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Marieli Miniutti, born in the former Soviet republic of Estonia, is the person who accused Michael Avenatti of physically assaulting her.
https://www.newsweek.com/who-mareli-miniutti-actor-files-restraining-order-against-michael-avenatti-1223846
Freethinker65
(10,017 posts)Stinky The Clown
(67,798 posts)malaise
(268,968 posts)Just saying
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)Amazing that they were able to predict months in advance that he'd be representing Stormy Daniels. That is some sophisticated spycraft there.
Codeine
(25,586 posts)played out over years is somehow more believable than garden-variety domestic violence.
Dorian Gray
(13,493 posts)Before her name and accusation surfaced. I thought it could potentially possibly maybe be a Wohl thing. But with a name and a restraining order and an actual accuser, it's not looking great for him.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)The argument was about him not keeping up on payments for her, uh, upkeep.
If hes got some jingle left in the piggy bank, this will get sorted promptly.
Dorian Gray
(13,493 posts)of his character.
Cattledog
(5,914 posts)Brother Buzz
(36,423 posts)Any Estonian on the street will tell you they were occupied by the USSR, but NEVER part of Russia. They despised the Fat Pig Russian bureaucrats that were appointed to subjugate them.
Tommy_Carcetti
(43,181 posts)Many residents of former Soviet republics will emphatically and rightfully reject the label of "Russian" as such a claim pretty much denies their own culture and history.
The fact that this woman is Estonian is neither here nor there as it relates to anything Russia.
JonLP24
(29,322 posts)Wouldnt they still consider themselves citizens of Estonia but also Russian identity ?
Tommy_Carcetti
(43,181 posts)The former Soviet Union is a very complicated morass in terms of ethnicity, culture and history.
tavernier
(12,383 posts)as the Russians occupied all the Baltic nations after the war, and many children of Russian soldiers families were born and raised in one of the Baltic nations. The intention was to obliviate the history and language of Estonia, Latvia and Lithuania.
Being Latvian, I can instantly detect by the last name whether the person is Latvian or Russian, but I dont speak Estonian. My guess would be though, that hers is an Estonian name.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)so that's probably not relevant.
Celerity
(43,339 posts)people you will ever meet. The Russians killed thousands during their occupation of the country. Estonians, ethnically and language wise are very similar to Finns.
TruckFump
(5,812 posts)Link contains snips of her DVRO application:
[link:https://theblast.com/michael-avenatti-mariel-miniutti-restraining-order-details/|
I am wondering who her atty is -- that most certainly was not done by a pro per petitioner.
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jberryhill
(62,444 posts)i.e. her entire life.
JonLP24
(29,322 posts)I'm surprised to see someone using their head on this topic.
Kaleva
(36,298 posts)Every article I've been able to find about her she's in her twenties and was born in Estonia.
muriel_volestrangler
(101,311 posts)oberliner
(58,724 posts)Mareli Miniutti also claimed that Avenatti hit her in the face with pillows while he berated her and ranted about how she had disrespected him.
The 24-year-old actress was granted a temporary restraining order, pending a court hearing on December 10, against Avenatti, 47, on Monday. Avenatti was arrested on domestic violence charges related to the alleged incident last week.
https://www.thedailybeast.com/avenattis-ex-girlfriend-mareli-miniutti-he-violently-dragged-me-out-of-bed-called-me-a-fcking-btch
davsand
(13,421 posts)I'm having problems with this one. An abusive pillow fight?
I dunno. Sounds off to me.
Laura
oberliner
(58,724 posts)Miniutti says the night of 11/13, she and Avenatti argued about money, he began to berate her and call her names, then began to forcefully hit her in the face with pillows and said to the effect, "Do not disrespect me," upon which he tried to drag her from the bed by her wrists.
At one point, Miniutti says she "screamed for help towards the nearby window." She claims @MichaelAvenatti dragged her on the floor of the apartment and out the door into the public hallway; wearing only her t-shirt and underwear, she rang a neighbors doorbell for help.
According to her declaration, Miniutti says @michaelavenatti dragged her back into the apartment. Eventually, she says she was able to escape to the service elevator. The two rode the elevator down to ground floor when she says Avenatti begged "don't do this, don't involve them."
The complaining witness says this isn't the first time @MichaelAvenatti was physically violent with her. She cites another time in February 2018. She ends her declaration: "I continue to be afraid of Respondent and do not want him to contact me."
https://twitter.com/KaitlynFolmer
aikoaiko
(34,169 posts)Pillows leave no marks, but you can still transfer quite a bit of energy to internal organs.
Kaleva
(36,298 posts)Codeine
(25,586 posts)and dumped her in the hallway.
