of his popularity.

I know I disliked him intensely. It's his fault that commercials are louder than tv programs. He's the one who classified ketchup as a vegetable for school lunch purposes. He made a deal with the Iranians to hold the hostages until after Jimmy Carter lost the election (not proven, just seems likely), etc.

lanlady

(7,144 posts)
14. since Goldwater
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:13 PM
Nov 2018

I was just a little kid when Goldwater was the voice of American conservatism, but he seemed like an old meanie to me. To this day I think of Republicans as old meanies, even the younger ones like Paul Ryan. Mean-spirited, heartless, misanthropic.

Proud Liberal Dem

(24,539 posts)
26. He changed bigly in the 1990's
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:22 PM
Nov 2018

when he came out strongly in support of lifting the ban on gays in the military. Plus, I've heard that he spoke very harshly against the likes of Jerry Falwell, Pat Robertson and the "Religious Right"

MatthewG.

(362 posts)
36. Yeah, I remember when he finally got fed up...
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:32 PM
Nov 2018

Yeah, I remember when Goldwater finally got fed up with the religious right.

One thing I learned in my time in the Cult Of Reagan and Supply Side is that a lot of Republicans don’t especially like the religious right. “They’re crazy but we need their votes” wasn’t an uncommon sentiment. I figure Goldwater was probably just saying what a decent number of GOP Senators believed but can’t say for political reasons.

lagomorph777

(30,613 posts)
96. Exactly the same for me!
Fri Nov 2, 2018, 03:27 PM
Nov 2018

Starting with Goldwater, they have always seemed like vicious, heartless bastards to me. I've never been able to figure out why that appeals to anybody (any non-billionaire, anyway).

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
17. You mean the Republican Party? The Nixon era revealed
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:15 PM
Nov 2018

to me that many Republicans in high government office truly did not believe in the principles and purposes our nation was founded on and were actively subverting them. Back then Democratic and other Republican leaders saw it as lawbreaking and corruption and removed many from office, including sending some to prison.

In the 1990s-2010, traditional conservatism was purged from the Republican Party, and agents of subversion of our democracy, and institutionalization of corruption at all levels, took over the Republican Party.

Most scholars recognize that, though conservative personality and its traits is a real thing, the interests of the very wealthy and white nationalist and religious extremists have replaced conservative political ideology in the party. Its intellectual basis was a weak, new political ideology based on protecting what was proven to work that scholars tried to create after WWII, but that ideal was a barrier to kleptocratic and authoritarian plans for our nation.

MatthewG.

(362 posts)
37. Good point...
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:34 PM
Nov 2018

Some good points. Movement Conservatism doesn’t have a whole lot to do with conservative ideology.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
48. Umhm. The purging of conservative ideology from the
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 07:08 PM
Nov 2018

Republican Party wasn't my observation. It was reported by the same conservative scholars who worked to develop an intellectual basis for conservative knee-jerk resistance to change and what is "different." They were unable to stop the corruption and turning of conservative voters away from the ideals they'd tried to inculcate in such a short period.

In contrast, the intellectual basis of liberalism is centuries old and formed the basis for our republic. People of conservative personality don't have that solid foundation for a political belief system that provides worthy ideals supported by their gut feelings.

I did later, once I realized what was happening, watch the purging of the kind of moderate and progressive conservative politicians who worked with Democrats to create the advances of the 1900s, though. I never appreciated the more distinguished Republicans in congress until they were primaried and replaced with today's corrupt and/or extremist betrayers.

Proud Liberal Dem

(24,539 posts)
20. I never thought otherwise
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:17 PM
Nov 2018

As soon as I became politically aware when I was about 16-17, I was firmly on the Democratic/progressive side of the fence based on their stance for reproductive rights and LGBT rights and concern for all Americans, not just the privileged few. Plus, that was around the time that Republican Party began its decent into its xtian worshipping, hatred and vile nature under Gingrich/Limbaugh/Fox that was directed towards anybody that wasn't "one of them". Their constant vitriolic attacks on the Clintons disgusted me and turned me off to them too. George W. Bush's 8 year "Reign of Error" and scare-mongering further insured that I could never join their ranks.

