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Skidmore

(37,364 posts)
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 06:21 AM Aug 2012

Akin's apology should be publicly and stridently rejected.

R/R are recoiling because his words are politically toxic. Those words are more than that--they are part of a lore which ensures women inferior treatment socially, sexually, medically, and denies them control over their own bodies. Any acknowledgement of the apology as being acceptable gives permission for these mysogynists to pursue policies detrimental to women. So many times these public figures mouth apologies which are hollow knots of words. This is one of those cases. There is no way that this man has changed his beliefs or his intent when it comes to women's issues. Akin needs to suffer some very real political consequences and they should begin with a loud denunciation of his words followed by a rejection of his apology. By extension, Ryan needs to be soundly denounced by women and men for his involvement with the legislative initiative everywhere he goes. The apology, including Ryan's statement following Akin's remarks, have the same value of the apologies of an abusive spouse. Why should women be mollified by either to suffer more abuse in the future?

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Akin's apology should be publicly and stridently rejected. (Original Post) Skidmore Aug 2012 OP
...and Akin should be tied to Paul Ryan... CoffeeCat Aug 2012 #1
Link to how Ryan & Akin are tied at the hip on their bill redefining what constitutes rape 66 dmhlt Aug 2012 #11
Ryan and Akin together (picture hides Akin's knife in Ryan's back) Bernardo de La Paz Aug 2012 #26
Yes. But it's critical to remind everyone that this IS where DirkGently Aug 2012 #27
Please stop giving us Paleoliths a bad name! This message coalition_unwilling Aug 2012 #48
Ugg! Dirk alunga bobo! DirkGently Aug 2012 #52
Entire campaign should be buld around this RETHUG US Senate candidaate and the RETHUG war on Women hlthe2b Aug 2012 #2
I'm not sure how interested voters are in Akin nationwide, but Dems should use this to win Missouri. reformist2 Aug 2012 #5
You miss the point-the fact is this is the RNC's SENATE candidate AND Paul Ryan & others in Congress hlthe2b Aug 2012 #15
I think you are on the money here. Print ads that just say AkinRyan over and over will byeya Aug 2012 #20
Oh it definitely will help. RC Aug 2012 #25
Yes, and we must do our part--ONLINE CoffeeCat Aug 2012 #38
"Chain these two together" panader0 Aug 2012 #43
+1, if a vid can be made with them using the same language then you're right ... uponit7771 Aug 2012 #31
Akin's remarks, my friend, are what is known as a potential "Party Killer". Could coalition_unwilling Aug 2012 #49
DID he apologize, or did he say he "misspoke" or "was misunderstood" or "chose the wrong words"? DCKit Aug 2012 #3
He said he "misspoke", and was "sorry if anyone was offended."... lastlib Aug 2012 #8
And he should be removed from the House Science and Technology Committee Ms. Toad Aug 2012 #4
He ought to be removed from Congress, period. nt TBF Aug 2012 #21
I don't disagree - but that is a much longer process Ms. Toad Aug 2012 #50
-oops...I 'misspoke'. Philosoraptor Aug 2012 #6
He didn't apologize. Kalidurga Aug 2012 #7
He gave what has passed for an apology in the media. A cookie cutter Skidmore Aug 2012 #10
+1...and they repeat it ad nauseum as an apology which is stupid. uponit7771 Aug 2012 #32
And he has no explanation treestar Aug 2012 #46
It's hard to believe someone has the gall to speak publicly like that lunatica Aug 2012 #9
Believe it or not that bull crap he spewed was taught Heather MC Aug 2012 #12
And will believe it for decades more. Ignorance is godliness. Skidmore Aug 2012 #14
That's the scary part. Daemonaquila Aug 2012 #34
The weird thing is at his age he has never ever accidently stumbled upon a fact that dispproved that Heather MC Aug 2012 #44
More than 40% of women voters will vote republican. Warren Stupidity Aug 2012 #16
Unfortunately, there are women who will dynasaw Aug 2012 #35
And how many women will vote for him, even now, because he is against abortion? RC Aug 2012 #42
Exactly DonCoquixote Aug 2012 #13
Certain actions don't deserve the acceptance of an apology. no_hypocrisy Aug 2012 #17
Just minutes ago on Bill Press... marew Aug 2012 #18
Rape is fine as long as it's a legitimate republican rapist Philosoraptor Aug 2012 #19
Most appalling is that such a person can rise to such a level in our political system. TahitiNut Aug 2012 #22
i rec'd your post barbtries Aug 2012 #23
Did he apologize for being ignorant or for reigniting the "war on women?" Vinca Aug 2012 #24
He'll Double Down... KharmaTrain Aug 2012 #28
What apology? All I've seen is Akin saying he "misspoke". That is not an apology, it's an excuse. Arkansas Granny Aug 2012 #29
Nah, apology accepted... Daemonaquila Aug 2012 #30
This idiot truly represents the GOP!!! SmittynMo Aug 2012 #33
K&R. The Democrats need to be make Akin's words a centerpiece of this election. yardwork Aug 2012 #36
I don't think he should apologize at all.. he stated his belief, LeftinOH Aug 2012 #37
Yeah, I never understand what people get out of a forced apology. lightcameron Aug 2012 #39
I just got off an email thread SmittynMo Aug 2012 #40
Is Akin really the worst? genxlib Aug 2012 #41
rape rape, forceful, honest rape, legitimate rape. especially cause we hear it so many ways seabeyond Aug 2012 #45
Akin is not 'sorry' in any meaningful sense of the term. To quote a long-lost coalition_unwilling Aug 2012 #47
Even semi-conscious can get this. That mean even Republicans are going to scratch their heads. Gregorian Aug 2012 #51
You can't apologize for this by saying you "misspoke." DirkGently Aug 2012 #53