Not sure why everyone is so desperate to minimize physical abuse.
Drahthaardogs
(6,843 posts)And now it's a pillow fight.
You know when you interrogate a witness and their story changes you start to worry.
Kaleva
(36,298 posts)"You know when you interrogate a witness and their story changes you start to worry."
Until today, we never knew her story.
What can one say about the folks who jumped on the earlier, unsubtatiated repoets in the media but "God Bless 'Em!".
Yosemito
(648 posts)And TMZ gets sued.
Kaleva
(36,298 posts)That's why Avenantti was arrested for felony (and not misdemenor) domestic violence.
"Finally, most domestic violence criminal charges are considered to be misdemeanors, unless they involve serious injury or violence. However, in most states, a third domestic violence misdemeanor charge will often be counted as a felony due to the previous offenses."
https://www.legalmatch.com/law-library/article/felony-domestic-violence.html
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)And the rash wasn't on her face, as the initial report claimed.
So I think it's way too early to do anything but give Avenatti the benefit of the doubt.
Kaleva
(36,298 posts)"But Avenatti says what she had was a rash"
The LAPD said the victim showed signs of physical injures. They didn't say where the injuries were located nor did they say anything about a rash. I'm sure the LAPD knows the differance between a rash and physcial injures.
The alleged victim took pictures of the alleged injuries on her left side and leg and attached the photos as exhibits to her court filing requesting a temporary restraining order against Avenattii which was reviewed by a judge and granted.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)that people automatically believe everything that we hear now.
First it was the ex-wife Lisa. Then it was the other ex-wife. Now it's a 24 year old from Estonia. First it was facial injuries. Now it's scratches on the woman's side.
Forget it. I won't believe anything unless and until there's a trial. This is why we have "innocent till proven guilty."
spin
(17,493 posts)straight. It seems getting the story out as quickly as possible is the top priority.
hedda_foil
(16,373 posts)The actress claimed the famous lawyer then grabbed her right wrist: [He] attempted to pull me out of the bed, which caused pain to my arm and wrist. While attempting to pull me out of the bed, [he] slipped and lost his grip on me.
Miniutti said she began to text a friend on her cell phone but Avenatti allegedly yelled at her, grabbed the phone and screamed this is my phone! before putting it in his pocket.
She added: At all times, he remained very close to me such that I was afraid for my safety. I screamed for help towards the nearby window.
At this point Miniuttidressed in her underwear and a t-shirtclaims Avenatti grabbed her right arm and dragged her out of bed, along the floor of the apartment and out into the public hallway.
There's a lot of detail here, so it may well be true, but the dragging her out of bed part is just SO ripped from the Keith Ellison headlines.
displacedtexan
(15,696 posts)Any dating scenario that involves arguing over money seems pretty much doomed.
lostnfound
(16,177 posts)brush
(53,776 posts)Kaleva
(36,298 posts)Every article I read about her says she is from Estonia and in her twenties making it most likely she was born in the Republic of Estonia.
leftyladyfrommo
(18,868 posts)do to squash an enemy. Just the kind of scenario they would come up with to destroy someone.
Polybius
(15,398 posts)Did Republicans set up the date with him, and then deep into the relationship she waits for the perfect time to say he beat her?
Wash. state Desk Jet
(3,426 posts)seems to reflect somewhat on Chris Christie in a burst of anger throwing a bottle of bottled water at Bridget Ann Kelly because he thought she disrespected him. The George Washington Bridge-gate . The thing Christie never recovered from. What is 10 times harder than the discomfort the Avenaitti/ Daniels situation created for Trump or that which Trump created for himself. Are they sure Avenaitti will never recover ?
Will Miniutti get much television time with fox and friends/cnn/MSNBC/the BBC and Russia too ?
Will they pay her ?
Will they make a movie of her ? Big rising star.
Or will she fly off to Estonia when the going gets rough than ask who will pay for her return to finish it out and all expenses plus her time.
The timing on this invites suspicion and the time line even more. The real qusetion is, who wants the gain the most ? Does the number 10 factor in ?
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greyl
(22,990 posts)Shit headline.
SoCalDem
(103,856 posts)I know he's an attractive man, but once again, "the little man in the pants" has apparently gotten another man in "trouble"..
Is Avenatti's middle name Icarus?
Charlotte Little
(658 posts)Why the hell is a nearly 48 year old man with a 24 year old woman?
Yes, I know it's been done since the dawn of time. But that doesn't make it any less gross and creepy. Like along the same lines of creepy as Trump and Melanoma.
I was already not a fan of Avenatti and I don't know who's telling the truth. But he should keep his dick out of 20-somethings and focus on paying his bills.
Yosemito
(648 posts)Do you want the statutory age to be raised to 24?