Mosby

(16,596 posts)
25. I think its a mistake to call it a scam
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:21 PM
Nov 2018

It's more like a shell game, modern republicans are basically libertarians who give lip service to Christian conservatives.

meadowlander

(4,427 posts)
28. Realised religion was a scam when I was 6
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:24 PM
Nov 2018

Noticed when I was 9 or 10 that the same self-righteous hypocrites who tried to shove religion down my throat also tended to be Republicans. Volunteered on my first campaign (for a Democrat) when I was 12 or 13.

MatthewG.

(362 posts)
119. Many aren't even religious.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 12:58 PM
Nov 2018

There’s no shortage of fundamentalists in the GOP, but at least in my time in the party, lots of Republicans were pretty open about their contempt for the religious right - “they’re crazy but we need their votes”, was commonly expressed.

underpants

(183,692 posts)
29. 1992. I was in the Army
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:25 PM
Nov 2018

Jess Jackson gave his "That's not America" speech at the DNC convention. I was living in the rightwing dream - identifiable rank and position, do what you are told to do without question, your leader simply can't be wrong.

northoftheborder

(7,580 posts)
30. I was brought up knowing that.
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:26 PM
Nov 2018

My father shaped my values from childhood. He was a wonderful, intelligent, empathetic man - trained as a journalist, fascinated by history and literature. Knew exactly what was going on in the political world.

MaryMagdaline

(6,872 posts)
35. Always was against the conservatives but I think firing of air traffic
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:32 PM
Nov 2018

Controllers revealed to me their total cognitive dissonance ... how American workers refused to back their own. I at least thought people who voted conservative were conserving something of value for themselves ... not attacking their own.

walkingman

(7,909 posts)
39. I voted for the first time in 1972. Everyone I knew thought like I did but
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:36 PM
Nov 2018

guess what. Richard Nixon won the '72 election by a landslide. The conservative movement was fueled by Christian anti-communists, who were often Christian Evangelicals, strongly endorsed the war. This helped strengthen ties between the Religious Right and conservatism, which developed into a fruitful relationship, forever changing the ideology of the conservative movement. As the 70's passed the Reagan election once again ignited the culture wars with the "War on Drugs", anti-union sentiment, and the Jerry Falwell "Moral Majority" crap. The 90's proved to be a mixed bag - on one hand you have the Clinton election which offered kind of a centrist movement (definitely not progressive) and the Newt Gingrich "Contract with America" and "Family Values" crowd. Karl Rove/Atwater era and the endless attack by Ken Starr against anything Clinton went on until 2000. Bush stole the election and now we are in the modern era of Conservatism - Endless War, Support the Troops, Tax Cuts, anti-immigrant sentiment rising, I'll stop there because it just gets worse after a brief interval of HOPE by Obama.

I consider the GOP simply the WPP (White People's Party) willing to do and say anything to win and turning America into something I barely recognize. We are now living in just another version of National Enquirer for government. Cabinet appointees based upon those that despise the very organizations they represent.

I recognized when I was 18 years old the hypocrisy of the Conservative Movement.

MatthewG.

(362 posts)
121. Interesting summary.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 01:01 PM
Nov 2018

Nixon was a bit before my time, though it’s amazing that in terms of domestic policy, he’d probably be considered center-left today. Just shows how much more putrid each generation of Republicans gets.

rurallib

(62,592 posts)
40. Was raised catholic and really believed in the catholic teachings on social justice
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:38 PM
Nov 2018

As I went to college, the Vietnam war and other civil unrest was heating up. Dems were much closer to the Teachings on Social Justice. At that time Iowa had senators like Harold Hughes, Dick Clark and John Culver.