CoffeeCat

(24,411 posts)
1. ...and Akin should be tied to Paul Ryan...
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 06:40 AM
Aug 2012

...because Akin and Ryan co-sponsored HR 3. They actually sat down together and wrote legislation that narrowed the definition of rape!

They came up with a new term "forcible rape." Why did they do this? Paul Ryan and Mr. Akin didn't like it that Medicaid funds abortions for women who are raped. So, they decided to sponsor legislation that stipulated that the woman must have been "forcibly raped" to receive Medicaid funds to pay for the abortion.

In effect, if a woman was raped, but there was no overt violence--or she lacked bruises or broken bones--then she would have a difficult time proving that she was "forcibly raped", denied Medicaid benefits to pay for the abortion and she'd be sent on her way to carry this pregnancy to full term.

So, women who were raped with a date rape drug--so sorry. Your rape wasn't "forcible" enough. Women who were drunk and taken advantage of? Ooops, you must have asked for it. A thirteen year old girl who is repeatedly raped by her father and traumatized into submission? Too bad, you were too traumatized to fight back, and you lose.

People, THIS IS SICK!!

Paul Ryan was NEVER held to account for attempting to redefine what rape is. He was never forced to explain the difference between rape and his new term "forcible rape."

This bastard has a lot of explaining to do--and because the scientifically illiterate Akin stepped in it--we may just get that explanation that we deserve.

DirkGently

(12,151 posts)
27. Yes. But it's critical to remind everyone that this IS where
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 08:27 AM
Aug 2012

Republican / conservative POLICY on women's issues is coming from. In the Bible, a woman who doesn't scream loud enough when raped is to be executed for adultery.

None of this has ever been about conservatives' love of zygotes or the "sanctity of life" or any of that.

They want women punished and shamed for sex not authorized by a husband. They're concerned that claims of rape are too easy an excuse for a woman to escape punishment. Rape itself is really, in their minds, an insult to a woman's husband more than to her -- after all, it's his property being violated, the legitimacy of his heirs being brought in to question. This is why any interference with pregnancy cannot be tolerated.

This is the entire, insane abortion / contraception "controversy" in a nutshell. It's not that this one person is especially extreme. He's simply following the rationale that's been released from its Paleolithic dungeon, and which conservative leaders are again making the law of the land.
 

coalition_unwilling

(14,180 posts)
48. Please stop giving us Paleoliths a bad name! This message
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 10:48 AM
Aug 2012

courtesy of the PDL (Paleolithic Defense League).



On a serious note, I wish you would consider expanding on these remarks and fashioning an OP out of them. It's very spot-on analysis, imo, some of the best I've seen on DU so far.