She liked Avenatti. Is she creepy?
Kaleva
(36,298 posts)Failed businesses, multiple marriages, apparent infidelity, has a die hard fan base, unfit to be president, loves to Tweet.
Dorian Gray
(13,493 posts)she's creepy for dating a creep that dates a woman 24 years his junior.
Charlotte Little
(658 posts)When I was 27, I was banging a 37 year old. He had a lot of money and could buy me nice dinners and he drove a nice car. Thank god, I matured within a year and got out of that relationship. I was hot young thing to him and nothing more.
I was just as creepy as he was. And this chick is just as creepy as Avenatti is. JMHO.
John Fante
(3,479 posts)Nothing to see folks. Move along.
Charlotte Little
(658 posts)is now projection?
I guess I should only form opinions based on nothing. Interesting.
OnDoutside
(19,956 posts)36 year old nephew is dating a 24 year old, and he's a fantastic guy. There are a lot of shits in this world, there are plenty of decent people out there who just haven't met the right person.
TexasBushwhacker
(20,185 posts)Because when it comes to their dicks, MEN ARE STUPID!
IluvPitties
(3,181 posts)in his late 20s had a bad crush with a female colleague who was in her 40s at the time. For different reasons, things could not go beyond what I think was mutual attraction. At the same time, I met another female colleague in her late 50s who was dating a 28 yr old guy at the time. Almost 10 years have passed, and they are still together.
Two consenting adults can make beatiful things happen, regardless of age.
my 28 yr old son is married to a woman who's 44. i wasn't too pleased, but it's not my life. no grandchildren will be forthcoming from that union, but i'm not at all concerned, as he's not even close to being ready for fatherhood. she already has two children.
they've lasted over 2 years now, which is longer than I expected.
Charlotte Little
(658 posts)Women and men go for younger partners. But in most cases, IMO, it is a recipe for sexual reasons, to have control over another person, and ultimately someone ditching the other. With that said, I don't think it is controversial that I'm giving this opinion anymore than it is that your son is married to a woman old enough to have given birth to him at age 16. I hope he and she are happy.
But it still isn't ideal for obvious reasons.
Marrah_Goodman
(1,586 posts)We've been together 15 years and are very compatible. My daughter is 28 and is with a man who is 3 years younger then I. They have been together 5-6 years and are very happy together.
It all depends on the people involved.
I generally think if it is a wealthy old person and a broke younger person it is more likely not to work.
Charlotte Little
(658 posts)I wasn't speaking for every instance of this but didn't make sure to painstakingly clarify before giving my opinion. I live in Los Angeles. It is very common for young, hot women to date older rich men. My opinion is that it is creepy. I've experienced it myself at a time when I had low self esteem and enjoyed being treated like a side piece.
I don't know Avenatti, certainly, and I'll admit I'm not a fan. He's twice divorced and canoodling with 20 somethings. Creepy.
And with that...
demmiblue
(36,845 posts)TeamPooka
(24,223 posts)like older men, especially if they are on TV or in the movies and think they are a gateway to money and or fame.
There's a lot of both so plenty for everyone.
Codeine
(25,586 posts)Nobodys fucking business what age people are as long as theyre legal and capable of consent.
Jeezus, this place is bending over backwards to excuse physical violence on one hand while jumping all over the guy for having a girlfriend younger than him. Weird.
Charlotte Little
(658 posts)So, you can sit your ass down.
Sorry you don't like my opinion, but thinking he is too old to be hitting 24 year-olds is not an outlandish opinion. And I never said, nor do I think, that she deserves to be treated violently. I'm simply making an observation.
Ferrets are Cool
(21,106 posts)It's nobody's fucking business what age they are. Sheesh, as long as they are adults. It's as bad as a damn man trying to tell a woman what to do with her body.
mr_lebowski
(33,643 posts)There is a very firm and logical biological basis for this sort of relationship, whether we like admitting it or not. It's in our blood, our genetic heritage. That's 'why it's gone on for ages' ... many humans are wired this way.
Sorry it's so creepy to you.
Dorian Gray
(13,493 posts)that's the same argument that people give for being attracted to underage girls who aren't able to consent. The biological basis of the attraction.
If Avenatti and this woman had a healthy consensual relationship, then nobody would give a shit.
But she's either a liar or he's an abuser. So there is nothing healthy about THIS relationship, and his "genetic heritage" led him to her? Forgive me for not finding that normal or healthy.
mr_lebowski
(33,643 posts)I have a very coldly scientific view on this particular subject, and because of that ... let's just say ... what ends up being perceived as 'my attitude about it' ... tends to 'rub women the wrong way'. Given that women do constitute a large % of the population here on DU, the vast majority of which I quite like and respect I might add ... and given that this conversation is public ... I'll respectfully bow out at this juncture.