I tried to pretend I was an "independent" but the Republicans were Nixon and Agnew and Mitchell and Haldeman. Everything they did was based on a lie. When Ford pardoned Nixon I just seethed.

Reagan was just a better actor than Nixon, but just as evil. Sometime in the 70s I dumped Repugs forever. I began voting in 72 and am fairly sure I voted for one once to prove I was an independent. I have ever since regretted that vote.

rurallib

(62,592 posts)
45. And the priestly molestation made me very skeptical and untrusting
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:49 PM
Nov 2018

got both sides from that church.

Kurt V.

(5,624 posts)
41. age 46. ten years ago.
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:38 PM
Nov 2018

i was always apolitical. pure luck, i left st. louis in a sellers market early 2006. Landed in my home town. lived with friends and relatives a couple of years. (I'm the bachelor uncle lol) so i had to get mine own place, of course. i decided i would read classic literature, waiting for cable to get turned on at my new residence. i read 75 or so novels over the next 2 years (never did get the cable turned on) . grapes of wrath, the brothers karamazov. uncle toms cabin, 100 years of solitude. .etc. next thing i knew, the hatefulness of conservatism was obvious.
read.
the.
classics.
Slaughter House Five is a genre of its own

0rganism

(24,112 posts)
46. 1980, i was 11, in 6th grade.
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:53 PM
Nov 2018

everyone was jabbering about who their parents were voting for. being the awful time that it was, many were blabbing about Reagan. and they'd say things like "he's the lesser evil" or "he's such a great leader". being the naive child that i was, i asked a simple question: "how so?"

not one of them had a shred of an answer.

so i started paying closer attention to the debates and campaigns, and what i saw was astonishing. Reagan campaigned solely on image and a particular rhetorical style, aspects totally lacking from President Carter or Rep. Anderson. that was his schtick. the policy positions he advocated seemed hollow and destructive to me, but he presented them with style.

and it worked.

from that point on, i have not been able to support a Republican for any office.

violetpastille

(1,483 posts)
47. My Parents
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 06:54 PM
Nov 2018

by example taught me that the Republican party is not the party of "the most good for the most people".

They were all about the short term gains at anyone's expense.

As a kid, before I knew better I thought I was for the Green Party or Peace and Freedom.

By the time I was able to vote, cooler heads prevailed upon me to vote as a Democrat.

Circa Citizen's United was when I realized that Republicans pose an existential thread to democracy itself. 2010.

violetpastille

(1,483 posts)
59. Oh I should edit that to say, "bad" example.
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 07:41 PM
Nov 2018

My mother is a racist Republican and my father is a Bannon-esque fascist.

They gave me a "behind the scenes" view of conservative thought. What conservatives say when they are at home.

It's hair-raising.




VOX

(22,976 posts)
113. Excellent parenting! Mine were Eisenhower Republicans...
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 09:26 PM
Nov 2018

They teased me affectionately just a bit as being the “black sheep” of the family, but the never once tried to tell me what to think or believe.

Today, my mom would have been a centrist Democrat: she hated guns, thought women should have charge of their own bodies, and hated war. She did NOT want her sons drafted into a questionable war. (Fortunately, I and my brother both drew high draft-lottery numbers.) In the last years of her life, she expressed regret at having voted for Richard Nixon: “I wish I’d voted for John F. Kennedy.”

Her experience underscores how far rightward the Republican Party has drifted, and has now crossed the line into fascism.

2naSalit

(88,058 posts)
52. I was too young to vote but it was as soon as I saw
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 07:11 PM
Nov 2018

that there was something else. Both my parents, a pair of schizophrenic types, were both conservatives though one was Democratic Party and the other not... we were military. I was born during Eisenhower's first term but recall Nixon as the first Republican president I was aware of. At that point I was fully aware, in my early teens and getting tear gassed in the north eastern cities of the US.