DirkGently

(12,151 posts)
52. Ugg! Dirk alunga bobo!
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 07:43 PM
Aug 2012

(thanks)

I think this whole thing is so repellant that no one knows where to begin. Anti-abortion sentiment has passed as religion or moral objection for so long and has grown and become so much more poisonous and violent and insane without that it is finally coming to its full, grotesque bloom.

It's so bad it's difficult to even talk about it. The whole conservative movement is hateful game of Whack-a-Mole. We elect a black President, and they attack gay marriage. We end DADT and we get forced ultrasounds and increasingly vile language about aspirin between the knees and "legitimate rape." It's as though we have a fixed mass of brutality than we can only shift from one group to another.

I get so angry about this that I don't know where to begin. It should not be possible for us to be anywhere near this kind of bad

hlthe2b

(102,227 posts)
2. Entire campaign should be buld around this RETHUG US Senate candidaate and the RETHUG war on Women
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 06:40 AM
Aug 2012

Absolutely tie him, his rhetoric and attitudes to anti-women RETHUG efforts nationwide. Hang it around their friggin necks.

reformist2

(9,841 posts)
5. I'm not sure how interested voters are in Akin nationwide, but Dems should use this to win Missouri.
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 06:54 AM
Aug 2012

hlthe2b

(102,227 posts)
15. You miss the point-the fact is this is the RNC's SENATE candidate AND Paul Ryan & others in Congress
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 07:28 AM
Aug 2012

have tried to redefine rape in a manner not all that dissimilar to this Akins guy ties the entire National ticket to it. Akins is only the tool (and he surely IS a tool)

 

byeya

(2,842 posts)
20. I think you are on the money here. Print ads that just say AkinRyan over and over will
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 08:09 AM
Aug 2012

help the message sink in. Maybe it'll help the MO Senator trying to retain her seat.
The above worked for Jesse Helms in the 1970s.

 

RC

(25,592 posts)
25. Oh it definitely will help.
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 08:23 AM
Aug 2012

Chain these two together and anyone else who tries to defend them. Make them poison within their own party.

CoffeeCat

(24,411 posts)
38. Yes, and we must do our part--ONLINE
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 09:10 AM
Aug 2012

Please everyone--post the articles (that link Ryan/Akin and their co-sponsored "forcible rape" legislation). Post to
Twitter, and pull up articles (CNN and other national outlets) and post this information in the comments sections.

Also, write media outlets and ask them why they are not covering the fact that Paul Ryan and Akin co-authored legislation that redefined rape and narrowed the definition to a new term "forcible rape."

Damn the media! They're not covering this!

We must do the groundwork, I guess.

panader0

(25,816 posts)
43. "Chain these two together"
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 09:50 AM
Aug 2012

Speaking of chains, Akins idiotic comment has completely overshadowed Biden's misunderstood "gaffe".
I put "gaffe' in parentheses because it was true.

 

coalition_unwilling

(14,180 posts)
49. Akin's remarks, my friend, are what is known as a potential "Party Killer". Could
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 10:51 AM
Aug 2012

spell the death of the Republican Party as you and I know it.

In my short lifetime, I've seen man walk on the moon and the fall of the Iron Curtain. I would love to see the death of the Republican Party in that same lifetime. That would truly be a thing of beauty.

 

DCKit

(18,541 posts)
3. DID he apologize, or did he say he "misspoke" or "was misunderstood" or "chose the wrong words"?
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 06:48 AM
Aug 2012

AFAIC, he said exactly what he meant to say and he believes it to his rotten core.

And he's all tied up with Paul Ryan.

lastlib

(23,216 posts)
8. He said he "misspoke", and was "sorry if anyone was offended."...
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 07:05 AM
Aug 2012

...meaning he wasn't a bit sorry to anyone he didn't offend.

We need to make this clown the third guy on the R ticket. Romney/Ryan/Akin...

Ms. Toad

(34,062 posts)
50. I don't disagree - but that is a much longer process
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 12:37 PM
Aug 2012

Much easier - and ample information - to establish he is scientifically illiterate and should have nothing to do with creating this country's science and technology policy.

Philosoraptor

(15,019 posts)
6. -oops...I 'misspoke'.
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 06:59 AM
Aug 2012

what he MEANT to say is that women should just relax and enjoy the rape and quit having non republican children.