But I just want to point out ... there's a difference between saying 'this is the scientific explanation for (initial something)' ... and 'therefore that scientific explanation provides a perfectly valid excuse in all cases of (anything similar to the initial something)'.
Tarc
(10,476 posts)Charlotte Little
(658 posts)And I laugh. If you knew me, you'd know I'm anything but a prude.
Tarc
(10,476 posts)Polybius
(15,398 posts)Why would a 24 year old date a 48 year old? Why wouldn't he? I'm a few years younger than him and I'm seeing a 28 year old. Not quite the same age difference but it's still 15 years. Not sure what she sees in me. She looks like Aaliyah.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)(to other people)
BlueStater
(7,596 posts)LovingA2andMI
(7,006 posts)However, its not looking all that well, so far. Avenatti needs to come with more proof against her claim and pointing to articles on the "Hill Reporter" ain't it.
liberal N proud
(60,334 posts)Nope, not at all.
Russian! Who would have expected that?
dameatball
(7,397 posts)If you have ever been to any kind of racing or competitive sports in general.....sailing, powerboat, Grand Prix, Nascar, NBA, whatever,
there are often age differences between those involved, their fans and their significant others. That does not mean she is a gold digger or whatever. Does not mean he is an abuser either. We do not know that. This has nothing to do with whether an assault took place. Maybe it did and maybe it didn't. Let the chips fall.
If he is found guilty, so be it. Right now I have no idea. Most of us do not really know anything other than what we read on the internet.
I like Avenatti as a thorn in the side of the (lower case) president. Glad to have him. If he turns out to be something other than what he says he is....glad to see him leave.
We have bigger fish to fry.
Ponietz
(2,966 posts)the hallway footage, if it exists, would condemn or exonerate Avenatti. A video camara in every hallway? Hotels, yes, but apartments? I dont know. But there may be video of the parking lot, entrance and exit, that would show the alleged victims appearance and demeanor.
Once he was successful in pulling her out of bed, he dragged her through the apartment and into the hallway, she said. But he pulled Miniutti back inside when she started ringing a neighbors doorbell.
The actress said she was wearing underwear and a T-shirt during the altercation and was scratched in the process. Photos she submitted with her request show red marks on her skin.
Once she pulled on pants and got out of the apartment, Miniutti wrote that Avenatti followed her, saying, Dont do this ... dont involve them.
[link:https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/michael-avenatti-accuser-says-he-dragged-her-left-her-marks-n938656|
Wash. state Desk Jet
(3,426 posts)Trump smirks at mention of Stormy Daniels lawyer Michael Avenatti's domestic violence arrest following live-in lover's claim he dragged her across the floor and snarks to reporters: 'I wish him the best of luck!
jcmaine72
(1,773 posts)LenaBaby61
(6,974 posts)Yeah, I'm gonna WAIT and see what happens with this Avenatti situation.
TOO many people are plotting and trying to turn this country into the USSA. Too many people with nefarious intentions trying destroy it: tRump & putin, thuglicans and right-wingers. Few folks saw this coming, but Malcolm Nance did even before he wrote his book in 2016. Funny how you don't really see right-wingers taken to the wood-shed for domestic abuse via the corporate media. Look at Mormon asshole Rob Porter who was ALLOWED to stay in the White House longer than he should have after using his ex-wives as Everlast punching bags. That other old asshole I mean, how did he pass a security check? I guess everybody in tRumputin's big, crooked, ruskie-inspired orange house don't have to really worry about passing any type of background or security check or anything like that because the corporate media's too busy worried about Hillary's emails, or about Nancy Pelosi, or about how what happened was not a blue wave mid-term election when we know it was
Like I said, I'm gonna WAIT and see what happens with this Avenatti situation
Member this alleged ruskie "honey-pot" who was more than likely helping to funnel money and especially influence via the NRA and men associated with it in this country?
HAB911
(8,890 posts)until we find out what the hell is going on!
MineralMan
(146,288 posts)Not a good angle for a photograph, really.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)MineralMan
(146,288 posts)John Fante
(3,479 posts)This woman has no connection to Russia in any way (she's Estonian), and Avanetti willingly dated her. Implying that she's a GOP plant is disrespectful given the gravity of the alleged crimes. This isn't fucking James Bond.
I'll admit that Jacob Wohl threw a lot of people off, but he's fast becoming the ISIS of snot-nosed right-wing dipshits - wanting to take credit for things he had nothing to do with. He's inconsequential to this story.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)There is zero evidence that she is a "Russian plant" or anything of that nature, and I also agree with your other conclusions.