I think I figured it out when Johnson was in office, I was able to vote shortly after the voting age changed to 18 and I have never voted for a Republican for president though I have voted for Republicans in other offices in the past... it's been many elections ago since that happened. Things became ever more clear when I was getting my master's in polisci, just as W got selected.

mvd

(65,203 posts)
137. My parents being Democrats really helped
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 01:52 AM
Nov 2018

Up until around 12, I could still be swayed by a speech that sounded good. But it really clicked during the Dukakis campaign.

OhZone

(3,212 posts)
56. I always knew too -
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 07:27 PM
Nov 2018

Ever since I was a little girl. It wasn't from my parents, though, like northoftheborder and violetpastille and others. I was more influenced by my Aunt and Uncle . My parents are alcoholics, and they did some pretty horrible things, which I won't get into, but my Aunt and Uncle were like parents to me and my brother. Uncle Nick was my political mentor. That and just my sense of fairness and right and wrong. And studying history.

quaker bill

(8,226 posts)
57. I never really thought otherwise
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 07:40 PM
Nov 2018

Political conservatism became mainstream here the day the schools were desegregated.

Generic Brad

(14,285 posts)
62. When Reagan was elected
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 07:49 PM
Nov 2018

Every fan boy I encountered when I was a young man was a mean spirited criminal hiding behind Christian evangelism. They wrapped themselves in an American flag, fastened it with a crucifix, treated women like shit and lied about everything under the sun. I saw through the phoniness in the 1980's and note it has only become more overt and widespread since then. It is a toxic, intolerant movement.

Wawannabe

(5,770 posts)
63. GWB
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 08:21 PM
Nov 2018

High gas prices and FOX News.
Bushies are oil barons.
I never voted Republican in the few times I was able to vote before that (18 in 88).
My dad was a racist but voted Dem because of Unions. He also thought that most Dem politicians were for working people and said as much.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
65. I was in the cradle, I believe ....
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 08:43 PM
Nov 2018

grew up a liberal Democrat.

First election I can remember was 1960, Kennedy vs. Nixon.

Nixon was a good argument against conservatism, all by himself.

ocd liberal

(407 posts)
66. I dated a Republican in 1989
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 08:49 PM
Nov 2018

And that's when I realized what they really believe. I was shocked and vowed to vote against the GOP forever because of him.

Separation

(1,975 posts)
67. 2000 When Bush was "elected" by the Supreme Court
Thu Nov 1, 2018, 08:50 PM
Nov 2018

I mean Florida, uhhh you know what I mean.

I even made an account here back in 2001, but I was Tombstoned during the Iraqi Invasion.

stonecutter357

(12,710 posts)
77. figure out that American Conservatism was a scam?
Fri Nov 2, 2018, 07:32 AM
Nov 2018

The first time I saw Jimmy Swaggart , Jim and Tammy Faye Bakker ......

a la izquierda

(11,816 posts)
78. Sophomore year in college.
Fri Nov 2, 2018, 07:35 AM
Nov 2018

It’s when I took my first class on Latin American history. I eventually got a PhD in the field.

Not too many of us are conservative. There are some, but not many at all.

Mike Nelson

(10,061 posts)
79. George W Bush...
Fri Nov 2, 2018, 07:41 AM
Nov 2018

… all Political parties had the scam built in... but GWB went all in for the Deplorables, which were tolerated by politicians. JFK & LBJ started kicking them out and Nixon started the trend to "wink" at them... Reagan was not really one of them, but continue the "wink" for votes... George W Bush, Sarah Palin, Donald Trump... they exposed it and themselves.

ProfessorGAC

(66,239 posts)
81. When The Southern Racist Democrats Became Republicans. . .
Fri Nov 2, 2018, 07:42 AM
Nov 2018

. . .to get out of LBJ's shadow. Probably not right at that moment, but a few years later, so probably around 14. That, in addition, to the fact that Nixon was then president and there was something off-putting about him that made me start to think "Hmmmm".