Skidmore

(37,364 posts)
10. He gave what has passed for an apology in the media. A cookie cutter
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 07:11 AM
Aug 2012

nonapology apology. Either way, it should be rejected. That means vocal pushback--loud and long. Thinking such as this should not go unanswered.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
46. And he has no explanation
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 10:35 AM
Aug 2012

It's not like what he said was possible to interpret two different ways.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
9. It's hard to believe someone has the gall to speak publicly like that
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 07:11 AM
Aug 2012

What in the world makes them think women will just take this?

 

Heather MC

(8,084 posts)
12. Believe it or not that bull crap he spewed was taught
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 07:17 AM
Aug 2012

in some religious leaning schools in the south. this man has believed this shit for decades I bet!

 

Daemonaquila

(1,712 posts)
34. That's the scary part.
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 08:49 AM
Aug 2012

Half our elected officials are outrageously stupid, ignorant, and proud, and NOBODY is publicly calling them out on it. We're in deep trouble and getting deeper, and will only start turning it around when this kind of lunacy invites unending public scorn and means the end of a political career.

 

Heather MC

(8,084 posts)
44. The weird thing is at his age he has never ever accidently stumbled upon a fact that dispproved that
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 10:31 AM
Aug 2012

"theory" I mean I was raised in a batshit crazy religion but once I was able to think for my self at 9! I realized 99.9% of what I was being taught was utter bullshit. I guess self teaching is bad thing to some people

dynasaw

(998 posts)
35. Unfortunately, there are women who will
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 09:01 AM
Aug 2012

. . .and do among the republican and fundamentalist groups.

 

RC

(25,592 posts)
42. And how many women will vote for him, even now, because he is against abortion?
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 09:49 AM
Aug 2012

When I was still working, there were two women (late 30's) in the office that voted for bu$h twice, because, of 1, Sarah Palin (needed a woman in there), and 2, both bu$h and Palin were "pro-life". Nothing else seem to matter in this decision.

Yeah, sure, ya betcha there Charley.

no_hypocrisy

(46,083 posts)
17. Certain actions don't deserve the acceptance of an apology.
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 07:50 AM
Aug 2012

If you were raped, would you accept an apology from your rapist?

Akin's words were explicit and unapologetic. He can't just claim poor word choice later when he's criticized.

marew

(1,588 posts)
18. Just minutes ago on Bill Press...
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 07:51 AM
Aug 2012

It was pointed out that Akin and Paul Ryan co-sponsored a bill that basically there would be no federal money for abortion if the victim showed no signs of violence from the rape. So if a woman had a gun to her head or a knife to her throat that left no significant marks and she is not covered with defensive wounds or bruises. she's on her own!
Words fail me!!!!

TahitiNut

(71,611 posts)
22. Most appalling is that such a person can rise to such a level in our political system.
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 08:14 AM
Aug 2012

This knuckle-dragger didn't just suddenly appear on the political scene and just happen to get the nomination of the GOP. He's been around long enough and has gained prestige in "GOP circles" over the years while holding such views. He's habituated in regarding such views as not only acceptable, but laudable among the audiences to such verbal diarrhea. The STUPID runs deep in our political system.

barbtries

(28,787 posts)
23. i rec'd your post
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 08:18 AM
Aug 2012

but i seem to be out of the loop. i haven't seen an apology, nor ryan's reaction to the original (unbelievable!) statement.

KharmaTrain

(31,706 posts)
28. He'll Double Down...
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 08:28 AM
Aug 2012

Remember, we have a right wing echo machine that can and does turn black into white and up into down. They'll rally around Akin and use the usual screaming tactic that his words were "taken out of context". They'll also go after my friend Charles Jaco...yes, a lifelong and proud liberal...who did the interview (on a Faux-owned teevee station) as being some "plant" for the Obama campaign. I also expect that the corporate media will go along with these diversions and distortions in their never-ending "all sides do it" game.

Akin will not apologize...and I even expect him to double down in saying that his words were scrambled and how he's such a good xtian and how dare the evil "librul media" and democrats for questioning his morality...

 

Daemonaquila

(1,712 posts)
30. Nah, apology accepted...
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 08:45 AM
Aug 2012

... as long as it's accompanied by a resignation and a pledge to never again run for public office. Otherwise, it ain't a serious apology.