It also probably didn't help that Goldwater was a maniac, and even though i was only 8 when he ran, it only took a few years to realize what a titanic problem he would have been.

It was quite cemented in college, so from 18 i have been fairly anti-convservative.

That said, i had a short term fascination with libertarians during the period where the dems turned their back on Carter and voted for Reagan. But, as i paid attention to them more, i realized they were just a different kind of conservative and rejected that pretty strongly.

pansypoo53219

(21,108 posts)
83. 1979 when reagan's voodoo ekonomikkks came out. + i was not of voting age.
Fri Nov 2, 2018, 08:04 AM
Nov 2018

later found an old card 1960 or so, why i am a republican. everything on that card was dumped w/ tinkle down ekonomikkks.

my maternal grandparents got the 2 daily papers.

C_U_L8R

(45,102 posts)
86. Seeing smarmy Wm F Buckley on TV
Fri Nov 2, 2018, 09:12 AM
Nov 2018

He talked a good story but underneath it all, the ideology seemed selfish and small.

elocs

(22,783 posts)
87. Is there a legitimate alternative political point of view to liberalism?
Fri Nov 2, 2018, 09:47 AM
Nov 2018

Or is ours the one and only true way and all others are evil?

Now if I were posting on a right-wing site I could ask: Is there a legitimate alternative political point of view to conservatism?
Or is ours the one and only true way and all others are evil?

Each tribe not only believes the other tribe is wrong, but that they are evil as well. Well the tens of millions of Trump supporters and other Republicans are going nowhere even if Democrats retake Congress for a few years and take the White House for a couple of terms. And the tens of millions of those on the Left are not going anywhere either. But as a Democrat going on 50 years now if I were honest I would need to put my money on the right because they consistently are more vigilant and vote like it was their duty, not needing the most perfect and pure inspirational candidates.
The Left on the other hand tends to become complacent and too many are fickle voters who need to be excited and motivated to cast their ballots, allowing the GOP to take control again.

There's little left of the middle in American politics anymore with each party moving hard right or hard left and both sides holding with each holding a religious-like belief that their god is the one and only true god and it's their way or the highway.
I wonder how many on both sides take the position in their marriages or personal relationships that it's my way or the highway?
I don't see this ending well.

MatthewG.

(362 posts)
88. That's a good question.
Fri Nov 2, 2018, 03:16 PM
Nov 2018

That’s a good question.

Yes, there are honorable alternatives to American style liberalism. It is entirely possible to argue that the tax code is overly complex to the point where it hinders economic growth without supporting deficit financed tax schemes rooted in the disproven nostrums of Supplying Side Economics. It’s also possible to argue that illegal immigration is an issue of social concern without devolving into alt-right style race baiting, or to say that regulations stifle businesses without denying the scientific consensus on global warming. You can argue that gun ownership is a protected right without advocating arming teachers in elementary schools. You can also argue that religion is a social good without encouraging fundamentalism, or say that Communism has a pretty lousy economic and human rights record without conflating Keynesianism and Marxism. One can honorably dislike or even hate Obamacare, so long as one can propose a serious policy alternative.

I actually do know the occasional conservative whomfits into some he categories described above, although they seem to be getting fewer and farther between.

spanone

(136,284 posts)
89. ronald. reagan.
Fri Nov 2, 2018, 03:17 PM
Nov 2018

I was there for Nixon and he was a crook, but Reagan taught me that they don't really care about anyone.

RHMerriman

(1,376 posts)
101. '68 ... Nixon was elected saying he had a secret plan to end the war and
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 06:13 PM
Nov 2018

'68 ... Nixon was elected saying he had a secret plan to end the war and it took longer, under his watch, to the US withdrawal in '73 than the it had taken for the major US presence had been in place before his election ('65-'68).

I didn't vote for him (I would have chosen RFK, if I'd had a chance, of course), but I understood why some people bought his bullshit after LBJ fumbled his way into the "big" war in '65.

Since then, the GOP has been all shitbirds, all the time, from Ford to Reagan to the Bushes to the current pissant piece of manure, and all his enablers.

The Dems may be screw-ups, but at least they are honest screw-ups, as witness LBJ not running in '68. Pubs lie all the time, fuck things up, and then lie some more, pissing on your leg and telling you its raining, wrapped in the flag and carrying a cross, while shivving you in the back for Wall Street.

VOX

(22,976 posts)
112. Awesome! Took me to age 15, I'm a slow plugger.
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 09:11 PM
Nov 2018

The only downside was that seeing through the conservatives’ game so early made me more cynical than was probably healthy for an adolescent.

But I wouldn’t change a thing. Hard-core liberal since 1965!

MountCleaners

(1,148 posts)
105. My grandparents were in the Steelworkers' Union
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 06:54 PM
Nov 2018

Everyone in my family was a Democrat when I was a kid. My parents campaigned for Carter and my mom met Carter at a Democratic function hosted by my cousin. My cousin worked for a Democrat congressman and was a convention delegate. My mom named me after Lyndon Johnson, even though they hated the Vietnam War. They liked everything else about him.

I thought the Republicans were the party of the rich, and no one's parents in my neighborhood or school voted Republican. I knew NO Republicans. Also as kids we thought that the Republicans were all like Nixon - people used to say that they were all crooks except for Ford. I went to a left-wing Catholic school and didn't know much about politics except that the Democrats were pro-union and I admired Martin Luther King and the American Indian Movement.

I thought maybe Reagan wouldn't be so bad, but then the race baiting started and I realized that the people were supporting Reagan because they were racists. Also I didn't like his stance versus the Soviet Union. So I hated him not long into his presidency. I hated the demonization of welfare recipients. I grew up Catholic, but the abortion and GLBT stuff didn't make sense to me. I also thought that all of the flag-waving stuff was corny. I considered becoming a communist just because Reagan and his supporters hated it so much.

By the time I graduated high school, I was pretty into the left and activism. I got involved in the Democratic Party and campaigned for Jesse Jackson.

Solly Mack

(90,919 posts)
106. I can't recall a time thinking otherwise.
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 07:24 PM
Nov 2018

I tried. I've always been a liberal. Never entertained the notion of being a conservative. Ever.
















Initech

(100,431 posts)
107. Clinton's impeachment trial.
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 07:46 PM
Nov 2018

I was 18 at the time and I couldn't believe how stupid they were then, and 20+ years later, the same morons are still in charge!

VOX

(22,976 posts)
110. Fall, 1964. I was 15. A high-school buddy talked me into going to a Goldwater rally in L.A.
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 09:03 PM
Nov 2018

And holy shit, what an eye-opener. On the bus ride into downtown L.A.’s Sports Arena, a rabidly right-wing Cuban couple bent my ears about how JFK’s assassination was actually good for the country. (As I’m only 15, I listen politely; today, I’d rage.)

Once inside, up in the nosebleed seats, there was an idiot waving a “Wallace for Attorney General!” sign, and a lone elderly African American gentleman who had tears running down his cheeks, and they weren’t from joy. Outside, there were a number of black kids carrying professionally made signage touting “Afro-Americans for Goldwater.” (They weren’t really into it, you could tell they were paid to hold the signs for news cameras.)

I was never so relieved to get home. The whole thing was like a Fellini movie, but without the art. Southern California was actually somewhat conservative back then (the L.A. Times endorsed Republicans for decades), but what I experienced wasn’t decent or respectable in the slightest.