SmittynMo

(3,544 posts)
33. This idiot truly represents the GOP!!!
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 08:48 AM
Aug 2012

There was no apology. I misspoke? Give me a break. Unfortunately, this is the way the GOP views life these days, across the board. And its not just Akin, its the entire party. War on Women, the middle class,,,,. I can go on and on about the far right. It's like they live in a bubble, and no cares about anyone, but themselves. I live in Missouri and I can tell you this idiot will NEVER get a vote from me and many others I know. Where's the humanity and common sense? There is none from the right. Screw them all.

LeftinOH

(5,354 posts)
37. I don't think he should apologize at all.. he stated his belief,
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 09:07 AM
Aug 2012

which is obviously a ridiculous belief he has had for a loooooooong time. Yes, he's an idiot, but let the voters decide.

lightcameron

(224 posts)
39. Yeah, I never understand what people get out of a forced apology.
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 09:21 AM
Aug 2012

There are so many demands for apologies these days. I have no idea why people do that.

If someone is truly sorry, they'll apologize on their own.

If I ever said something and someone demanded an apology (and I wasn't sorry), hell, I'd just say the words. Big deal.

It's like when a parent or teacher scolds a child: "Say you're sorry, and say it like you mean it." In other words, just make it sound good (i.e. "Lie!&quot

Another odd aspect of the Forced Apology Society is that when the person apologies, the demands for firing/resignation follow shortly thereafter.

We're too fucking sensitive in this country. Let the voters/consumers decide who they're going to support/buy from, after something allegedly offensive is said/done.

SmittynMo

(3,544 posts)
40. I just got off an email thread
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 09:29 AM
Aug 2012

with some of my far right "so called" friends/co-workers. They will not change their vote based on this. Of course they blame the MSM for blowing this out of proportion. Then they went directly to the 716M that Obama blew on medicare. Some things never change. I have such a hard time with stupid people.

genxlib

(5,524 posts)
41. Is Akin really the worst?
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 09:43 AM
Aug 2012

Akin has the distinction of being both vile and ignorant but I find the others to be just as bad if not worse.

Say what you want about Akin but at least his twisted little mind has led him to believe that he is not further abusing rape victims because of this magical birth control feature that he made up.

Other pro-lifers don't even care. they know the incidence of pregnancy is the same and yet they still take the opinion that no abortions are allowed. In their mind, the victim is just supposed to suck-it-up and incubate the demon child just because it is part of "God's plan". To me that is a sick and disgusting position to take.

Akin's comments have catapulted this to the headlines but in my opinion, they are all just as vile.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
45. rape rape, forceful, honest rape, legitimate rape. especially cause we hear it so many ways
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 10:33 AM
Aug 2012

he is not the first. it is not a distant belief of some. it is a problem.

 

coalition_unwilling

(14,180 posts)
47. Akin is not 'sorry' in any meaningful sense of the term. To quote a long-lost
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 10:38 AM
Aug 2012

songwriter friend of mine, Akin is only 'sorry he got caught'. (From my friend Burpo's great song "That Apology Thing." Burpo, hope you read this wherever you are now

Gregorian

(23,867 posts)
51. Even semi-conscious can get this. That mean even Republicans are going to scratch their heads.
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 01:36 PM
Aug 2012

We're nowhere near as evolved as I thought we were. We're on the lower rung.

DirkGently

(12,151 posts)
53. You can't apologize for this by saying you "misspoke."
Mon Aug 20, 2012, 07:52 PM
Aug 2012

Misspeaking is saying "Tuesday" when you meant "TOday." Mispronouncing something. Mixing up some small detail.

Saying you have spoken with "doctors" who have told you "legitimate rape" does not cause pregnancy is a vicious, deliberate lie meant to destroy lives.

He could say he grew up with distorted views about women and sex and morality that he is vigorously rethinking. He could say the public reaction has opened his eyes to a grotesque and perverse description of the world that does not exist.

He could beg forgiveness and make a huge contribution to Planned Parenthood.

But he did not "misspeak." This was not "foot in mouth disease." An unfortunate turn of phrase. A verbal "flub" as I think CNN tried to characterize it.

He could acknowledge that he owes women, and then humanity, an apology for a hideous attack on reason and an appeal to the worst of ancient lies.

He could start there. Not with "I misspoke."
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