In a way, my conservative high-school buddy did me a tremendous favor by asking me to accompany him to that rally. I saw/heard so many hard-core racists and vengeful kooks that, with a minimum of reflection, I knew with 100% certainty that I would NEVER be a Republican, and could never, ever trust a Republican. Enduring Reagan as governor only hardened my resolve: not only were Republicans pro-war, they were anti-youth to boot, and they didn’t hesitate to bring the military and law enforcement into the mix to shed some blood.

Liberal Democrat for LIFE.

Demovictory9

(32,661 posts)
111. decades ago. conservatives claim to want smaller gov, gov out our lives unless it suits them
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 09:07 PM
Nov 2018

they like laws that control women for example

lpbk2713

(42,861 posts)
115. Runny RayGun and the PATCO strikers.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 01:08 AM
Nov 2018


That was when I had my doubts about most righties. There was no further doubt after Newt Gingrich became Speaker. That was when they threw all ethics out the window.

murielm99

(30,907 posts)
116. I grew up knowing that.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 04:13 AM
Nov 2018

My dad was union, a railroad telegrapher. He grew up on a Minnesota farm. Nearly all the farmers in Minnesota are Democrats.

We worked for local, state and federal candidates. I started helping my dad put bags of literature on doorknobs when I was about eight years old. The first election I remember was Stevenson/Eisenhower.

We had one repubbie in the family, but he was a rich guy who married into the family. He was actually very nice and a lot of fun. He and my dad used to get into shouting matches. They forgave each other, always. But I listened to both men, and learned very early.

DFW

(54,944 posts)
122. Summer of 1968
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 01:31 PM
Nov 2018

I sometimes used to help my dad in his office in the National Press Building in Washington, and he used to get the weekly newsletter (it was called "Monday&quot of the Republican National Committee sent to him. They sent it routinely to every office in the National Press Building. I couldn't believe the evil, mean-spirited tone of that party's rhetoric, and Nixon hadn't even been elected yet, although I despised him already. Goldwater had already started using the term "conservative," and the perversion of the word was in full swing four years later. It got progressively worse, until the word as defined in the dictionary had nothing to do with how it was being used by the Republican Party.

After I had moved back to the States from Spain, I noticed that Nixon's VP, Spiro Agnew had arranged to make a state visit to Spain on July 18th. Franco was still in power, and July 18th, 1936 was the start of the Fascist uprising that became the brutal Spanish Civil War. I had the occasion to ask Jim Buckley, the Senator from New York of the Conservative Party (he was William Buckley's brother, this is no joke) if he didn't consider this as going just a bit too far. No, he replied pleasantly, he thought it was just fine. That cemented it for me. He might as well have celebrated January 30th with some neo-nazis in Berlin.

The word "conservative," when used to describe a member of the Republican Party, meant nothing other than "Fascist sympathizer" as far as I was concerned. The meaning of the word "conservative" in English was relegated to linguistics students and investment strategists. Republicanese had perverted it for its own purposes, and given it another meaning entirely.

Wolf Frankula

(3,618 posts)
123. When I heard North Dakota farmers
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 02:13 PM
Nov 2018

Whine about all the coloreds in the big, evil cities living large on welfare off their tax money, and whining that their subsidies were so small they had to spend the winter in the United States and couldn't go to Bermuda or the Bahamas.

Wolf

MineralMan

(146,439 posts)
124. During the Goldwater campaign.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 04:05 PM
Nov 2018

I started learning about the John Birch Society and have been keeping an eye on conservatives ever since.

LeftInTX

(26,337 posts)
125. 1980
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 04:09 PM
Nov 2018

When Reagan was elected, I said to my roommate, "Maybe he won't be that bad". (I was thinking he was gonna be more like Nixon than anything)

He was that bad.

(I didn't vote for him, but I really pictured a Nixon neocon type)

Downtown Hound

(12,618 posts)
129. My dad was a lifelong Republican who flipped his shit when Clinton won
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 04:32 PM
Nov 2018

in '92. I was 16.

He started listening to Lush Limpballs and other conservative whack jobs. He kept telling me everyday that Clinton was going to explode the deficit, destroy the economy, get us into wars, and ruin America. Over the next eight years as I grew from a teenager into a young man, I watched as our deficits turned into surpluses, our economy soared, our international prestige was second to none, and our country blossomed.

Then Dubya stole the 2000 election and everything my dad said would happen under Clinton happened under him. Go figure. That was not lost on me.

Glamrock

(11,808 posts)
131. 9/12/01
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 05:15 PM
Nov 2018

"They hate us for our freedom!"

Oh, okay. People are going to commit suicide because they hate how someone else lives half a globe away.

love_katz

(2,613 posts)
133. No later than 1968.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 07:04 PM
Nov 2018

Like a lot of commenters further up the board, my eyes were opened in the 1960's. The campaign of Goldwater made it clear how hateful and mean the Republicans were. The racist hatred expressed during the Civil rights movement clearly exposed the blatant nastiness and hypocrisy of many social conservatives. The assassinations of Bobby Kennedy and Dr. Martin Luther King, Vietnam and Watergate, Tricky Dick Nixon, etc., as nauseam. I figured it out a long time ago. I quit watching television in 1980, when Raygun was 'elected'. I knew exactly what would be trickling down on the heads of the majority of us. I never did fall for that garbage. Their hypocrisy and breathtaking cruelty have always seemed glaringly obvious to me. Am really keeping my fingers crossed for Tuesday.

joshcryer

(62,297 posts)
136. Baptist church as a kid.
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 01:50 AM
Nov 2018

When the preacher bought pizza for his kids and a few other of the deacons kids and they took money from the offering plate* to do it. We went to that church for an entire year before we were "well known" enough to be able to participate in these after church activities.

Told my dad about it and he wasn't surprised, and he sat down with me and told me that two ways to become rich were to become a preacher or a politician. He wasn't wrong.

What struck with me was the ongoing interaction with those kids. See, we were very poor, but we were home-schooled, well dressed, well kept with our hair, and very well mannered, so we presented ourselves almost as intellectuals because we could speak clearly, if a bit shy, we could convey thoughts well enough. My dad effectively hid the fact that we were on foodstamps, he was on SSI, etc. He was "retired." My mom was our teacher.

They treated us so well but they talked down about poor people, about people who needed help, etc. Because people would come to the church and ask for assistance. My dad, poor as can be, would get calls from the preacher to help certain people out. We would gladly provide labor, or assistance that wasn't monetary, like an old lady on disability needed her garage cleaned out and he sent us all down there and we cleaned it for her.

But my dads car blew up and he was pretty sick his later life and when he went to the church to ask for assistance to get a new car they effectively shunned him. Everyone's attitudes changed toward us. It was a real eye opener. Everyone is two faced, everyone pretends to respect you if they think they know you, but if your status isn't high, you're pretty much on your own. They'll use you, they'll exploit you, and then in the end they'll toss you aside, as if you are nothing. It's really tragic.

*the money wasn't literally in the offering plate, but I'd seen them place offering money in little blue pouches with gold lettering on it before, and at that particular event they had one of those pouches, so that's where the money came from.

Meowmee

(5,164 posts)
138. My family were/ are dems
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 06:29 AM
Nov 2018

And always have been. We came here when I was six or so. I have a holocaust background and my grandfather in Canada fought to start labour unions there, he was a communist. Nixon was my first real understanding of all of it, he was so creepy, lol. R’s and conservatism have always seemed,nasty and creepy to me for the most part and none of their craziness has been anything that ever aligned with anything I believe or could tolerate. R Conservatism always seemed to align itself with fascism in many aspects, flag worship, wars, law and order, oppression and so on.

Jamaal510

(10,893 posts)
139. When I was a teen
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 07:14 AM
Nov 2018

during the Bush II years, I heard my parents complain about him and the GOP every day, and I remember the news reports about how unpopular agenda was. I quickly figured out what time it was.

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